#1: Saying No in Chinese: Four Easy Strategies to Save Face and Keep It Friendly
Release Date: 08/06/2025
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In this lesson, you’ll learn how to gently turn down invitations in Mandarin without sounding rude — and why a simple “no” isn’t always the best answer. Through a real-life example and practical phrases and sentences, we’ll explore how Chinese culture values saving face and how that shapes the way people say no. Perfect for learners who want to move beyond textbooks and sound natural and confident in everyday situations. Start learning Mandarin Chinese today! ✅ Your Action Steps: 1. Try...
info_outlineIn this lesson, you’ll learn how to gently turn down invitations in Mandarin without sounding rude — and why a simple “no” isn’t always the best answer. Through a real-life example and practical phrases and sentences, we’ll explore how Chinese culture values saving face and how that shapes the way people say no. Perfect for learners who want to move beyond textbooks and sound natural and confident in everyday situations.
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1. Try using one of the strategies from today’s episode.
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