How to Get Your Son to Attend a Rite of Passage Initiation
Release Date: 01/24/2023
What Families Are Missing - A Clear Path Forward Episode 1
Challenging Teenage Sons
Is your teenage son addicted to screens, shutting you out, or refusing to step up? You're not a bad parent. You're missing a method. In this first episode of a special series for the Challenging Teenage Sons podcast, Dr. Mark Schillinger, founder of the Young Men's Ultimate Weekend and a family mentor with over 25 years of experience, reveals the single piece most families are missing when it comes to raising responsible, resilient teenage sons. You'll discover why good instincts aren't enough, and why having a clear roadmap changes everything. In this episode: Why 90% of struggling teenage...
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How These Teen Boys Went From Defiant to Responsible (In One Weekend)
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In this episode, Dr. Mark Schillinger sits down with six Young Men's Ultimate Weekend (YMUW) graduates, ranging in age from high school to their early 30s, to talk honestly about who they were before the weekend, what was hard to face about themselves while they were there, and how their lives shifted after they graduated. The YMUW grads discuss: What teen boys are actually afraid of when they think about growing up Why the hardest part of YMUW isn't physical, it's emotional How the program changed parent-son relationships, sometimes dramatically What a real rite of...
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Why Your Teenage Son Doesn't Trust You
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In this powerful conclusion to our consequences series, Dr. Mark Schillinger reveals the deeper purpose behind positive discipline. It's not just about changing your son's behavior. It's about being able to respect yourself as a parent for the rest of your life. *** Resources Mentioned *** Young Men's Ultimate Weekend @YMUWorg Rite of passage program for boys ages 13-20 *** More Resources *** On-demand and live, online workshops for teenagers and young men are available here: https://cts.drmarkmentor.com/workshops For a complimentary 20-minute consultation with...
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Why "That's Not Fair!" Is Actually a Teaching Moment
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Does your teenager constantly tell you "it's not fair"? Do you find yourself offering bigger and bigger rewards just to get them to take out the garbage? In this episode, Dr. Mark Schillinger breaks down why bribes and rewards actually backfire with teens, and shares the mentoring approach that builds real responsibility and self-respect. You'll learn how to stop negotiating with your "house lawyer" and start raising a young person who takes ownership of their life. What You'll Learn in This Episode Why "it's not fair" is actually a learning opportunity, not a problem to solve The...
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How Parents Can Enforce Phone Limits at Home
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Dr. Mark Schillinger breaks down Australia's groundbreaking decision to ban social media for children under 16 and shares why this matters for parents everywhere, even if your country hasn't passed similar laws. Discover the brain science behind teenage phone addiction, why your teen struggles to self-regulate their screen time, and Dr. Mark's practical approach to starting the conversation about device limits in your home. Plus, learn the difference between consequences and punishment when it comes to enforcing new boundaries. Resources On-demand and live, online workshops...
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Stop Punishing, Start Mentoring: Transform Your Relationship With Your Teen Son
Challenging Teenage Sons
Struggling to get your teenage son to cooperate? You're not alone, and it's harder now than ever before. In this episode, Dr. Mark Schillinger breaks down why modern teens resist helping at home and what you can do about it. In This Episode, You'll Discover: The historical shift that took cooperation out of our kids' DNA, from tribal living through the educational revolution to today's smartphone addiction Why treating consequences as punishments pushes your teen further away (and what to do instead) The critical difference between "right," "not right," and "wrong" behaviors, and how this...
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How to Give Consequences Without Yelling at Your Teenager
Challenging Teenage Sons
Your teenage son breaks curfew again. He ignores responsibilities. He pushes back on everything. You try consequences, but nothing sticks. Sound familiar? In this episode, Dr. Mark Schillinger reveals why most consequences fail and what actually works instead. The difference? Staying calm, being clear, and teaching rather than punishing. What You'll Learn: The 4 C's of effective consequences: Calm, Clear, Concise, and Certain Why being "dispassionate" is your secret weapon when your son lashes out How to give your son TWO choices (and why this changes everything) The one...
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Why Your Teen Ignores Punishments (And What Works Instead)
Challenging Teenage Sons
Tired of yelling at your teenager in the heat of the moment? You're not alone. Most parents confuse punishment with consequences, and their teens know it. In this episode, Dr. Mark Schillinger breaks down the critical difference between reactive punishment (made up when you're angry) and structured consequences (teaching tools built into reality itself). He shares the exact framework he's used with thousands of young men at The Young Men's Ultimate Weekend to help teens understand accountability without the power struggles. You'll discover why "gimme your phone" and "you're grounded" backfire,...
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Why Parenting Is So Stressful Now: The Collapse Of The Village
Challenging Teenage Sons
Discover why modern parenting feels more stressful than ever in this insightful podcast episode. Dr. Mark Schillinger explores how the collapse of traditional village-style child-rearing has left families struggling in our digital age. Learn why we can't rely on outside forces to rescue our families from digital takeover, and how we can blend the best of ancient parenting wisdom with modern solutions. *** Resources *** Join the free parents' group for daily support and free solutions: On-demand and live, online workshops for teenagers and young men are available here: For...
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Unite Your Family Before Artificial Intelligence Tears It Apart
Challenging Teenage Sons
In this powerful episode of Challenging Teenage Sons, Dr. Mark Schillinger reveals how artificial intelligence (AI) is changing family dynamics — and what parents must do now to prevent technology from dividing their family. Are your teens more connected to their devices than to you? Are arguments about screen time, gaming, or social media pulling your family apart? Discover practical strategies for parents to strengthen family unity, improve communication, and raise resilient young men in the age of AI. In this episode: • Why AI is a threat to family connection • How testosterone...
info_outlineDr. Mark believes that a major reason that young men are not ready to launch successfully into the young adult world is because they have not attended a personal growth, rite of passage initiation.
He also knows that when parents talk about a rite of passage to their son, he’s going to be resistant and say he doesn’t want to go. In this video, parents learn exactly what to tell their son, and how to confidently respond if he’s insisting that he will not attend.
For a complimentary 20-minute consultation with Dr. Mark or for more information about his parent coaching and mentoring young men, go to https://cts.drmarkmentor.com/
*** About Dr. Mark Schillinger ***
Dr. Mark Schillinger’s work has been featured on the CNN show “This is Life with Lisa Ling.” These videos are designed to help parents more effectively “challenge” or motivate their teenage sons to become more responsible and resilient. These videos offer straightforward advice so parents can minimize conflict and maximize cooperation with their sons – especially those young men distracted by their digital devices.
For more information, visit https://www.challengingteenagesons.com
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