A Simple Strategy for Becoming a Better Listener - John Norlin
Release Date: 04/10/2026
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info_outlineToday, host John Norlin shares a simple approach to staying focused in conversations when the noise of the day makes it hard to truly hear what someone is saying. He walks through exactly how to use it, step by step, in a way that makes the other person feel genuinely seen and heard.
In this episode, John offers important reminders for educators and leaders:
- Truly listening to someone is harder than it sounds, the Click On strategy gives you a practical tool to cut through mental noise and stay present in conversation.
- Listening for key topics and emotions gives you something concrete to hold onto and return to, which deepens connection in even short interactions.
- Simple, intentional strategies practiced consistently are what make relationships stronger over time.
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