153: Self Abandonment & Being Seen feat. Dating Coach Sabrina Zohar
Release Date: 03/24/2025
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info_outlineIn this episode, we dive deep into the complexities of self-abandonment, love, and intimacy with Sabrina Zohar. Kelly explores the emotional journey of discovering who we truly are in relationships and overcoming fears of rejection, abandonment, and vulnerability. Tune in for an eye-opening discussions on personal growth, healing from past fears, and how finding balance in love can set you free.
[2:17] Journey to the Unknown
"I did whatever I could to be chosen, but truly, without realizing what I was doing."
[8:50] Question of Who
"The one thing that you are so scared of is being abandoned. I'd like to ask, by who?"
[17:45] Fears of the Past
"Because what they are scared of, we already did. It doesn't make sense because it's not in the current moment."
[24:27] Trick the Body
"Punch the air, fight the tiger."
[30:42] Attachment Patterns
"When we talk about attachment styles, it's about your caregiver."
[39:09] The Rejection Process
"Grieving is a huge part of the rejection process."
[46:08] The Paradox of Love Addiction
"The love addict's biggest fear is not abandonment; it's actually intimacy."
[52:06] Working Progress
"It allowed somebody to choose me because of who I was, not who I was pretending to be."
[57:37] Authenticity in Love
"When you're with someone where you can be yourself, you find the balance."
[1:05:07] Love and Growth
"It's about finding somebody that can be confident of who they are so that they can allow you to spread your wings."
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