MERRF Syndrome and Motherhood: Raising and Remembering Dahlia - Jessica’s Story (248)
Release Date: 04/02/2025
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What happens when your child’s diagnosis is so rare that no one—including your doctors—knows how to help? For Jessica Fein, navigating life with her daughter Dahlia’s MERRF Syndrome meant redefining motherhood, finding joy in unexpected places, and transforming grief into connection and advocacy.
In this honest and deeply moving episode, we explore:
✅ What it’s like to go on a diagnostic odyssey, and finally get answers that bring more questions
✅ The complexity of parenting a child with medical needs, including the realities of home care and hospital stays
✅ How grief exists even while your child is alive—and what ambiguous grief means for medical parents
✅ The power of storytelling, finding meaning through writing, and connecting with community through shared experience
Whether you’re a parent, provider, or someone looking to better understand the emotional layers of complex care and rare disease, this episode will resonate with you.
Timestamps & Key Topics
⏱️ [00:00] – Episode Intro
Meet Jessica Fein and hear the quote that shaped this conversation
⏱️ [01:00] – Jessica’s Story Begins
Navigating the early years of parenting without answers
⏱️ [03:00] – Diagnosis & the Unknown
The journey to a MERRF Syndrome diagnosis and what came next
⏱️ [09:00] – Life With a Rare Disease
Hospital stays, trachs, and becoming the expert in your child’s care
⏱️ [13:00] – Following Dahlia’s Lead
Letting joy and silliness guide the way
⏱️ [17:00] – Who Dahlia Was
A peek into Dahlia’s personality and how she impacted everyone she met
⏱️ [20:00] – Writing As Healing
How Jessica turned to writing as an act of reflection, advocacy, and self-care
⏱️ [24:00] – What Helps in the Hospital
Tangible ways friends and providers can support caregivers
⏱️ [30:00] – Grief, Then and Now
Understanding ambiguous grief—and the evolution of loss after death
⏱️ [33:00] – How to Connect With Jessica
Where to find her book, podcast, and writing
Resources & Links from today's episode:
📕 Read Breathtaking by Jessica Fein: [Available on Amazon and wherever books are sold]
🌐 Visit Jessica’s website: www.jessicafeinstories.com
🎧 Listen to her podcast: I Don’t Know How You Do It
📷 Follow Jessica Fein on Instagram, Facebook and LinkedIn
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Keywords: MERRF Syndrome, Rare Disease, Medical Parenting, Grief, Child Life