#57 - When a Husband Feels Discounted: James & Arlene talk
Release Date: 11/19/2025
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What happens when a husband feels unseen, unheard, and flat-out discounted in his own home? He stops leading. He stops speaking up. He quietly gives up on the role God gave him. If you’ve ever felt dismissed in your marriage, or if you’re the one doing the dismissing (even unintentionally), this episode is for you. Christian dads, you’re not alone. Hit play, lean in. To enjoy on Youtube: Pellicane Coaching:
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info_outlineWhat happens when a husband feels unseen, unheard, and flat-out discounted in his own home? He stops leading. He stops speaking up. He quietly gives up on the role God gave him.
If you’ve ever felt dismissed in your marriage, or if you’re the one doing the dismissing (even unintentionally), this episode is for you.
Christian dads, you’re not alone. Hit play, lean in.
To enjoy on Youtube: https://youtu.be/bqf5Z3FeCmw
Pellicane Coaching: happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching