Knowing God // The Holy Spirit and Me, Part 3

God’s heart is to make His home in us and to fill us with His joy and His peace and His grace and His power, and I believe that with every fibre of my being. In fact, I know it. And the other thing I know is that He wants to do that for you. Today. Right now.

 

We’re All Different

It is fantastic to be with you again this week on Christianityworks. You know the process of boy meets girl has always fascinated me. Before I met my wonderful wife Jacqui, somebody encouraged me to go out on a blind date with a woman and the moment I knocked on her door and she opened the door, I took one look at her and in the instant, I knew there would be no relationship there - I just knew! And yet the very first time I laid eyes on Jacqui, I just knew that she would be my wife.

How does that work? What is that chemistry all about? How does chemistry and attraction turn into love and commitment and lifelong companionship? I don’t know, I really don’t know. I guess for one person there are many potential spouses and only a handful of real candidates, and sometimes one or sometimes none that people meet. It’s really a mystery, isn’t it? how a boy and a girl meet and become husband and wife and share a life together for the whole of their lives.

The same is true with friends – you can pick your friends but you can’t pick your relatives. And I guess that saying acknowledges this reality, that sometimes there are people with whom we have chemistry and we have relationship and yet other people – they may be similar to us, they may have the same interests – but there is just no potential there for relationship, because somehow you just don’t click. You know what I’m talking about.

Well it that’s true of people – if there is kind of a custom fit between people for having relationships what about our relationship with God? There is one God – Father, Son and Holy Spirit, three persons in one God - an amazing mystery of God in three persons. But what about our compatibility with God? We are all different – some of us know things in our heads; some of us know things more in our hearts; some of us are right-brained people, some of us are left brained people; some people are loud and noisy, other people are quiet and deep. For some people experience is the most important way of knowing something but for others, they just know that they know that they know that they know that they know.

Whatever it is – wherever each one of us is in terms of faith – let’s just make a couple of assumptions: firstly, that God is God and secondly that it was His idea to make us all so incredibly different. So, if that’s the case, how is it that God deals with that reality in establishing and developing a personal relationship with each one of us?

That’s what we are going to visit today on the programme. We are in the third programme of a four-week series called “The Holy Spirit and Me”. The last few weeks we have been looking at the subject of walking in the Spirit. Two weeks ago we began looking at Jesus’ promise of the Holy Spirit. Jesus promised – if you want to read it it’s in John chapter 14 – He promised another Counsellor; another Advocate "just like Me".

So Jesus did His public ministry for three and a half years and just before He went to the cross He promised His disciples:

I won’t leave you as orphans. I’ll come again. I’ll be with you through My Holy Spirit, My Father and I will come and make our homes with you.

And then He died on the cross, He rose again, He ascended into Heaven and not long after…and that’s what we are going to look at today, in the Book of Acts.

If you have a Bible, grab it; open it at Acts because that’s where we are going today. Not long after He poured His Holy Spirit out on His disciples – the Holy Spirit of grace; the Holy Spirit of power; the Holy Spirit of God in us with a relationship that we just can’t put into words. And last week on the programme we looked at one of the significant implications of having the Holy Spirit present in us, in that the Spirit who is Holy deals with our sin and that means change; that means repenting; that means ditching that rubbish in our lives. It may not be popular but the Holy Spirit gives us the power to change.

But how does the Holy Spirit deal with each one of us who are so different? And this week we are going to look at how God strikes up a relationship with us. We are all so different – God is God – God doesn’t change, so how does He do it? How does He customise or tailor His approach or is it one size fits all? Is there some kind of standard approach that is the same for each one of us? How do I know I have the Holy Spirit?

It’s amazing in the church, that the Holy Spirit is a source of great division – people’s understanding of the person of the Holy Spirit – one of the three persons in the Godhead, brings a whole bunch of misunderstanding. And we are just going to open the Bible today very simply and very plainly and just read what God says about God, the Holy Spirit.

I was sitting having dinner the other night with a really good friend of mine and this man is very well-known in ministry in Australia and around the world – God has used him to do some amazing things. And you would have to say he is a high-profile sort of person – I won’t use his name because we were having a private dinner together. But we were talking about how God deals with each one of us and I was saying. "Well, I love getting up in the morning early and spending forty-five minutes or an hour with God because God speaks to me." You know, I find out what God is doing. “God what are You up to today?" And God gives me guidance as I do that – as I read His Word, as I listen to Him, as I pray. God just impresses on me what He wants me to do.

And this friend of mine – and people look at him from a distance; they see him on television, they hear him on radio, they read his biography and they look at this man and they say, "WOW, here’s this super-spiritual man that God has used powerfully," and he said to me, "It doesn’t work like that for me." He said, "You know, I go to God and ask Him, 'What do you want me to do, God?’" And God says to me, "I have already given you a job, go and do it."

You think, "Well, it doesn’t sound very spiritual", but on the other hand "the proof of the pudding is in the eating". I mean, look at the fruit in this man’s life and God has clearly used him amazingly. God knows each one of us. He knows exactly what you are like. He knows exactly how to connect with you, just as He does to connect with me. So over the next twenty minutes or so we are going to spend some time looking at three different examples of how God connected with people, with the aim of getting the sense that God knows how different each one of us are. We will look at that when we come back.

 

A Personal Relationship

What I said earlier, that the person of the Holy Spirit is one of the greatest sources of division in the Christian church right now and it is true. On the one hand it’s very clear from the Bible that everyone who believes in Jesus has the Holy Spirit. The Apostle Paul writes in Romans chapter 8, verse 9:

Anyone one who does not have the Spirit of Christ doesn’t belong to Him.

And again in Ephesians chapter 1 and elsewhere, Paul writes along these lines – he says:

In Him, in Jesus also, when you had heard the word of truth; the Good News; the Gospel of your salvation and you believed in Him, you were marked with the seal of the promised Holy Spirit. This is the pledge of our inheritance towards redemption as God’s own people to the praise of His glory.

So in other words, any person that has believed in their heart that Jesus is their personal Saviour has received the Holy Spirit; the promised Holy Spirit; the Spirit that Jesus promised in John chapter 14.

Another comforter; another one just like Me, is what He said about the Holy Spirit.

But, it’s also true by observation that this Holy Spirit makes a difference in some people and not in others. Jesus said:

You will know a tree by its fruit. Good trees have good fruit and bad trees have bad fruit.

I don’t know where you are on your journey – I have a bit of a sense where I am on my journey but we are all on a journey. If we are walking with Jesus, if we have accepted Him and said, "Lord, I want You to be my Saviour, I believe that You died for me on the cross" – if we are with Jesus then somewhere in our lives, Jesus is making changes – we are on a journey.

And I know that today I make fewer mistakes that I did five years ago and my prayer is that as I grow in God’s Word and in my relationship with Him and through the presence of the Spirit in me, I pray in another five years I will be able to look back and say exactly the same thing.

But there are some people who say, "I believe in Jesus" and you look at their lives and you think ‘I can’t see any fruit.’ There is that wonderful story in Luke’s Gospel of Jesus going to His friend’s grave – Lazarus. Lazarus had died; he had been dead for a few days and when Jesus got to his grave, He said"

Roll the stone away.

And they said:

You don’t understand he has been dead for a few days, he is going to smell

And Jesus said:

Roll the stone away.

And when they did that He said:

Lazarus, come out.

And Lazarus got up from the dead and walked out but he was bound up in grave-clothes. Now under those grave-clothes there was red in his cheek – the Master had spoken life into Lazarus’s dead body.

But Lazarus was still bound up in the grave-clothes. You know, you can’t do much for God; you can’t serve other people when you are bound up in grave-clothes. And to tell you the truth, I know plenty of Christians that look just like Lazarus when he came out of the tomb. Yes, the Master has spoken life into them – yes, they have eternal life but they are still bound up in the grave-clothes of the past.

Jesus said, “I came to set you free,” and I believe that the Holy Spirit – in fact the Bible tells us the Holy Spirit has so much to do with setting us free. Some people believe that you become a Christian, you receive the Holy Spirit and that’s it! That’s one side of the argument. Other people believe, "Well, no, there is a second blessing. You know, sure you receive the seal of the Holy Spirit – you receive the Spirit when you become a Christian but you have got to be baptised in the Spirit."

There is a significant experiential event of power, of gifts, of tongues and prophets and all those other things that happen after the event. And I know well-intentioned Christians of both sides of that argument – in both camps – who argue their cases strongly and passionately and believe that the other party is just plain wrong. Why is this important? Because it goes to the question ‘How do I know if I’m filled with the Spirit? How do I know if I’m walking in the Spirit? Because I don’t know about you, but I’m passionate – I want all that God has for me – all of Him, all of His presence, all of His blessing, all that I can do with God, I want everything that God has for me.

How incredibly sad to believe in the cross; to believe in Jesus and then to walk the rest of our lives as though nothing happened? Come on, do you want everything that God has for you? Because I tell you, God has an abundant blessing and over flowing blessing of grace and mercy and joy and peace for each person who puts their faith in Jesus.

And to understand how God approaches this, we are going to look at three very distinct; very different approaches in the Bible in the Book of Acts. The first one happens at Pentecost – let’s read it very quickly. Acts chapter 1, verses 4 and 5.

While staying with them, Jesus (this is after the resurrection and before He ascends), this is what it says: While staying with them Jesus ordered them not to leave Jerusalem but to wait there for the promise of the Father. This, He said, is what you have heard from Me for John baptised with water but you will be baptised with the Holy Spirit not many days from now.

And then in Acts chapter 2, this is what happens:

When the day of Pentecost came they were all together in one place and suddenly from heaven there came a sound like the rush of a violent wind and it filled the entire house where they were sitting and divided tongues as of fire appeared among them and a tongue rested on each of them. All of them were filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in other languages as the Spirit gave them ability.

One thing is clear – God poured His Spirit out on these men and women in the most amazing way. And you read on in Acts chapter 2, 3 and 4 – Peter gets up and addresses the crowd and gives the most powerful message – God filled them with His Spirit and His power. What does it show about God? He does special things - things that we don’t always understand; things that don’t always make sense to us. He did them then, He does them today – He does amazing things.

And yet He does different things too. We are going to look at two different instances of how God poured His Spirit out on people next.

 

We Can’t Put God in a Box

We are looking on the programme today how God touches people differently with His Holy Spirit. We have just looked at the day of Pentecost when the Holy Spirit was poured out on to the disciples with rushing wind and flames of fire – really unusual and amazing and maybe you and I wouldn’t have done it that way, but God did.

Have a look at this one though; this is another really interesting one. We are going to Acts chapter 19 – if you have a Bible, go there because God does things differently. Have a listen, this is in Ephesus:

While Apollos was in Corinth, Paul the Apostle, passed through the interior regions and came to Ephesus where he found some disciples. He said to them “Did you receive the Holy Spirit when you became believers?” and they replied “No, we don’t even know that there is a Holy Spirit.” Then he said “Into what were you baptised?” and they answered “Into John’s baptism.” And Paul said “John baptised with a baptism of repentance, telling people to believe in the One who was coming after him, that is in Jesus.” On hearing this, they were baptised in the name of Jesus and then Paul laid hands on them and the Holy Spirit came upon them and they spoke in tongues and they prophesied and all together there were about twelve of them.

See, some people argue so strongly, "Well, you receive the Holy Spirit; it is a one-off thing when you become a believer", as we saw before in the Book of Romans chapter 8 – when you become a believer you receive the Holy Spirit and that’s it! That may be how God works with some people but it’s not how He worked in Ephesus. In Ephesus, I’m sure that when these people believed in Jesus, they put their hearts into Him, they received the Holy Spirit but they had to be taught about the Holy Spirit. They didn’t know that the Holy Spirit existed and when Paul told them about it; when Paul laid his hands on them, they received the Spirit in power and they prophesied and they prayed in tongues. There was a second experience for them.

Don’t you love how God does things differently? And the third one that I would like to look at is Cornelius and his family. Let’s go to Acts chapter 10 if you have a Bible because Cornelius received the Holy Spirit in a different way.

In Caesarea there was a man named Cornelius, a centurion of the Italian cohort as it was called. He was a devout man who feared God with all his household and he gave generously to the poor and prayed constantly to God. One afternoon about three o’clock, he had a vision in which he clearly saw an angel coming and said to him “Cornelius!” He stared at the angel in terror “What is it Lord?” “Your prayers and your alms have ascended as a memorial before God."

And so the angel told Cornelius to send some men to Peter to get Peter the Apostle to come and tell them about Jesus, which happened.

And while Peter was still talking, the Holy Spirit fell upon all who heard the Word.

So the example we looked at before, in Ephesus, those people had believed – we don’t know for how long – but they received the Holy Spirit after they believed. Here Cornelius and his family were still listening to the message of the Good News of Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit fell upon them there.

See, how silly it is to have these arguments about "Well, you know, you only receive the Holy Spirit when you first believe," or "You have to receive the Holy Spirit as a second blessing." There are two examples where God did it differently and the one at Pentecost before, these people had walked with Jesus – they had spent three and a half years with Him, some of them, in the best Bible school you will ever come across – the Bible school of Jesus Christ. And God dealt with each of them differently.

I remember, I received the Holy Spirit the way Cornelius did. I remember when I gave my life to Jesus Christ that day, I know that I know that I know that I know that I know that I was filled with the Holy Spirit and it’s never changed for me. That joy and that peace has never left me; the courage to keep going has never left me, even through the dark times; even through the painful times; even when I felt like I was walking alone, I knew in my spirit and my heart that my God was carrying me. And that comes from the Holy Spirit.

What about you? Have you been filled to overflowing with the Holy Spirit - God’s presence in you? You know that joy, that peace, that thing that happens when you all of a sudden get a revelation in your spirit and in your soul, that Jesus Christ is Lord.

Do you walk around every day in that knowledge that you are filled with the Holy Spirit? That the Holy Spirit is just overflowing out of you? Someone is listening there going "I have never experienced that, I have never tasted that, I want that," well I am going to pray for you right now.

Father, I pray for each person who is listening right now. We are together in Your Spirit in Your Kingdom. I pray for each soul who is hungering for Your presence. I pray each person who is aching to receive Your Holy Spirit and I pray in the name of Jesus Christ that You would pour Your Spirit out on them, right here and right now. That You would fill them with the Holy Spirit, not just today but tomorrow and the next day and the next day and the next, every day between now and when each one of us stands before You in glory. I pray that You would pour Your Spirit out on us in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.

Well, I know that if you prayed that prayer with me, I know that if your soul is dry and thirsty and hungry and poor and empty and just yearning to be filled with God, I know that God will honour that prayer and when we accept God for who He is, to let Him do just what He wants in our lives, just how He wants to do it in our lives, that is the most awesome and wonderful and amazing thing.

Whether we are a Cornelius and we received the Spirit and were filled to overflowing when we first heard the message or whether we are someone who has been walking for twenty or thirty years and never been filled with the Holy Spirit – it doesn’t matter – God shows up for each one of us because if we put our faith in Jesus Christ, His heart is to make His home in us and to fill us with His joy and His peace and His grace and His power and I believe that with every fibre of my being

I have seen it in other people’s lives – I have seen it in my life and I am believing for your life too. God is no man’s debtor – God has no favourites – God wants to pour His glory out in your life, in my life, in everybody’s life, who puts their faith in Jesus Christ.

Let’s come back to the question – does God have a standard way or does He customise His approach? Look at Pentecost – look at Ephesus – look at Cornelius, look at my life – look at your life. God will meet you in your place, in your life, in your need, just the way you are. I believe that and I am praying for that, for you, in Jesus Christ’s name.