690: Redefining Influence: How to Communicate with Confidence and Credibility with Stacey Hanke
Release Date: 07/15/2025
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info_outlineIn this engaging episode, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff talks with Stacey Hanke—nationally recognized communication expert, keynote speaker, and author of Influence Redefined and Influence Elevated. Stacey challenges the common myths around influence and shares how true influence isn’t about charisma or likability—it’s about showing up consistently with presence, clarity, and connection.
Stacey is the founder of Stacey Hanke Inc., where she equips leaders and teams with the tools to communicate more effectively in high-stakes environments. Her work with Fortune 500 companies, NFL teams, and top-level executives offers real-world strategies for building trust and leading with credibility, even when feedback is limited or unclear.
You’ll learn:
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The biggest misconception people have about influence—and what it really takes
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Stacey’s 6-part Influence Elevated model for lasting impact
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Why self-awareness is the foundation of powerful communication
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The connection between confidence and your ability to speak up under pressure
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Daily rituals and mindset shifts to lead with authenticity and consistency
Stacey also shares how elevated presence leads to stronger connections and greater influence, plus one tool you can start using today to transform how you come across. If you want to level up your leadership and communication, this episode is a must-listen.
HIGH PERFORMANCE MINDSET SHOWNOTES FOR THIS EPISODE
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