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776: The Science of Charisma: How to Build Presence, Power, and Warmth with Olivia Fox Cabane
09/14/2026
776: The Science of Charisma: How to Build Presence, Power, and Warmth with Olivia Fox Cabane
Charisma can seem like something you either have or you don’t. But according to Olivia Fox Cabane, charisma is a set of behaviors that can be learned, practiced, and strengthened. Olivia is one of the world’s leading authorities on the science of charisma and the bestselling author of The Charisma Myth, which has been translated into 27 languages. She has lectured at Harvard, Yale, MIT, the Marine War College, and the United Nations, and has worked with leaders from organizations including Google, Deloitte, UBS, MGM, and TikTok. In this episode, Olivia joins Dr. Cindra Kamphoff to break down the three core components of charisma: presence, power, and warmth. She explains how each one influences the way others perceive us and shares practical strategies for becoming more confident, influential, and connected. You’ll learn why presence may be the most important charisma skill in today’s distracted world, how your mindset shapes your body language, and why trying to control every expression can actually make you appear less authentic. Olivia also shares strategies for handling pressure, quieting your inner critic, improving first impressions, and using visualization to shift how you show up before an important conversation, presentation, or performance. In this episode, you’ll learn: The three building blocks of charisma: presence, power, and warmth. Why charisma is a skill you can learn and strengthen. Simple strategies to become more present in conversations and high-pressure moments. How visualization and mindset can influence your confidence and body language. Why self-acceptance and warmth are essential for authentic charisma. How to handle mistakes, pressure, and your inner critic with greater composure. Olivia's website: Mentally Strong Institute: Request a Free Mental Breakthrough Call: Download the National Confidence Research Study: Order Cindra's new Book:
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775: I Was Nervous Before Good Morning America and That’s the Point
09/10/2026
775: I Was Nervous Before Good Morning America and That’s the Point
Even after years of studying confidence, coaching high performers, and writing The Confidence Habit, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff still felt nervous the night before appearing on Good Morning America. In this episode, Cindra shares what that experience reminded her about confidence: feeling nervous doesn’t mean you aren’t confident. Confidence is a practice. It’s learning how to acknowledge your nerves, come back to the present, and take action anyway. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why nerves can be a sign that something matters to you How trying to eliminate an emotion can sometimes give it more power Why fear pulls us into the future and confidence brings us back to the present How to focus on what you can control when pressure is high Why confidence is built through recovering from mistakes, not avoiding them How to use Learn, Burn, Return to move forward after setbacks Power Phrase: “I can feel nervous and still be confident.” Confidence isn’t waiting until you feel completely ready. It’s trusting yourself enough to step forward when you don’t. Order The Confidence Habit today:
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774: Unique Is Better Than Better: How to Communicate with Confidence with Dr. Andrea Wojnicki
09/07/2026
774: Unique Is Better Than Better: How to Communicate with Confidence with Dr. Andrea Wojnicki
How you introduce yourself can shape how others see you and how confidently you see yourself. In this episode of the High Performance Mindset Podcast, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff sits down with executive communication coach Dr. Andrea Wojnicki, founder of Talk About Talk and author of one of Harvard Business Review’s most downloaded articles, “A Simple Way to Introduce Yourself.” Andrea shares her simple Present, Past, Future framework for introducing yourself with confidence and clarity. She explains why your self-introduction is one of the most direct ways to communicate your personal brand and how getting clear on your unique strengths can build confidence from the inside out. You’ll learn: The Present, Past, Future framework for a powerful self-introduction How to communicate your strengths without feeling arrogant or overly self-promotional Why “unique is better than better” How to identify the strengths that genuinely distinguish you Why enthusiasm can be a competitive advantage The Four P’s of Confidence: Practice, Pep Talk, Proverb, and Pirate How greater clarity about who you are can strengthen your confidence and self-esteem Andrea also shares practical advice for networking, interviews, presentations, and other high-pressure moments when how you communicate matters most. When you stop trying to be everything and start getting clear on what makes you uniquely valuable, confidence becomes easier to communicate and easier to feel. Episode Resources & Links Andrea's website: Mentally Strong Institute: Request a Free Mental Breakthrough Call: Download the National Confidence Research Study: Order Cindra's new Book:
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773: Confidence is Many Times Borrowed Before It's Built
09/03/2026
773: Confidence is Many Times Borrowed Before It's Built
Sometimes, you need to borrow someone else’s belief in you until you build enough belief in yourself. In this episode, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff shares how the people around us can shape what we believe is possible. She reflects on how her father believed in her interest in sport and performance psychology before she could fully see the path herself, allowing her to “borrow” his confidence. Cindra explains why confidence is social and why building your winning team matters. The people who have your ear can strengthen your belief, remind you what you’re capable of, and help quiet your inner critic when you’re pursuing something difficult. In this episode, you’ll learn how to: • Identify the people who truly believe in you • Borrow their words when your inner critic gets loud • Surround yourself with a winning team that strengthens your confidence • Become a “confidence lender” by telling others what you see in them • Use someone else’s belief as a bridge toward believing in yourself Cindra also challenges you to think of someone who believed in you before you believed in yourself. Thank them, then look for someone in your own life who might need to borrow a little confidence from you today. Power Phrase: “I believe in you, and I believe in me.” To order The Confidence Habit, visit: To download our full study report, visit: To request a Free Breakthrough Call with a Mentally Strong Coach, visit: To learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute, visit: To learn about Dr. Cindra Kamphoff's speaking and coaching, visit: To follow Dr. Cindra on Instagram, visit:
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772: What Got You Here Won’t Get You There: Leadership, Confidence, and Lasting Change with Dr. Marshall Goldsmith
08/31/2026
772: What Got You Here Won’t Get You There: Leadership, Confidence, and Lasting Change with Dr. Marshall Goldsmith
In this episode of The High Performance Mindset, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff sits down with Dr. Marshall Goldsmith, one of the world’s most influential leadership thinkers, a renowned executive coach, and #1 New York Times bestselling author, to explore what keeps successful people growing. For more than four decades, Marshall has coached many of the world’s most accomplished CEOs and leaders. In this conversation, he shares what those experiences have taught him about leadership, confidence, behavior change, achievement, and creating a life that is meaningful on your own terms. Episode Description Success can create one of the biggest obstacles to continued growth: when a behavior has helped us succeed in the past, we assume it must still be serving us. Marshall explains why high performers can become trapped by “winning too much,” adding too much value, and needing to prove they are right. He shares a simple question that can change the way we lead and communicate: “Is it worth it?” Cindra and Marshall also explore the relationship between confidence and courage, why we need to stop putting ourselves into limiting identity boxes, and how becoming more influential can be an act of service when your mission is to positively impact others. Marshall also challenges the belief that achievement will eventually create happiness. Instead, he encourages us to define what “enough” means, find meaning in what we do, invest in the people we love, and focus on the action directly in front of us rather than becoming consumed by the outcome. This conversation is packed with practical wisdom for leaders, coaches, athletes, and high performers who want to continue growing while building a life they are proud to live. You’ll Learn: Why the best coaching requires courage, humility, and discipline. How past success can reinforce behaviors that eventually hold you back. Why “winning too much” is one of the most common problems among successful people. How asking “Is it worth it?” can make you a better leader and communicator. Why confidence and courage are so closely connected. How the identity you repeatedly give yourself can prevent lasting behavior change. Why your behavior should be guided by your mission rather than your comfort. How to stop tying your identity and happiness to achievement and outcomes. Why focusing on the “next play” helps high performers stay present. Marshall’s advice for living a life your 95-year-old self would be proud of. Episode Resources & Links Marshall's website: Mentally Strong Institute: Request a Free Mental Breakthrough Call: Download the National Confidence Research Study: Order Cindra's new Book:
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771: BONUS! Confidence Under Pressure with Olympians Paul Juda and Kendell Williams
08/28/2026
771: BONUS! Confidence Under Pressure with Olympians Paul Juda and Kendell Williams
Today’s episode is a special bonus from our recent Confidence Summit, which brought together nine professional speakers, entrepreneurs, and world-class athletes to share practical strategies for developing confidence. In this episode, you’ll hear two powerful conversations with Olympians Paul Juda and Kendell Williams about what it takes to trust yourself when the pressure is highest. Paul Juda is an Olympic bronze medalist who helped Team USA earn its first Olympic men’s gymnastics team medal in 16 years at the Paris Olympic Games. A standout at the University of Michigan, Paul is an NCAA all-around champion, multiple-time NCAA individual champion, and helped lead the Wolverines to an NCAA national championship. Kendell Williams is a two-time Olympian and elite multi-event track athlete. She made NCAA history as the first woman to win four consecutive titles in the same event at the NCAA Indoor Track and Field Championships and has competed successfully at the collegiate, Olympic, and World Championship levels. Their experiences reveal an important truth about confidence: it is built long before the defining moment. Paul shares how he moved away from trying to look confident and instead focused on creating evidence that he was prepared. After falling short of the 2021 Olympic team, he became more intentional about his mental reps, visualization, preparation, and learning to trust his process. That work eventually helped him perform under enormous pressure as Team USA captured an historic bronze medal in Paris. Kendell experienced her own confidence battle heading toward the Tokyo Olympics. After the pandemic disrupted training and competition, self-doubt started affecting the way she practiced, competed, and thought about herself. She shares the mental tools she used to rebuild her confidence, including stopping automatic negative thoughts, using Learn-Burn-Return to move forward from mistakes, creating a “fitness bank” of evidence that she was prepared, using power phrases, and shifting her attention toward controllable process goals. When her first day at the Tokyo Olympics didn’t go as planned, those tools helped her reset, return confidently on day two, and climb to a fifth-place finish. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why Paul believes real confidence is quiet and built through preparation. How trying to appear confident can create additional pressure. Why mental reps matter alongside physical preparation. How visualization helped Paul prepare for the biggest moments of his career. How Kendell uses Learn-Burn-Return to recover quickly from mistakes. How to interrupt automatic negative thoughts before they damage your confidence. Why building a bank of evidence can remind you how prepared you really are. How power phrases can strengthen your self-talk in high-pressure moments. Why process goals can reduce anxiety around outcomes. How bronze, silver, and gold goals can help you pursue excellence while staying grounded. Why confidence ultimately comes from doing the work required to trust yourself. These conversations originally appeared as part of Cindra’s Confidence Summit, featuring nine speakers, entrepreneurs, and world-class athletes. You can also get access to the complete 4.5-hour Confidence Summit as a bonus when you purchase Cindra’s new book, The Confidence Habit. Pre-order The Confidence Habit:
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770: BONUS! Believe Bigger and Build Confidence Through Action with Evan Carmichael
08/26/2026
770: BONUS! Believe Bigger and Build Confidence Through Action with Evan Carmichael
Today’s episode is a special bonus from our recent Confidence Summit, where nine professional speakers, entrepreneurs, and world-class athletes came together to share their best strategies for building lasting confidence. In this episode, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff sits down with entrepreneur, author, and creator Evan Carmichael. Evan runs a YouTube channel for entrepreneurs with more than 3 million subscribers and 500 million views. He has written four books and speaks around the world about entrepreneurship, content, and building a meaningful brand. Confidence doesn’t always arrive before you take the next step. Evan shares how, as an introvert, he struggled for years to feel comfortable creating videos, speaking publicly, and putting his ideas into the world. It took hundreds of videos before he could even watch himself without immediately focusing on everything he thought he was doing wrong. Instead of waiting until he felt confident, he kept taking action. Evan explains why one of the most powerful ways to move through fear is to shift your attention away from yourself and toward the person you can help. When fear of judgment, criticism, or failure starts holding you back, focusing on service gives you a reason to keep moving. Cindra and Evan also discuss fear of other people’s opinions, the language we use when something feels difficult, asking for help, and why the areas where we lack confidence can often point toward our greatest opportunities for growth. The message is simple: someone needs what you have to share. You don’t have to reach everyone. Start by helping one person. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why confidence often disappears when we step into something new. How Evan kept creating despite years of self-doubt and discomfort on camera. Why focusing on service can help you move through fear. How fear of other people’s opinions keeps us from taking opportunities. Why asking for help can accelerate confidence and growth. How the language you use around difficult situations influences your willingness to act. Why your next level often requires action before you feel completely ready. How helping one person can make a scary step feel worthwhile. This interview originally appeared as part of Cindra’s Confidence Summit, featuring nine speakers, entrepreneurs, and world-class athletes. You can also get access to the complete 4.5-hour Confidence Summit as a bonus when you purchase Cindra’s new book, The Confidence Habit. Evan's Website: Mentally Strong Institute: Request a Free Mental Breakthrough Call: Download the National Confidence Research Study: Pre-order The Confidence Habit:
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769: Purposeful Feedback Grows Confidence
08/24/2026
769: Purposeful Feedback Grows Confidence
The right feedback doesn’t tear people down. It shows them how to rise. In this short episode, Cindra explains why simply telling someone what they did wrong rarely helps them improve. Effective feedback gives people a clear direction and helps them believe they can do better next time. Purposeful feedback focuses on specific behaviors, explains what to do differently, and gives the person something practical to work on. Before giving feedback, ask yourself: What specific behavior am I observing? What do I want them to do differently next time? How can I communicate this in a way that helps them believe they can improve? Whether you are leading a team, coaching an athlete, mentoring someone, or parenting, your words can strengthen confidence or slowly chip away at it. This Week’s Power Phrase “My words help people grow.” To watch the replay of The Confidence Summit, visit: To pre-order The Confidence Habit, visit: To download our full study report, visit: To request a Free Breakthrough Call with a Mentally Strong Coach, visit: To learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute, visit: To learn about Dr. Cindra Kamphoff's speaking and coaching, visit: To follow Dr. Cindra on Instagram, visit:
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768: Why Most Leadership Advice Is Wrong with Larry Coval
08/20/2026
768: Why Most Leadership Advice Is Wrong with Larry Coval
Leadership is often framed around qualities like authenticity, empathy, and vulnerability. Larry Coval believes effective leadership ultimately depends on something more practical: the skills and behaviors required to help other people succeed. In this episode, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff speaks with Larry, a seasoned business executive, leadership strategist, and founder of Arcane Leadership Concepts. After nearly four decades leading people and organizations, Larry wrote the leadership manual he wishes he had received when he first became a supervisor at 23. Larry explains why many leaders are unprepared for today’s workplace, including the challenges created by hybrid teams, increasingly diverse workforces, and artificial intelligence. He also introduces the ARCANE model, a continuous process leaders can use to recognize their shortcomings, commit to meaningful change, and become more effective for the people they lead. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why leadership should be viewed as a set of learnable skills and behaviors How the ARCANE model helps leaders identify and address performance gaps What business leaders can learn from the way sports coaches observe and develop people Why delegation should be used as a developmental tool How leaders can approach performance improvement plans more effectively Why AI represents a shift in the skills employees need rather than clear evidence of a widespread jobs collapse How leaders can better support hybrid and diverse teams Episode Resources & Links Lary's Website: Mentally Strong Institute: Request a Free Mental Breakthrough Call: Download the National Confidence Research Study: Pre-order The Confidence Habit:
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767: Stop Waiting to Feel Ready
08/17/2026
767: Stop Waiting to Feel Ready
What if confidence doesn’t come before action, but because of it? In this episode, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff challenges one of the biggest myths about confidence: that you need to feel ready before you take the next step. Whether you’re considering a new opportunity, preparing for a difficult conversation, or pursuing a meaningful goal, waiting for doubt to disappear can keep you stuck. Cindra shares a simple mindset shift: Decide. Act. Feel. Instead of waiting for confidence to arrive, take one small courageous action and allow confidence to grow from the evidence you create along the way. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why confident people still experience doubt and uncertainty How the Decide. Act. Feel. approach can help you move forward Why making your next courageous step smaller can reduce hesitation How taking action gives your brain evidence that you can do hard things A simple question to help you stop waiting and start moving Power Phrase: “I don’t have to feel ready. I just have to take the next step.” To watch the replay of The Confidence Summit, visit: To download our full study report, visit: To request a Free Breakthrough Call with a Mentally Strong Coach, visit: To learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute, visit: To learn about Dr. Cindra Kamphoff's speaking and coaching, visit: To follow Dr. Cindra on Instagram, visit:
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766: Now What? Stop Fixing Yourself and Start Creating Your Life with Gary John Bishop
08/12/2026
766: Now What? Stop Fixing Yourself and Start Creating Your Life with Gary John Bishop
In this episode of The High Performance Mindset, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff sits down with Gary John Bishop, New York Times bestselling author of Unfuk Yourself* and his newest book, Now What?: You, Your Life, and the Truth You've Been Avoiding, to explore what happens when you’ve done the work, gained the insight, and still find yourself stuck. Gary challenges our constant drive to fix, improve, and understand ourselves. He explains how we can spend years gathering insight while continuing to live from the same stories, explanations, and internal dialogue. Real change begins when we recognize that our thoughts and feelings do not have to determine what we do next. Throughout the conversation, Gary shares why being present means being “here for what’s here,” how the language we use can create the world we experience, and why responsibility gives us greater freedom and choice. He also explains how to stop treating your internal state as a compass and start exploring what becomes possible when you choose your actions differently. Gary and Cindra discuss navigating setbacks, stepping outside the pressure to constantly become better, and creating a life based on who you choose to be. His simple question, “Now what?”, creates space to move beyond old explanations and see possibilities that may have been hidden before. This conversation is a powerful invitation to acknowledge the noise in your head, get present to the life in front of you, and recognize how much say you have in what comes next. You’ll Learn: Why gaining more insight can sometimes keep you stuck How the endless pursuit of self-improvement can limit what you believe is possible What it means to be “here for what’s here” Why your thoughts and emotions do not have to determine your actions How the language you use shapes the possibilities you can see Why being stuck often involves repeating the same conversations and decisions How taking unconditional responsibility can create greater freedom What to do when your inner critic shows up How to respond differently when facing setbacks, uncertainty, or pressure Why asking “Now what?” can help you move beyond your past and create what comes next Episode Resources & Links Gary's Website: Mentally Strong Institute: Request a Free Mental Breakthrough Call: Download the National Confidence Research Study: Pre-order The Confidence Habit:
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765: Emotional Agility: The Missing Skill for High Performance with Kelly Ruta
08/04/2026
765: Emotional Agility: The Missing Skill for High Performance with Kelly Ruta
Episode Intro In this episode of The High Performance Mindset, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff sits down with Kelly Ruta, private advisor to high-performing women, former clinical psychotherapist, and expert in emotional agility, to explore why emotional agility may be the missing skill behind sustained success. Drawing on more than 20 years as a psychotherapist and over a decade advising entrepreneurs, executives, and professional athletes, Kelly shares how psychological skills help people perform under pressure without sacrificing their well-being. Together, they discuss why confidence, resilience, and emotional regulation are no longer "soft skills," but essential skills for thriving in today's high-pressure world. Episode Description Pressure is inevitable. The question is whether you react automatically or respond intentionally. In this conversation, Kelly explains why emotional agility is one of the most powerful psychological skills we can develop. She breaks down how learning to recognize emotions, pause before reacting, and choose responses aligned with our values creates stronger leadership, greater confidence, and more consistent performance. Dr. Cindra and Kelly also discuss why emotions provide valuable information without needing to dictate our behavior. The conversation explores what the research shows about psychological skills training, including why organizations that invest in mental readiness consistently outperform those that don't. Kelly shares why so many high achievers reach success only to discover they still feel overwhelmed or unfulfilled, and how developing emotional agility closes that hidden skill gap. Listeners will also learn practical tools, including the Sacred Pause, to build greater awareness and respond more effectively when the stakes are high. Whether you're an athlete, leader, entrepreneur, coach, or parent, this episode is a reminder that confidence and high performance begin by learning to lead yourself first. You'll Learn: Why emotional agility is one of the most important psychological skills for sustained high performance. What emotional agility is and how it differs from simply managing emotions. How to recognize the difference between reacting automatically and responding intentionally. Discover why emotions are valuable data but should not become your decision maker. Learn how practicing the Sacred Pause helps improve emotional awareness and self-regulation. Build greater confidence by aligning your responses with your values instead of your triggers. Strengthen your ability to perform under pressure by developing psychological skills that reduce the likelihood of choking. Understand what the research shows about why organizations and teams that invest in mental readiness see stronger long-term performance. Episode Resources & Links Guest Website: Mentally Strong Institute: Request a Free Mental Breakthrough Call: Download the National Confidence Research Study: Pre-order The Confidence Habit:
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764: Lead Your Best: Four Keys to Retaining Your Rock Stars with Joe Paulsen
07/27/2026
764: Lead Your Best: Four Keys to Retaining Your Rock Stars with Joe Paulsen
In this episode of The High Performance Mindset, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff sits down with Joe Paulsen, leadership coach, EOS Implementer, and creator of LEAD, to explore how leaders can retain their best employees and build high-performing teams. Joe has spent years helping organizations strengthen leadership, improve accountability, and create workplaces where top performers want to stay. Together, they discuss practical leadership habits that help people feel valued, challenged, and inspired to do their best work. Episode Description Great organizations don't keep their best people by accident. They do it through intentional leadership. In this conversation, Joe shares the four keys to retaining rock star employees: genuinely caring about people, leading with humility, addressing people issues instead of avoiding them, and consistently modeling the behaviors you expect from others. Dr. Cindra and Joe discuss why difficult conversations are one of the greatest responsibilities of leadership and how balancing truth with compassion creates trust instead of fear. Joe also explains why accountability is often misunderstood. Rather than viewing accountability as punishment, he encourages leaders to see it as one of the greatest ways to show respect for their team. The discussion includes practical strategies like quarterly conversations, taking clarity breaks before difficult conversations, and using a Rockstar Retention Matrix to better understand where each team member needs support and development. Whether you lead a business, coach a team, or manage a small group, this episode reminds us that the best leaders don't simply manage performance. They intentionally develop people. You'll Learn: Why genuinely caring about your people is the foundation of exceptional leadership. What the four keys are to retaining your organization's rock star employees. How to balance truth and compassion when having difficult conversations. Discover why accountability strengthens trust instead of damaging relationships. Learn how quarterly conversations help retain top performers and uncover future goals. Build stronger leadership by modeling the behaviors you expect from your team. Strengthen your confidence in giving feedback that helps employees grow. Develop a practical Rockstar Retention Matrix to identify where your team members need coaching and support. Episode Resources & Links Joe's Website: Mentally Strong Institute: Request a Free Mental Breakthrough Call: Download the National Confidence Research Study: Pre-order The Confidence Habit:
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763: Release Blame and Move Forward
07/23/2026
763: Release Blame and Move Forward
What if taking responsibility did not mean carrying the weight of everything that goes wrong? In this episode, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff explains the important difference between blame and responsibility. Blame keeps your attention fixed on the past, while responsibility helps you identify what is within your control and choose your next best step. Through the story of an executive who was blaming himself for challenges at work and at home, Cindra shows how even self-blame can drain your energy and leave you feeling powerless. Real responsibility means owning your part without taking ownership of everything. In this episode, you'll learn: Why blame keeps you stuck in the past The difference between owning your part and blaming yourself How responsibility helps you reclaim your power Questions that can redirect your attention toward solutions How to identify your next best step when a situation feels overwhelming Power Phrase: "I release blame, I own my part, and I choose my next best step." To reserve your seat for The Confidence Summit, visit: To download our full study report, visit: To Request a Free Breakthrough Call with a Mentally Strong Coach, visit: To learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute, visit: To learn about Dr. Cindra Kamphoff's speaking and coaching, visit: To follow Dr. Cindra on Instagram, visit:
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762: Front Row Success: How to Stop Settling and Start Living Fully with Marilyn Sherman
07/20/2026
762: Front Row Success: How to Stop Settling and Start Living Fully with Marilyn Sherman
In this episode of The High Performance Mindset, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff sits down with Marilyn Sherman, Hall of Fame speaker, Certified Speaking Professional, five-time author, and founder of UpFront Presentations, to explore how to stop settling and create your own version of Front Row Success. For more than two decades, Marilyn has helped leaders strengthen their resilience, improve communication, and lead with greater confidence. She shares practical strategies to get unstuck, overcome self-doubt, and intentionally choose the seat you want in life. Episode Description Where are you sitting in the venue of your life? Marilyn explains that we all have three choices: the balcony, general admission, or the front row. The balcony is where we feel stuck and disconnected. General admission is our comfort zone, where life may not feel bad, but we're operating mostly by habit. The front row is where we feel alive, energized, valued, and fully engaged in the life we're creating. In this conversation, Marilyn shares her SEAT of Success framework: See the outcome you desire, manage your Energy, strengthen your Attitude, and build Tenacity. She and Dr. Cindra explore how fear of failure, limiting beliefs, and negative self-talk can keep us from moving forward. Marilyn also shares why taking action matters more than simply studying successful people and how starting a Win List can train your brain to notice evidence of progress and possibility. You don't have to settle for the seat you're in. You can change your choices, shift your perspective, and intentionally move toward your own front row. You'll Learn: Why fear of failure keeps more people stuck than failure itself. What it means to live in the balcony, general admission, or front row of your life. How to define what Front Row Success looks like for you. Discover the SEAT of Success framework and how to apply it to your goals. Learn how your self-talk and limiting beliefs influence the actions you take. Build greater confidence by creating a Win List and collecting evidence of your progress. Strengthen your energy, attitude, and tenacity when obstacles appear. Take intentional action to stop settling and move toward the life you truly want. Episode Resources & Links Guest Website: Mentally Strong Institute: Request a Free Mental Breakthrough Call: Download the National Confidence Research Study: Pre-order The Confidence Habit:
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761: Dump Your Slump: How to Get Unstuck and Bounce Forward with Dr. Jermaine Davis
07/13/2026
761: Dump Your Slump: How to Get Unstuck and Bounce Forward with Dr. Jermaine Davis
Even talented, driven, and successful people experience slumps. In this conversation, Dr. Jermaine explains what a slump really is, the early warning signs that you may be heading into one, and why slumps can spread through workplaces, families, and relationships. He also shares powerful findings from his national Dump Your Slump research and explains why the environments and people around us can either help us recover or unintentionally keep us stuck. Dr. Cindra and Dr. Jermaine explore the role of self-talk, motivation, and resilience in helping us move forward when life, school, or work feels chaotic, stressful, and overwhelming. Dr. Jermaine shares practical strategies to recognize when you're stuck, shift your thinking, and take meaningful action to build momentum again. You don't have to wait until you feel motivated to move forward. Sometimes the first step out of a slump is choosing one small action that helps you bounce forward. You'll Learn: Why talented, driven, and successful people can still find themselves stuck in a slump. What a slump really is and the early warning signs that you may be heading into one. How slumps can spread through organizations, families, and relationships. Discover what Dr. Jermaine's national Dump Your Slump research reveals about why people stay stuck. Learn how your self-talk can either deepen a slump or help you move forward. Understand why a manager or leader can unintentionally contribute to someone feeling stuck. Build practical strategies to shift your thinking and create momentum when motivation is low. Take the first step toward bouncing forward when life, school, or work feels overwhelming. Episode Resources & Links Guest Website: Mentally Strong Institute: Request a Free Mental Breakthrough Call: Download the National Confidence Research Study: Pre-order The Confidence Habit:
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760: Leading with Resilience: Finding Strength Through Life’s Greatest Challenges with Tim Eggebraaten
07/06/2026
760: Leading with Resilience: Finding Strength Through Life’s Greatest Challenges with Tim Eggebraaten
In this episode of The High Performance Mindset, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff sits down with Tim Eggebraaten, retired Chief of Police, speaker, and founder of Off Duty Chief, to explore what it truly means to lead with resilience—both professionally and personally. Drawing from more than two decades in law enforcement, including serving as Chief of Police, Patrol Sergeant, K-9 Handler, and DARE Instructor, Tim shares the lessons he's learned about leading under pressure while staying grounded in what matters most. He opens up about the importance of balancing career, family, and personal well-being, and why true leadership begins with taking care of your physical, mental, and spiritual health. Throughout the conversation, Tim discusses the emotional challenges that many leaders and first responders face but often don't talk about. He shares how vulnerability, connection, and purpose can become powerful tools for healing, growth, and resilience. His insights remind us that no matter our profession, we all face moments that test our character—and those moments can become opportunities to grow stronger. Tim's message is a powerful reminder that resilience isn't about avoiding hardship. It's about choosing hope, investing in your well-being, and recognizing that you never have to face life's challenges alone. You'll Learn: Why resilience is built through life's challenges, not in spite of them How to balance career success with family and personal well-being The importance of physical, mental, and spiritual health for sustainable performance How vulnerability strengthens leadership instead of weakening it Practical ways to navigate emotional challenges with courage and purpose Why connection and community are essential for healing and growth How to lead with authenticity during both personal and professional adversity Episode Resources & Links Learn more about Tim Eggebraaten and Off Duty Chief: Purchase Dr. Cindra's New Book: Learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute: Register for the Mental Performance Summit: Request a Free Mental Breakthrough Call with Dr. Cindra or her team: Download the National Confidence Research Study:
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759: How High Performers Rest
07/02/2026
759: How High Performers Rest
What if the key to performing at your highest level isn't pushing harder, but recovering smarter? In this episode, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff shares why the world's best performers don't just train with intention; they rest with intention. You'll discover why recovery isn't a reward you earn after the work is done; it's an essential part of sustained success. Drawing from the science of performance and the work of Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith, Cindra explores the seven types of rest and explains how the right kind of recovery can improve your focus, confidence, creativity, and resilience. In this episode, you'll learn: Why recovery is a performance strategy—not a sign of weakness The seven types of rest and how to identify which one you need most How intentional recovery boosts confidence, energy, and mental clarity A simple practice you can use this week to avoid burnout and perform at your best Power Phrase: "I honor my performance by prioritizing my recovery." To download our full study report, visit: To Request a Free Breakthrough Call with a Mentally Strong Coach, visit: To learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute, visit: To learn about Dr. Cindra Kamphoff's speaking and coaching, visit: To follow Dr. Cindra on Instagram, visit:
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758: The Intentional Edge: Building Standards That Sustain Excellence with Jeff Jones
06/29/2026
758: The Intentional Edge: Building Standards That Sustain Excellence with Jeff Jones
In this episode of The High Performance Mindset, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff sits down with Jeff Jones, performance coach, leadership expert, and author of The Intentional Edge, to explore what it takes to build lasting mental toughness, leadership, and high-performance habits. Drawing on more than two decades of experience in collegiate athletics, Jeff shares lessons learned from working within elite football programs and championship cultures. He explains why success is less about motivation and more about the standards we consistently uphold, especially when pressure, adversity, and uncertainty arise. Throughout the conversation, Jeff unpacks the powerful idea that when pressure hits, we don't rise to the occasion—we fall to our standards. He discusses why intentional daily actions create sustainable excellence, how elite performers respond to setbacks, and what separates those who grow through adversity from those who become stuck in it. Jeff also introduces his signature 10-Rep Framework, a practical approach to building mental performance through small, consistent actions that compound over time. His insights challenge the common belief that high performance is reserved for a select few and instead demonstrate how anyone can develop the habits, mindset, and leadership skills needed to thrive. This episode is a powerful reminder that excellence isn't accidental. It's built intentionally, one rep at a time. You'll Learn: Why standards matter more than motivation What elite performers and leaders consistently do differently How to respond effectively when pressure and adversity arise Why culture is the foundation of sustained high performance The mindset mistakes that often hold high achievers back Practical ways to strengthen mental toughness every day How the 10-Rep Framework can help you create lasting growth Why intentional actions create an enduring competitive advantage Episode Resources & Links Learn more about Jeff Jones: Learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute: Request a Free Mental Breakthrough Call with Dr. Cindra or her team: Download the National Confidence Research Study:
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757: Building Confidence at Work: Why Gen Z Needs a New Playbook
06/18/2026
757: Building Confidence at Work: Why Gen Z Needs a New Playbook
Confidence may be the missing skill today's workforce needs most. In this episode, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff shares insights from her National Research Study on Confidence and her upcoming book, The Confidence Habit, explaining why nearly half of Gen Z workers frequently feel like they're "not enough." Learn how self-doubt impacts performance, why confidence is a business issue, and what leaders can do to help people thrive. You'll also discover Cindra's Learn, Burn, Return™ framework—a powerful tool used by athletes, executives, and high performers to recover quickly from mistakes and move forward with confidence. Power Phrase: "I build confidence by learning, letting go, and moving forward." To download our full study report, visit: To Request a Free Breakthrough Call with a Mentally Strong Coach, visit: To learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute, visit: To learn about Dr. Cindra Kamphoff's speaking and coaching, visit: To follow Dr. Cindra on Instagram, visit:
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756: The Courage to Move Forward
06/09/2026
756: The Courage to Move Forward
“Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes it’s the quiet voice that says, ‘I will try again tomorrow.’” – Mary Anne Radmacher In this episode of The High Performance Mindset, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff shares how courage is built in the small, everyday moments, not just the big ones. Because fear will always be there… but it doesn’t have to stop you. You’ll learn how to: Take action even when you don’t feel ready Quiet the “what if” thoughts holding you back Build courage through simple, daily steps Stay grounded under pressure with a Power Pause If you’ve been hesitating or overthinking something important, this episode will help you take that next step. Because confidence doesn’t come before courage, it comes because of it. Tune in and ask yourself: Where do you need to choose courage over comfort today? To download our full study report, visit: To Request a Free Breakthrough Call with a Mentally Strong Coach, visit: To learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute, visit: To learn about Dr. Cindra Kamphoff's speaking and coaching, visit: To follow Dr. Cindra on Instagram, visit:
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755: Unlock Your Potential with a Growth Mindset
06/03/2026
755: Unlock Your Potential with a Growth Mindset
Quote of the Week: "Becoming is better than being." — Carol Dweck What if your potential isn't limited by your talent or ability, but by what you believe is possible? In this episode, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff explores how a growth mindset helps you embrace challenges, learn from setbacks, and continue improving. You'll learn how one simple word—yet—can shift your perspective, and why awareness is the first step to recognizing when you've slipped into a fixed mindset. When you notice your thoughts, you can choose growth instead of staying stuck. In This Episode: What a growth mindset is and why it matters How awareness helps you catch fixed mindset thinking Why adding "yet" can increase confidence and resilience How to focus on progress instead of perfection Power Phrase: "I am not there yet, but I am always growing." Remember, you're not stuck, you’re simply in progress. To download our full study report, visit: To Request a Free Breakthrough Call with a Mentally Strong Coach, visit: To learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute, visit: To learn about Dr. Cindra Kamphoff's speaking and coaching, visit: To follow Dr. Cindra on Instagram, visit:
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754: The GPS Mindset: Grit, Purpose, and Strength Through Adversity with Kristin Gustafson, Keynote Speaker and Certified Coach
05/28/2026
754: The GPS Mindset: Grit, Purpose, and Strength Through Adversity with Kristin Gustafson, Keynote Speaker and Certified Coach
In this episode of The High Performance Mindset, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff sits down with Kristin Gustafson, a board-certified coach, exercise physiologist, speaker, and author of The GPS Mindset: Grit, Purpose, and Strength. Kristin shares her inspiring journey from elite endurance athlete to navigating life-changing diagnoses including dystonia and multiple sclerosis—and how those experiences became the foundation for her mission to help others rise through adversity. Throughout the conversation, Kristin explains how unexpected detours can challenge identity, confidence, and purpose, but also become opportunities for growth and transformation. She introduces her GPS Mindset framework—Grit, Purpose, and Strength—and discusses why resilience is built through the “boring reps” of everyday life, not just big moments of motivation. Kristin also shares practical strategies for reconnecting with purpose during difficult seasons, strengthening both mental and physical resilience, and becoming “Detour Ready” when life takes an unexpected turn. Her message is a powerful reminder that challenges do not define us—they can refine us. This episode will leave you encouraged to trust your own strength, embrace the journey in front of you, and keep moving forward even when the path changes unexpectedly. You’ll Learn: Why adversity can become a catalyst for growth and purpose What the GPS Mindset—Grit, Purpose, and Strength—really means Why grit is built through consistent daily habits and “boring reps” How to reconnect with purpose when you feel stuck or lost The connection between mental and physical strength What it means to become “Detour Ready” Strategies to build resilience through unexpected life challenges How to navigate identity shifts and confidence struggles with courage Episode Resources & Links Learn more about Learn more about the Learn more about Register for the Request a Download the
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753: Protect Your Peace: The Power of Saying No
05/26/2026
753: Protect Your Peace: The Power of Saying No
In this episode of the High Performance Mindset, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff explores why saying no is essential for protecting your peace, energy, and priorities. High performers understand that focus requires boundaries, and every yes comes at a cost. Cindra shares practical strategies to help you confidently say no, avoid overcommitting, and create more space for what matters most. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why saying yes too often leads to overwhelm How boundaries help you stay focused and energized Questions to ask before committing Practical ways to say no with confidence Why “Every no protects a bigger yes” Power Phrase: “I say no with confidence so I can say yes to what matters most.” Quote: “You have to decide what your highest priorities are and have the courage to pleasantly, smilingly, non-apologetically say no to other things.” – Stephen Covey To learn about the Mentally Strong Certification, visit: To Request a Free Breakthrough Call with a Mentally Strong Coach, visit: To learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute, visit: To learn about Dr. Cindra Kamphoff's speaking and coaching, visit: To follow Dr. Cindra on Instagram, visit:
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752: Leading Under Pressure: High Stakes Teamwork and Communication with Drew Moldenhauer
05/21/2026
752: Leading Under Pressure: High Stakes Teamwork and Communication with Drew Moldenhauer
In this episode of The High Performance Mindset, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff sits down with Drew Moldenhauer, an international speaker, leadership trainer, and founder of Blue Ethos Specialized Training, to explore what it takes to communicate, lead, and perform effectively when the pressure is highest. Drawing from nearly two decades in law enforcement, higher education, and leadership development, Drew shares how high-performing teams build trust, navigate conflict, and stay composed in high-stress situations. He explains why communication can either escalate or de-escalate tension within seconds and why emotional control is often the foundation of effective leadership. Throughout the conversation, Drew discusses the concept of “high stakes teamwork” and why psychological safety, empathy, and accountability must coexist for teams to thrive. He also shares practical strategies leaders can use immediately to strengthen communication, build trust, and help teams stay calm and focused under pressure. Drew’s message is especially relevant in today’s world, where stress, conflict, and uncertainty can easily pull teams apart instead of bringing them together. His approach reminds us that leadership is not just about authority—it’s about human connection, self-regulation, and creating environments where people feel seen, heard, and supported. This episode is a powerful reminder that the best leaders are not those who avoid pressure, but those who learn to lead themselves and others effectively through it. You’ll Learn: • What “high stakes teamwork” really means and why it matters • Common communication mistakes people make under stress • Why emotional control is critical for leadership and performance • How empathy and accountability work together in strong teams • Practical ways to stay calm and think clearly under pressure • How leaders can build trust and psychological safety immediately • Why resilience and self-awareness shape effective leadership Episode Resources & Links Learn more about Drew Moldenhauer: Learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute: Register for the Mental Performance Summit: Request a Free Mental Breakthrough Call with Dr. Cindra or her team: Download the Confidence Research Study:
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751: Steps to Quiet Your Inner Critic and Build Confidence
05/19/2026
751: Steps to Quiet Your Inner Critic and Build Confidence
In this episode, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff explores how your self-talk impacts your confidence, resilience, and performance. Inspired by a recent coaching conversation, she shares why high performers often struggle with harsh self-criticism—and how self-compassion actually helps you improve faster. You’ll learn: The difference between your inner critic and inner coach What self-critical thinking does to your brain Why self-compassion builds resilience under pressure A simple tool to shift your mindset in the moment The 3 Ns: Notice your self-talk Name it Next best thought Power Phrase: “I choose to be my own coach, not my own critic.” To download our full study report, visit: To Request a Free Breakthrough Call with a Mentally Strong Coach, visit: To learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute, visit: To learn about Dr. Cindra Kamphoff's speaking and coaching, visit: To follow Dr. Cindra on Instagram, visit:
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750: The Power of Small Wins
05/14/2026
750: The Power of Small Wins
In this episode, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff shares the story behind Hank’s Hope, a project inspired by her father’s 51-day fight in the ICU and the “win wall” her family created to capture small victories each day. Cindra explores why celebrating small wins is essential for building confidence, resilience, and hope. Drawing from performance psychology and confidence research, she explains how focusing on progress—not perfection—helps train your brain to recognize growth and build belief in yourself. In This Episode: Why small wins matter The difference between “the gap” and “the gain” How celebrating progress builds confidence Simple ways to track your daily wins Power Phrase: “Confidence grows when we acknowledge our progress, not just our perfection.” Learn more about Hank’s Hope at Mentally Strong Kids:
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749: Translating Performance Across Sport and Business with Dr. Armin McCrea-Dastur
05/12/2026
749: Translating Performance Across Sport and Business with Dr. Armin McCrea-Dastur
In this episode of The High Performance Mindset, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff sits down with Dr. Armin McCrea-Dastur—leadership and performance consultant, Founder of Diamond Consulting, and expert in both business and sport psychology—to explore what it takes to perform at a high level across every environment. Drawing from more than 30 years of experience in leadership development, organizational performance, and sport psychology, Armin shares a unique perspective on how the skills developed in athletics directly translate into success in business and life. From working with global brands like Ray-Ban, Kraft Foods, and Cadbury to supporting elite athletes and teams—including the University of North Carolina Men’s Basketball program during their 2005 championship season—Armin explains how mindset, identity, and self-trust shape performance in critical moments. You’ll also hear practical strategies to manage second-guessing in the moment, build confidence in unfamiliar situations, and recognize the competitive advantage athletes already possess. Armin also reflects on her own journey stepping away from competitive skating and how that experience shaped her passion for helping others navigate performance, transition, and leadership with greater clarity. This episode is a powerful reminder that the mindset skills built through sport don’t end when competition does—they become the foundation for thriving in every arena of life. You’ll Learn: How performance principles apply across sport, business, and leadership Why athletes often struggle with identity after sport How to stop overthinking and trust yourself under pressure What separates high performers in unfamiliar environments Why self-awareness and adaptability are critical for long-term success Episode Resources & Links Learn more about Diamond Consulting: Learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute: Request a Free Mental Breakthrough Call with Dr. Cindra or her team: Download the Confidence Research Study:
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748: Train Your Trust
05/07/2026
748: Train Your Trust
“Trust yourself, you know more than you think you do.” – Benjamin Spock What if the biggest thing holding you back… isn’t your ability, but your trust in it? In this episode, we dive into a powerful question high performers face all the time: “Have I done enough, and can I trust it when it matters most?” You’ll hear a real story from an elite athlete preparing for a major moment, and the simple shift that changed everything. We explore: Why self-trust is a skill (not something you’re born with) How hesitation and overthinking quietly sabotage performance The surprising truth: confidence doesn’t come before action, it comes from it Plus, a few simple mindset shifts you can start using immediately: How to act before you feel ready A better way to respond when doubt creeps in The one question that builds real belief fast Why your inner voice might be the key to everything If you’ve ever second-guessed yourself, overthought a decision, or wondered if you’re truly ready—this episode is for you. Power Phrase: “I train my trust. I act with belief, even before I feel it.” To download our full study report, visit: To Request a Free Breakthrough Call with a Mentally Strong Coach, visit: To learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute, visit: To learn about Dr. Cindra Kamphoff's speaking and coaching, visit: To follow Dr. Cindra on Instagram, visit:
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747: Building Self-Compassion Without Losing Your Edge with Danae Frentz, Mental Performance Consultant
04/30/2026
747: Building Self-Compassion Without Losing Your Edge with Danae Frentz, Mental Performance Consultant
In this episode of The High Performance Mindset, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff sits down with Danae Frentz—a mental performance professional and self-compassion researcher—to explore a powerful idea that challenges how many high achievers think: being hard on yourself isn’t what drives success—self-compassion is. Drawing from nearly a decade of research and applied work in sport and performance psychology, Danae shares how self-compassion helps athletes and performers regulate emotions, recover from setbacks, and sustain high performance without burnout. She explains that self-compassion isn’t about lowering standards—it’s about responding to challenges in a way that fuels growth, resilience, and confidence. Throughout the conversation, Danae breaks down the science behind self-compassion and its connection to performance, well-being, and emotional regulation. She highlights how perfectionism and a harsh inner critic often block growth—and how shifting your inner dialogue can actually help you perform better, not worse. Danae also shares her personal journey with perfectionism and how learning to practice self-compassion transformed both her performance and well-being. Together, we explore the common misconceptions that keep people stuck—like the fear that being kind to yourself will make you complacent—and why the opposite is actually true. You’ll walk away with simple, practical tools you can use immediately—especially in moments of failure or self-doubt—including how to respond to your inner critic and what to say to yourself when things don’t go as planned. This episode is a powerful reminder that you don’t have to be your harshest critic to succeed—you can be your strongest ally. You’ll Learn: What self-compassion really is—and what it’s not How self-compassion improves performance, resilience, and emotional regulation The connection between perfectionism and self-criticism Why being hard on yourself can actually hold you back A simple way to respond to mistakes with more effectiveness and less judgment How self-compassion and confidence work together One small step you can take today to be kinder—and more effective—with yourself Episode Resources & Links Learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute: Download the National Confidence Research Study: Request a Free Mental Breakthrough Call with a Mentally Strong Coach: Learn more about Danae Frentz and her work:
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