How Mastering Self-Discipline Has Helped Me Reach New Levels
City Girl Savings | Budgeting, Money Management, and Goal Setting Tips for Women
Release Date: 09/08/2025
City Girl Savings | Budgeting, Money Management, and Goal Setting Tips for Women
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info_outlineI’ve accomplished a lot in my life and while there is still more I want to do, and by no means do I think I’m perfect, I do feel like I’ve mastered self-discipline well enough to get me to where I’m at today.
Mastering self-discipline over the years has no doubt helped me to reach new levels and goals I didn’t know how to obtain.
Being able to tell myself no, to hold myself accountable to the things I say I’m going to do, and stay disciplined in the face of temptation has built a resiliency and confidence in myself that I’m proud of.
I think anyone can do and feel the same. In this episode, I’m sharing how mastering self-discipline has helped me reach new levels.
My hope is that you take some things away from this episode to start working on your own self-discipline.
Here's a glance at this episode:
- [01:40] Raya shares what self-discipline means to her. Raya sees it as the ability to get things done, even when she doesn’t want to.
- [05:15] Raya’s consistent workout routine has helped Raya keep her body free from pain, enhance mobility and increase her mental fortitude.
- [09:00] Raya shares that she’s not the type of person who functions best going into the unknown. She prefers planning and preparation.
- [13:58] Instead of letting increased weight gain (with a consistent workout routine) derail Raya, she shares it encouraged her to find a real solution.
- [17:35] What goal will have the most impact on your health, mind or well-being? Focus your energy on that goal and see how it impacts other goals.
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Resources mentioned in this episode:
Listen to Episode #119 – How I Grew My Business While Working Full-Time in Corporate
Listen to Episode #141 – How Managing My Money Has Boosted My Confidence
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