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Dear Krachel: Help! I accidentally catfished my employer!

Clarity on Fire

Release Date: 01/02/2026

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Clarity on Fire

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Welcome to another episode of Dear Krachel, our advice segment where we answer listener questions about life, career, relationships, existential angst, and anything that helps you become a more whole, fulfilled version of yourself.   This month we answered questions from three listeners, two of which are in what you might call a complete doozy of a situation:   Ledger Impostress, who was desperate for a job and applied for a bookkeeping position, thinking she’d never get it. She may have (significantly) exaggerated her experience in the interview, too. And now… oops, she...

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Welcome to another episode of Dear Krachel, our advice segment where we answer listener questions about life, career, relationships, existential angst, and anything that helps you become a more whole, fulfilled version of yourself.

 

This month we answered questions from three listeners, two of which are in what you might call a complete doozy of a situation:

 

  • Ledger Impostress, who was desperate for a job and applied for a bookkeeping position, thinking she’d never get it. She may have (significantly) exaggerated her experience in the interview, too. And now… oops, she has a SENIOR bookkeeping job, has no idea what she’s doing, and is frantically studying tax law at night, trying not to get fired. What’s a girl to do when she’s accidentally catfished her employer?!
  • Kallie, who’s been unemployed for a year and is reaching the point where it’s critical she find another job soon. She knows she needs to be reasonable about her job search criteria, but should she lower her standards even more to account for how terrible the job market feels right now?
  • Human Salesperon, who works remotely for an organization that just invested in extremely invasive AI software to monitor their employees—we’re talking facial expressions during and between sales calls, any noises they make, and anyone who enters the room while they’re working. Should they look for a new job when they make decent money at this one, and given that this kind of software could easily show up at the next job, too?

 

Come leave a comment after you’ve listened to share how our advice for these listeners resonated with you!

 

WANT TO START 2026 ON A HIGH NOTE?

 

As coaches, one of our favorite things is seeing someone decide to make a change in January and watch how different their life is by the end of the year.

 

If you like the idea of getting some big momentum going now, at the very top of the year, might we suggest a Power Hour?

 

It’s a 75-minute coaching session where we’ll laser-focus on whatever issue is keeping you most stuck. Bonus, you can apply the cost of your Power Hour toward future 1:1 coaching!

 

Check it out here and we’ll be in touch within 24 hours to schedule your session.

 

LISTEN TO THESE EPISODES NEXT

 

Trusting things will work out (even when life goes sideways) with Sarah Tucker (May 2024)

 

Manifesting your ideal life after 40 with Dana Smith (December 2025)

 

Dear Krachel: What if the Universe wants me to lose my job? (February 2024)

 

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