Ep 153: The Grief We Don’t Talk About: Our Invisible losses!
Get a G.R.I.P. with Coach Elix
Release Date: 10/24/2025
Get a G.R.I.P. with Coach Elix
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info_outlineGrief isn’t always about death.
Sometimes it’s about the dreams we outgrew, the relationships that changed, the expectations that never became reality, or the versions of ourselves we’ve had to let go of.
Grief is love that has nowhere to go—and healing begins the moment we allow ourselves to feel it.
On this episode, my co-host and husband, Steven the Medium, and I explore the invisible losses—and the power of honoring what we’ve quietly carried for too long.
💔 What loss have you carried quietly for too long?
We all grieve things no one else sees—dreams that didn’t happen, people who changed, and parts of ourselves we’ve left behind.
Listen in as we talk about the grief we don’t talk about.