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Our Friends The Nones

Cocktail Theology

Release Date: 11/20/2025

Thanksgiving show art Thanksgiving

Cocktail Theology

Elane and Benton share what Thanksgiving (the day and the practice) mean to them, as well as some things they’re thankful for. They also discuss the importance of not just being grateful for things, but also thanking people (and God) for those things.  Cocktail: Maple Rye Old Fashioned Theme song: “Moving On (Feels Pretty Good)” recorded by Benton Stokes. Find Benton’s songs wherever you listen to music online.  

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Cocktail Theology

NEW EPISODE! Most Americans, when asked about their faith, say they are religiously unaffiliated. Elane and Benton chat about “the Nones,” finding and nurturing awe, and how spirituality is a part of all us. Cocktail: Glass & Bottle Theme song: “Moving On (Feels Pretty Good)” recorded by Benton Stokes. Find Benton’s songs wherever you listen to music online.  

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What Do You Mean When You Call Yourself A Christian? show art What Do You Mean When You Call Yourself A Christian?

Cocktail Theology

What do you mean when you call yourself a Christian? Benton and Elane answer that question for themselves while sipping an interesting gin cocktail. Cocktail: Three Of A Kind Theme song: “Moving On (Feels Pretty Good)” recorded by Benton Stokes. Find Benton’s songs wherever you listen to music online.  

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Queer + Ministry with Fr. Ricardo Avila show art Queer + Ministry with Fr. Ricardo Avila

Cocktail Theology

Elane and Benton welcome their good friend, Father Ricardo Avila—a gay, Latino, Episcopalian priest—to an honest conversation about what it means to be LGBTQ+ and work in ministry. They also enjoy a flight of six different rums! Cocktail: Rum Flight Theme song: “Moving On (Feels Pretty Good)” recorded by Benton Stokes. Find Benton’s songs wherever you listen to music online.

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O Death show art O Death

Cocktail Theology

Every November, Dia de los Muertos honors loved ones who have passed with both revelry and reverence. African-Americans talk of turning to their ancestors for wisdom and guidance. Yet death remains a difficult thing for most of us to talk about. Elane and Benton chat about death while enjoying a prickly cocktail. Cocktail: Prickly Pear Margarita Theme song: “Moving On (Feels Pretty Good)” recorded by Benton Stokes. Find Benton’s songs wherever you listen to music online.

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Martyrs show art Martyrs

Cocktail Theology

Benton and Elane chat about what makes someone a martyr, what doesn’t, and why our culture is hung up on martyrdom. Cocktail: Enrico Palazzo Theme song: “Moving On (Feels Pretty Good)” recorded by Benton Stokes. Find Benton’s songs wherever you listen to music online.  

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How To Fight Cynicism show art How To Fight Cynicism

Cocktail Theology

Cynicism is becoming more and more common among us these days. Elane and Benton discuss ideas for combatting it (hint: awe is a good place to start) while sipping a rum cocktail. Cocktail: Bouteiller Theme song: “Moving On (Feels Pretty Good)” recorded by Benton Stokes. Find Benton’s songs wherever you listen to music online. #progressivechristian #spirituality #queerchristian #cocktails #podcast #lgbtq+ #postevangelical #christianlife #cynical #cynicism #awe #wonder

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Is Fat A Spiritual Issue? show art Is Fat A Spiritual Issue?

Cocktail Theology

Does someone’s weight have anything to do with their spirituality? Well…it depends. Benton and Elane talk about body image and how the way we see ourselves—and what we do to sustain or change that—can be a reflection of what’s going on in our relationship with God, ourselves, and others. Cocktail: Midnight Fizz Theme song: “Moving On (Feels Pretty Good)” recorded by Benton Stokes. Find Benton’s songs wherever you listen to music online.  

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Feel-Better Media For Frustrating Times show art Feel-Better Media For Frustrating Times

Cocktail Theology

Benton and Elane chat about what books they’ve ben reading, what shows they’ve been streaming, and what music has been bringing them life lately. Cocktail: Rum Swizzle Correction: The book Elane mentions should be "Accidental Tourist" by Anne Tyler. Theme song: “Moving On (Feels Pretty Good)” recorded by Benton Stokes. Find Benton’s songs wherever you listen to music online.

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Forgiveness show art Forgiveness

Cocktail Theology

Elane and Benton talk about the complicated concept of forgiveness—what it is, when to do it, and when not to. Cocktail: Closing Argument Theme song: “Moving On (Feels Pretty Good)” recorded by Benton Stokes. Find Benton’s songs wherever you listen to music online.

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NEW EPISODE! Most Americans, when asked about their faith, say they are religiously unaffiliated. Elane and Benton chat about “the Nones,” finding and nurturing awe, and how spirituality is a part of all us.

Cocktail: Glass & Bottle

Theme song: “Moving On (Feels Pretty Good)” recorded by Benton Stokes. Find Benton’s songs wherever you listen to music online.