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The College Essay Guy Podcast: A Practical Guide to College Admissions
Release Date: 09/03/2025
The College Essay Guy Podcast: A Practical Guide to College Admissions
Hi, friends, and welcome back to our series, “On Becoming: The Art and Craft of Personal Storytelling” where we take a close look at personal essays written by real students, talking about why we love them, what makes them work, and how they came to be. In this episode, I had the honor of sitting down with Wendy Zheutlin, who is not only one of my essay coaches but has been a volunteer for the past four years with our Program. This is the program where we pair high-achieving, low-income students with amazing counselors for 10 hours of free one-on-one support. And if that sounds...
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Show Notes: Hi, friends, and welcome back to our series, On Becoming: The Art and Craft of Personal Storytelling. In this series, we take a close look at personal essays written by real students, talking about why we love them, what makes them work, and how they came to be. In this episode, we break down an essay on… wait for it… baseball. Wait, what? But Ethan, I thought writing about a common topic was a fast track to blending in. And yes—in many cases, it can be. But this essay offers a great example of how a familiar topic can become something more layered, specific, and...
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Hi, friends, and welcome back to our series, “On Becoming: The Art and Craft of Personal Storytelling.” In this series, we take a close look at personal essays written by real students, talking about why we love them, what makes them work, and how they came to be. In this episode, we explore an essence objects essay, which is to say an essay that was written about objects in the author's room, each one of which reveals a different aspect of their life. I'm joined by Ali McKeon, an essay coach and program advisor here at College Essay Guy. Ali worked with the student who wrote this...
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Welcome back to the College Essay Guy podcast and our series On Becoming: The Art and Craft of Personal Storytelling. I’m one of your cohosts, Tom Campbell, former Pomona and Holy Cross admissions officer, turned essay coach and college counselor. In this series, we look at real personal statements from real students: what choices were made, what was revised, and why it works. For this episode, we sit down with Jane Longley, one of our amazing essay coaches here at CEG, to unpack an essay that one of her student wrote titled “The Pilgrim and The CEO.” It tells the story of two...
info_outlineThe College Essay Guy Podcast: A Practical Guide to College Admissions
Welcome back to our series, “On Becoming: The Art and Craft of Personal Storytelling.” In this series, we take a close look at personal essays written by real students, talking about why we love them, what makes them work, and how they came to be. On Becoming speaks not just to the craft of writing, but to what I believe the personal statement is at its best: a record of becoming, the often messy, hopefully meaningful process of finding yourself… through the process of storytelling. In this episode, we slow things down and focus on a single essay, which the author calls “Much Ado About...
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Welcome to a brand new series here on the podcast I’m calling “On Becoming: The Art and Craft of Personal Storytelling.” In this series, we’ll dig deep into college essays from past students, talking about why we love them and how they came to be. For me, this title “On Becoming” speaks not just to the craft of writing (how a story came to be), but to what I believe the personal statement is at its best: a record of becoming… the beautiful, sometimes messy process of witnessing someone learn to better understand themselves, articulate their values, and claim their voice in...
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Welcome back to the College Essay Guy Podcast. Today’s episode is hosted by Tom Campbell, Community Manager & Senior Essay Specialist at College Essay Guy and a former admission officer at Pomona College and Holy Cross. We’ve polled the thousands of students who participate in our live webinars and courses and ask what they’re favorite subject is, and consistently, STEM reigns supreme. By a lot. In this episode, Tom sits down with Jay Zhang, college counselor at College Essay Guy, to dig into the biggest questions students and families have about preparing for and applying to STEM...
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Hey friends, and welcome back to the College Essay Guy podcast. Today’s episode is a behind-the-scenes look at Alisha’s supplemental essays. If you’ve been following our Inside the Personal Statement Process series, this episode zooms out a bit—you’ll hear us work live through several of her supplements and talk through how to bring clarity, intention, and personality into each one. In this session, Alisha and I explore: What makes a great “list” response for Columbia—and how to avoid filler How to refine a topic that feels “too common” into something that might stand out...
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Welcome back to the College Essay Guy Podcast. This is a very special session with a dear friend of mine and an honored guest in my world, Joan Liu. Joan is the founder of Second Chance, an organization that helps high achieving students from around the world secure full scholarships to universities after their original offers fall through. This conversation is adapted from a live webinar that we hosted where Joan shares some of the most practical, candid advice I've heard for international students who are looking for full financial aid and for the counselors who support them. In our...
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The transition from high school to college is something that thousands of students struggle with each year, and it’s not something people really talk about. There’s a lot of pressure for students to “have it together” in some broad sense. That's why today I'm excited to talk to Dr. Jill Grimes, Dr. Jill Grimes, author of The ULTIMATE College Student Health Handbook: Your Guide for Everything from Hangovers to Homesickness, for a frank conversation about things that are often stigmatized. Content warning: We get into some pretty serious topics such as mental health, drinking, and...
info_outlineWelcome back to the podcast. It’s September, which means many students are building the list of colleges they’re applying to.
Today I’m joined by New York Times Bestselling Author, Harlan Cohen, who walks us through his 13 most common mistakes students make when they’re creating their college list.
- We cover, among other things:
- The importance of shifting from what “they” want… to what you want
- The problem with rankings
- The importance of doing “future math”
- Why treating college as a one-year experiment can lower the stakes
- And more
Harlan Cohen is the New York Times bestselling author of The Naked Roommate: And 107 Other Issues You Might Run Into In College and six other titles (over 1 million copies in print). His social media accounts have over 1.5 million followers and he hosts a popular podcast. He is the founder of Best First Year, a college success coaching program for students and parents. Harlan lives in Chicago, Illinois with his wife and three children.
Harlan also has a wonderful college readiness and success program called Best First Year. His coaching guides parents and students from college search all the way through the first year on campus. You can use code CEG for a nice little discount.
We hope you enjoy.
Play-by-Play:
- 3:12 – Understanding the importance of college choices
- 5:54 – Mistake #1: Focus on being wanted
- 12:12 – Mistake #2: Start with rankings
- 16:45 – Mistake #3: Let scarcity and fear guide you.
- 19:56 – Mistake #4: Make this about the rest of your life.
- 23: 11 – Mistake #5: Don’t have a plan (SEPFA).
- 27:21 – Mistake #6: Expect instant access to clubs and activities.
- 34:01 – Mistake #7: Don’t look for merit aid and financial aid.
- 38:21 – Mistake #8: Don’t do future math.
- 41:26 – Mistake #9: Don’t talk to current students on campus.
- 44:02 – Mistake #10: Want to impress friends and family.
- 46:06 – Mistake #11: Don’t visit at the best time.
- 47:01 – Mistake #12: Follow friends and significant others to campus.
- 47:54 – Mistake #13: Assume everyone graduates (nope).
- 54:38 – What does Harlan hope students and families will keep in mind as they go through this process?
Resources:
- Harlan Cohen’s Best First Year (enter the code “CEG” for a discount)
- CEG Podcast Episode 207: 17 Things to Do Before Going to College
- CEG Podcast Episode 109: How to Figure Out Which School is Right for You
- CEG Podcast Episode 121: Which Schools Are the Most Generous With Financial Aid? (US Version)
- Murphyjitsu: an Inner Simulator algorithm
- College Essay Guy’s Personal Statement Resources
- College Essay Guy’s College Application Hub