Navigating Grandfatherhood and Midlife Career Moves with Mark Aylward - EP 227
Release Date: 04/18/2025
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info_outlineIn this heartfelt and candid episode, I sit down with career coach, entrepreneur, and proud grandfather Mark Aylward. They dive into the complexities of becoming a grandfather under unexpected circumstances, the power of simply "showing up," and how intentional presence can transform relationships.
Mark also shares powerful insights from his decades-long career in IT recruitment, his transition into career coaching, and his mission to help midlife professionals reclaim Clarity, confidence, and courage.
Expect real talk, big laughs, and memorable moments—from vocabulary lessons with his grandson to a great story of a friend calling NBA executives pretending to be Larry Bird. Whether you're navigating grandparenthood or a late-career pivot, this episode offers something valuable and inspiring.
🔑 Key Topics & Takeaways:
- The surprise and beauty of becoming a grandfather at 17
- Supporting a son through addiction and young fatherhood
- The importance of presence and modeling for children and grandchildren
- Tree climbing and gratitude: bonding through simple routines
- The broken hiring process and how to bypass the gatekeepers
- Why confidence is often the missing piece in career transitions
- Helping professionals in their 50s+ rediscover purpose and direction
- The art of storytelling in job interviews and career branding
- Why asking "What do you mean by that?" unlocks absolute Clarity.
- Embracing the role of a grandparent without overstepping boundaries
Links
- MarkAylward.com – Website, coaching info, and newsletter
- The Imperfect Men's Club Podcast – Real talk for men in midlife
- Use this link to book Mark's Free 30-Minute Coaching Call: https://calendly.com/aylwardmark/30min?month=2025-04