The Cool Grandpa Podcast
This podcast is about the relationship between Grandfathers and their Grandchildren. We focus on interesting stories to understand and grow our own relationships. This is the perfect podcast to understand how important the role of Grandfather is to the lives of the Grandchildren and Family in general.
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Break the Bottle: Lessons from a Grandson, Marine, and Leader
05/09/2025
Break the Bottle: Lessons from a Grandson, Marine, and Leader
In this powerful and heartfelt episode, I sit down with Michael Allison, a Marine veteran, author, and founder of the Adversity Academy, to explore a journey shaped by hardship, legacy, and purpose. From growing up in the rough neighborhoods of Miami after immigrating from Jamaica to becoming a decorated Marine and now a leadership coach, Michael shares how his two grandfathers—both named Vincent—influenced his values and resilience. Listeners will hear how formative life experiences, including time in Fallujah and setbacks in high school football, became catalysts for leadership growth. Michael shares the life-and-death moments that defined his military service and the deep mentorship that helped him evolve. He also explains how he now helps others through speaking and training programs that foster identity, purpose, and organizational strength. 🧠 Key Takeaways: The importance of legacy and storytelling across generations How to extract purpose from pain What "dark work" means and how it shapes real leaders. The impact of servant leadership in high-stakes environments Why leadership development must exist at every organizational level Building trust, especially with team members who feel undervalued The transition from military service to entrepreneurship Links Website: Leadership Training: Email: [email protected] Instagram: You can watch this conversation on YouTube by using this link:
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Writing For Legacy, A Grandfather's Perspective With Kevin Hall - EP 228
05/02/2025
Writing For Legacy, A Grandfather's Perspective With Kevin Hall - EP 228
I welcome Kevin Hall to The Cool Grandpa Podcast for a powerful and entertaining conversation on legacy, storytelling, and life after retirement. Kevin opens up about his 49-year marriage, raising a family, and how becoming a grandfather inspired him to write personal memoirs that turned into a published series of books. You’ll hear about: How telling stories to grandkids sparked Kevin’s writing career His transition from corporate life to creative writing How he self-published and marketed multiple books without a big budget Tips for grandparents on preserving memories through writing or video Kevin’s thoughts on AI, history, spiritual storytelling, and leaving a legacy This episode is packed with laughs, life lessons, and practical advice for anyone looking to write their own family stories. Links Use this link to view Kevin's website: Here is the link to Publisher Rocket: You can watch this conversation on YouTube by clicking on this link:
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Navigating Grandfatherhood and Midlife Career Moves with Mark Aylward - EP 227
04/18/2025
Navigating Grandfatherhood and Midlife Career Moves with Mark Aylward - EP 227
In this heartfelt and candid episode, I sit down with career coach, entrepreneur, and proud grandfather Mark Aylward. They dive into the complexities of becoming a grandfather under unexpected circumstances, the power of simply "showing up," and how intentional presence can transform relationships. Mark also shares powerful insights from his decades-long career in IT recruitment, his transition into career coaching, and his mission to help midlife professionals reclaim Clarity, confidence, and courage. Expect real talk, big laughs, and memorable moments—from vocabulary lessons with his grandson to a great story of a friend calling NBA executives pretending to be Larry Bird. Whether you're navigating grandparenthood or a late-career pivot, this episode offers something valuable and inspiring. 🔑 Key Topics & Takeaways: The surprise and beauty of becoming a grandfather at 17 Supporting a son through addiction and young fatherhood The importance of presence and modeling for children and grandchildren Tree climbing and gratitude: bonding through simple routines The broken hiring process and how to bypass the gatekeepers Why confidence is often the missing piece in career transitions Helping professionals in their 50s+ rediscover purpose and direction The art of storytelling in job interviews and career branding Why asking "What do you mean by that?" unlocks absolute Clarity. Embracing the role of a grandparent without overstepping boundaries Links – Website, coaching info, and newsletter – Real talk for men in midlife Use this link to book Mark's Free 30-Minute Coaching Call:
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Support Networks for New Parents with Jane Honikman - EP 226
04/11/2025
Support Networks for New Parents with Jane Honikman - EP 226
In this episode, Jane Honikman and I discuss the evolving role of fathers and grandfathers in parenting, particularly in the context of postpartum support. We explore the importance of emotional wellness, communication, and social support in navigating the challenges of parenthood. Our conversation highlights cultural shifts in parenting dynamics, the impact of generational perspectives, and the need for open discussions about mental health. Jane emphasizes the significance of understanding family history and traditions while advocating for a supportive environment for new parents. Key Takeaways: The significance of peer support for new mothers. How societal expectations impact maternal mental health. The role of fathers and families in providing support. Advocacy efforts that have shaped postpartum care services. Actionable steps for building community-based maternal support. Links: You can listen to my first discussion with Jane about postpartum at this link: Check out Jane's website at: Click on this link to order your copy of Parental Mental Health: Factoring in Fathers: You can watch this interview on YouTube by using this link:
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Keeping the Connection: Avoiding Common Grandparenting Pitfalls - EP 225
04/04/2025
Keeping the Connection: Avoiding Common Grandparenting Pitfalls - EP 225
In this episode of The Cool Grandpa Podcast, I discuss the challenges of maintaining strong relationships with adult children and grandchildren. I discuss the common mistakes grandparents make—disrespecting parenting choices, giving gifts with hidden expectations, ignoring family schedules, or arguing in front of the grandkids. By recognizing these issues, grandparents can foster a more positive and lasting connection with their families. I also highlight insights from experts like DeeDee Moore (More Than Grand) and Dr. Kerry Byrne (The Long Distance Grandparents) on mending strained relationships. If you're looking for ways to improve communication and respect with your family, this episode is a must-listen! Key Takeaways: ✅ Respect your adult children's choices, even when they differ from your own. ✅ Be mindful of how and why you give gifts to grandchildren. ✅ Honor family schedules and avoid unplanned visits that add stress. ✅ Avoid arguing in front of grandkids—it impacts how they see family relationships. ✅ Self-reflect before assuming the problem is one-sided. Next Week's Episode: Join us next week as I sit down with Jane Honikman to discuss Support Systems for Postpartum Depression—an insightful conversation on how families can better support new mothers Links Use this link to explore The Long Distance Grandparent: To check out More Than Grand, use this link: You can watch this episode on YouTube by using this link: .
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Unlocking Confidence: Public Speaking, Music, & Growth with Adam Cole - EP 224
03/28/2025
Unlocking Confidence: Public Speaking, Music, & Growth with Adam Cole - EP 224
In this episode, I sit down with Adam Cole, a jazz musician, educator, author, and confidence coach. Adam shares his fascinating journey from performing jazz and teaching music to becoming a sought-after confidence coach. He discusses the different phases of life and how we can reinvent ourselves. We also discuss how confidence is crucial in public speaking, music, and professional growth and how Adam gets his clients over the hump and into a space where they can effectively share their message with the right audience. Topics covered include: ✔️ Overcoming stage fright & performance anxiety ✔️ Transitioning careers & finding new passions ✔️ The power of mentorship & self-awareness ✔️ The Feldenkrais Method & body awareness for confidence ✔️ Starting a side hustle and breaking through self-doubt Whether you want to grow personally or professionally, this episode offers wisdom on embracing change, building confidence, and stepping into new challenges. Links Connect with Adam Cole: 🌐 Website: or 📺 YouTube: 🎶 Piano Lessons & Coaching: Available in-person (Atlanta) or via Zoom You can also watch this conversation on YouTube by using this link: Upcoming Event: 🎤 Billy Joel Sing-Along Concert – March 29, 4 PM @ First Christian Church of Decatur, Atlanta. Don't miss it!
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The Evolving Role of Grandfathers - EP 223
03/21/2025
The Evolving Role of Grandfathers - EP 223
In this engaging episode of The Cool Grandpa Podcast, I sit down with writer and grandfather Don Akchin for a thoughtful discussion on modern grandfathering. We explore the evolving role of grandfathers, the joys and challenges of connecting with grandchildren, and how today's granddads are breaking past generational stereotypes. Don shares personal stories about his grandchildren, his love for writing, and the importance of staying active and engaged post-retirement. Key Topics Discussed: Don's initial reaction to becoming a grandfather The joys of having grandchildren nearby and developing special bonds Creating unique traditions, including writing mentorship with his granddaughter The generational shift in grandparenting roles How men today are embracing a more engaged and nurturing grandfather role Don's writing journey, including The End Game newsletter on aging and retirement The importance of continuous learning, personal growth, and adapting in later years Advice for new and soon-to-be grandfathers: the power of listening and being present Links You can sign up for the End Game newsletter by using this link: Books & authors mentioned , , and .
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Vietnam Uncensored: A Veteran's Journey with Jerry Glazer - EP 222
03/14/2025
Vietnam Uncensored: A Veteran's Journey with Jerry Glazer - EP 222
Vietnam veteran and author Jerry Glazer joins me in this compelling episode. Jerry shares his remarkable journey from being drafted into the U.S. Army, going through grueling training, and serving in one of the most harrowing conflicts in American history. He reflects on his experiences, the challenges of military service, and the deep brotherhood forged in war. Jerry also discusses his book, Vietnam Uncensored: 365 Days in a Nightmare, which provides a firsthand account of his time in combat and the historical context behind the Vietnam War. His candid storytelling takes listeners through his battles, the impact of PTSD, and the lessons he learned about resilience, leadership, and sacrifice. Additionally, Jerry talks about the importance of veterans documenting their stories, the need for ongoing support for those who served, and his work with The Kauffman Fund, an organization dedicated to helping veterans in need. Key Topics Discussed: Jerry's journey from college to the Vietnam War His decision to serve despite having an opportunity to avoid the draft The intense physical and mental challenges of military training His experiences as part of an airborne and ranger-trained unit The reality of combat and its lasting impact on soldiers The brotherhood among soldiers and the sacrifices made The historical and political complexities of the Vietnam War The long-term effects of war, including PTSD and reintegration into civilian life The importance of veterans sharing their stories How proceeds from Jerry's book are supporting The Kauffman Fund Resources & Links: Jerry's Book: Vietnam Uncensored: 365 Days in a Nightmare – Available on Jerry's Website: The Kauffman Fund: You can watch this conversation on YouTube at Support & Subscribe: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform. Don't forget to share this episode with a
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Show and Share: Teaching Life Lessons as a Cool Grandpa - EP 221
03/07/2025
Show and Share: Teaching Life Lessons as a Cool Grandpa - EP 221
In this episode, I discuss the importance of sharing life skills with grandchildren and creative ways to teach them essential lessons. I reflect on personal experiences with my father and how small, everyday moments can provide invaluable learning opportunities for grandkids. What You'll Learn in This Episode: The power of showing and sharing life skills instead of just telling. How can travel experiences teach kids practical skills, from navigating an airport to problem-solving on the go? The benefits of bringing grandkids to meetings and social gatherings to expose them to real-world interactions. Discussing money and financial responsibility in a fun and engaging way can help set them up for success. Practical ways to turn everyday moments into learning opportunities. Join the Conversation! How do you share life skills with your grandkids? Leave a comment or connect with Greg on social media. 🔗 Follow on Social Media: Facebook: @CoolGrandpaPodcast LinkedIn: Greg Payne 🎧 Subscribe & Stay Cool! Don't miss an episode! Subscribe to The Cool Grandpa Podcast on your favorite streaming platform. Links Read my latest guest blog: "From Grandpa's Heart – Four Things to Say to Encourage Your Granddaughter" at: You can listen to and watch John Fogerty's classic song, Centerfield, by using this link: .
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How to Live: A Course for Grandparents - EP 220
02/28/2025
How to Live: A Course for Grandparents - EP 220
In this episode, I welcome back to The Cool Grandpa Podcast, Richard Eyre, a New York Times bestselling author and expert on family relationships, to discuss his latest project—How to Live the Second Half of Life. Richard shares his journey from parenting expert to grandparenting advocate, emphasizing the importance of being an intentional and proactive grandparent. Key topics include: ✅ The evolving role of grandparents in today's society ✅ Why grandparenting should be a proactive and engaged experience ✅ The launch of Richard's How to Live the Second Half of Life course ✅ Strategies for maintaining mental, physical, social, emotional, and spiritual well-being in later years ✅ The importance of mentorship and peer support in aging gracefully ✅ A sneak peek at Richard's upcoming book, The Team Approach to Grandparenting Join the Conversation! 👉 What are your thoughts on being a proactive grandparent? Please share your insights with us on social media or in the comments! Links Use this link to check out the course, How To Live that will be hosted by Richard Eyre AND You: You can use this link to check out everything that Lind and Richard are doing based on parenting and grandparenting: You can watch this conversation on YouTube by using this link:
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Dignity In Eldercare: The Carebidet Solution - EP 219
02/21/2025
Dignity In Eldercare: The Carebidet Solution - EP 219
In this episode, I sit down with John Larson from CoHealth to discuss an innovative solution for transforming elder care—The Care Bidet. John shares his journey in the elder care space, the inspiration behind this groundbreaking technology, and how it aims to improve hygiene, dignity, and overall well-being for aging individuals and their caregivers. The Care Bidet is not just a convenience—it’s a game-changer in elder care. With a rapidly aging population, solutions like this are crucial in reducing caregiver burden, improving patient dignity, and improving healthcare efficiency. 🎧 Listen and subscribe. If you found this episode valuable, please leave a review and share it with anyone caring for aging family members! Links Here is the link to check out the Care Bidet: You can use this link to learn more about Connected Health Solutions: By the way, CMS means - Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services:
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Family Businesses & Storytelling: Why Your Story Matters - EP 218
02/14/2025
Family Businesses & Storytelling: Why Your Story Matters - EP 218
Daniel Crandall and I discuss the significance of capturing family stories and histories in this episode. We discuss the dynamics of family businesses, the role of publishing in preserving narratives, and the importance of engaging younger generations in storytelling. Daniel shares techniques for capturing family members' stories, the impact of these narratives on relationships, and practical tips for recording them. The conversation emphasizes the value of genuine interest in storytelling and offers resources for those looking to document their family histories. Links Here is the link to Allisona: . Remember, when you contact them, mention "Cool-Grandpa" for a free publishing Q&A training session! You can use this link to learn more about Pixel Glyph Press: If you would like to listen to that last conversation that Daniel and I had, you can do so with this link:
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The Gift of Understanding: A Grandfather’s Role in Autism - EP 217
02/07/2025
The Gift of Understanding: A Grandfather’s Role in Autism - EP 217
In this week's episode, I explore an essential and often under-discussed topic: how grandfathers can navigate the challenges and rewards of having an autistic grandchild. Key Topics Discussed: Adjusting Expectations: The emotional process of shifting expectations for a grandchild's future. Recognizing the grieving and acceptance stages. Finding new ways to celebrate achievements and milestones. Emotional and Psychological Challenges: Feeling helpless due to a lack of understanding or awareness. Overcoming generational and cultural differences in approaching autism. Learning new information to feel more empowered. Communication and Interaction Strategies: Understanding different social cues and responses from autistic grandchildren. Sensory sensitivities and how they impact shared experiences. Recognizing the difference between meltdowns and misbehavior. The Grandfather's Role in Family Support: How grandfathers can actively participate in their grandchild's care. Avoiding the feeling of being left out of key decisions. Balancing attention and affection between all grandchildren. Practical Considerations: Adapting parenting and grandparenting strategies for today's understanding of autism. Physical limitations and adjustments to activities. The evolving language around autism and support strategies. Key Takeaway: Grandfathers have an essential role in their grandchildren's lives, even if their approach to bonding, communication, and activities differs from what was anticipated. They can build meaningful connections and support their families with education, patience, and an open heart. Links Here are some links to organizations that can help better understand and support grandchildren with autism.
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Navigating the Complexities of Grief - EP 216
01/31/2025
Navigating the Complexities of Grief - EP 216
Kerri Lewis from Second Act Mastery joins me this week to talk about her journey through grief after losing her husband. We discuss the importance of addressing grief, its loneliness, and the societal expectations surrounding how one should grieve. Kerri emphasizes the role of counseling in helping individuals process their grief and the significance of support systems. We also explore the misconceptions about the stages of grief, gender differences in grieving, and the importance of community and connection in the healing process. After you have listened to this episode, please share it with family and friends who could benefit from hearing about Kerri's journey and the types of resources we mention in this podcast episode. Links If you would like to check out Kerri's counseling website, please use this link: You can use this link to connect with Kerri on LinkedIn: If you would like to watch this episode on YouTube, you can use this link to view Kerri and I over there:
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Film as a Bridge in Family Relationships - EP 215
01/24/2025
Film as a Bridge in Family Relationships - EP 215
Allan Shedlin joins us again for another engaging conversation. As Allan and I talked about being a grandfather, he reflected on the profound influence of his grandfather on his parenting style and the evolution of relationships between parents and their adult children. Allan shares anecdotes about his grandfather's calm demeanor and the importance of being present in children's lives. Our discussion also introduces one of Allan's great passions, The Daddying Film Festival and Form, or D3F for short. The Film Festival is an initiative to foster connections between fathers and their children through film. Many of these films highlight the significance of shared experiences and discussions in family dynamics. We delve into the Daddying Film Festival and Forum, exploring its evolution, the engagement of youth in film judging, and the surprises encountered during its first three years. I ask Allan about the highlights of the film festival, and he talks about the festival's logistics, plans, and the various categories for film submissions, emphasizing the importance of father involvement. Allan also talks about memorable films from past festivals showcasing the emotional and impactful stories that resonate with audiences. Please share this information with any young filmmakers or adults who would like to try their hand at either creating a movie or evening being on the panel to review the films. Links Here is the link to the Daddying Film Festival and Forum (D3F): You can use this link to listen to our previous discussion: Use this link to find out more about the DADvocay Consulting Group: If you would like to follow Allan and his group work on Facebook, Instagram, or X, you can use the links below:
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The Role of Grandparents in Family Life - EP 214
01/17/2025
The Role of Grandparents in Family Life - EP 214
Ricky Dickson, author and former CEO, is back for a dare; I say it? A second scoop, but in this case, we are talking about his experience with being a grandson and the profound impact of grandparents on personal development and family dynamics. Ricky shares his experiences growing up with both sets of grandparents nearby, highlighting their roles as mentors, supporters, and sources of wisdom. We discuss the love and influence his grandparents provided him from when he was born until they left this life. The conversation delves into memorable family traditions, the influence of faith, and the importance of nurturing relationships as one transition into adolescence. Ricky emphasizes the significance of unconditional love and the lasting memories created through shared experiences, offering valuable advice for new grandparents on fostering meaningful connections with their grandchildren. After listening to this conversation, please share it with family and friends, who will enjoy hearing about the wonderful memories Ricky shared with us. Links This link will take you to my first conversation with Ricky, where we discussed his book, One Scoop At A Time. Use this link to visit Ricky's website: You can check out One Scoop At A Time using this link: You can order Ricky's book from either of the links above, and you can also use this direct link to Amazon to order the book: If you would like to connect and follow Ricky on LinkedIn, you can use this link: You can watch this conversation on YouTube using this link: https://youtu.be/aEdV4zaCj08
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EP - 213 Navigating Fatherhood: Insights from Lendo Mutambala
01/10/2025
EP - 213 Navigating Fatherhood: Insights from Lendo Mutambala
In this week's episode, I speak with Lendo Mutambala, founder of Super Daddy Club, about the challenges and needs of young fathers. Lendo shares his journey from Congo to Canada, his experiences as a young father, and the motivation behind creating Super Daddy Club as a resource for fathers navigating parenting and family dynamics. Our conversation explores the importance of fatherhood, the impact of family structures on children, and the need for community support. Lendo also discusses his plans for the future of Super Daddy Club, including creating documentaries and engaging with the public to address parenting issues. Links You can watch this conversation on my YouTube Channel by clicking on this link: The Super Dady Club: If you would like to email Lendo and his partners directly, use this email address: You can use the following links to connect with The Super Daddy Club on social media: LInkedIn : Facebook: X: YouTube: Instagram: Check out the conversation that I had with Jane Honikman about postpartum using this link:
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EP - 212 Parental Mental Health and How We Can Help
12/20/2024
EP - 212 Parental Mental Health and How We Can Help
DeeDee More from More Than Grand joins me this week to talk about the challenges facing parents and what grandparents can do to be a resource to young parents. We delve into the critical topic of parental well-being, highlighting the mental health challenges parents face today, particularly in light of recent advisories from the Surgeon General. Our discussion covers the impact of social media, financial pressures, and the role of grandparents in supporting parents. It emphasizes the importance of trusting parental instincts, advocating for better policies, and breaking the stigma of mental health. As we wrap up the conversation, DeeDee also touches on the unique stresses of the holiday season and introduces resources for new grandparents. Once you have listened to this conversation, please share it with other grandparents so we can all become more educated about some of the challenges our adult children experience as young parents. Links Use this link to access DeeDee's blog about the Surgeon General's Advisory on Parental Mental Health. You can also access the advisory document using this blog link. . Click on this link to review the Grandparents Holiday Gift Guide: . You can use this link to visit More Than Grand. I encourage you to check out DeeDee's New Grandparent Essentials: You can watch this conversation on YouTube by using this link: . You can use this link to listen to our previous conversation about More Than Grand: .
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EP - 211 Connecting Generations Through Muzzleloading
12/13/2024
EP - 211 Connecting Generations Through Muzzleloading
Ethan Yazel from I Love Muzzleloading joins me to discuss how the sport and hobby of muzzleloading have created a unique bond between multiple generations of his family. Ethan shares his deep family connection to muzzleloading and explores the rich histories of his grandfathers, Joseph Barnes and Harold Yazel. We discuss the history of muzzleloading over the last century, focusing on the use of muzzleloaders in Indiana before, during, and after the Great Depression. Ethan reflects on cherished memories spent with his grandfathers, grandmothers, and extended family. We discuss the relationships between family and community and muzzleloading's impact on his life. As you will discover, we both appreciate the historical context of muzzle loading, its significance to many families from when the United States was a colony to today, and how it serves as a means of survival and family bonding. Ethan emphasizes the importance of the muzzleloading community. We learn about his passion for learning about and sharing our common history and the lessons he learned from his grandfathers, encouraging others to explore this unique hobby. If you have not attended a living history event or a muzzleloading activity, we encourage you to check one out. I think you will have a fun time and gain an appreciation for how people used to live along the various frontiers and periods that have influenced generations of Americans and others. Be sure to check out Ethan's website and YouTube channel. Remember to like and subscribe to learn about muzzleloading and our shared past. Links Check out Ethan's website: You can watch Ethan's YouTube channel using this address. Remember to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE to his channel for great information about muzzleloading. To learn more about muzzle loading, you can check out the National Muzzle Loading Rifle Association using this link: You can view my conversation with Ethan on my YouTube channel at:
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EP - 210 Tips To Find Peace This Holiday Season
12/06/2024
EP - 210 Tips To Find Peace This Holiday Season
This week is our final one-on-one conversation for 2024 about being a cool grandpa. In this conversation, I share valuable insights and tips for grandparents navigating the holiday season. I emphasize the importance of flexibility, adjusting expectations, and focusing on the quality of time spent with family. I discuss how grandparents support their adult children's new traditions while also considering the interests of our grandchildren. I also discuss the emotional challenges of changing family dynamics and offer practical advice for finding peace during the holidays.
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EP - 209 The Sweet Journey of Ricky Dickson
11/22/2024
EP - 209 The Sweet Journey of Ricky Dickson
Cool Grandpa Ricky Dickson is joining me to discuss his experience as the CEO of Blue Bell Ice Cream and being a father and a very cool grandpa. Recently, Ricky published his book One Scoop At A Time, which is an excellent book about his time at Blue Bell, from writing a marketing paper for a school project to becoming CEO and guiding Blue Bell through one of its most challenging experiences. Ricky's book combines lessons of leadership, faith, and fun. We talk about how Ricky wrote this book to help tell his story and the story of Blue Bell and, maybe more importantly, as a legacy for his great-grandchildren. We discuss some of Ricky's personal stories, including a turning point in his career when he realized that God's purpose or role for Ricky was more important than a promotion. As a grandfather, Ricky also talks about the importance of one-on-one time with his grandchildren and the special moments they share. Some memorable moments involve ice cream and conversations about listening to God, prompting us about what he wants for us and our lives, and then listening to that prompting and following that message as best we can. As we wrap up our conversation, Ricky shares the 'go to' ice cream flavors that will make you the hit of any holiday or Christmas party you attend. Those flavors are , , and . Do yourself a favor and use one of the links below to check out Ricky's book, One Scoop At A Time. Even if you don't typically read business books, you will enjoy this one, as Ricky is open and honest about what was going on with his time at Blue Bell and with him personally. One of the cool things that you can do now if you live in an area that doesn't sell Blue Bell is order Blue Bell Ice Cream. I have put a direct link to their order page in the links below. Links Use this link to visit Ricky's website: You can check out One Scoop At A Time using this link: You can order Ricky's book from either of the links above, and you can also use this direct link to Amazon to order the book: If you would like to connect and follow Ricky on LinkedIn, you can use this link:
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EP - 208 Daddying: More Than Just Fatherhood
11/15/2024
EP - 208 Daddying: More Than Just Fatherhood
Allan Shelin from DADvocacy Consulting Group (DCG) joins this week's conversation. We get to know Allan and his experience as both a father and grandfather. Allan also shares his work as a principal at an elementary school in New York City and as an advocate for education and now for Daddys everywhere. We discuss his philosophy on education, the creation of the National Elementary School Center, and the concept of 'daddy' as a nurturing process. We also discuss Allan's challenges in publishing his book on fatherhood. We talk about how great films can impact fostering father-child relationships. He emphasizes the importance of building strong relationships with grandchildren. Allan outlines the qualities that children seek in their fathers and grandfathers. Our conversation concludes with insights on grandparenting's evolution and routine's significance in nurturing these relationships. We reflect on the evolution of fatherhood and the importance of relationships across generations. Allan discusses the role of grandfathers and the need for emotional presence. The conversation also highlights the Dadvocacy Consulting Group's mission to support fathers in becoming the dads they aspire to be, as well as insights gained from interviews with fathers about their experiences and challenges. Allan both encourages and challenges fathers to think about how they want to be perceived by their children and to take actionable steps toward that vision. Links Use this link to find out more about the DADvocay Consulting Group: If you would like to follow Allan and his group work on Facebook, Instagram, or X, you can use the links below: You can watch our conversation on YouTube by using this link:
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EP - 207 Documenting Our Veteran's Stories
11/08/2024
EP - 207 Documenting Our Veteran's Stories
Bob Abate is on a mission to listen to and capture the stories of WW II veterans from New York City and the surrounding area. We discuss Bob's memories of being a small boy when World War II ended and the celebrations that were going on around him that he didn't understand at the time but grew to appreciate as he grew older. Bob and I also talk about his early years going through the Naval Academy and his academic career after leaving the Navy. Bob started his passion for collecting veteran stories when he noticed that one individual who had been a heck of an athlete before going to Vietnam was not included in Manhattan University's Hall of Fame. That person is . Through the research and induction comments that Bob made, you are going to enjoy hearing the touching story of how Tyrone's daughter got to know her father, who died when she was just a baby. You will also enjoy hearing about Bob's effort and passion for getting the veterans to tell their stories without editing, polishing, or editorial comments. Their story is THEIR STORY, with all the good and the bad that come from raw memories and places in the heart that only they have known and experienced. Once you have listened to this conversation, I encourage you to share it with your friends and family who are interested in great stories and who might be interested in learning how to capture the memories of family and friends who have served this country. Links Here is Bob's email address should you wish to reach out to him: You can also use this link to hear another great conversation with Bob conducted by the Yonkers Public Library: . You can watch Bob's presentation at the Scarsdale Public Library using this link: .
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EP - 206 Grandparenting Wisdom: Tips for Connection
11/01/2024
EP - 206 Grandparenting Wisdom: Tips for Connection
This week's episode is our monthly one-on-one conversation. For our discussion, I have chosen to share a few questions and topics I recently had from grandparents. The first question concerns spoiling the grandchildren. Our second topic is the importance of knowing basic first aid and CPR, primarily pediatric CPR. The third topic is creating an enjoyable connection with the grandchildren as a Long-Distance Grandparent during Thanksgiving and the Holidays when you can not be there in person. I also share my thoughts about how we, as grandfathers, can help our grandchildren connect with the veterans in our families and honor veterans, both living and deceased, in our community. Links Here is the link to Dr. Kerry Byrne's The Long Distance Grandparent: Click on this link to investigate More Than Grand:
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EP - 205 Breaking Generational Cycles
10/25/2024
EP - 205 Breaking Generational Cycles
Doug Morneau joins us for an engaging conversation. Doug shares his experiences and insights as a grandfather, discussing the importance of family relationships, the impact of technology, and the value of spending quality time with grandchildren. He reflects on his upbringing, the lessons learned, and how he aims to create a nurturing environment for his grandkids. Doug emphasizes the significance of community support and the role of faith in family life and offers practical advice for new grandfathers. Once you have listened to this conversation, be sure to share it with a friend who would enjoy this conversation and learning about building meaningful solid relationships with grandchildren. Links Use this link to check out Doug's website and business: . You can also use this link to get Doug's social media information. If you would like to reach out to Doug directly, you can use his email, which is: You can watch this episode on YouTube by using this link: Here is the link for the episode with Jim Padilla that we mentioned in this week's conversation:
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EP - 204 Cars and Grandpas
10/11/2024
EP - 204 Cars and Grandpas
Michael Platt from Platt Motors sits down with us to share the remarkable story of his grandfather and the car business he started. You will enjoy hearing how Michael's grandfather started one of the earliest used car dealerships in New Jersey. Michael shares his earliest memories of going to auctions and seeing his father and grandfather work as direct-to-consumer sales and wholesale brokers. Michael and I talk about the nostalgic pull that cars can have with grandchildren remembering their grandparent's vehicles and how that nostalgia can contribute to people buying cars that remind them of their parents and grandparents. We also discussed which classic cars might be a little impractical with us older guys who want to use them for road trips. If you haven't already done so, please like, share, and subscribe to this podcast and YouTube channel. Also, remember to check out the Bookstore for cool merchandise that would make any cool grandpa happy. Links Use this link to check out Platt Motors: If you would like to reach out to Michale via LinkedIn, you can use this link:
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EP - 203 Being an Engaged Grandpa
10/11/2024
EP - 203 Being an Engaged Grandpa
Andre Renna shares his experience as a grandfather with us. We learn about Andre's reaction to learning that he would become a grandpa for the first time and how he was very excited to meet his grandchildren. I ask Andre about being a grandfather in the same community as his children and grandchildren. Andre shares with us how being close to his grandchildren is a blessing, but at times, it can also be difficult. We learn about Andre's background growing up in Brooklyn, NY, with his extended family very close by and having that shared experience of living and growing up next to his grandparents. Andre and I also discussed his wonderful experience co-writing a book with his granddaughter. He shares with us the experience of his granddaughter creating the story while he was pushing her on a swing out in the park. You will also be inspired by Andre's involvement as a volunteer at his grandchildren's school. Andre actively acts as a role model and mentor to the children in the school's reading program. The boys in the school also connect with Andre when he assists in the school's cafeteria. He shares that his ability to build connections with the boys through sports and other activities they are interested in helps them and their teachers have better lines of communication and areas of interest outside of the classroom. You will enjoy hearing how Andre builds meaningful and lasting connections with his grandchildren. Once you have listened to this episode, remember to like, subscribe, and share it with a friend. Remember to check out my Bookstore page for fun gifts for yourself or the Cool Grandpa in your life. Links Here is the email address to connect with Andre and order the book The Surprise Birthday Party: The Adventures of Aria and Ducky: [email protected] You can check out the book at Amazon as well using this link: (if you order the book through Andre, using his email address, he can have the book signed for you)
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EP - 202 How We Can Support Moms
10/04/2024
EP - 202 How We Can Support Moms
This is our second panel or round table discussion on The Cool Grandpa Podcast. I like to call these activities Cracker Barrels. I think I like that term because it is what we used in Scouts and because it is a fun nostalgic term for people getting together informally and sharing important and sometimes not-so-important information. We have four wonderful guests joining me to give their thoughts on how fathers and fathers-in-law can support moms. After all, the old adage that if mom isn't happy, no one is happy is more true than we might like to admit. This event's participants are Dr. Kerry Byrne, Lori Wynne, DeeDee More, and Amanda Weishar. I have known these awesome women for some time and have worked with Kerry and DeeDee on some grandparenting projects in the past. You will enjoy this fun conversation, and I encourage you to share it with other people who may be unsure about how to support their adult daughters and daughters-in-law. Links Use this link to access the More Than Grand website. DeeDee More's contact information is available on her website located at: You can learn more about Dr. Kerry Byrne's work on behalf of grandparents at The Long Distance Grandparent and join me in The Long Distance Grandparent Society (LDGS). You might also like to sign up for the Ideas Club. Regardless, the way to connect with Kerry is to start with this link: To connect with Lori and possibly grab a gift card for your wife, daughter, or daughter-in-law, check out Lori's website at You can check out this episode on YouTube by clicking on this link: One of the great books mentioned in our conversation is The Essential Questions: Interview Your Family to Uncover Stories and Bridge Generations, . Amanda mentioned this excellent parenting book, Parenting: A House United: Changing Children's Hearts and Behaviors by Teaching Self-Government. You can check out Lori's father-in-law's YouTube channel by clicking on this link: (Be sure to 'Like and Subscribe' to the channel)
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EP - 201 Good Seer, Good Sayer
09/27/2024
EP - 201 Good Seer, Good Sayer
Neil Taft joins our conversation this week to talk about being a Caring Grandparent. Specifically, we learn how Neil, a great-grandfather, is leading the charge to help all grandparents build and maintain incredible relationships with their grandchildren. Neil's mission is to enhance Grandparents' bonds with their Grandchildren by building solid and meaningful connections. Neil believes that stories and shared experiences can strengthen the grandparent/ grandchild bond. You are going to love how Neil has worked hard to develop and maintain his relationships with his children, grandchildren, and now great-grandchildren. Neil shares with us a remarkable story of how he has been able to create and maintain a relationship with his ex-daughter-in-law. Neil's work in that relationship now enables him to remain an active grandfather in his nineteen-year-old granddaughter's life. We also talk about one of Neil's philosophies: to be a GOOD SEER and a GOOD SAYER. Simply put, this philosophy is centered on the principle that when you see something good in the world, say something about it. The good could be a great piece of street art or, as Neil shares, seeing a person with a charming piece of clothing. Neil belives that everyone from our youngest grandchild to older people we run into each wants and seeks out approval and complements. As a grandfather, Neil finds this a natural state for him to be in that doesn't cost anything but produces enormous returns for the person receiving the compliment. Links Use this link to visit Neil's webpage and check out the great work that he is doing over there: You can use this link to purchase Neil's book, Good to Great Grandparenting: This link will take you to Neil's new book, Caring Grandparents: You can watch this conversation on YouTube by clicking on this link: Here is the link to check out our good friend Dr. Kerry Byrne's The Long Distance Grandparent. I hope you join her group if it suits you and your needs. I like to hang out with this group when I can. This link will take you to Grandparent's Academy, a great resource for all grandparents. Neil and I are presenters/ faculty and enjoy connecting with grandparents over at that site as well.
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EP - 200 Four Years of Fun and Learning
09/20/2024
EP - 200 Four Years of Fun and Learning
In this episode, I am taking a victory lap with my good buddy, Steve Ownes, from the Fascination Street Podcast. In this fun conversation, Steve interviews me on my podcast. We discussed my motivations for starting this podcast and why I have kept this project going for over four years. Steve also talks to me about my children's book and where the heck the follow-up books are. We have a blast discussing the journies we have both been on, and we include some fascinating accounts of folks we have interviewed. I hope you enjoy this conversation. Please like and subscribe to the podcast if you haven't already done so. You can also check out both of us on YouTube. Links Here is the link to my first episode, my introduction to The Cool Grandpa Podcast: This is the link to my first interview with Cool Grandpa Dean Nielson: Use this link to watch this conversation over on YouTube: You can listen to my interview on Fascination Street with Steve Ownes using this link: Check out Steve's Podcast, Fascination Street, wherever you listen to podcasts. You can also check out his site by clicking on this link: Check out my Bookstore/Shop page for some cool merchandise that is perfect for the Cool Grandpa in your life:
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