The Cool Grandpa Podcast
This podcast is about the relationship between Grandfathers and their Grandchildren. We focus on interesting stories to understand and grow our own relationships. This is the perfect podcast to understand how important the role of Grandfather is to the lives of the Grandchildren and Family in general.
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Navigating Senior Living with Jeannie Duckworth EP - 249
01/09/2026
Navigating Senior Living with Jeannie Duckworth EP - 249
Summary: Choosing senior living for a loved one can feel overwhelming, emotional, and deeply personal. In this episode of The Cool Grandpa Podcast, I sit down with Jeannie Duckworth, co-founder of Blue Magnolia Senior Living Advisors, to unpack what families really need to know when navigating senior care options. Jeannie shares her journey into senior living, shaped by years of hands-on experience inside communities and a deep passion for advocacy. She explains that Blue Magnolia Senior Living Advisors was built to serve families first—offering free, personalized guidance while helping seniors find safe, supportive environments where they can truly thrive. Together, we explore: How families know when “it’s time” to consider senior living Common misconceptions about assisted living and memory care Why touring communities early can reduce stress and guilt The emotional side of transitions — for seniors and their families How the right environment can restore independence and dignity What grandparents and adult children should look for (and avoid) when choosing care This conversation is honest, practical, and deeply human — offering reassurance that no family has to navigate these decisions alone. Whether you’re a grandparent planning ahead or a family member supporting aging parents, this episode provides clarity, comfort, and confidence. Key Takeaways: Jeannie has a deep passion for working with seniors, stemming from her childhood experiences. Long-term care insurance is essential for everyone, regardless of income level. Personalized care is crucial in the senior living referral process. Families often struggle with communication regarding senior care decisions. Home care can be more expensive than assisted living options. Planning for senior care should start early to avoid last-minute decisions. Seniors want to maintain their independence and engage in activities they love. Jeannie emphasizes the importance of finding a community that fits the individual needs of seniors. Blue Magnolia Senior Living Advisors prioritize seniors' well-being over profit, ensuring they receive the best care. Links and other information: Click on this link to visit Blue Magnolia Senior Living Advisors: Jeannie's direct email is: To call Jeannie directly, you can use either phone number, 1-209-640-2433 (CA) or 1-615-806-1973 (TN) You can watch this fun conversation on YouTube by using this link: I would appreciate it if you could support the show. You can support the show through “Buy me a Coffee” and donate a few dollars by clicking () Here is a link to my webstore:
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Leadership Lessons from Santa Claus EP - 248
12/19/2025
Leadership Lessons from Santa Claus EP - 248
Show Notes: Santa Claus isn’t just a holiday icon—he’s a world-class leader. In this episode of The Cool Grandpa Podcast, I explore four powerful leadership traits modeled by Santa Claus and how grandparents, parents, and team leaders can apply them both at home and at work. Drawing from real-life experiences, generational insights, and leadership wisdom, this conversation reminds us that leadership is less about titles and more about vision, trust, consistency, and joyful service. Whether you’re guiding your family, leading a team at work, or mentoring others, these Santa-inspired leadership lessons offer a meaningful framework as we head into a new year. lead-like-santa Episode Highlights: 🎄 Trait 1: Vision Casting — Leading with Clarity and Hope Santa’s mission is simple and universally understood: spread joy, build connection, and create magic. I discuss how grandfathers can: Define a clear family vision Adapt traditions across generations Serve as an emotional anchor during the holidays And how leaders can: Re-state mission and purpose often Keep the “why” front and center Lead hard conversations with optimism, lead-like-santa 🎄 Trait 2: Empowering the Team — Trusting the Elves Santa trusts his elves with responsibility and autonomy. Applications include: Letting grandchildren participate and problem-solve Teaching skills, then stepping back Asking kids (and employees) for their ideas In the workplace: Delegating ownership Coaching instead of micromanaging Celebrating initiative and effort, like Santa 🎄 Trait 3: Consistency of Character — Always Showing Up Santa shows up the same way every year, without fail. I explore: Showing up for milestone moments Being emotionally consistent Maintaining rituals and traditions At work: Keeping your word Being predictable and steady Leading calmly through pressure and change, like Santa 🎄 Trait 4: Joyful Servant Leadership — Leading with Generosity Santa leads with joy, kindness, and service. This includes: Laughing often with grandchildren Entering their world Building connection through fun Professionally: Publicly celebrating wins Serving your team in practical ways Being generous with praise and encouragement leads like Santa Key Takeaways Leadership begins with clarity of vision Trust and empowerment build confidence at every age Consistency creates safety and credibility Joy and generosity are leadership multipliers Influence, heart, and presence matter more than perfection Links Click on this link to visit my online store:
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Grandparenting in the Roman Empire with Dr. Lisa Brunet EP - 247
12/05/2025
Grandparenting in the Roman Empire with Dr. Lisa Brunet EP - 247
Summary In this episode, I talk with historian Lisa Brunet, whose work explores the hidden world of grandparents in ancient Rome. Together, we unpack what grandparenting looked like 2,000 years ago—how elders shaped family identity, cared for young children, preserved memory through storytelling, and passed on family and cultural traditions. While grandmothers often stepped into hands-on roles, grandfathers frequently became the family's historians and memory keepers—sometimes proudly seeing themselves in a toddler learning to speak or scribble. Lisa explains how Roman law, marriage customs, early Christianity, and even mobility during empire expansion shaped what grandparenting meant—and how echoes of those patterns still exist today. This conversation bridges centuries to ask one simple question: What can modern grandparents learn from ancient ones? Lisa also shares updates on her upcoming two books, in which her research will continue to open windows into the emotional lives of ancient families. Takeaways Historically, people became grandparents at a younger age. Currently, individuals are older when they become grandparents. Grandfathers now spend almost 20 years with their grandchildren. The role of grandparents has evolved. The societal perception of aging is changing. Grandparents' ages influence family dynamics. Their grandparents' age shapes grandchildren's experience. Understanding these shifts can inform social policies. Links: Lisa's full thesis on Roman grandparents: Follow Lisa's work and publications on LinkedIn: Be sure to check out my store for fun and interesting gifts for you or the cool grandpa in your life. From now until January 22, all items in my bookstore are 30% off.
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Bonus Show - How Grandkids Stretch Us: Lessons from Dean Nielson
11/28/2025
Bonus Show - How Grandkids Stretch Us: Lessons from Dean Nielson
Show Notes You are going to enjoy listening to the very first interview that I did for The Cool Grandpa Podcast. This episode originally aired back in May of 2020. This conversation still resonates with me, my wife Karen, and many other listeners to the podcast. If you heard it before, I hope you enjoy it again. If this conversation is new to you, you will get a lot of wisdom from Dean. In this heartfelt, post-Thanksgiving episode, I sit down with longtime friend and seasoned grandfather Dean Nielson. Dean—a Lean Six Sigma project manager, Eagle Scout mentor, devoted husband, dad of four, and grandfather of six—shares powerful lessons about embracing grandparenthood with presence, patience, and purpose. Dean opens up about becoming a grandfather earlier than expected, and how that surprise launched emotional growth, healing, and a deeper appreciation for the influence grandfathers have in shaping young lives. He and I dig into the differences between granddaughters and grandsons, how kids naturally gravitate toward grandma or grandpa, and why grandfathers shouldn’t take those early patterns personally. Dean’s wisdom shines when he talks about doing it better the second time, including being more present, more patient, and more intentional than he sometimes was as a young dad. He shares simple but powerful stories—from building blanket forts to gently pushing kids beyond their comfort zones on the rope swing—that illustrate how grandfathers help grandchildren develop confidence, bravery, and emotional security. You’ll also hear a moving story about Dean’s own grandfather and how that relationship still impacts him today. This episode is packed with warmth, humor, and genuine grandpa insight—perfect for the day after Thanksgiving, when many of us are still surrounded by family and gratitude. Highlights The emotional surprise of becoming a grandparent earlier than planned How granddaughters and grandsons respond differently to Nana vs. Pop Why play is essential—especially for stretching confidence Lessons learned from raising kids that help us show up better as grandparents The importance of simple affirmations: “I love you,” “I’m proud of you,” “You’re beautiful.” A powerful legacy story from Dean’s grandfather Takeaways Grandparenting offers a “second chance” to be more present. Kids do listen—your words matter more than you think. Grandpas play a unique and important role in building confidence. Don’t compare your connection to grandma’s; each relationship is unique. Stretch grandkids gently—adventure builds courage. Links Don't forget to grab your 30% off discount in my . You can visit my bookstore using this link:
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Lead Like a Grandpa: The Heart-Centered Leadership Your Team Needs EP - 246
11/21/2025
Lead Like a Grandpa: The Heart-Centered Leadership Your Team Needs EP - 246
Summary In this solo episode, I explore how the natural strengths of intentional grandfathers — presence, curiosity, encouragement, patience, and wisdom — translate into powerful leadership skills in today's workplace. Using stories about Legos, pancakes, and real-life team challenges, Greg reframes proven leadership ideas from Dale Carnegie, John Maxwell, and Dan Miller into an accessible, heart-first approach he calls Grandpa Leadership. Listeners will learn how to build stronger connections with their teams, empower younger employees, guide people through mistakes, and cultivate loyalty by showing genuine care. I also introduce my three-part Grandpa Formula for Connection and share a weekly challenge to help leaders put these ideas into action. Key Takeaways Lead with presence, not pressure. Your team needs to feel seen, valued, and supported. Let people build "their ship." Encourage creativity and ownership instead of rigid compliance. Practice real curiosity. Ask questions that show you care about your people's work and dreams. Encouragement = fuel. A slight nod, a quick thank-you note, or celebrating tiny wins builds massive confidence. Loyalty follows care. People may not feel loyal to an organization these days, but they will be loyal to a leader who shows up for them. Be the calm center. Like a seasoned grandparent, bring steadiness, patience, and wisdom when stress hits. Guide people without taking over. Present options, help them think, and let them choose — that's how they grow. The Grandpa Formula for Connection Be Present Put the phone down. Give undivided attention. It builds trust instantly. Be Curious Ask about projects, challenges, and motivations. Curiosity creates belonging. Be Encouraging Praise progress, not perfection. Your encouragement becomes someone's confidence. Links and Resources Click to download your free copy of my . To listen to Dan Miller's interview about supporting grandchildren's creativity, click on this link: As always, you can watch this video on YouTube using this link: .
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Empowered Caregiving; with Renee Balcom EP - 245
11/14/2025
Empowered Caregiving; with Renee Balcom EP - 245
In this follow-up conversation, I welcome back healthcare advocate and tech CEO Renee Balcom to discuss how grandparents and families can take control of caregiving decisions before a crisis hits. Renee shares practical insights on avoiding common caregiving mistakes, understanding medical and legal authority, and how technology, such as her new platform, Scroll.care, is changing the way families find trustworthy care providers. We explore why planning for aging is not about fear—but about empowerment—and how grandparents can build a legacy of compassion, preparedness, and advocacy within their families. Key Takeaways: Why “responsibility without authority” is one of the biggest caregiving mistakes. How to use Scroll.care to find vetted care professionals in your area. The surprising age when children gain medical privacy rights (and what parents can do). How to navigate the healthcare system and communicate effectively with doctors. Why it’s time for grandparents to lead family discussions about care, aging, and health. Technology and AI can enhance (not replace) human connection in caregiving. People are often unprepared for the realities of aging and caregiving. Family caregivers often live in denial about aging loved ones. The importance of having structured conversations about aging and care. Legal authority is crucial for caregivers to make decisions. Understanding the difference between a power of attorney and a durable power of attorney is essential. A HIPAA release document is essential for accessing medical information. Care planning should prioritize the individual's needs and desires. Patients should feel empowered to ask questions and slow down treatment decisions. Culturally appropriate care is vital in healthcare services. Links Mentioned:
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Caring Grandparents Insights from Neil Taft EP - 244
11/07/2025
Caring Grandparents Insights from Neil Taft EP - 244
“Thou shalt honor the parents of your grandchildren. That’s the most effective way to build lasting family relationships.” — Neil Taft 🧩 Episode Summary In this heartfelt and insightful episode, I reconnect with author and grandparenting expert Neil Taft to explore the evolving role of grandparents in modern families. Neil shares insights from his newest book, Caring Grandparents, and explains how grandparents can both care about and care for their grandchildren. We discuss the emotional and financial realities of grandparents raising grandchildren, the importance of respecting family boundaries, and Neil’s viral TikTok moment that reached over 2 million people. His message — “Honor the parents of your grandchildren” — has become a mantra for building healthy, lasting family relationships. You will walk away with wisdom on communication, compassion, and the power of being a “good seer and good sayer.” 💡 Key Takeaways Grandparenting today means balancing love, support, and boundaries. “Caring Grandparents” highlights both caring for and about grandchildren. Over 2.5 million U.S. households are led by grandparents raising grandchildren. Neil’s viral message reminds us: “The mother is the queen who holds the keys to the castle.” Healthy grandparenting starts with empathy, communication, and affirmation. Being a “good seer and good sayer” transforms relationships across generations. 🔗 Links & Resources Click on this link to download your free copy of : 🖥️ Visit Neil’s website: 📚 Learn more about Neil’s books: Good to Great, Grandparenting & Caring Grandparents 🎧 Listen to previous episode: : Visit Dr. Kerry Byrnes' group at Check out Aaron Larson's community at: Of course, you're going to want to find Popa Jammie, aka James Lott Jr., on his YouTube channel using this link: You can watch this conversation with me and Neil on YouTube by using this link: 🌐 Follow The Cool Grandpa Podcast:
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Millennial Grandparents; Insights From James Lott Jr. - EP 243
10/31/2025
Millennial Grandparents; Insights From James Lott Jr. - EP 243
I welcome back longtime friend and repeat guest Dr. James Lott Jr., host of to discuss the rise of millennial grandparents and how shifting generational dynamics are reshaping modern family life. Together, we unpack everything from Millennials' and Gen Z’s futures as grandparents to how technology, social media, and evolving family structures have changed what it means to be a grandparent today. The discussion is full of humor, honesty, and insight — a lively cross-generational conversation about love, legacy, and laughter. Highlights: Why millennials are redefining what “young grandparent” means. The role of technology and social media in shaping modern family life. How Gen X’s “latchkey kid” experience impacts their grandparenting style. Why millennial and Gen Z grandparents may raise kids with less stigma and more openness. The growing visibility of grandfathers in modern families. What multi-generational households tell us about the future of family. The importance of humor, patience, and presence in every generation Links and Resources: Here are the links to James Lott Junior's YouTube channel: Click to visit the Caring Grandparents website. Here is the link to James's blog about becoming the last living grandparent. It is titled, : Click on this link to check out Ted Page's book, Good Grandpa:
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After Work: Redefining Retirement with Don Akchin EP - 242
10/24/2025
After Work: Redefining Retirement with Don Akchin EP - 242
In this episode of The Cool Grandpa Podcast, I sit down again with author and creative thinker Don Akchin to talk about his new book, . Don challenges the old idea of retirement as “the end” and redefines it as the beginning of a new and vibrant stage of life. Together, we explore how today’s retirees—especially men—can rediscover purpose, creativity, and connection after their careers wind down. In this conversation, you’ll hear insights from Don about: Why the old version of retirement no longer fits today’s longer, healthier lives The “fragile decade” — the five years before and after leaving work Rediscovering passions left behind for career and family Volunteering, mentoring, and giving back through experience Finding new social connections and combating isolation The rise of retirement coaches and the emotional side of retirement planning How creativity, curiosity, and flexibility lead to fulfillment in later years Don also shares his personal story of rediscovering his creative spark through writing—and how After Work came to life. This is a thoughtful, funny, and deeply encouraging episode for anyone approaching or already living their “after-work” life. Takeaways: Retirement is not the end, but a new beginning. Many struggle with identity after leaving their careers. It's important to explore new passions and hobbies post-retirement. Planning for retirement should include emotional and psychological aspects. Creativity can flourish in later life if nurtured. Volunteering provides a sense of purpose and community. Legacy is about the example we set for future generations. Finding purpose is crucial for a fulfilling after-work life. Social connections are vital for health and longevity. Lifelong learning keeps the mind engaged and curious. Links: 🌐 — Learn more about Don’s work, his Substack The End Game, and his book After Work. You can use this link to listen to Don's first appearance on the podcast. His episode is called "" You can also watch this conversation on YouTube by clicking .
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Reductive Art and the Grandparenting Journey - EP 241
10/17/2025
Reductive Art and the Grandparenting Journey - EP 241
Summary In this episode, we explore the intersection of grandparenting and art, particularly focusing on the concept of reductive art. Drawing inspiration from John Maxwell's leadership principles, I explore how genuine influence isn't about adding more—it's about gently removing what doesn't belong, thereby revealing the beauty and potential already within our children. Through the metaphor of carving, I explore how grandparents can shape their grandchildren's development by employing tools like patience, perspective, encouragement, and presence. Our conversation culminates in the idea of legacy and the art of letting go, allowing grandchildren to shine. Be sure to let me know which tool, patience, perspective, encouragement, or presence YOU are going to sharpen a little more in the coming weeks. Links Click to listen to the fantastic episode I recorded with world-renowned artist, Rodney Hopkins. We discuss wood carving and his grandfather, who lived in the Appalachian Mountains of Virginia. Check out Dark Hollow Woodworking on Facebook by using this link: Here is the link to my good friend, Neil Taft's organization, Caring Grandparents: Click to visit the .
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Instilling Work Ethic in Grandchildren - EP 240
10/12/2025
Instilling Work Ethic in Grandchildren - EP 240
In this episode of The Cool Grandpa Podcast, I dive into one of the most valuable lessons a grandfather can pass down — a strong work ethic. From small chores to big projects, grandfathers have a unique opportunity to model what it means to start, stick with, and finish a job with pride. I share personal stories, practical ideas, and real-world ways to teach grandkids about responsibility, perseverance, and follow-through. You’ll hear how everyday activities — from raking leaves to building a birdhouse — can become powerful lessons in character and commitment. Whether you’re a hands-on project grandpa or a storytelling mentor, this episode will help you inspire your grandkids to value effort, own their actions, and feel the satisfaction of a job well done. Takeaways A work ethic is essential for making a lasting impact on grandchildren. Teaching work ethic involves commitment, responsibility, and pride. Involving grandchildren in chores helps them learn independence. Narrating tasks while working with grandchildren reinforces learning. Work ethic is about character, not just completing chores. Sharing personal experiences can help grandchildren understand the importance of a work ethic. Encouraging ownership of small projects fosters responsibility. Reflective questions can help children learn from their experiences. Modeling good work habits is crucial for teaching kids. Resources are available to help grandparents teach work ethic. Links
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Welcome Back and Three Ways to Connect With YOUR Grandchildren EP - 239
10/03/2025
Welcome Back and Three Ways to Connect With YOUR Grandchildren EP - 239
In this episode of The Cool Grandpa Podcast, I return after a short break to share powerful tools grandparents can use to connect deeply with their grandchildren. I talk openly about my own journey over the past year — from navigating career changes and health challenges to stepping into a new role as a special education teacher. With those experiences, I'd like to introduce a practical worksheet designed to spark meaningful conversations with grandchildren. The episode explores three simple but profound questions: How would people describe you if you left the room? How do you WANT people to describe you? What do you want to be doing in five years? I explain how grandparents can guide kids (and even adult children) through these prompts in age-appropriate ways, helping them discover their identity, build confidence, and set meaningful goals. I also believe that these simple yet powerful questions can help intentional grandparents and parents become an "accountability coach" without being intrusive — keeping our cherished conversations supportive, fun, and impactful. Whether you see your grandchildren every week or connect mostly by phone or video, this episode provides a simple framework to nurture strong relationships and help your grandkids envision their future. Resources Mentioned: Ted Page's Our conversation with Ted can be found using this link: Worksheet download (available in show notes on cool-grandpa.us)
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Understanding the Fourth Trimester with Sarah Trott - EP 238
07/11/2025
Understanding the Fourth Trimester with Sarah Trott - EP 238
In this insightful episode of The Cool Grandpa Podcast, I sit down with Sarah Trott, founder of the Fourth Trimester Podcast and creator of the Hello Gaia app. Together, we unpack how grandfathers can be a vital and compassionate part of the postpartum experience. From the importance of emotional support and boundary-setting to the practical ways grandpas can show up—like folding laundry, running the vacuum, or simply asking, "How are you, really?"—this episode empowers grandfathers to rethink their role in early parenthood. Sarah also shares the evolution of postpartum care, explains what the fourth trimester means, and discusses how her app, Hello Gaia, and podcast provide trustworthy, vetted information for new and expecting families. Whether you're about to become a grandfather for the first time or want to support your adult children better, this episode is packed with timely wisdom, resources, and empathy. Takeaways Grandfathers should be more involved in supporting new parents. The fourth trimester is crucial for both the baby and parents. Open communication between grandparents and parents is essential. Avoid showing up unannounced to support new parents. Postpartum depression affects one in five women and one in ten dads. It's okay for new parents to let their house go a little. Practical help, like cleaning, is valuable for new parents. Social media can create unrealistic expectations for new parents. Building trust through consistent support is key for grandparents. Resources, such as guides and apps, can help grandparents support new parents. 🔗 Resources Mentioned: Click on this Link to watch this conversation on YouTube: .
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Reading and Changing Futures with: Sean Webb - EP 237
07/03/2025
Reading and Changing Futures with: Sean Webb - EP 237
In this powerful episode of The Cool Grandpa Podcast, I chat with Sean Webb, the Executive Director of Read With Me Volunteer Programs, based in California's Coachella Valley. Sean shares how over 600 volunteers—many of them retirees—are making an incredible impact by reading with children who are English language learners and often two to three years behind in literacy. With warmth and insight, Sean explains how volunteers provide not just academic support but a vital human connection for students, often becoming the "one more caring adult" that kids need. From overcoming challenges at home to improving reading comprehension and building confidence, these volunteers are changing lives—and getting just as much in return. We also learn about: The process to become a volunteer Why literacy by the 5th grade is critical How culture and kindness bridge generational divides A moving story about a student who became an English teacher thanks to her 3rd-grade volunteer mentor The surprising number of nonprofits in the Coachella Valley Why "books don't run out of batteries" Whether you're considering volunteering or want to gain a deeper understanding of the power of literacy, this episode offers inspiration and practical guidance on making a positive impact in your community. 🎧 Tune in and discover how something as simple as reading together can shape futures—one child at a time. Links and Resources Mentioned: 🌐 You can watch this video on YouTube by using this link:
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The Magic of Grandparenting with Allan Kronzek - EP 236
06/27/2025
The Magic of Grandparenting with Allan Kronzek - EP 236
In this episode of The Cool Grandpa Podcast, Greg chats with acclaimed magician and author Allan Kronzek. Allan shares the inspiration behind his book, Grandpa Magic, and how simple, playful magic tricks can help grandfathers create lasting connections with their grandchildren. Allan explains how magic is a tool for engagement, wonder, and even mentorship. Whether you’re performing napkin bunnies for toddlers or mind-reading acts with teens, there’s a trick for every age and ability. He also dives into how magic supports critical thinking, imagination, and intergenerational bonding. Listeners will discover: The origin story behind Grandpa Magic Why magic can bridge generational gaps The psychology behind believers and skeptics How to tailor magic tricks to different age groups The empowering effect of teaching kids magic Tips for getting started with magic as a grandparent—even if you’ve never done it before 🧙♂️ Learn why magic isn’t just about tricks—it’s about connecting, engaging, and inspiring. 🔗 Links and Resources: Visit Allan’s website: Find Grandpa Magic on Watch the Adventures of Ronnie the Rubber Band on You can watch our conversation on YouTube by using this link:
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Inside the Mind of a Pregnant Father with Dr. Ed Stephens - EP 235
06/20/2025
Inside the Mind of a Pregnant Father with Dr. Ed Stephens - EP 235
In this powerful follow-up episode, Dr. Ed Stephens returns to The Cool Grandpa Podcast to continue his candid conversation about men's emotional responses to pregnancy, birth, and fatherhood. Greg and Ed dive deep into the often-overlooked realities of paternal depression, miscarriages, and the emotional toll that fathers quietly carry during these life-changing moments. Dr. Stephens shares personal and professional insights from his decades as a psychiatrist, as well as his own experiences as a father and grandfather. From understanding "peripartum depression" in men to reclaiming the vital role of grandfathers as emotional mentors, this episode challenges traditional silence and urges a new wave of male support, reflection, and storytelling. 🔑 Key Takeaways: Paternal Postpartum is Real: Men often experience emotional upheaval during and after a partner's pregnancy, sometimes delayed by months or even years. Isolation is a Hidden Struggle: Many fathers face loneliness and internalized stress without support networks or spaces to process their feelings. Grandfathers Matter: Elders can profoundly impact their sons and sons-in-law by openly sharing their own experiences of fatherhood and struggles. Emotional Health ≠ Weakness: Recognizing emotional responses doesn't diminish masculinity—it deepens connection and fosters a lasting legacy. Therapeutic Gaps Exist: There's a critical need for more male therapists and a broader understanding of how men express emotional pain. The Foundation for Male Studies: Dr. Stephens advocates for systemic recognition of men's mental health and provides valuable resources through Links Here is the link for the first conversation that I had with Dr. Ed Stephens: You can watch this conversation on YouTube by using this link: . Check out my one-of-a-kind grandfather assessment and let me know where you are with your relationships: Be sure to check out my merchandise page; there is some very cool stuff for grandpas:
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Legacy & Networking: Wisdom from George Dubec - EP 234
06/13/2025
Legacy & Networking: Wisdom from George Dubec - EP 234
In this episode of the Cool Grandpa podcast, Greg Payne and George Dubec discuss the evolving roles of grandparents, family values, and the changing landscape of relationships and parenting. They reflect on their own childhood experiences, the importance of family structure, and the lessons learned from their grandparents. The conversation also touches on the impact of societal changes on marriage and dating, as well as George's transition from engineering to networking and personal development. In this conversation, George Dubec shares insights on the realities of motivational speaking, the importance of skill training over inspiration, and the value of self-assessment and performance tracking. He emphasizes the role of grandparents in engaging with their grandchildren and building networks for future generations. The discussion also addresses the challenges of modern networking. It explores creative strategies for maintaining connections, including the effective use of technology and personal databases. Plus, hear about: His "Love List" strategy that led to a 45-year marriage The truth behind motivational speakers How to teach kids networking in a disconnected world Building a legacy through small acts of connection Whether you're a grandparent or just someone who values relationships and legacy, this is an episode full of insight, laughter, and heart. Links 🔗 Visit George's site: You can watch this conversation on YouTube by using this link: Here is YOUR copy of the Grandfather Assessment:
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Good Grandpa: Ted Page's Journey from Blog to Book - EP 233
06/06/2025
Good Grandpa: Ted Page's Journey from Blog to Book - EP 233
In this episode of the Cool Grandpa podcast, Ted Page discusses his journey in writing the Good Grandpa book, inspired by the stories and experiences of grandfathers he encountered through his blog. He emphasizes the importance of storytelling, the role of grandfathers in nurturing future generations, and the wisdom shared by various leaders, including the Dalai Lama. The conversation highlights the significance of active compassion and the impact of grandfathers in instilling values and life lessons in their grandchildren. In this conversation, Ted Page shares insights from his journey as a grandfather, as well as the lessons he has learned from interviewing veterans and other grandfathers. The discussion emphasizes the importance of kindness, personal growth, and the wisdom that can be passed down through generations. Ted reflects on how his experiences have shaped his outlook on life and the significance of community and resilience in navigating challenges. The conversation also explores the spiritual growth that comes from connecting with others and the pursuit of truth in our lives. About the Book: Good Grandpa is a collection of personal anecdotes, interviews, and reflections offering a rich tapestry of modern grandfatherhood. Pre-order now wherever books are sold. Distributed by Simon & Schuster. 🔗 Links & Resources: Ted Page's blog: Pre-order Good Grandpa: Available on or the Previous episode with Ted Page: Watch this conversation on YouTube: 📣 Get Involved: Ted wants to hear your stories! Share your wisdom or reflections on the Good Grandpa blog contact page.
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Helping Grandkids Graduate Without Debt With Jeannie Burlowski - EP 232
05/30/2025
Helping Grandkids Graduate Without Debt With Jeannie Burlowski - EP 232
In this episode of the Cool Grandpa podcast, Jeannie Burlowski discusses how grandparents can effectively support their grandchildren's college finances. She emphasizes the importance of creative strategies for college savings, the impact of personal letters from grandparents, and the significance of career assessments in guiding students toward debt-free education. The conversation highlights practical steps grandparents can take to leave a lasting legacy and ensure their grandchildren's success in higher education. In this conversation, Jeannie Burlowski shares insights on how grandparents can play a pivotal role in helping their grandchildren navigate the complexities of education and career planning. She discusses the importance of strengths assessments, innovative scholarship strategies, and the pitfalls of relying solely on financial aid. Jeannie emphasizes the need for early career planning and shares success stories of students who have graduated debt-free. Additionally, she highlights the benefits of utilizing 529 plans and Roth IRAs. She introduces the FIRE movement as a pathway to financial independence. 🎯 What You'll Learn: Why a heartfelt letter and a $20 college contribution can mean more than the latest toy How 529 college savings plans can be used meaningfully — and what to do with leftover funds Why career assessments at age 15 can shape lifelong success Creative alternatives to scholarships and financial aid that reduce college costs How grandparents can lead the charge with strategic planning (even if the parents are overwhelmed) Jeannie also shares success stories from families that have used her advice to graduate with zero debt—and, in some cases, money in the bank. Whether you're a grandparent looking to make a difference or a parent hoping to lighten the load, this episode delivers practical steps and emotional resonance. 🧡 Highlight Quote: "The message matters more than the money — you're saying to your grandchild: You are worth investing in." — Jeannie Burlowski 🛠 Resources & Links: 📘 Launch: How to Get Your Kids Through College Debt-Free and Into Jobs They Love Afterward ➤ 🌐 Free Monday Newsletter & Tribe Membership ➤ Sign up here: 🎥 Watch Jeannie's age-specific 10-minute strategy videos: ➤ 📚 Article: Why You Might Want to Talk Your Kid Out of the Ivy League ➤ Google: "Burlowski Out of Ivy League" 📖 Recommended Reading: ➤ The Simple Path to Wealth by JL Collins ➤ FIRE (Financial Independence Retire Early) Movement on Facebook
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Understanding Men's Mental Health with Dr. Ed Stephens - EP 231
05/23/2025
Understanding Men's Mental Health with Dr. Ed Stephens - EP 231
In this episode, I speak with Dr. Ed Stephens about the evolving roles of fathers and grandfathers today. Dr. Stephens shares his deeply personal journey from corporate success to becoming a spiritual guide for men seeking purpose, presence, and legacy in their families. Key topics include: The power of authentic, present fathering How men transition into the grandfather role with impact Dr. Stephens' journey to founding Heart of the Father Studio How faith and mentorship build lasting generational change The unique influence grandfathers have on young men Whether you're a father, grandfather, or mentor, this conversation offers insights to help you lead with purpose, heart, and faith. 🔗 Links The Foundation for Male Studies Website: Postpartum Support International (PSI) Website: Dr. Stephens mentioned that this organization will highlight his "Bringing the Father Into Pregnancy" questionnaire. CTA: Discover resources and research on mental health for mothers and fathers. You can watch this conversation on YouTube by using this link:
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Pulp, Prayer, and Plot Twists: Inside Jack LaFountain's World - EP 230
05/16/2025
Pulp, Prayer, and Plot Twists: Inside Jack LaFountain's World - EP 230
In this engaging conversation, Jack LaFountain shares his unique journey to becoming an author later in life, reflecting on his diverse experiences from military service to nursing and ministry. He discusses the joys and surprises of becoming a grandfather, the challenges of maintaining family relationships over distances, and the creative inspiration he draws from his family, particularly his grandson Brian. Jack elaborates on his writing process, the evolution of his book series, and the themes that resonate throughout his work, including the Man of God series, which offers a fresh take on the Western genre. He also touches on the influence of his childhood and local history on his storytelling. In our conversation, Jack shares his love for classic B-Sci-Fi movies and discusses how they influenced his writing. He delves into his writing process, distinguishing between 'pantsers' and 'plotters', and shares insights on character-driven storytelling. Jack also reflects on the challenges of maintaining consistency in supernatural narratives and the importance of satisfying endings in literature. As a proud grandfather, he expresses the joys and challenges of this role while also providing listeners with information on where to find his work. What You'll Learn: How Jack transitioned from military service and nursing to full-time writing The touching story of how his grandson inspired a novel trilogy The difference between "pantsers" and "plotters" in writing Behind-the-scenes insights into his Moon Series, Man of God Series, and Red River Death Series How being a grandfather continues to influence his work Links & Resources: 🔗 📚 🎧 📘 Facebook: You can watch this conversation on YouTube by using this link: https://youtu.be/sBRXfLD9TdA
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Break the Bottle: Lessons from a Grandson, Marine, and Leader
05/09/2025
Break the Bottle: Lessons from a Grandson, Marine, and Leader
In this powerful and heartfelt episode, I sit down with Michael Allison, a Marine veteran, author, and founder of the Adversity Academy, to explore a journey shaped by hardship, legacy, and purpose. From growing up in the rough neighborhoods of Miami after immigrating from Jamaica to becoming a decorated Marine and now a leadership coach, Michael shares how his two grandfathers—both named Vincent—influenced his values and resilience. Listeners will hear how formative life experiences, including time in Fallujah and setbacks in high school football, became catalysts for leadership growth. Michael shares the life-and-death moments that defined his military service and the deep mentorship that helped him evolve. He also explains how he now helps others through speaking and training programs that foster identity, purpose, and organizational strength. 🧠 Key Takeaways: The importance of legacy and storytelling across generations How to extract purpose from pain What "dark work" means and how it shapes real leaders. The impact of servant leadership in high-stakes environments Why leadership development must exist at every organizational level Building trust, especially with team members who feel undervalued The transition from military service to entrepreneurship Links Website: Leadership Training: Email: mallison@theadversityacademy.com Instagram: You can watch this conversation on YouTube by using this link:
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Writing For Legacy, A Grandfather's Perspective With Kevin Hall - EP 228
05/02/2025
Writing For Legacy, A Grandfather's Perspective With Kevin Hall - EP 228
I welcome Kevin Hall to The Cool Grandpa Podcast for a powerful and entertaining conversation on legacy, storytelling, and life after retirement. Kevin opens up about his 49-year marriage, raising a family, and how becoming a grandfather inspired him to write personal memoirs that turned into a published series of books. You’ll hear about: How telling stories to grandkids sparked Kevin’s writing career His transition from corporate life to creative writing How he self-published and marketed multiple books without a big budget Tips for grandparents on preserving memories through writing or video Kevin’s thoughts on AI, history, spiritual storytelling, and leaving a legacy This episode is packed with laughs, life lessons, and practical advice for anyone looking to write their own family stories. Links Use this link to view Kevin's website: Here is the link to Publisher Rocket: You can watch this conversation on YouTube by clicking on this link:
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Navigating Grandfatherhood and Midlife Career Moves with Mark Aylward - EP 227
04/18/2025
Navigating Grandfatherhood and Midlife Career Moves with Mark Aylward - EP 227
In this heartfelt and candid episode, I sit down with career coach, entrepreneur, and proud grandfather Mark Aylward. They dive into the complexities of becoming a grandfather under unexpected circumstances, the power of simply "showing up," and how intentional presence can transform relationships. Mark also shares powerful insights from his decades-long career in IT recruitment, his transition into career coaching, and his mission to help midlife professionals reclaim Clarity, confidence, and courage. Expect real talk, big laughs, and memorable moments—from vocabulary lessons with his grandson to a great story of a friend calling NBA executives pretending to be Larry Bird. Whether you're navigating grandparenthood or a late-career pivot, this episode offers something valuable and inspiring. 🔑 Key Topics & Takeaways: The surprise and beauty of becoming a grandfather at 17 Supporting a son through addiction and young fatherhood The importance of presence and modeling for children and grandchildren Tree climbing and gratitude: bonding through simple routines The broken hiring process and how to bypass the gatekeepers Why confidence is often the missing piece in career transitions Helping professionals in their 50s+ rediscover purpose and direction The art of storytelling in job interviews and career branding Why asking "What do you mean by that?" unlocks absolute Clarity. Embracing the role of a grandparent without overstepping boundaries Links – Website, coaching info, and newsletter – Real talk for men in midlife Use this link to book Mark's Free 30-Minute Coaching Call:
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Support Networks for New Parents with Jane Honikman - EP 226
04/11/2025
Support Networks for New Parents with Jane Honikman - EP 226
In this episode, Jane Honikman and I discuss the evolving role of fathers and grandfathers in parenting, particularly in the context of postpartum support. We explore the importance of emotional wellness, communication, and social support in navigating the challenges of parenthood. Our conversation highlights cultural shifts in parenting dynamics, the impact of generational perspectives, and the need for open discussions about mental health. Jane emphasizes the significance of understanding family history and traditions while advocating for a supportive environment for new parents. Key Takeaways: The significance of peer support for new mothers. How societal expectations impact maternal mental health. The role of fathers and families in providing support. Advocacy efforts that have shaped postpartum care services. Actionable steps for building community-based maternal support. Links: You can listen to my first discussion with Jane about postpartum at this link: Check out Jane's website at: Click on this link to order your copy of Parental Mental Health: Factoring in Fathers: You can watch this interview on YouTube by using this link:
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Keeping the Connection: Avoiding Common Grandparenting Pitfalls - EP 225
04/04/2025
Keeping the Connection: Avoiding Common Grandparenting Pitfalls - EP 225
In this episode of The Cool Grandpa Podcast, I discuss the challenges of maintaining strong relationships with adult children and grandchildren. I discuss the common mistakes grandparents make—disrespecting parenting choices, giving gifts with hidden expectations, ignoring family schedules, or arguing in front of the grandkids. By recognizing these issues, grandparents can foster a more positive and lasting connection with their families. I also highlight insights from experts like DeeDee Moore (More Than Grand) and Dr. Kerry Byrne (The Long Distance Grandparents) on mending strained relationships. If you're looking for ways to improve communication and respect with your family, this episode is a must-listen! Key Takeaways: ✅ Respect your adult children's choices, even when they differ from your own. ✅ Be mindful of how and why you give gifts to grandchildren. ✅ Honor family schedules and avoid unplanned visits that add stress. ✅ Avoid arguing in front of grandkids—it impacts how they see family relationships. ✅ Self-reflect before assuming the problem is one-sided. Next Week's Episode: Join us next week as I sit down with Jane Honikman to discuss Support Systems for Postpartum Depression—an insightful conversation on how families can better support new mothers Links Use this link to explore The Long Distance Grandparent: To check out More Than Grand, use this link: You can watch this episode on YouTube by using this link: .
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Unlocking Confidence: Public Speaking, Music, & Growth with Adam Cole - EP 224
03/28/2025
Unlocking Confidence: Public Speaking, Music, & Growth with Adam Cole - EP 224
In this episode, I sit down with Adam Cole, a jazz musician, educator, author, and confidence coach. Adam shares his fascinating journey from performing jazz and teaching music to becoming a sought-after confidence coach. He discusses the different phases of life and how we can reinvent ourselves. We also discuss how confidence is crucial in public speaking, music, and professional growth and how Adam gets his clients over the hump and into a space where they can effectively share their message with the right audience. Topics covered include: ✔️ Overcoming stage fright & performance anxiety ✔️ Transitioning careers & finding new passions ✔️ The power of mentorship & self-awareness ✔️ The Feldenkrais Method & body awareness for confidence ✔️ Starting a side hustle and breaking through self-doubt Whether you want to grow personally or professionally, this episode offers wisdom on embracing change, building confidence, and stepping into new challenges. Links Connect with Adam Cole: 🌐 Website: or 📺 YouTube: 🎶 Piano Lessons & Coaching: Available in-person (Atlanta) or via Zoom You can also watch this conversation on YouTube by using this link: Upcoming Event: 🎤 Billy Joel Sing-Along Concert – March 29, 4 PM @ First Christian Church of Decatur, Atlanta. Don't miss it!
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The Evolving Role of Grandfathers - EP 223
03/21/2025
The Evolving Role of Grandfathers - EP 223
In this engaging episode of The Cool Grandpa Podcast, I sit down with writer and grandfather Don Akchin for a thoughtful discussion on modern grandfathering. We explore the evolving role of grandfathers, the joys and challenges of connecting with grandchildren, and how today's granddads are breaking past generational stereotypes. Don shares personal stories about his grandchildren, his love for writing, and the importance of staying active and engaged post-retirement. Key Topics Discussed: Don's initial reaction to becoming a grandfather The joys of having grandchildren nearby and developing special bonds Creating unique traditions, including writing mentorship with his granddaughter The generational shift in grandparenting roles How men today are embracing a more engaged and nurturing grandfather role Don's writing journey, including The End Game newsletter on aging and retirement The importance of continuous learning, personal growth, and adapting in later years Advice for new and soon-to-be grandfathers: the power of listening and being present Links You can sign up for the End Game newsletter by using this link: Books & authors mentioned , , and .
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Vietnam Uncensored: A Veteran's Journey with Jerry Glazer - EP 222
03/14/2025
Vietnam Uncensored: A Veteran's Journey with Jerry Glazer - EP 222
Vietnam veteran and author Jerry Glazer joins me in this compelling episode. Jerry shares his remarkable journey from being drafted into the U.S. Army, going through grueling training, and serving in one of the most harrowing conflicts in American history. He reflects on his experiences, the challenges of military service, and the deep brotherhood forged in war. Jerry also discusses his book, Vietnam Uncensored: 365 Days in a Nightmare, which provides a firsthand account of his time in combat and the historical context behind the Vietnam War. His candid storytelling takes listeners through his battles, the impact of PTSD, and the lessons he learned about resilience, leadership, and sacrifice. Additionally, Jerry talks about the importance of veterans documenting their stories, the need for ongoing support for those who served, and his work with The Kauffman Fund, an organization dedicated to helping veterans in need. Key Topics Discussed: Jerry's journey from college to the Vietnam War His decision to serve despite having an opportunity to avoid the draft The intense physical and mental challenges of military training His experiences as part of an airborne and ranger-trained unit The reality of combat and its lasting impact on soldiers The brotherhood among soldiers and the sacrifices made The historical and political complexities of the Vietnam War The long-term effects of war, including PTSD and reintegration into civilian life The importance of veterans sharing their stories How proceeds from Jerry's book are supporting The Kauffman Fund Resources & Links: Jerry's Book: Vietnam Uncensored: 365 Days in a Nightmare – Available on Jerry's Website: The Kauffman Fund: You can watch this conversation on YouTube at Support & Subscribe: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform. Don't forget to share this episode with a
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Show and Share: Teaching Life Lessons as a Cool Grandpa - EP 221
03/07/2025
Show and Share: Teaching Life Lessons as a Cool Grandpa - EP 221
In this episode, I discuss the importance of sharing life skills with grandchildren and creative ways to teach them essential lessons. I reflect on personal experiences with my father and how small, everyday moments can provide invaluable learning opportunities for grandkids. What You'll Learn in This Episode: The power of showing and sharing life skills instead of just telling. How can travel experiences teach kids practical skills, from navigating an airport to problem-solving on the go? The benefits of bringing grandkids to meetings and social gatherings to expose them to real-world interactions. Discussing money and financial responsibility in a fun and engaging way can help set them up for success. Practical ways to turn everyday moments into learning opportunities. Join the Conversation! How do you share life skills with your grandkids? Leave a comment or connect with Greg on social media. 🔗 Follow on Social Media: Facebook: @CoolGrandpaPodcast LinkedIn: Greg Payne 🎧 Subscribe & Stay Cool! Don't miss an episode! Subscribe to The Cool Grandpa Podcast on your favorite streaming platform. Links Read my latest guest blog: "From Grandpa's Heart – Four Things to Say to Encourage Your Granddaughter" at: You can listen to and watch John Fogerty's classic song, Centerfield, by using this link: .
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