Inside the Mind of a Pregnant Father with Dr. Ed Stephens - EP 235
Release Date: 06/20/2025
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info_outlineIn this powerful follow-up episode, Dr. Ed Stephens returns to The Cool Grandpa Podcast to continue his candid conversation about men's emotional responses to pregnancy, birth, and fatherhood. Greg and Ed dive deep into the often-overlooked realities of paternal depression, miscarriages, and the emotional toll that fathers quietly carry during these life-changing moments.
Dr. Stephens shares personal and professional insights from his decades as a psychiatrist, as well as his own experiences as a father and grandfather. From understanding "peripartum depression" in men to reclaiming the vital role of grandfathers as emotional mentors, this episode challenges traditional silence and urges a new wave of male support, reflection, and storytelling.
🔑 Key Takeaways:
- Paternal Postpartum is Real: Men often experience emotional upheaval during and after a partner's pregnancy, sometimes delayed by months or even years.
- Isolation is a Hidden Struggle: Many fathers face loneliness and internalized stress without support networks or spaces to process their feelings.
- Grandfathers Matter: Elders can profoundly impact their sons and sons-in-law by openly sharing their own experiences of fatherhood and struggles.
- Emotional Health ≠Weakness: Recognizing emotional responses doesn't diminish masculinity—it deepens connection and fosters a lasting legacy.
- Therapeutic Gaps Exist: There's a critical need for more male therapists and a broader understanding of how men express emotional pain.
The Foundation for Male Studies: Dr. Stephens advocates for systemic recognition of men's mental health and provides valuable resources through MaleStudies.org
Links
- Foundation for Male Studies
- Here is the link for the first conversation that I had with Dr. Ed Stephens: https://cool-grandpa.us/2025/05/22/understanding-mens-mental-health-with-dr-ed-stephens-ep-231/
- You can watch this conversation on YouTube by using this link: https://youtu.be/_rHvq9dZLuQ.
- Check out my one-of-a-kind grandfather assessment and let me know where you are with your relationships: https://cool-grandpa.us/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/The-Cool-Grandpa-Engagement-Assessment.pdf
- Be sure to check out my merchandise page; there is some very cool stuff for grandpas: https://cool-grandpa.us/shop/