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114: Say. Do. Achieve. The Power of Language, Mindset, and Marriage with Thomas Blackwell

Release Date: 04/15/2025

121. 5 Fitness Lies We Believed (So You Don’t Have To)

Marriage Fit

Episode Summary We’ve been in the fitness world for over two decades, and we’ve heard just about every myth, fad, and gimmick out there. But there are 5 lies we believed ourselves (and see over and over again) that are still keeping people stuck not just in their fitness, but in their confidence, consistency, and connection. In this episode of Marriage Fit, we unpack those lies and share the real truths that actually lead to results in your body and in your relationship. What We Cover: Why “No Pain, No Gain” is a fast track to burnout, not results ...

120. The New Definition of Fit: How You Show Up in Life, Not Just the Gym

Marriage Fit

Episode Summary What if fitness had less to do with how you look — and everything to do with how you show up? In this episode of Marriage Fit, Chris and Annie break down why being “fit” isn’t just about gym reps and macros. It’s about life reps: showing up with focus, intention, and teamwork in your marriage, parenting, and personal growth. You don’t need a six-pack to be a strong partner — you just need to keep stepping into who you want to become. In This Episode, We Cover: Why the old definition of “fit” is failing couples Our...

119. When’s the Best Time to Work Out? Pros, Cons & Real Talk

Marriage Fit

Episode Summary: Ever wonder when the best time is to work out? Morning? Lunch? After work? Weekends? In this episode, Chris and Annie break down the pros and cons of each workout window — and help you figure out what time actually works for you. Whether you're a 5AM riser, a lunch-break hustler, or a weekend warrior, this episode will help you get honest about your schedule, energy, and goals. They also share real stories from marriage, gym life, and parenting to help you and your partner build fitness consistency together. What You’ll Hear in This...

118. The Real Dad Bod: 9 Traits Every Dad Needs (That Have Nothing to Do With Abs)

Marriage Fit

Episode Summary: The world tells dads to fight the “dad bod” with crunches and protein shakes. But the real battle isn’t against belly fat — it’s against passivity, disconnection, and drifting identity. In this special Father’s Day episode, Chris and Annie break down 11 traits that define a strong father, using insights from Mind Pump’s Fatherhood Episode and Dan Martell’s character-first leadership list. These traits go way deeper than fitness. They shape how you lead your family, support your marriage, and show up for yourself — mentally,...

117: Let’s Be Honest: Top 5 Fitness Excuses (and What to Do Instead)

Marriage Fit

Episode Title: “Let’s Be Honest: Top 5 Fitness Excuses (and What to Do Instead)” Episode Summary: We all make excuses — even us. But in this episode, we’re calling them out. From “I don’t have time” to “I’ll start Monday,” we’re breaking down the most common excuses people use to delay their health and fitness goals. Chris and Annie share real stories from marriage, gym life, and client experiences — plus practical mindset flips to help you break free from the patterns that are holding you back. Whether it’s about working out, staying accountable, or dialing...

116: The Power of the Pause

Marriage Fit

🎙️ Episode Title: The Power of the Pause: Why Rest Is Productive In this episode, we’re leaning into a radical truth: rest is not a reward—it’s a rhythm. We explore how taking a true Sabbath or rest day isn’t lazy—it’s life-giving. From recharging your marriage and deepening connection to fueling your creativity and boosting fitness recovery, rest touches every area of our lives. You’ll hear personal stories of what happened when we rested well vs. when we pushed too hard, plus a reminder straight from Genesis 2:2-3 that even God paused. We also unpack: How unplugging from...

115. The 5 Best and 5 Most Overrated Health Hacks

Marriage Fit

Episode Summary: In today’s episode, we’re cutting through the noise on health hacks. There's a flood of advice online — but what actually works, and what’s just hype? We’ve tried it all — some hacks that made a huge difference, and some that were total flops. In this conversation, we break down the 5 best health hacks you should absolutely be using (spoiler: they're simpler than you think) and the 5 most overrated hacks that you can safely skip. We also share how building better health habits together as a couple can completely change your connection, your energy, and your overall...

114: Say. Do. Achieve. The Power of Language, Mindset, and Marriage with Thomas Blackwell

Marriage Fit

Guest: Thomas Blackwell, keynote speaker, mindset coach, and founder of Say Do Achieve Episode Summary: In this powerful and inspiring episode, we sit down with Thomas Blackwell — a former Division I tennis coach, successful entrepreneur, and now sought-after keynote speaker and high-performance coach — to unpack how the words we speak shape the lives we lead. From building businesses to building a strong marriage with his high school sweetheart, Thomas shares timeless truths on mindset, language, leadership, and love. Whether you're chasing big goals or looking to strengthen your...

113: Creating Healthy and Happy Kids – A Holistic Approach to Parenting

Marriage Fit

In this episode of Marriage Fit, we dive into what it really takes to raise healthy and happy kids. Parenting today comes with unique challenges—screen time battles, busy schedules, and the constant temptation of unhealthy food choices. But the good news? Small, intentional habits can create a lifelong foundation for your kids' well-being. We break down six key strategies that make a difference in your child's physical and mental health while strengthening your family bond. 1. Be the Example: Stay Healthy and Active Yourself Kids don’t just listen to what we say—they mimic what we do. If...

112: Real Talk: The Inner Battles: 75 HARD, Rest, Routines & Growth

Marriage Fit

Welcome to Episode 112 of Marriage Fit! What started as a discussion on competition vs. being competitive evolved into an insightful conversation about personal growth, mindset, and overcoming challenges. In This Episode, We Cover: The Power of Rest – Why taking a rest week is essential and how recovery fuels long-term progress. Lessons from 75 HARD – The deeper takeaways from the challenge beyond just fitness. Routines: A Double-Edged Sword – How to create a structure that supports growth without feeling trapped. The Mental Battles We Face – Strategies to shift your mindset...

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Guest: Thomas Blackwell, keynote speaker, mindset coach, and founder of Say Do Achieve

Episode Summary:

In this powerful and inspiring episode, we sit down with Thomas Blackwell — a former Division I tennis coach, successful entrepreneur, and now sought-after keynote speaker and high-performance coach — to unpack how the words we speak shape the lives we lead. From building businesses to building a strong marriage with his high school sweetheart, Thomas shares timeless truths on mindset, language, leadership, and love.

Whether you're chasing big goals or looking to strengthen your relationship, this episode will challenge and empower you to say more of what you want, do what you say, and achieve the life you were meant to live.

What We Cover:

From Sports to Speaking:
How Thomas transitioned from college tennis coach to insurance entrepreneur to mindset expert impacting thousands around the globe.

Language & Leadership:
Why the words you use in your daily life — especially in your relationships — are your most powerful tools for transformation.

Marriage as Peak Performance:
What it looks like to build a high-performance marriage (hint: it’s not about being perfect — it’s about staying aligned, grateful, and intentional).

Overcoming Life’s Ruts:
Thomas shares a raw personal story about facing major obstacles and how perspective and grit got him through.

Practical Tools for Couples:
Daily habits, rituals, and communication strategies that strengthen connection and help couples stay united through busy schedules and big goals.

Coaching & Leadership Principles:
The mindset traits all successful leaders — in business, sports, or family — have in common.

Vision That Inspires:
Thomas’s bold goal to shift the language and mindset of one billion people — and how you can be part of it.

Practical Takeaways:

Mindset starts with language — what you say out loud becomes your internal operating system.
Successful people lead themselves before leading others.
In marriage, alignment trumps agreement — being on the same page is more important than being right.
Leadership in the home looks like service, empathy, and clarity.
Small daily disciplines shape your legacy.