3345 Stop the Madness in Your Marriage
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Release Date: 03/23/2024
3380 Do You Feel Seen?
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
In the dance of marriage, the spotlight often shines brighter on one partner while the other fades into the shadows. Do you feel like your light shines bright for the one closest to you; do you feel seen? For those who feel unseen in their marriage, the repercussions can be profound, touching on issues of self-worth, communication breakdowns, and a sense of loneliness within the union. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . Relationship experts emphasize the importance of feeling validated and acknowledged within the context of a partnership....
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3379 Don't Miss A Moment
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Have you ever thought, "I just have to go because my kids will not forgive me if I miss it?" Oh, how we pressurize our parenting lives, expecting ourselves to be everything and go everywhere; don't miss a moment! That ever-pressing demand to be present for every moment of your child's life might initially start as a desire, but is it sustainable? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . In today's fast-paced world, being a parent can feel like being in a whirlwind of trying to be everywhere and go anywhere with your children, all while juggling...
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3378 Find Strength In Exhaustion
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
The weight of responsibilities can feel overwhelming, and the fatigue can seep into every crevice of our beings. In those moments when it seems like the world is moving a million miles an hour, find strength in exhaustion. In the hustle and bustle of our busy lives, it's not uncommon to hit that wall of exhaustion that makes everything seem insurmountable; barely able to lift a finger, sapping our motivation and leaving us feeling stagnant. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . Dead's not fun! Yet, it's during these times of deep fatigue and...
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3377 What If You Could Actually Change?
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Imagine a world where transforming your body, health, and lifestyle wasn't just a distant dream but a tangible reality. What if you could rewrite the way you see food and how you fuel your body? What if you could actually change? In this modern age of wellness, the possibilities are endless, and the results are promising. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . Research has shown that the human body is capable of remarkable changes, given the right tools and mindset. According to a variety of studies, consistent healthy habits, such as...
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3376 Rise Above the Shadows
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
When engulfed with doubt and uncertainty, it's easy to let the weight of our struggles crush our hearts. Why should our obstacles triumph over our aspirations? Rise above the shadows. Why should we surrender to the limitations that life presents to us? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . I loved this year's motto, "You are created for more, so embrace 2024." Now that all sounds good and great. But do you believe it? Do you really think beyond what you see? Can you imagine how your life can be different based on your choices? "Rise up!...
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3375 Break Free from the Heaviness
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
When the world around us seems to be crumbling, finding the strength to keep moving forward can be an immense challenge. It's as if we're stuck in a rut, unable to break free from the heaviness of our surroundings. Even when the chaos has nothing to do with us personally, its impact can still weigh heavily on our spirits. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . Amidst the chaos and uncertainty, it's crucial to remember that we have the power to navigate through the storm and emerge stronger on the other side. Regardless of what is...
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3374 Reclaim the Sabbath
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Busyness tends to mute the need to rest. But how can you live life if you don't pause for the cause of refreshment? Instead of giving your power away to another day, reclaim the Sabbath. In today's fast-paced world, where hustle culture often takes center stage, the concept of Sabbath may seem outdated or impractical. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . But how is rest outdated or impractical? However, delving into the true essence of the Sabbath from a biblical perspective sheds light on its profound significance. Sabbath, originating from...
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3373 Stop Being A Doormat
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
In a marriage, feeling like a doormat can slowly chip away at your sense of self-worth, leaving you feeling undervalued and dismissed. How can a marriage survive if you don't stop being a doormat? When one spouse feels like they are constantly being walked over, it changes the dynamic of the marriage. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . Marriage is no longer a partnership; it becomes a one-person show. Dreams and goals are no longer considered. And maybe you're not sure if you are in a marriage where you are the doormat, or treating your...
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3372 Do You Nurture Potential Or Dreams?
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
As parents, it's natural to envision a bright future for our children. We may hope they excel in areas we value, whether academically, athletically, or artistically. However, do you nurture their potential or their dreams? In a world where societal pressure can influence parental decisions, it's essential to remember that a child's happiness and fulfillment should always come first. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . Nurturing a child's potential involves recognizing and developing their inherent abilities, talents, and strengths. This...
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3371 Turn the Tables on Bad News
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Bad news has a way of creeping into our lives, casting shadows over our hopes and dreams. Yet, amidst the chaos and uncertainty, there lies an opportunity to shift our perspective and turn the tables on bad news. Renowned psychologist and author, Martin Seligman, once said, "Learned helplessness is the giving-up reaction that follows from the belief that whatever you do doesn't matter." These words ring true in the face of adversity. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at . It's essential to recognize that our mindset plays a significant...
info_outlineSo long as your past is in the past, you can be present in your marriage. However, many couples struggle because the past is still present. You must stop the madness in your marriage if you want to live happily ever after.
The lingering remnants of our past can cast a long shadow over the present, shaping our relationships in unexpected ways.
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Unaddressed traumas, unresolved conflicts, and buried emotions can morph into a looming Mount Everest.
As Kristianne Wargo wisely puts it, "The trash of your past needs to be taken out or it becomes an overwhelming mountain of C.R.A.P. It stinks, it smells, it shackles the heart."
In order to break free from the chains of the past and pave the way for a thriving marriage, it is imperative to confront the buried burdens head-on.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Confront the buried burdens head-on!
If you choose to hide from the past, it will haunt you down and destroy your marriage.
Put on your big girl panties! I know you have the courage to face your past. I understand it won't be easy and you might even uncover some things you didn't think was a big deal.
But the key is to know and understand to the best of your ability, so you can move forward with confidence that your past is simply that-- your past!
Here are three actionable steps that spouses can take to navigate the complexities of their past and cultivate a healthier present for their marriage:
1. Acknowledge and Accept the Past
Self-awareness serves as the first step towards healing. Recognize the impact of past traumas, generational patterns, and unresolved conflicts on your present behavior and relationships. You can't heal what you don't acknowledge. Stop using the excuse of not knowing, and learn what has been holding you back in your past. By confronting those shadows with honesty and vulnerability, you make a way to reach the freedom to love deeper.
2. Break the Old Patterns
A lot of what we carry with us comes from our past experiences, which are fueled by generational patterns. Our parents and grandparents and everyone in between have an influence on how we lead our lives. However, there comes a point in life where we have to look at what is good for us as an individual and then as a couple. By breaking free from the cycle of generational sins, you create space for personal growth and relational harmony.
Author Haruki Murakami, "If you can't understand it without an explanation, you can't understand it with an explanation." In other words, just because it made sense in the past doesn't mean it is right for you in the present.
3. Forgive to Let Go
Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself first. When you forgive, you are giving away what is burying your heart deep in the dungeon of despair. And then, it's that forgiveness that sweeps away the dust bunnies in the nooks and crannies that steals away your courage to heal from the hurts. You can heal, but you have to forgive to let go!
As Kristianne Wargo aptly states, "At some point, you have to face your past so you can be present today."
CHALLENGE: How have you dealt with your past? Or have you?
By embarking on this journey of self-discovery, forgiveness, and growth, spouses can unravel the shackles of the past and forge a path toward a more resilient and genuine marriage.
In the timeless words of Maya Angelou, "History, despite its wrenching pain, cannot be unlived, but if faced with courage, need not be lived again."
Some things need not be repeated; they must be left in the past and dealt with. Stop the madness in your marriage!
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
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Music by Mandisa - Overcomer
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Song Title: Overcomer
Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia
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