Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Create Your Now® supports the purpose-driven mom and the purpose-driven entrepreneur with tools and strategies to become their best selves in areas of lifestyle, personal development & growth, mindset, business, spirituality, nutrition, fitness, parenting, relationships, marriage, motherhood, and everyday living. This DAILY podcast will empower and encourage you to rediscover, rejuvenate and renew who you are in mind, body, and spirit. Topics include healthy living, work-life balance, weight loss, exercise videos, overcoming adversity, burnout, inspiration, motivation, cooking and recipes, mind mapping, goal setting, marriage difficulties, Christian values and so much more. My Strength Is My Story® Series invites guests to share their hard life experiences where forgiveness, grace, and hope are the results. Life is better together. Real life. Real stories. Real transformations. Be blessed in your every day. Be Present. Be Incredible. Be YOU!!!
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4000 Again
03/13/2026
4000 Again
As parents, the word again often feels like the soundtrack of our daily lives. We say it, sometimes shout it, and frequently whisper it, all in the effort to guide our kids toward better choices, safer habits, or just basic cooperation. I'm sure you remember some of these. “Brush your teeth again.” “Please clean up your toys again.” “I asked you again to do your homework.” Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . The list is endless. At times, again feels exhausting. Like we’re stuck on repeat, speaking into a void where our words bounce back unanswered or ignored. It’s easy to feel frustrated, defeated, or even question if our efforts matter at all. But understand: again isn’t a setback. It’s a powerful tool. Let's take a walk down memory lane even more. The Massive List of "Again’s" Every Parent Knows Asking kids to put on their shoes again because they ran off before finishing. Reminder to say “please” or “thank you,” again. Saying “No, not that!” again when they reach toward danger. Explaining bedtime routines again because the first go-around didn’t stick. Repeating the same story about why they can’t have candy before dinner again. Saying “use your inside voice” again when noise levels spike. Reinforcing good manners again after social situations. Asking “Did you do your homework?” again because the backpack is mysteriously empty. Instruction to wash hands again after playing outside. Requests to come back inside from the park again as evening approaches. No parent escapes the again — it’s written into the job description again and again. Why ‘Again’ Is Actually a Win for Parents and Kids Repetition Builds Learning: Kids aren’t mini adults. They’re constantly rewiring their brains, forming habits, and understanding the world step by step. Hearing things again isn’t nagging — it’s necessary reinforcement. It helps create new neural pathways and lasting habits. Consistency Strengthens Authority: When you repeat a message calmly and clearly, you’re showing your kid that your expectations are firm, steady, and non-negotiable. That again cements boundaries and lets your child know you mean business—and care enough to keep enforcing what they need. Patience Models Emotional Control: Every again you deliver without yelling or losing your cool is a lesson in self-regulation your kids absorb, even if they don’t immediately act on it. You’re teaching them how to handle frustration, delays, and the real world. So don't fear again; instead, flip your mental switch on again. The K.I.S.S. ~ Flip your mental switch on 'again'! Because you are going to be saying things again, whether you like it or not. So you might as well be okay with again. 3 Ways to Flip Your Mental Switch on 'Again' 1. Frame ‘Again’ as Growth, Not Failure Instead of hearing your nagging, hear progress happening beneath the surface. Every “again” nudges change, even if it feels invisible now. Kids need time and multiple impressions to move from confusion to comprehension. They actually are beginning to get it! 2. Own Your ‘Again’ with Confidence & Calm It’s not a weakness to repeat yourself—it’s a strength. Confidence says, “I’m here, I’m steady, and I’m going to keep showing up for you.” Practice delivering again with a steady tone that conveys patience rather than frustration. 3. Celebrate the Moments Before ‘Again’ Is Needed Acknowledge when your child remembers something the first time. Catch those wins and highlight them. It trains your brain to spot progress, which makes the again moments easier to bear and your overall parenting approach more positive. Again might feel like a broken record, but it’s actually the rhythm your child needs to learn, grow, and feel secure in the boundaries you provide. So next time you catch yourself saying “for the 10th time, again,” remember this: your persistence isn’t just endurance. It’s impact. It’s loving leadership. It’s exactly what your kids need. You’re not repeating yourself for no reason. You’re building the foundation that helps your family thrive—even if it feels like it’s one again too many. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3999 Find Breath in the Noise
03/12/2026
3999 Find Breath in the Noise
How do you carve out rest when life feels overwhelming? The mountains of deadlines and responsibilities pile up. Life itself feels like an endless to-do with no rest in sight. It’s easy to feel like you’re drowning under the weight of the world. Maybe your days blur into each other, each moment swallowed by another moment that screams for your attention. When everything feels urgent, resting doesn’t just sound impossible; it feels guilty. But you can find breath in the noise. If you never rest, you break. Your mind, your body, your spirit—they all demand pause. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Yet, the chaos convinces you that rest is a luxury, a selfish act in the face of mounting pressure. That’s a lie! No matter how full your plate is, there is always room to rest. It might not be grand or glamorous, like a lazy Sunday or a week off. But small, strategic pauses can reboot your system and sharpen your edge. You don’t have to dig a hole in your schedule; you only have to carve out breathing room. The K.I.S.S. ~ Find breath in the noise! Ask yourself: What’s one tiny boundary or shift you can create today to claim space: Five minutes to close your eyes Ten minutes to walk without your phone A single deep breath before answering that next email Those pockets of rest aren’t wasted time. They are your secret weapon to intact focus, resilience, and sanity. Rest is resistance against overwhelm. It’s a rebellion against the culture of relentless “doing.” Even when everything in life screams “rush,” the bold choose to slow down just enough to feel alive again. So, if you’re buried under a pile of demands, remember: your value isn’t measured by your endless hustle. The strength to push forward comes from the courage to pause. Find that space. Guard it fiercely. Because rest isn’t optional. It’s survival. You don’t need more hours in the day. You need to reclaim the ones you have—for rest, for clarity, for creativity, for yourself. You've got a life packed full, but there's always room to breathe. Start small and create your now! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3998 Every YES Costs You Something
03/11/2026
3998 Every YES Costs You Something
Clearing the clutter, letting go of old habits, and stepping into a fresh season gives you that rush of new energy and possibilities where the change can feel electric. But just because you’re brimming with excitement, you must remember that every YES costs you something. Think about that. How often do you say YES so fast your brain doesn’t even catch up? You commit, you promise, you agree before you pause to wonder what you’re actually signing up for. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . That quick “yes” feels good in the moment because it keeps us feeling capable, connected, or needed. But it chips away at your focus, your energy, and ultimately your results. This is why the biggest productivity and clarity killers don’t come from the tasks you do; they come from the things you say YES to without intention. What about all those times where you said YES to volunteering at school or at church, only to find yourself committing to more time than originally agreed to? What about all the things that kept you driving for hours a week to get your YES things done? If you want to get ahead in this new season, you must learn to say YES to the right things. The K.I.S.S. ~ Learn to say YES to the right things! So how do you make sure your yes isn’t just noise in your calendar or an energy-suck into other people’s priorities? How do you protect your time and goals with a guardrail that keeps your YES valuable? Here are three ways to say YES to the right things: Calculate the Cost Before You Commit Every YES has a price — it’s not just the time spent on that task or meeting. It’s also what you give up doing instead. Ask yourself: What is the opportunity cost? If you say YES to this, what will you say NO to later? What progress will pause? Being clear on what you must decline to accommodate your YES is the only way to keep control of your schedule and priorities. Align Your YES to a Bigger Goal If your YES doesn't push you toward a concrete goal or core value, it’s a cheap YES. Your YES needs to earn its place. Before committing, get crystal clear on what you’re building in the bigger picture. Will this YES move the needle on what matters? Will it open doors, build relationships that matter, or bring tangible results? If you can’t see how it fits into a larger plan, it’s probably a distraction dressed up in a costume. Maybe NO is the better response. Build the Pause Muscle The easiest NO is the one that comes after a pause. When someone asks for your time or energy, slow down. Don’t respond immediately. Say something like, “Let me check my calendar and get back to you.” Use the breathing space to evaluate your first two questions. This isn’t about being rude; it’s about protecting your output, commitments, and sanity. Most importantly, it trains you to respect your own bandwidth and prevents regret. The last thing you want is to whisper in your head, "I shouldn't have done this." As you are aware, every YES you give is a trade. You’re trading time, energy, and focus for that opportunity. Be strategic about which trades you accept. Saying YES feels good until the costs pile up and you find yourself overwhelmed, off track, and burnt out. Practice saying NO until it feels normal—it’s the superpower that helps you say the right YES. "You want your YES to count like currency, not clutter." ~ Kristianne Wargo That’s how you build momentum and guard your results in any new season. As you step change, choose your YESes like they’re investments, not favors. QUESTION: What will your next YES be, and what will you say NO to so the cost is worth your investment? "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #WellspringWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3997 Created to Dream
03/10/2026
3997 Created to Dream
Life pulls us in every direction, filling our days with demands that leave little room to breathe, let alone dream. Still, deep within you, there's this unshakable truth—you were created to dream. Dreaming isn’t a luxury or just because; it’s woven into the very fiber of who you are and who you are becoming, a spark meant to light your way no matter your season of life. When was the last time you really dreamed? And was it an old dream you were reminiscing about, or a newer one? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Sometimes, when life shifts beneath our feet, it can feel like our dreams are out of reach—or even irrelevant. But history is full of stories reminding us that our circumstances don’t have to define the limits of what we imagine. Take Esther, for example—a woman who faced unexpected changes that could have crushed her spirit but instead opened a door to a greater purpose. Esther was a woman whose life was filled with unexpected shifts and daunting challenges. She started as a young orphan raised by her cousin, suddenly found herself chosen as queen in a foreign land, and faced a moment when her courage to dream bigger meant risking everything to save her people. Esther didn’t quit dreaming when life changed her plans. Instead, she leaned into her calling and chose to step boldly into her dream’s purpose, even when the path was uncertain. Your story might look different, but the lesson remains—life can change and twist your path, but it cannot take away your God-given capacity to dream. Jeremiah 29:11 says, “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” That hope lives in the heart of every dream God plants inside you. The K.I.S.S. ~ Created to dream! Dreaming is not about having it all figured out or living in a fantasy. It’s about holding on to the vision of who you’re meant to be and trusting that your journey, even the detours, are part of something bigger. It’s the light that pushes you forward on tough days when giving up feels easier. It’s the seed of possibility that grows into something meaningful because you refused to let life’s circumstances silence your imagination. So if you find yourself in a season that feels heavy, if your original dreams feel out of reach or even faded, remember that you are created to dream. Your dreams may evolve—sometimes dramatically—but they are still alive. Nourish them, protect them, and let them guide you to the next step. "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness." ~ Kristianne Wargo Quitting on your dreams is not an option. Your next chapter in life is waiting just beyond the horizon of your courage to keep dreaming. Remember, your story is still being written. Created to Dream by Kristianne Wargo You were made with stars inside your chest, A quiet pulse that won’t let rest — The whisper soft, the flame unseen, A sacred gift: you’re created to dream. In the rush of hours, the clatter, the chase, Don’t lose the rhythm of your own slow pace. Pause in the stillness, breathe in the now, Make time for the heart — it will show you how. Dreams don’t live only in distant skies, They grow where your open moments rise. Present and patient, tender and true, Your dream stands quietly, waiting for you. So when the world pulls hard at your seams, Remember, you are created to dream. And in every heartbeat, in every small part, Make time and be present — that’s where you start. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3996 The Heart Paves A Path
03/09/2026
3996 The Heart Paves A Path
Life does not wait for anyone. It thrusts us into a whirlwind of tasks, deadlines, decisions, and distractions. Most days, we’re running in all directions at once, following habits and routines that keep us going but often keep us stuck. When things aren’t working, the answer isn’t just pushing harder with the same strategies. Change demands something different. It requires overriding what’s automatic and tuning into something deeper. That’s where the heart comes in. The heart paves a path. That path isn’t always clear or logical. It isn’t a step-by-step plan you can find in a book or a checklist. You might not know exactly what’s next. In fact, it’s often what you don't know that starts moving you in the right direction. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Change doesn’t come solely from the intellect or facts and figures. It comes from your heart—the place where your true desires, courage, and instinct live. We’re taught to rely on our heads: gather data, analyze, plan, execute. But if you’ve ever felt stuck despite knowing everything you "should" do, you know knowledge alone isn’t enough. The heart connects where you are now with where you ultimately want to go. It knows the way because it feels the way. You just have to listen. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” This is a direct call to surrender the mind’s insistence on “figuring it out” alone and to lean into a deeper wisdom rooted in faith that your heart can tap into. If only head knowledge could do the heavy lifting. But there’s a difference between what your mind knows and what your heart knows. The mind plans. The heart moves. The K.I.S.S. ~ The mind plans, the heart moves! Jeremiah 29:11 reminds us, “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Even when the path isn’t clear, your heart is holding onto that hope and future God has placed there, guiding you beyond the limits of logic. So how do you start listening to your heart and your head? 1. Slow down and create space When life speeds up, your mind gets noisy. It repeats worries and "what-ifs." The heart speaks in quiet moments. Practice daily pauses—whether it’s a few deep breaths, a short walk alone, or a meditative moment before sleep. This space isn’t about avoiding the world; it’s about tuning out the noise so you can tune in to what matters deeply. 2. Notice how your body reacts to choices The heart isn’t just metaphorical. Your body gives you signals—excitement, tension, lightness, or unease. When you face decisions, check in: Does this choice bring a sense of peace or resistance? Your body’s reactions are a direct line to your heart’s truth, often more reliable than mental arguments. 3. Ask questions only your heart can answer Instead of asking, “What’s the most logical route?” ask, “What do I want to feel?” or “What sparks even a flicker of joy or hope?” Heart-led questions aren’t about perfect answers; they’re about uncovering what drives you beneath the surface of logic and fear. Psalm 37:4 tells us, “Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.” When your heart is tuned to what truly matters—rooted in faith and sincerity—your path and desires align in ways the mind alone can’t predict. Listening to your heart while using your head as a guide creates harmony. Your heart paves bold, new paths. Your head keeps you grounded and strategic. Together, they make a powerful team. It’s no accident that Matthew 6:21 says, “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” The heart shows you what truly matters. That’s what guides your next best move more than any spreadsheet or to-do list. How will this change your life? When you lead with your heart, you stop wandering aimlessly or settling for what’s easy. You start moving toward what actually fulfills you. You’ll face challenges with more courage because you’re connected to why you’re pushing forward. And even if the path isn’t perfectly clear, you trust that stepping into it matters more than “knowing” every detail. The heart never lies. It does the heavy lifting that the head alone can’t. The heart paves your path—not just with feelings, but with a deeper wisdom rooted in faith. Now it’s your move. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. 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3995 Growing Your Faith
03/08/2026
3995 Growing Your Faith
Growing your faith isn’t just about checking spiritual boxes. It’s easy to think your faith grows when you go to church every Sunday, flip through devotionals, tick off prayers, or take communion like clockwork. But if you dig into what Jesus teaches, growing your faith is much deeper than routines. Jesus made it clear: faith isn’t a static possession or a set of rituals. In Luke 17:5-6, the apostles ask Jesus, “Increase our faith!” and He responds, “If you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mulberry tree, ‘Be uprooted and planted in the sea,’ and it will obey you.” Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . What does that tell us? Faith grows through trust that moves mountains—not through simply repeating the same activities. It’s about taking steps that seem impossible, rooted in belief that God will act. Growth happens in the soil of trials Jesus also taught that faith grows when it’s tested. James 1:2-4 says, “Consider it pure joy... whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, lacking nothing.” Faith doesn’t grow in comfort zones—it takes pressure and perseverance. Jesus modeled this in the Garden of Gethsemane (Luke 22:42), surrendering His will to the Father even when facing immense suffering. Our faith expands when we choose trust over control amid life’s storms. Faith grows through obedience, not just information Jesus rarely praised people for religious knowledge alone. Instead, He commended those who put belief into action. Luke 6:46-49 says, 46 “Why do you call me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do what I say? 47 As for everyone who comes to me and hears my words and puts them into practice, I will show you what they are like. 48 They are like a man building a house, who dug down deep and laid the foundation on rock. When a flood came, the torrent struck that house but could not shake it, because it was well built. 49 But the one who hears my words and does not put them into practice is like a man who built a house on the ground without a foundation. The moment the torrent struck that house, it collapsed and its destruction was complete.” Jesus compares those who hear His words and act on them to a wise builder who lays a strong foundation. Faith truly grows when hearing leads to doing. This means letting faith change how you think, speak, and behave every day—not just accumulating spiritual facts. The K.I.S.S. ~ Grow your faith! Relationship beats routine Faith is ultimately about a relationship with God. Jesus prayed in John 15:5, “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.” Growth happens when we stay connected to Jesus through intentional dependence, not mere religious habit. That means praying honestly, listening expectantly, trusting consistently, and obeying boldly—even when it’s uncomfortable or uncertain. So what does growing our faith really look like? More than rituals: Yes, church, devotionals, prayer, and communion matter. But they are starting points, not end goals. Don’t mistake activity for growth. Trust that moves mountains: Faith is marked by taking risky steps, believing God can and will act. Embracing tests: Trials refine faith like fire refines gold. Lean into God’s process instead of resisting. Obedience: Let faith rearrange your priorities and spur action—faith without works is dead (James 2:17). Relationship with Jesus: Stay deeply connected daily, not just seasonally. Skipping church or forgetting a devotional won’t stunt your faith as much as missing moments where you choose trust over fear and obedience over convenience. Faith grows by living what Jesus taught, even when no one’s watching, and when the outcome is uncertain. If your faith feels stuck in dead habits, it’s not your fault—spiritual routines can lull us into comfort. But faith is alive. It’s wild and daring. It’s trusting the unseen and acting on what Jesus commands. Ask yourself today: Am I cultivating faith that leaps beyond rituals into radical trust and obedience? That’s the faith Jesus wants you to grow. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #SweetSpirit #CreateYourNow #SoulfulSunday 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. 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3994 What's Concealed Cannot Heal
03/07/2026
3994 What's Concealed Cannot Heal
Marriage is a raw, real connection—where two lives blend with all their messiness and beauty. Within this intimate space, spouses share joys, dreams, disappointments, and occasional pain. Hurt happens—sometimes on purpose, often by accident. But what’s concealed cannot heal. Hiding your wounds, your frustrations, or your doubts under a surface of “fine” doesn’t fix anything. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . It only lets the damage grow in silence. If you keep pain locked away, no one else can step in to help, and no real change will take root. The walls you build to protect yourself become barriers to connection and repair. How do you handle hurt now? What is hurting you now? Lots of people don't even want to think about that. But Spring is springing, and there's no better time for a cleanout, even in marriage. So if you want your marriage to more than survive and thrive, you need to bring what’s inside out into the light. The K.I.S.S. ~ Bring what's inside out into the light! How? Here are three steps any spouse can take to reveal what’s been concealed and start real healing: 1. Speak Honestly Without Blame The first step to revealing hidden hurt is to find the courage to say what’s really on your mind. But here’s the catch: honesty is not permission to unload a blame-filled assault. It’s about communicating what you feel and need without framing your spouse as the villain. Instead of “You never listen to me,” try “I feel unheard and lonely when I don’t get to share what’s bothering me.” This shifts the focus from attack to experience, inviting your partner to listen, not defend. Raw honesty invites real understanding—because it shows vulnerability, not aggression. When you own your feelings without blame, your spouse can meet you halfway rather than shutting down. 2. Create a Safe Space for Sharing If you want pain to come into the open, you must nurture a safe environment for it. That means intentionally choosing moments when you both can be present and calm. Phones off, distractions down, eyes and ears open. A safe space is free from judgment, sarcasm, or interruption. It’s about curiosity and empathy—asking questions like, “Tell me more about what you’re feeling” and listening deeply without planning your comeback. When your spouse knows they won’t be punished or dismissed for their truth, they are more likely to share what they’ve been bottling up. Mutual safety creates a landscape where healing can begin. 3. Follow Up With Action and Patience Revealing what’s concealed is only the start. Words alone don’t heal wounds. What comes next is just as critical: showing up with consistent action and patience. If your spouse opens up about feeling ignored, it’s on you to demonstrate attentiveness regularly—not just once. Healing is a process; it doesn’t happen overnight. It takes repeated efforts to rebuild trust and soften pain. Keep checking in, ask how they’re doing, and validate their feelings along the way. Small, steady actions compound into proof that change is possible. No More Shadows Every marriage has its shadows. But those shadows only grow when you keep your struggles in the dark. Don’t let silence and concealed pain steal your chance for connection and growth. Speak honestly. Build safety. Show up with steady care. What was hidden will surface, and when it does, healing can finally begin. Because what’s concealed cannot heal—but what’s shared bravely just might save everything you’ve promised to protect. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3993 Teaching Kids Humility in a Self-Centered World
03/06/2026
3993 Teaching Kids Humility in a Self-Centered World
We live in a culture obsessed with attention, status, and instant validation. Social media magnifies this by turning likes, hearts, and followers into currency, especially for kids growing up right now. So how do we as parents model humility when the noise around us screams, “Look at me!”? It's all about teaching kids humility in a self-centered world. And when you think about humility, what does that even look like inside the family? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . First, humility isn’t about pretending to be less than you are. It’s about owning your strengths without bragging, owning your weaknesses without shame, and valuing others as much as yourself. This mindset can feel like swimming upstream in a world that rewards self-promotion, but that’s exactly why it’s critical. Here’s what humility looks like in the family structure: Parents admit when they’re wrong or don’t have all the answers. This shows kids that vulnerability isn’t weakness. Everyone takes turns listening; no one dominates the conversation. Respecting others’ voices comes before being heard. Gratitude is a daily practice, not an afterthought. Saying thanks—even for small things—grounds kids in reality rather than entitlement. Now, let's consider social media and the viral chase. When your child asks why people care so much about likes or going viral, don’t just lecture or ban the platforms. Instead, have real conversations: “Getting likes feels good, but it’s temporary and can’t replace who you really are. Your worth isn’t determined by a number on a screen.” Ask questions like, “How does it feel when you post and don’t get the response you hoped for? What do you think matters more—being popular, or being kind and true to yourself?” Because the pressure kids face—from peers, influencers, and the world—is real. That’s why parents need to embed humility as non-negotiable early on. The K.I.S.S. ~ Humility is a non-negotiable! You must consider this in raising your kids and continuing the conversations years to come as they grow older. Here are three solid ways to teach humility that every parent can do today: Model Humility Loud and Clear Don’t just say the word, live it out. Admit mistakes publicly in front of your kids. Apologize when you mess up. Show that no one is perfect, but everyone is worth respect. Shift the Focus From “Me” to “We” Create family rituals that encourage serving others—volunteering, helping a neighbor, or just listening to a sibling. Teach kids that their value increases when they contribute, not compete. Celebrate Character Over Accomplishments Sure, grades and trophies matter. But make it crystal clear you’re more impressed by kindness, honesty, and effort. Reward humble behavior, not just wins. Humility isn’t a soft skill—it’s a strong foundation for resilience, empathy, and real confidence. As much as the world pushes kids to chase validation, you have the power to root them in something deeper. Start that work today, and you’ll raise a generation who knows their worth isn’t up for likes or hearts, but earned in quiet strength. If you want your kids to succeed in this noisy, self-driven world, then teach them to pause, listen, and lead with humility. That’s the living legacy that outlasts any viral moment. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3992 Embrace Your Place
03/05/2026
3992 Embrace Your Place
Life’s whirlwind can make your current circumstances feel like a cage. Maybe you’re stuck in a job that drains you, carrying the weight of past mistakes, or overwhelmed by what feels like an impossible mountain ahead. You are made for more. Not by chance, not by accident, but on purpose and for a purpose that’s bigger than any setback or trial trying to hold you back. Embrace your place. None of your circumstances or situations defines you. Your worth, your future, your purpose — they’re not dictated by where you are, but by who you are and who you are becoming. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . When you embrace your place, you are claiming the life you’re in; owning your story without shame or fear, and using this moment as your battlefield, not your prison. When fear whispers that you’re not enough, not good enough, or your past failures want to chain you to the ground, remind yourself: you get to rise! You get to show up, filled with whatever you have today, even if it’s just a sliver of courage. Joy and strength don’t come from perfect circumstances; they come from faith in what God is doing behind the scenes when the world seems chaotic. When you have no control, God is always in control. The K.I.S.S. ~Embrace your place! Yes, life is messy. Sometimes you just want to hide under the covers and block out the calling on your life. I get it — I’ve been there too. But when you’re called for more, you don’t have to do it perfectly; you just have to do it anyway. You get to conquer your day with a smile, not because everything is easy, but because your heart is full, anchored in knowing you are exactly where you’re meant to be, doing exactly what you’re meant to do. You are a conqueror! You are an overcomer! So stand tall today. Embrace your place fully—with grit, grace, and gratitude. This moment is your launchpad, not your limit. You can do this. Because you were created for it. Now, get up. Show up. Conquer this day. It's time to embrace your place. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3991 The Warmth of Joy
03/04/2026
3991 The Warmth of Joy
And let the attacks begin... Because that’s where it all starts — in the harsh reflection of who we see we are not. We beat ourselves up over what we haven’t achieved, focusing on our so-called failures instead of recognizing the life lessons they’ve gifted us. You are bright and beautiful. It’s time to shut down the negative rampage against yourself and open up to the warmth of joy that comes from embracing who you are — and who you are becoming. Let’s cut through the noise. If you’re an everyday woman juggling a million things (work deadlines, family chaos, bills, social commitments), you already know you're a hero for keeping everything moving. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . You’re the one scheduling appointments while meal-prepping, calming tantrums on a phone call, and squeezing in self-care where it feels like there’s no space. Your to-do list is a beast that never sleeps, and the weight of it all is draining you more than anyone sees. When you’re running on empty, joy isn’t just hiding — it’s buried beneath exhaustion, stress, and constant “shoulds.” You might catch moments of relief or laughter, but the deeper joy, the wellspring that can fuel you through chaos? It’s running dry because your tank is empty. That’s the problem nobody talks about. You can’t reframe your mindset into joy if you’re too drained to even notice it. The pressure cooker of responsibilities creates a constant background hum of overwhelm, and that mental clutter blocks you from even imagining a joy-filled life, regardless of your circumstances. Before you can get to the “feel good despite it all” mindset, you need to acknowledge that this depletion is real. You’re not lazy or fickle; you’re human and taxed beyond capacity. Without recognizing that, anything we'll talk about with joy will sound like empty pep talks. You've got to face the drained reality head-on and give yourself permission to pause—not just physically but mentally. And then, groundbreaking shifts can happen. That's the earthquake you need in your life. The K.I.S.S. ~ Permission to pause! Because without that, you are going to see yourself as someone who can't do what they set out to do. And that in itself is depressing and debilitating. You are made for more. You are filled with the Fruit of the Spirit to do what God has divinely designed for your life. But you must be willing to to the work with Him together. Here are three no-nonsense moves to reframe your mindset and lock in that joy that God gives, not what you think you can give yourself, no matter what’s happening outside: 1. Own Your Story — Then Edit the Narrative You can’t control what happens, but you can control how you frame it. Every experience, good or bad, is a story you tell yourself. Most people replay the pain, the injustice, or the “why me?” That keeps joy on the sidelines. Flip the script. Ask yourself: What is this teaching me? What can I be grateful for, even if it’s small? Taking ownership shifts you from victim mode to empowered mode. You’re not ignoring pain — you’re widening the lens to see beyond it, making room for joy no matter how dark the moment feels. 2. Build a Ritual Around Presence Joy lives in the moment — not in “someday,” not in “when things get better.” Practice a ritual that anchors you in the NOW, such as a gratitude journal, focused breathing, or mindful walks. These aren’t fluffy extras; they’re deliberately rewiring your brain to catch the good when you’d otherwise miss it. Presence pulls you out of swirling worries and dumps you into reality, where beauty and joy exist alongside challenges. The more consistent you are, the more your brain learns to latch onto joy, God's joy, the joy only He gives. 3. Choose Connection and Contribution Isolation starves joy. Connection feeds it. Seek out moments to genuinely engage with people — friends, family, or your community. Better yet, pour your energy into helping others. When you contribute, you flip the attention off your struggles and align yourself with something bigger. It's no longer just about you. Giving doesn’t just help the other person; it lights you up from the inside. That kind of joy isn’t conditional. It’s replenished every time you make someone else’s day better. Make someone see there is something else besides their own troubles. Joy isn’t a prize you win after clearing life’s hurdles. It’s an internal resource you build by retraining your mind and choices. It's seeing through the eyes of your Heavenly Father who loves you. Start owning your story, get present, and connect. And that's where you can cuddle up with the warmth of joy, no matter what’s going on around you. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #WellspringWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3990 Not So Fast
03/03/2026
3990 Not So Fast
Life moves at the speed of light, that we forget even where we are in the day. We can get so dialed in that we become more about the DO rather than the WHO. With the season beginning to change, maybe it's time to stop and smell the roses, to slow down so you can speed up, or even tame the list so you can experience the day. Not so fast feels pretty good. Life has become a race we run blindfolded, chasing hours, crossing items off endless lists, forgetting at what point the day turned into a blur, how we became more about doing than simply being. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . The seasons shift—a gentle reminder— inviting us to pause, to breathe, to truly see. To stop and smell the roses, not as an afterthought, but as the moment itself worth savoring. Slow down to speed up. Tame the wild to-do’s, embrace the grace of presence. When movement is measured, not manic, our impact deepens, our purpose brightens. The K.I.S.S. ~ Not so fast! Not so fast feels like a gift. Like coming home after running far too long. In that ease lies power—the power to touch, to change, to be remembered, not just rushed past. So breathe. Notice. Choose not just to do, but to glow in who you are and who you are becoming. All because the world you touch is waiting; So awake! And you can do more when you’re not rushed. "The Gift of Pause" by Kristianne Wargo In the quiet fold of a slowing day, where moments whisper and shadows stay, there lies a gift we often miss— the sacred art of gentle bliss. Not in haste, but in the still, our restless souls begin to fill. With clearer sight and softer heart, we find the strength to make our mark. The roses bloom not in a race, but in their perfect slow embrace. So let your spirit dare to rest, and trust you’re doing all that’s best. For when you cease to rush and run, your light shines steady—like the sun. The world you touch feels this calm hue, and knows its beauty comes from you. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3989 What Brings the Mind Rest?
03/02/2026
3989 What Brings the Mind Rest?
Life’s pace is brutal. We chase endless tasks, pile on responsibilities, and keep grinding until we crash—physically and mentally. But as you know, running on empty is no way to run a life, a business, or anything worth having. So what brings the mind rest? That classic “I Love Lucy” episode where Lucy and Ethel take a job wrapping chocolates on a conveyor belt is pure comedic gold—and a perfect metaphor for life out of control. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . At first, it starts off slow and manageable. They calmly wrap chocolates one by one, confident they can keep up. The chocolates begin to come by faster, but they figure out how to keep going, and that includes stuffing their mouths and hats. But then, the supervisor strolls by, glances at their steady pace, and orders the operators to speed things up. Suddenly, the conveyor belt moves even faster and faster, flooding Lucy and Ethel with more chocolates than they can handle. Now, everything is a disaster; their hands fly, wrappers pile up, and chocolates go flying—and they keep stuffing frantically into their mouths to avoid missing a beat, but still cannot keep up. Chaos ensues as they try desperately to keep up with the relentless tempo. Question: How fast is your life moving compared to that conveyor belt? Are you calmly handling your tasks, or is everything speeding up so fast you’re struggling just to keep all the pieces in play? When the pressure builds and the pace quickens, do you catch your breath—or do you start stuffing whatever you can into the wrappers, hoping for survival? If your life feels like that runaway conveyor belt, maybe it’s time to hit pause, take control, and slow the pace before the whole thing spins wildly out of your grasp. The Mental Exhaustion Epidemic Because if we're honest, we live in a culture that worships "doing." Your to-do list becomes a measure of your worth. But here’s the problem: The mind is not designed for nonstop action without renewal. Scientific research shows that constant cognitive load leads to decision fatigue, poor focus, and emotional burnout. Worse, when the mind is exhausted, your clarity vanishes, creativity stalls, and motivation tanks. On top of that, spiritual dissonance adds layers of unrest. Psalm 23:2 says, “He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters.” That’s not a suggestion for a quick power nap — it’s a blueprint for deep mental and spiritual rest. So, when your mind is spinning, that conveyor belt is moving way out of control, and the exhaustion is real, what’s the first move? Maybe it's to get back to the basics: reset and renew your mind. The K.I.S.S. ~ Reset and renew your mind! Think about it: What do you do now to renew your mind? Or would you even call it that? Most people have a hard enough time exercising, let alone making time to reset and renew their minds. But this is vital to your survival! 3 Things That Actually Reset and Renew Your Mind 1. Disconnect to Reconnect: Embrace Sacred Stillness In Matthew 11:28, Jesus invites, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” Jesus is not vague. He is calling you to stop doing and start receiving rest for your soul and mind. Practical step: Schedule 15 to 30 minutes daily to be intentionally still — no phone, no screens, no noise. Use this time to pray, meditate on scripture, or simply breathe with focus. Studies confirm even short mindfulness sessions can reduce cortisol (stress hormone) and improve attention. This sacred pause rewires your brain to lower fight-or-flight mode and helps you gain mental clarity. 2. Guard Your Mental Inputs: Filter What You Feed Your Mind Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” Your mind is not a dumping ground for random stimulus. Mental clutter fuels anxiety and distracts you from purposeful action. Action item: Conduct a mental diet audit. What news, social media, conversations, or thoughts are you absorbing? Limit exposure to negativity and chaos. Replace with scripture reading, uplifting conversations, or educational content that aligns with your faith and goals. This conscious curation trains your mind toward peace and focus. 3. Move Intentionally: Refresh the Mind Through Physical Action While rest means stopping, complete inertia can backfire, too. Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us to “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” Trust leads to action — not paralysis. Research shows physical activity improves neuroplasticity and releases endorphins that sharpen the mind and reduce depression. Choose a movement that resets you—whether a slow walk while praying, yoga, or stretching—something that reconnects the mind, body, and spirit. Why This Matters You can’t out-hustle mental exhaustion. Ignoring mind rest is like trying to drive a car on empty—you’ll stall, or worse, crash. When you integrate deliberate stillness, mental discipline, and movement rooted in faith, you build a system that keeps you sharp, productive, and aligned with what God wants for you. Without this, you’ll keep spinning in chaos, chasing to-dos, and feeling farther from peace. Your Next Move Pick one of these steps to start today: Turn off your phone for 15 minutes and just sit quietly or pray. Unfollow one social channel that drains you and read Psalm 23 instead. Take a 10-minute mindful walk, focusing on your breath and God’s presence. Stop running on fumes. Lead your mind—not the other way around. Jesus said: “Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls” (Matthew 11:29). You’ve got this. Now, get out of your own way and take A.I.M.—real actions that rest and renew your mind. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. 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3988 Refreshment for Your Soul
03/01/2026
3988 Refreshment for Your Soul
Life drags us down. It spins us around, until the weight of it all crashes heavy on our shoulders. Deadlines stack higher than our energy. Responsibilities pile up faster than the hours in the day. In the middle of this chaos, Jesus gives refreshment for your soul. The invitation comes from Matthew 11:28-30 ~ “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." What does that “rest” really mean when exhaustion feels like a permanent state? And does it mean all our troubles just vanish as soon as we lean in? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . First, let’s unpack the promise—Jesus isn’t just offering a quick nap or a weekend off. There’s no temporary band-aid here. The rest He offers is deeper; it’s a refreshing reset for the soul that no amount of coffee, vacations, or distractions can provide. It’s a rest where the noise of the world, the pressure, the chaos, all start to lose their grip. But here’s the catch: this rest isn’t about erasing our struggles overnight. Life is messy; bills don’t stop, challenges don’t disappear, and our limits don’t stretch infinitely. The rest Jesus offers is a change of posture and perspective—a surrendering of the burden to Someone strong enough to carry it with you. Imagine carrying a heavy backpack you’ve hauled alone until now. When Jesus says “Come to me,” it’s an invitation to lay down the weight. Not to deny the load is there, but to stop pretending you have to carry it alone. The K.I.S.S. ~ Refreshment for your soul! So what does “refreshment” look like in practice? It’s giving yourself permission to pause and breathe deeply into peace that isn’t dependent on your circumstances. It’s trusting that your value isn’t tied to how much you do or how hard you hustle. It’s letting go of self-imposed expectations and guilt. There is absolutely a better way than pushing through sheer willpower until you break. The better way is leaning into the invitation: Stop fighting solo. Stop measuring worth by productivity. And start living in the reality that rest is not weakness—it’s strength. If you’re holding onto a “someday when I get there” version of rest, stop waiting. The rest you crave is available now—right in the invitation to come as you are, weary and worn. That doesn’t mean your troubles disappear immediately. But it does mean you don’t have to carry them like a punishment. Answer the call to refreshment Jesus offers. Put down your heavy load. Find shelter in a rest that renews, steadies, and rebuilds even in the hardest seasons. This isn’t a fantasy—it’s a hard reality that many have walked into and found freedom. Stop spinning. Stop dragging. Come for the rest you deserve. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #SweetSpirit #CreateYourNow #SoulfulSunday 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3987 Hear the Hurt Behind the Words
02/28/2026
3987 Hear the Hurt Behind the Words
Talking in marriage isn’t always easy. We come to the conversation eager to share what’s on our hearts—hoping to be understood and supported. But depending on your spouse’s communication style or mood, your words can land cold, or worse, cause unintended pain. Hear the hurt behind the words. Communication is the backbone of any marriage. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . You might assume this only matters in the middle of fights or uncomfortable disagreements. But hurt shows up in marriage far more often—and in ways you might not even recognize in yourself. A tone, a pause, or a simple phrase can carry layers of unspoken pain. Ignoring it doesn’t help; it only builds distance. Think about the following: Tone Breaths Phrases frequently used Place Interruptions So, how can you listen beyond words and catch the hurt your spouse might be masking? You must build a stronger bridge than the hurt itself. The K.I.S.S. ~ Build a stronger bridge! A bridge allows you to get from one side to the other. Here are three crucial moves any spouse can make: Look for the Emotion Underneath the Message Words are just the surface. What’s brewing beneath could be fear, frustration, disappointment, loneliness, or exhaustion. Instead of focusing solely on what was said, tune into how it was said. Is your spouse's voice tight or shaky? Do their eyes avoid yours? Body language and tone give away the emotional undercurrents. When you pick up on that, you acknowledge their pain even if it’s not expressed directly. Ask Open, Non-Defensive Questions When hurt hides behind words, assumptions kill clarity. Instead of jumping to conclusions or getting defensive, slow down and invite your spouse to open up. Simple questions like, “That sounds tough—what’s really going on for you?” or “I want to understand what you’re feeling—can you tell me more?” shift the conversation from blame to connection. You’re signaling you’re on their side, ready to listen without judgment. Validate the Feeling, Not Just the Facts Hearing hurt doesn’t mean you have to fix or agree immediately. It means acknowledging the feeling as real and important. Saying, “I can hear you’re upset, and that matters to me,” goes a long way to softening defenses and making your spouse feel safe. When people feel seen emotionally, even difficult conversations lose their sharp edges and open the door to real problem-solving. Marriage is messy because it deals with our rawest selves—our fears, vulnerabilities, and unmet needs. The words your spouse speaks are clues, not the whole story. By learning to hear the hurt behind the words, you build a stronger bridge to understanding and grow closer even through the hardest talks. So next time you feel a disconnect in conversation, don’t just listen—hear the hurt. Because that’s where healing and connection begin. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3986 Where Do I Run First?
02/27/2026
3986 Where Do I Run First?
When life gets messy — and let’s be honest, it always does — both parents and kids face the terrifying question: “Where do I run first?” It’s not just about geography; it’s about the who and what that can catch us when we’re falling apart under overwhelm and struggle. If parents don’t provide a safe fallback, kids often sprint toward friends, teachers, coaches, or romantic interests — places that might get them, or might just judge and reject them. This question strips parenting to its core responsibility: Are we raising kids who know our love is a rock, not a reward? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Because nothing kills trust faster than transactional love — the kind that whispers, “You have to earn my care.” Here’s the truth: No one, at any age, wants to unload their biggest fears and failures onto someone who’s counting points or judging through the lens of rigid morals and values. That’s a hard pill for parents, but the stakes are high. The Mirror Effect: Kids See Through the Facade Here’s the cold, clear reality — kids can sniff out if your love is real or just a performance. They notice when your affection depends on their grades, behavior, or achievements. That’s a deal-breaker. Because when the chips are down, what they really need is a refuge that says: “No matter what, I’m here. I’ve got you.” If they don’t find that first at home, they’ll get it somewhere else — and it might not be a place that helps them grow. So if your kid’s “first run” isn’t to you, that’s your signal right there. The question for every parent becomes: how do we build that “go-to” foundation of unconditional love — not just in word, but in practice? The K.I.S.S. ~ Build a "go-to" foundation of unconditional love! What does it look like to build that go-to foundation in real life? Here Are 3 Non-Negotiable Moves to Show Real Unconditional Love Hold Space Without Judgment When your kid comes with bad news, a mistake, or raw emotion — lock the judgment away. Listen first. Too often, parents’ knee-jerk reaction is to fix, scold, or lecture. But the first rule is this: their feelings matter, even if their choices don’t. Saying “I love you no matter what” loses power if your face and words say, “I’m disappointed.” Action Step: Practice saying “Help me understand what happened” instead of “Why did you do that?” Be Consistently Present, Especially When It’s Hard Unconditional love isn’t a fair-weather friend. It shows up during tantrums, failures, and arguments — not just when they’re hitting milestones or playing the “right” role. On tough days, your presence is the lifeline that says, “You can come home to me no matter how messy you are.” Action Step: Schedule one-on-one “undistracted time” weekly. No phones, no judgments—just you and your kid. Model Vulnerability and Own Your Own Imperfections When parents act like they’re perfect, it builds a wall. Kids need to see that the adults they run to are human—that they mess up, learn, and grow. This cracks open the door for authentic connection and reassures kids that mistakes don’t remove love. Action Step: Share a “fail” or fear with your kid and how you navigated it. Show you’re not “above” them but beside them. Why This Matters More Than Ever The WHO kids run to first isn’t just about immediate comfort — it shapes their whole approach to life’s challenges. When parents embody unconditional love, kids learn where real refuge lives. They grow up confident to share pains, mistakes, and fears without fear of rejection or manipulation. They don’t seek validation on the playground or from a partner because they know they have a home base. Parents, you must hold this responsibility tightly: your love must be a constant landing pad, not a roller coaster. That’s what builds resilient, healthy humans who will carry the legacy forward. The answer to “Where do I run first?” starts at home — with you. Show up as the safe harbor, the steady heart, the unshakable yes that doesn’t depend on conditions. Because at the end of the day, that’s the kind of love every kid deserves — and it’s the kind of parent you can be. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3985 Wear Your Smile
02/26/2026
3985 Wear Your Smile
Life isn’t a constant stream of roses and rainbows. More often, it’s weeds choking the garden and storms darkening the sky. But from those weeds and storms come blooms and skies painted with the kind of beauty you cannot fake or force. It's no wonder it's hard to wear your smile. Maybe you're struggling to smile today? I get it. Sometimes smiling feels like a mask, like pretending everything’s okay when inside you’re falling apart. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . But wearing a smile isn’t about life handing you perfect cards. It’s about choosing kindness, toward others and toward yourself, even when you feel broken or invisible. A smile is you saying, “I’m more than my current pain.” You get to extend a piece of your heart, no matter how cracked it feels. Because your situation — no matter how heavy, difficult, or lonely — is not your identity. You are not your struggle. The K.I.S.S. ~ Wear your smile! There’s a time and place for everything in life, and your smile is needed in every one of those moments. It’s a quiet act of rebellion against despair. It shows you refuse to be defined by hardship. It offers others a glimpse of hope when their own skies are stormy. So wear your smile, not because life is easy, but because your kindness matters. Because even when your heart aches and your path is uncertain, you have the power to bring light, starting with that simple curve of your lips. This isn’t about pretending; it’s about showing up as fully you, in all your messy, brave, beautiful glory. Wear Your Smile by Kristianne Wargo Wear your smile like armor, not for the world’s applause, but for the battles hidden— the quiet fights no one saw. A smile isn’t sunshine lighting every shadow in your day, it’s a choice to keep on shining when light feels far away. Wear your smile for the weary, for hearts worn thin and torn, a gentle bridge between the cracks, where hope is quietly born. It’s not a mask of pretense, but courage bent and true, a gift you give the broken parts— a promise made by you. So wear your smile as defiance, against the stormy mile, because even in the darkness, there’s power in your smile. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3984 Set the Tempo of Your Life
02/25/2026
3984 Set the Tempo of Your Life
You don’t have to like where you are. Maybe your life feels stuck in a loop you didn’t sign up for. Maybe your step feels heavy or your spirit’s been whispering for a shift you haven’t dared to make. Wait though! You’re not trapped. Not by your past, your mistakes, or the weight of what isn’t working. You get to decide how you show up each day. You get to set the tempo of your life—from what you hold onto to what you courageously let go. This is the wellspring of real well-being: the space inside where choice lives. It’s not about pretending you’re perfect or faking a smile. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . It’s about peeling back the layers and facing your reflection with honesty—not through the lens of selfish pride, but with the quiet strength of who you’re becoming. Think about Jesus, not in the way you’re used to hearing about Him, but as the purest example of someone who lived fully aligned with a divine heartbeat. He didn’t show up arrogantly, demanding attention or clinging to ego. Instead, His reflection mirrored a love so deep, so unshakeable, it moved mountains. It was the reflection of a heart connected to something greater—a heart that invites us to lean in, not because we have to, but because something inside knows it’s life-giving. As Lent unfolds—the season of peeling back distractions and readying our hearts—we’re called to hold a mirror up to ourselves. But the question isn’t “Do I look good enough?” or “Am I enough?” It’s far more profound: “Am I loving myself in a way that reflects the Father’s heart?” This isn’t about puffing up the ego; this is about resting in the truth that you are deeply known and loved, even when the edges of your life feel jagged. The K.I.S.S. ~ Set the tempo of your life! This season is a chance to press pause and listen: What thoughts, beliefs, or patterns are running the show in you? Which ones are truly serving you? Which ones need to be rewritten or released? What does it look like for you to step into the posture of strength and surrender—choosing daily to align with love over fear, grace over judgment? You don’t have to stay where you are. Even if you don’t love your reflection today, there’s a promise you can hold onto: love itself doesn’t abandon the imperfect, the broken, or the weary. God invites you to lean in, to soften, and to become a reflection of something holy and hopeful. So as you walk through these next 40 days, dare to change the rhythm of your life. Set the tempo for what’s working and bravely redefine what needs to shift. Look in the mirror and dare to love that reflection—not because it’s flawless, but because it’s marked by growth, grace, gratitude, and the presence of a Father who’s always near. You get to choose. And that’s where true well-being begins. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #WellspringWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3983 Live Like It's Christmas!
02/24/2026
3983 Live Like It's Christmas!
It’s almost springtime, and right now, the last thing on your mind might be Christmas. But there’s a powerful kind of energy that Christmas brings, one that doesn’t just come from tinsel or twinkling lights. It’s that deep-down, can’t-keep-you-down spark of happiness and purpose that ignites even when you’re running on empty. Live like it's Christmas! Remember those Christmas nights? The ones where you stayed up late, exhausted but joyful, wrapping gifts, assembling toys, or setting up big surprises for your kids? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . You did it all with a smile—even in the tiredness—because it mattered. Because giving, creating, and loving felt bigger than your fatigue. Now think about where you are: maybe it’s cold, with snow keeping you inside, and the hope of spring feels distant. It’s easy to get stuck in the blah-blah-blah-blah-blah of the “I’m so tired” and “when will this end?” routine. But here’s the honest truth: You don’t have to stay there. You get to choose—right now—how you want to feel, how you want to show up. You’re stronger and more capable than you give yourself credit for. Sitting around feeling sorry or stuck only guarantees you more of the same. You get to choose. You get to create your now. The K.I.S.S. ~ Live like it's Christmas! So why not live every day like it’s Christmas? Not for the presents, the parties, or the decorations—but for the gifts you deliver to the world. Your talents, your knowledge, your kindness—they’re the real treasures. People around you need what you have, even if you don’t realize it right now. And if you're waiting around for “happy” to knock on your door, you might be waiting a LONG time, especially when you’re in one of those tough seasons. Instead, be the reason someone smiles. Invest your unique gifts. Be generous with your time, your heart, and your energy. Because Christmas isn’t a date—it’s a mindset. It’s choosing to show up fully, even when the world feels cold and gray. Live Like It’s Christmas by Kristianne Wargo When winter drapes its heavy cloak, And days stretch long in muted cold, Remember those late-night wrapping hours, Hands tired, heart wide and bold. The quiet hum of purpose near, A sparkle in the midnight air— Not gifts alone made spirits bright, But giving wrapped with love and care. So when the world feels dull and gray, And hope’s a whisper on the breeze, Don’t wait for joy to find your door— Give it first, and set it free. Live like it’s Christmas every day, Not bound by season, date, or place, The best of life is found in gifts You give with courage, warmth, and grace. Your talent, kindness, shining light— These treasures no frost can tame, They warm the coldest rooms you know, And fan the brightest flame. So rise beyond the tired sighs, Choose joy despite your wear and tear, For in the giving, in the heart, You’ll find your Christmas there. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3982 The Walls of Comparison
02/23/2026
3982 The Walls of Comparison
We build walls around ourselves, thinking they’re shields—to keep others out, to guard our weaknesses and doubts. But what happens when walls don't protect you, the walls of comparison that keep you locked in? When a dream or goal demands stepping outside your comfort zone, you face more than fear or uncertainty. You face the trap of comparison. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . We can peer at what everyone else is doing and forget what we alone bring to the table. Our gifts, talents, and unique value get left behind because we’re too busy measuring ourselves against shadows, not our own path. Why do we get so stuck on what others are doing? More than we admit, it’s a way to dodge accountability. When you’re locked into looking at someone else’s scorecards, you can blame your own stall on “not being as lucky” or “not having as many resources.” It’s a built-in excuse, a safety net woven from envy and doubt. Who locks the doors from the inside and throws away the key? Those who aren’t satisfied with their own direction. So they focus elsewhere, and when they don’t succeed, the excuse is already waiting. Worse yet, they start modeling their own attempts on someone else’s timeline—never realizing that by watching others too closely, they’ve given up their own shot. Are you ready to stop giving up? Then unlock your walls of comparison. The K.I.S.S. ~ Unlock your walls of comparison! Breaking Free: 3 Moves To Unlock Your Walls of Comparison 1. Zero in on Your Own Scorecard. Forget everyone else’s stats, timelines, or "success hacks." What does progress look like for you? And be specific with your thoughts. Be sure to celebrate the smaller wins, too, because they become your real markers. Example: Instead of scrolling through Instagram comparing your life to others’, jot down three ways you’ve moved forward today. Own that momentum. 2. Reframe Envy into Inspiration, not Imitation. When you catch yourself thinking, “They have it all, and I don’t,” pause and ask: What specifically inspires me here? What purpose does this serve? Use that to fuel your own creativity, not direct you toward copying someone else’s path. Example: Admire a competitor’s marketing style? Take what works for you, but add your own voice and perspective. A bold tweak beats a bland copy every time. 3. Embrace the Discomfort of being “a little nervous.” Nervousness means growth; uncertainty means you are stepping up. Sit with that feeling instead of retreating into comparison, which masquerades as safety but only leaves you stagnant. Example: If you’re scared to pitch your offer to a client, do it anyway. The actions that scare you are often the ones that propel you forward. What Can We Learn From the Winter Olympics? Take a look at the 2026 Winter Olympics. The USA Men’s Hockey Team had not won a Gold medal for 46 years. For nearly five decades, they had more silver and near misses than victories. If they had stayed stuck replaying every loss, every past failure, they would never have broken through. But they didn’t! They stayed focused on each game, the day, and the goal—not the ghosts of past performance or the looming shadow of their opponent. And when it mattered most, the USA beat Canada 2-1 in overtime. Now, you might be thinking, what does this have to do with me? What's the real lesson? If athletes locked themselves inside the walls of comparison, they would never make history. Your life works the same way. You either stay imprisoned by what others have done—or you push forward, no matter the fear. Be Honest with Yourself Look honestly at your own walls of comparison. Are they holding you captive? Or are you willing to be a little nervous, shift your focus inward, and move beyond standing still? Change isn’t comfortable. But comfort zones never made an Olympic Gold medalist. They made you locked inside a prison you built yourself. So tear down those walls of comparison and let your light shine! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3981 Seek the Lord
02/22/2026
3981 Seek the Lord
Too much of our lives are spent running our own race—scaling mountains, crossing rugged terrains we've never faced before—chasing after answers and strength as if we must do it all alone. We push ourselves to find solutions, to prove our worth, to reach the other side on our own terms. But what if you were to seek the Lord? What if the breakthrough isn’t found in our striving or in the distant horizon? What if the source of hope and peace is much closer than we realize? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Isaiah 55:6 reminds us: “Seek the Lord while he may be found, call on him while he is near.” This isn’t some random statement; it’s a life-giving truth for now. No matter the storms raging in your heart—doubts swirling, fears tightening their grip, shame whispering you’re not enough—God isn’t far off. He is near. Ready, waiting, drawing close to those who reach out with a willing heart. Maybe you feel stuck on a side of the mountain shadowed by past mistakes or present struggles. Maybe the climb is too steep, and the way forward isn’t clear. The K.I.S.S. ~ Seek the Lord! God’s nearness means you don’t have to carry that burden alone. Call to Him. Seek Him. It’s not about having all the answers or perfect faith; it’s about taking that first step toward Him—even if it’s just a whisper, a quiet hope, or a shaky prayer. God’s presence brings more than comfort—it brings strength to keep going, freedom from fear, and fresh courage to face another day. God meets us in our brokenness and lifts us up with unwavering love. When you seek the Lord, you open the door to grace that changes the story you thought you were stuck in. So, stop running the race alone. Stop wrestling with doubts that make you want to hide. God’s invitation stands strong: Seek Him. Call on Him. You’re closer to Him than you think—and that nearness is the hope and help you need to create your now. God’s got you. Always. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #SweetSpirit #CreateYourNow #SoulfulSunday 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3980 Love with Tethered Hearts
02/21/2026
3980 Love with Tethered Hearts
Discomfort in a relationship is often seen as a warning sign or a problem to be avoided. But what if those uncomfortable moments, like disagreements, frustrations, and misunderstandings, are actually the very gateways to a deeper connection and more rewarding marriage? Strip away the noise and love with tethered hearts. When you strip away the noise of everyday life and the tiny irritations that pull you apart, what remains is an opportunity: a chance to grow side by side, tethered heart to heart. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Most couples don’t realize that navigating discomfort together isn’t just about surviving the storm; it’s about discovering new dimensions of love, trust, and respect that weren’t visible before. A love tethered to your partner’s heart isn’t a fairy tale—it’s an achievable, powerful reality. “Love with tethered hearts” means being deeply and unwaveringly connected to your partner—emotionally, mentally, and spiritually—in a way that keeps you linked even when life gets messy or difficult. Think of it like two hearts tied together with a strong, flexible cord that stretches and moves but never breaks or lets you drift apart. It’s different from the easy, surface-level love that fades at the first sign of conflict or discomfort. Instead, tethered hearts are bound by conscious commitment, trust, and understanding. You’re not just living side by side; you’re intentionally anchored to each other through every challenge, disagreement, and season of change. This kind of love means: Showing up fully, even when it’s hard Holding space for vulnerability without judgment Choosing connection over convenience, time and again Feeling understood and accepted, not despite flaws but because of them When your hearts are tethered, discomfort isn’t a wedge but a thread weaving you closer together. It’s the love that outlasts passion and infatuation because it’s built on something deeper and far more resilient—a bond that no storm can sever. Think about how you see your marriage now. What stands out to you? The arguments The intimacy (or lack thereof) The separation of presence The ears to hear The heart to love What if you were to stop long enough to care about your spouse like you did when you wanted to go on that first date or as you planned your dream wedding? Don't let your marriage fail because life throws everything at you. Love deeper than the ocean. The K.I.S.S. ~ Love deeper than the ocean! Love does not happen by accident. It takes a determined mind and heart to connect to another's. Yet, it's not impossible. You can have that love with tethered hearts. Here are three actions any spouse can take to deepen that tether and tap into a relationship depth like never before: Lean Into Listening (Not Fixing) When discomfort strikes, the natural reaction is to jump in with solutions, advice, or defenses. But forging a true emotional tether demands something different. It requires full, undistracted listening. Let your partner’s words wash over you without planning your rebuttal or trying to “fix” things. In those moments, you communicate that their feelings matter more than the outcome. Listen to understand the heart behind the complaint or disagreement—and you’ll discover truths about your partner and yourself that you never expected. Embrace Vulnerability Over Victory Too often, arguments become contests to prove who’s right. But tethered hearts aren’t about winning; they’re about showing up authentically, even when it feels risky. Be brave enough to share your fears, doubts, and pain amidst the discomfort. Vulnerability is the bridge built with sweat and courage—cross it together and you break down walls that keep you isolated. When you can reveal your true self without fear of judgment, the bond you share strengthens and deepens. Prioritize Connection Over Convenience Life throws challenges—work stress, family demands, schedules that never stop. It’s easy to get tangled in all the “stuff” and lose sight of the relationship’s foundation. To tether yourself to your partner’s heart, you must prioritize your connection deliberately. This means carving out moments to be fully present, to engage in rituals that remind you both why you chose each other, and to hold steady during rough patches instead of retreating or tuning out. Connection requires fuel—don’t let it run on fumes. Love with tethered hearts isn’t born from ease but forged in the heat of challenge and discomfort. When you commit to listening deeply, embracing vulnerability, and prioritizing your connection over convenience, you unlock a depth in your marriage few couples dare to reach. That depth becomes a sanctuary where love isn’t just an emotion, but a resilient force that holds you both steady—no matter what life throws your way. You want that kind of love? Then start welcoming discomfort as the unpolished chance to grow together, not the threat that pulls you apart. The deeper your tether, the more unbreakable your bond. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3979 How to Win Your Parenting Conversations
02/20/2026
3979 How to Win Your Parenting Conversations
Parenting isn’t about having the loudest voice in the room or the last word every time. It’s about precision, strategy, and understanding how every move impacts the next. You may be the expert, but be careful how you share the wisdom. Whether you want to admit it or not, you can learn how to win your parenting conversations better. In honor of the Olympics, I want you to think of your parenting conversations like the sport of Curling—where every stone you throw changes the "game," and success isn’t guaranteed just because you have the advantage. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . In curling, players slide heavy stones across the ice towards a target. But it’s not just about strength; it’s about angle, speed, timing, and subtle adjustments. If you throw a stone too hard or at the wrong angle, it can miss the target, or worse, give your opponents the chance to steal points. Parenting conversations are like those curling stones. The words you choose, the tone, and the timing all influence the outcomes in your child’s mind and heart. You may have the authority, just like holding the hammer in curling gives you the last shot, but your kids can “steal” the moment, either aligning with you or pushing back, based on what you say and how you say it. Every conversation leaves a mark on the heart. You're either building trust and confidence or chipping away at their self-worth. The pressure is real, but the possibility of you winning the conversation is much greater. Take the risk, take A.I.M.! The K.I.S.S. ~ Win the conversation! The Three Moves Every Parent Can Master to Win the Conversation Game Aim With Empathy, Not Just Authority When you speak, think about the angle of your words. Are you sliding them gently to meet your child’s feelings, or are you crashing the stone recklessly, ignoring what they’re going through? Instead of commands or criticism, start conversations by tuning in to what your child needs emotionally. This sets a better trajectory for openness and connection, making it easier for them to engage rather than resist. Control Your Speed and Tone Curling stones require just the right velocity — too fast, and you miss; too slow, and you never get close. Likewise, your tone can either accelerate conflict or slow it down thoughtfully. Speak calmly, clearly, and with intention. Fast, harsh words might rattle your child and push them away, while steady, kind words invite them to listen and respond positively. Practice Your Release — Choose Words That Build, Not Break How you release the stone defines its path. In parenting, your word choice is your release. Positive, encouraging language can "curl" the conversation toward cooperation and trust, while negative or careless words can leave wounds that linger long after. Challenge yourself to speak in ways that affirm your child’s worth, even when correcting or setting boundaries. Your Child’s Heart Is the House — Protect It Like Your Last Stone Remember, parenting isn’t about winning every debate or “having the last say.” Your kids can and will “steal” the conversation’s momentum if they feel understood and valued—or slam the door if they don’t. Like curling, the best players know how to work with the ice, not just overpower it. Every chat with your child is a chance to slide a stone that builds their confidence and your relationship. When you take control of your words like a skilled curler with a perfect release, you don’t just play the game — you win the hearts. You’re not just throwing stones in the dark. Start aiming your words with empathy, control your tone like the speed of the slide, and release with positive intention. Your conversations will stop being battles and start becoming breakthroughs. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3978 Gain a Heart of Wisdom
02/19/2026
3978 Gain a Heart of Wisdom
In the rush of modern life, it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters. So much of our energy flows toward chasing someone else’s dream, trying to fit into others’ expectations, or simply surviving the relentless pace of day-to-day routines. Consider the timeless words from Psalm 90:12 ~ “Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” What does it mean to number our days? It’s not some grim countdown or morbid fixation. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . It’s an invitation to live each day with intention—awareness that our time isn’t infinite and should not be wasted on autopilot. Numbering our days means recognizing the value of each moment and choosing to learn the kind of wisdom that changes our hearts and shapes our lives. Why is this important? Because without intentional reflection, it’s easy to drift. We slip into habits that keep us so busy, so distracted, we miss out on deeper understanding and genuine growth. We become skilled at activity but flawed in purpose. Wisdom comes not from more tasks checked off but from insightful living—a kind of maturity that flows from knowing where we’ve been and where we want to go. The K.I.S.S. ~ Gain a heart of wisdom! So how can we begin to number our days and open ourselves to this heart of wisdom? 1. Step out of autopilot Pause today and ask yourself: Am I present for this day, or just going through the motions? Awareness is the doorway to change. Don’t wait for a crisis or a wake-up call. Lean into the discomfort of slowing down, and ask yourself what your life is teaching you right now. 2. Reflect honestly on your priorities Look at where your time goes—not just what you say is important, but the reality of your daily habits. Are you living for someone else’s definition of success? Is busyness masking a deeper emptiness? When we number our days, we see clearly where to cut the clutter and make room for what truly fuels us. 3. Seek wisdom from your own experiences Every day brings lessons if we’re paying attention. Don’t dismiss setbacks or challenges—they are often the best teachers. Journal your thoughts, meditate on your choices, and be curious about what your life is nudging you toward. Wisdom isn’t a sudden download; it’s earned through reflection and learning. 4. Cultivate a heart that welcomes growth Wisdom requires humility—the willingness to admit what we don’t know and to embrace new perspectives. Practice gratitude for lessons learned, even when they’re tough. Be open to changing old beliefs or habits that no longer serve you. This is an invitation, not an obligation. Numbering your days isn’t about guilt or pressure; it’s about reclaiming your time and stepping fully into your own journey. It’s about building a heart that understands what matters beneath the surface noise and fleeting distractions. The days ahead are your chance to live with intention, to gather wisdom like treasure, and to walk a path that honors your unique story. Don’t let your life be measured by habits alone—let it be shaped by presence and purpose. Start today. Number your days and gain a heart of wisdom. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3977 Plant Your Patience
02/18/2026
3977 Plant Your Patience
In the relentless rush of daily life, it’s easy to feel like we’re sprinting on a treadmill set to max speed, chasing the next goal, the next move, the next achievement—only to end up overwhelmed, exhausted, and stuck in a loop of what we didn’t get done. That constant hurry doesn’t just steal time; it steals clarity, joy, and the chance to grow something meaningful. What if, instead of rushing, you plant your patience? What if you slowed down, dug deep, and gave yourself the permission to nurture progress with care—not speed? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . The truth is simple but often ignored: anything worth having or becoming takes time. Success. Mastery. Healing. Connection. All these start as small seeds—fragile and tentative. They need watering, sunlight, and time to sprout and grow strong. Life gets confusing when we let the chaos of busyness control us. The tangled mess we often find ourselves in is rarely due to external forces but rather to our letting impatience lead, pushing us into frantic motion that scatters our focus and energy. Here’s a new perspective: patience is not passive waiting. It’s an active, powerful choice to nurture your goals thoughtfully, to respect the natural pace of growth, and to stay present in the process instead of racing toward the finish line. The K.I.S.S. ~ Plant your patience! Ready to grow your patience and watch your progress blossom? Start with these three things: Plant Belief as Your Seed Every change begins with belief—the conviction that what you want is possible and worth the time it takes. Without this foundation, patience feels like a frustrating wait. With belief, it becomes a hopeful planting, a promise to yourself that you’re investing in your future. Nourish with Consistent Action, Not Instant Results Patience isn’t about sitting still; it’s about steady, deliberate care. Small, purposeful steps compound over time to produce growth. Celebrate the daily efforts—even when results aren’t immediate—to build momentum and faith in the process. Create Space to Reflect and Adjust Growth doesn’t happen in chaos. Carve out moments away from distractions to observe your progress, adjust your approach, and quiet the noise of doubt. Mindful reflection refuels patience and keeps your vision grounded. Remember: patience is a muscle you build with practice, not a fixed trait you either have or don’t. The more you cultivate it, the more your progress expands naturally and powerfully. To honor this journey, here’s an original poem by Kristianne Wargo that captures the magic of planting patience and believing in the impossible: Planting Patience by Kristianne Wargo Plant the seed, though the soil is bare, though the days feel slow, though no bloom is there. Water it with belief, sunlight of quiet grace, roots grow beneath— in their own time and place. Storms may come, and winds may bend, but patience is the promise that growth has no end. So slow your hurry, tend with care, great things take time— they blossom where You dare to plant patience there. Patience planted is progress made. When you root your actions in belief and nurture them with steady care, the impossible shifts closer to inevitable. It’s time to stop rushing. Start planting. Watch your growth surprise you. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #WellspringWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3976 Come Back to Center
02/17/2026
3976 Come Back to Center
There’s no shortage of promises out there, like tools, trends, gurus, and hacks, where each one claims they can flip your life upside down or side-step you straight to success. But just because something is out there flashing like a neon sign does not mean you should use it, follow it, or whatever with it. It's not necessarily meant for you. However, the real power lies in peeling back all that noise and coming back to what is true; come back to center. This isn’t about swallowing the half-truths that momentarily trick you into thinking you know what’s next or forcing yourself into a mold that doesn’t fit. It’s about being brutally real and raw with yourself, knowing who you are and who you are becoming. No fluff. No distractions. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . The endless scramble for what’s next breeds a sneaky fear—the fear of missing out. Who wants to feel like they’re getting left behind? No one. But here’s a little secret you’ve got to laugh at: you’re not missing out by messing up. Yes, messing up! Sometimes the chaos is exactly where the lessons are hiding. So go ahead—giggle a little at the mess, because that’s how you know you’re showing up, fully present and alive. That’s what coming back to center feels like. Stop chasing the next shiny object, sprinting from one distraction to another. Instead, look at where you are right now and where you want to be. Life’s too short to miss the messy moments that carry the biggest treasures. The K.I.S.S. ~ Come back to center! Some of the most precious blessings don’t come wrapped in perfection. They come through the cracks in the chaos. The sweet spots in the struggle. Come back to center and see them clearly. Take the time to ground yourself. Get honest about your current reality and what’s possible from here. Because only when you’re truly centered can you make the next move with clarity and confidence. “One step at a time leads to miles of greatness.” ~ Kristianne Wargo So stop spinning. Stop chasing. Come back to center. That’s where everything real begins. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3975 The Power of Silence
02/16/2026
3975 The Power of Silence
Our lives are flooded with noise—incessant messages screaming for attention, endless notifications begging for a glance, countless demands pulling us in every direction. It’s no wonder we feel confused and disoriented, overwhelmed by the mass of distractions that invade even a single hour. Take a moment and absorb the power of silence. Now it's hard to be still in silence. Think about how many alerts, emails, texts, and tasks are stacking up in that tiny slice of time? Usually, we bite off more than we can chew—and then get choked up by the pressure of what’s next. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . So, imagine what would happen if you intentionally stepped back and embraced silence—not the kind of silence where you’re idle or checked out, but a powerful, purposeful silence where your mind clears and your focus sharpens. The real power of silence is in the intentional pause. It’s choosing to step away from the chaos, the scrambling, and the noise so you can regain control and clarity. This kind of silence fuels concentration—not distraction. It tunes your mindset toward precision rather than panic. It demands intentionality from every decision rather than letting your choices be hijacked by whatever shouts loudest. It ignites focus, determination, and hope, rather than fatigue and confusion. When you harness the power of silence, you’re not running from life—you’re engaging with it on your own terms. You’re setting your own rhythm instead of reacting to the world’s frantic speed. The K.I.S.S. ~ Engage with intentional silence every day! So, what are three ways you can embrace and engage this intentional silence every day? Schedule Silence Like a Meeting If you want silence to work for you, you have to treat it seriously. Block a consistent time on your calendar—a span long enough to think, reflect, or strategize without distraction. Guard this time as fiercely as you would a doctor's appointment or an important deadline. Create a Distraction-Free Zone Silence doesn’t just mean shutting your lips. It means shutting down the constant digital noise too. Turn off notifications, close unnecessary tabs, and put your phone in another room if you have to. Your environment must support your purpose. Use Silence to Guide Action, Not Avoid It Intentional silence isn’t procrastination dressed up as meditation. It’s a tool to sharpen your clarity and set your direction. Use the space to prioritize what truly matters and craft your next move with conviction. The point isn’t to escape the mess of daily demands—it’s to find the quiet space where your mind recalibrates and your will grows strong. When you own this silence, you walk forward with purpose, not reaction. You act with confidence, not hesitation. You decide with courage, not confusion. Silence isn’t empty. It’s full of power. It gives you the chance to rewrite your story with clarity instead of contradiction. It lights a path through the noise and leads you to where your focus, determination, and hope reside. So don’t wait for silence to find you. Seize it. Own it. Use it. Your next level begins when you choose to turn down the volume and tune in to what really matters. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3974 Love On Purpose
02/15/2026
3974 Love On Purpose
Valentine’s weekend invites us to think about love—the kind that fills our hearts and shapes our relationships. But far too often, we get stuck in the world’s limited view of love: conditional, transactional, and filtered through our own failures and insecurities. God’s love, however, breaks every mold. His love is unconditional, relentless, and sees beyond our flaws. And then, He calls us to love others the same way. Love on purpose. Yet as we know, it’s easy to judge others based on our own shortcomings. We carry unhealed wounds, past hurts, and false beliefs about how people should be, often measuring love by performance or appearance. But God doesn’t work that way. “For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart” (1 Samuel 16:7). Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . God loves us fully—quirks, warts, mistakes, and all—and asks us to do the same for others. “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you” (Ephesians 4:32). When we love on purpose, we love past the surface and beyond judgment. Take Off the Mask What if, this Valentine’s weekend, we stopped putting conditions on who deserves our love? What if we stopped expecting others to look or act a certain way before we show them kindness? “Judge not, that you be not judged” (Matthew 7:1) challenges us to remove those filters and biases. So, take off the mask and see people as God sees them: beloved, valuable, broken, and in need of grace. “Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins” (1 Peter 4:8). This isn’t cheap love; it’s a deliberate choice to meet others where they are, not where we think they should be. How Would Loving Like God Change Us? When we love unconditionally, our hearts shift. We become more patient, more compassionate, and less reactive. We stop guarding against disappointment and start embracing acceptance. “Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another” (Ephesians 4:31-32). The K.I.S.S. ~ Love on purpose! This kind of love transforms your daily interactions. Instead of reacting from a place of frustration or fear, you get to respond with generosity and hope—because God’s love has already covered you, and me. Love Elevated: Beyond a Holiday With it being Valentine’s Day weekend, we often focus on romantic love, but God’s love reaches far wider and deeper. It invites us to love on purpose—not only those closest to us but also the overlooked, the difficult, and the imperfect. “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another” (John 13:34). Loving like God is the highest calling and the truest gift we can give. Your Next Move Challenge yourself to love without the conditions you normally set. See beyond the mask. Show up for people not because they meet your standards, but because God’s love compels you. When you love on purpose, you don’t just mirror God’s heart—you bring His kingdom here on earth, in the way you live and love every single day. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #SweetSpirit#CreateYourNow #SoulfulSunday 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3973 The Sweetness that Melts the Heart
02/14/2026
3973 The Sweetness that Melts the Heart
When you hear “sweetness” in love, your mind probably jumps straight to chocolates, flowers, and sparkly gifts. That’s the story commercials love to tell us—the more you spend, the brighter your love shines. But the sweetness that melts the heart isn’t wrapped in paper or tagged with a price. It’s something far rarer, deeper, and more powerful. The real sweetness comes from that raw, vulnerable place inside—the one that says, “I see you. I choose you. I cherish what’s only ours.” Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . It’s not about matching the world’s expectations or outdoing the latest Instagram couple. It’s about turning your attention from the noise, the flashy gestures, and the “should-dos” to what genuinely feeds your connection. Imagine what would happen if, instead of chasing the next big thing, you created moments only the two of you understand, moments that become a private treasure no one else can touch. The K.I.S.S. ~ Craft a private treasure! Here are three ways a spouse can craft that kind of treasure: Listen Like It’s the Easiest Thing in the World Forget multitasking or half-hearing. True sweetness is showing up fully—hearing the unsaid, noticing the small shifts in tone and energy. When you listen deeply, your partner feels seen and safe. That’s the kind of richness no store can provide. Create Private Rituals That Echo Your Story Instead of mimicking a checklist of date ideas, build rituals that speak to your history together. Maybe it’s a Sunday morning coffee made exactly how your spouse loves it, or a secret handshake that makes only the two of you smile. These seemingly small acts become emotional investments that grow sweeter every time you share them. Speak Your Heart, Even When It’s Scary Vulnerability isn’t weakness—it’s the ultimate form of strength. Sharing your fears, hopes, or a simple “I appreciate you” with no expectation attached builds trust and closeness. That honest connection dissolves walls and melts hearts deeper than any diamond. Life doesn’t wait. Every moment you spend chasing the shiny and predictable is a moment you’re not deepening the one thing money can’t buy: a heart that keeps learning to love your person better. So drop the script everyone else is reading and rewrite your own. Celebrate your love with a sweetness that’s not a costume or decoration, but a living, breathing bond only you two can share. That’s the sweetness that melts the heart. Sweetness Beyond the Gift by Kristianne Wargo Not in wrapped boxes, ribbons tight, Nor priced tags gleaming in the light. Sweetness blooms where silence speaks, In quiet moments, between heartbeats. It’s in the look, the knowing glance, The secret laugh, the stolen dance. Not found in what the world demands, But held within your trembling hands. To listen—truly, deep and slow, Where whispered truths like rivers flow. A ritual shaped by just two souls, A love that mends and quietly holds. Vulnerability, the bravest art, The naked sharing of your heart. Beyond the flash, the grand parade, In simple grace, a bond is made. So turn your eyes from worldly show, Find what only you both know— A sweetness rich, none can divide, The treasure of love found deep inside. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3972 You Make My Heart So Happy!
02/13/2026
3972 You Make My Heart So Happy!
Valentine’s Day comes around each year like clockwork, bringing with it the usual swirl of red hearts, chocolates, and flowers. But for a mom, these symbols of love can sometimes feel surface-level, like they’re missing the real heartbeat beneath all the glitter and sugar. Because the truth is, the kind of love that fills a mother’s chest isn’t wrapped up neatly in a box or tied with a bow. It’s messy, wild, tender, and deeply personal. It’s found in late-night cuddles, scraped knees comforted, and whispered “I love you’s” that echo long after bedtime—you make my heart so happy! Your child is not just a recipient of love—they are love in motion. Every giggle, every fierce try, every moment of curiosity is a thread woven into the fabric of your heart. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . They carry a collection of unique gifts and talents that make them who they are, and these gifts deserve more than just a nod on Valentine’s Day. They deserve to be seen, celebrated, and nourished in ways that build confidence and joy well beyond this single day. As a mom, you know the fierce pride that rises when you watch your child try something new or stand tall despite their fears. You feel it in the small moments—when they share their dreams, offer kindness, or reveal a spark of creativity you didn’t see before. This Valentine’s Day, lean into that fierce love with intention. Celebrate your child not with candy or flowers but with words and actions that honor the bouquet of talents and heartbeats they bring into your world. The kind of celebration that serves them long term, planting seeds of self-worth and happiness they’ll carry through every year to come. The K.I.S.S. ~ Celebrate your child! Here’s how you can honor your child’s unique light this Valentine’s Day—and make their heart just as happy as yours. 1. Write a Love Letter That Speaks Their Language No generic Valentine’s card can compare to a letter from you that names exactly what makes your child shine. Write down the moments you saw their courage, kindness, or creativity in action. Be specific: “I loved how you stood up for your friend today,” or “Your drawing made me smile because it’s so full of imagination.” This focused attention tells your child, “I see you—truly and deeply,” and that kind of love sticks with them long term. 2. Fill a Love Jar With Affirmations They Can Reach For Anytime Every child needs a reminder they’re extraordinary, especially when days feel tough. Fill a jar with little notes of praise, favorite memories, or fun challenges tied to their passions. Whether they pull out a note before a test or on a gloomy day, these bites of encouragement become a portable pep talk from their biggest fan—you. It’s an ongoing celebration that keeps on giving. 3. Create a Mini Celebration Around What Makes Them Glow What activities make your child’s eyes light up and their smile widen? Maybe solving puzzles, dancing, or helping around the house? Dedicate Valentine’s afternoon to that passion. This choice says, “I notice what you love, and you deserve time to do it.” When children feel their interests are valued, it builds confidence that outlasts any sweet treat. Valentine’s Day is the perfect moment to trade the expected for the exceptional—to tell your child with actions and words that they are deeply loved for exactly who they are and what they bring into the world. Because when you celebrate your child’s true gifts, you’re planting seeds of pride and joy they’ll carry for life. And that's when you say—you make your heart so happy. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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3971 You Can’t Have Everything—And That’s Okay!
02/12/2026
3971 You Can’t Have Everything—And That’s Okay!
It’s all too easy to feel crushed when things don't appear to be going our way. We want immediate results with little to no effort. But the reality is, you can’t have everything—and that’s okay! Because if you did have everything, you’d be perfect. And that would change everything, not just for you but for the world. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Let's take a bite out of the for a hot minute. Perfection would freeze you in place, robbing you of growth, struggle, and the raw humanity that shapes your unique story. Now you might be wanting to give up that struggle, but remember, beauty comes from pressure. The K.I.S.S. ~ Create your now! So let’s cut the nonsense of complaining and comparing. Instead, focus on what you do have. Notice the blessings you’re still creating, the work-in-progress that others often miss. See the messy, imperfect, chaotic path, and find within it your hidden treasures — the gifts you’re polishing up, the diamonds in the rough only you possess. This isn’t a consolation prize. It’s the foundation of your one-of-a-kind masterpiece. You don’t have to be flawless. You get to be real. You have to be all in on the beautiful, complicated, unfinished work of becoming exactly who you’re meant to be; who you are now and who you are becoming. So stop chasing everyone else's journey. Own your journey. Build the living legacy only you can create. Because the world needs YOU! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏 on Pray.com () 🎥 on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 () ✍️ Instagram Twitter Facebook Cover Art by Photo by Music by - Overcomer Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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