3948 Play YOUR Game Always!
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Itâs easy to get caught up in the hustle: where youâre going, what you need to do next, andâmost dangerouslyâwhat everyone else is doing. When the pressure piles up, itâs tempting to look sideways, to compare your progress, your strategy, or your style to those around you. But if you want to reach places you havenât been, you have to play YOUR game always! That means something simple yet incredibly powerful: show up as YOU every single day. No noise, no side distractions, no sneaky comparison traps. Just your game on your terms. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other...
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3947 Why Fear Is Not What's Holding You Back
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Fear has a sneaky way of showing up and rallying an entire battalion of emotions. Doubt, anxiety, indecision, frustrationâthey all line up behind fear, forming an invisible yet impenetrable wall that paralyzes you from moving forward. So, have you ever wondered why fear is not what's holding you back? When those wall feels high, your first instinct might be to bulldoze through with brute force. Push harder. Hustle nonstop. Throw all your energy at the problem until something breaks. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . But hereâs where most...
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3946 Find Peace in the Midst of Troubles
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Troubles come to all of usâand how we handle them defines our peace and effectiveness. Sarah Youngâs insight from Jesus Calling drives this home: "Rehearsing your troubles results in experiencing them many times, whereas you are meant to go through them only when they actually occur." You can find peace in the midst of troubles. This truth challenges a common tendencyâto ruminate on problems long before (or after) they happen, replaying them in our minds like a broken record. Instead, God calls us to a different way of handling struggle, a way rooted in trust, courage, and rest....
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3945 The Heartbeat of a Powerhouse Marriage
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Marriage isnât about becoming one person. Itâs about two whole individuals choosing to grow together in a way that creates something far stronger than the sum of its parts. But the reality? That kind of connection doesnât come easy. It takes diligent, ongoing effort for each spouse to develop themselves as confident individuals, and then to intentionally build a relationship that thrives on shared purpose and deep connection. That's the heartbeat of a powerhouse marriage. Consider Dan and Joanne Miller. Dan Miller, the New York Times Best-Selling author who passed two years ago, left a...
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3944 Love Them More Than It Hurts
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Why do our children challenge us so much that it strangles our hearts? Raising kids is tough on parents; who cares about how the kids feel? Yet we deeply care about them. However, it's during those difficult times that we learn to love them more than it hurts. Raising kids is brutal sometimes. On the surface, it might seem like parents should just lay down the rules, set boundaries, and move on. But if it were that simple, parenting wouldnât tear us up so deeply. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . So why do our kids challenge us in ways that...
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3943 Give Up What Doesn't Work
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Imagine this for a moment: Youâre gearing up for the Super Bowl of your life. Every move calculated, every drill intentional, every moment optimized. Would you spend time doing things that donât workâthings that have brought you zero results? Of course not. Youâd double down on what delivers every single time. So why not give up what doesn't work? So why, in the everyday game of life and business, do we cling so stubbornly to habits, strategies, or mindsets that have proven ineffective? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . The...
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3942 Do More Than Dream
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Are you one of the millions who want to live a healthier lifestyle than where you are now? Every new year brings a wave of resolutions promising weight loss, better habits, and a healthier life. Itâs no surprise that âlive healthierâ is one of the most common resolutions out there. But resolutions are just ideas floating in your head. They donât carry weightâno pun intendedâuntil you turn them into action; do more than dream. Why does this happen year after year? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Because wanting something isnât...
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3941 Organize Your Space to Make Room for Action
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Nothing fuels ambition quite like setting out on a bold adventure toward your goals and dreams. Youâve got big plans, and the vision of where you want to go is crystal clear. But hereâs the truth: dreaming alone wonât get you there. To climb that peak, you need a launching pad â and that starts when you organize your space to make room for action. Think about it. If all you ever did was sit back, waiting for success or opportunity to arrive without effort, how far would you get? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Spoiler Alert: Not...
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3940 Toss Out the Thoughts and Doubts that Hold You Back
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Just because itâs a new year doesnât mean a reset happens automatically. In reality, most of our attempts to start fresh are clouded by lingering fears about what we didnât finish, didnât accomplish, or simply gave up on. If you want to move ahead and actually reach your goals and dreams this year, you have to toss out the thoughts and doubts that hold you back. I donât know about you, but over time, repeated failures do more than just sting â they infect our mindset and sabotage our ambition. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . ...
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3939 Man Shall Not Live on Bread Alone
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
In one of the most powerful moments of Jesusâ life, when He was tested in the wilderness (Matthew 4:1-4), He faced raw human hunger. The devil tempted Him with a straightforward challenge: âTurn these stones into bread.â After all, Jesus is hungry after fasting for forty days and forty nights. The need was real, the desire immediate. Yet Jesus' response cuts deeper than physical need: âIt is written: âMan shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.ââ That reply is not just about hunger or sustenance. Itâs a declaration about the source of...
info_outlineWhen it comes to parent and child relationships, one question often arises: Can a child say no to a parent? It may not be encouraged depending on how you were brought up or the influencers around you. So, is NO a bad word?
Think about it. This seemingly straightforward inquiry delves deep into the realms of communication, respect, and understanding within families.
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The concept of saying no to a parent can evoke a myriad of emotions and opinions. Traditional views may assert that children should always obey their parents, a notion deeply rooted in generations of parenting practices.
However, as society evolves and the understanding of child psychology grows, the idea of children having a voice in their interactions with parents has gained traction.
Respecting a child's boundaries and allowing them to express their autonomy is essential for their emotional development. Encouraging open communication and listening to a child's concerns can foster a sense of trust and respect within the parent-child relationship.
Setting healthy boundaries teaches children that their opinions and feelings are valid, helping to build their self-esteem and confidence.
Moreover, recognizing a child's right to say no can also serve as a valuable lesson in consent and personal agency. Teaching children to assert their boundaries early in life can empower them to navigate relationships, peer pressure, and potential risks as they grow older.
However, the question of whether a child can say no to a parent is not without its complexities. Balancing a child's autonomy with parental authority requires a delicate approach. Parents must strike a balance between setting boundaries and allowing room for expression, guiding their children with empathy and understanding.
Ultimately, the ability for a child to say no to a parent is a sign of a healthy, communicative relationship. It speaks to a dynamic where both parties feel heard and respected, fostering mutual understanding and emotional growth.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Explore boundaries!
In order for a child to understand how NO can be used in a respectful manner, the parent needs to model it.
And unfortunately, that doesn't come easy, especially if you were raised that children are to be seen and not heard.
But then, how do they have a voice? How does their self-esteem grow if they are not seen and heard?
Muting children for the ease of your life does not serve them well. And as a parent, we are called to love and serve our children well, to love them unconditionally, and to raise them to be productive adults who impact the world that they touch.
1. Active Listening: Encourage the child to actively listen to the other person's perspective before expressing their own thoughts. This teaches the importance of understanding different viewpoints and promotes respectful dialogue.
2. Use "I" Statements: Encourage the child to use "I" statements when expressing their feelings or opinions. For example, "I feel frustrated when..." or "I would prefer if...". This helps the child take ownership of their emotions and communicate assertively yet respectfully.
3. Practice Empathy: Encourage the child to consider the other person's feelings and perspectives when expressing themselves. By fostering empathy, children learn to communicate with sensitivity and understanding, promoting respectful interactions with others.
As you navigate the nuances of parent-child dynamics, remember that healthy relationships are built on trust, respect, and open communication. Encouraging children to express their boundaries and opinions establishes a foundation for strong, resilient connections that can withstand the tests of time.
In the journey of parenting, embracing the concept of a child saying no to a parent can lead to deeper connections and a greater sense of harmony within the family unit. By nurturing a space for open dialogue and mutual respect, we can empower our children to navigate the world with confidence and compassion.
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