4060 A Little Bit of Love
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
We live in a world that often feels like it’s spinning too fast, demanding more than we can give, pulling our attention in every direction but inward. It’s easy to get stuck reacting to the noise around us, to the pressures and expectations flying at us like relentless waves. But what if the real anchor isn’t out there—it’s right here, inside you? What if the difference between feeling overwhelmed and feeling whole is simply giving yourself a little bit of love? This isn’t about knowing everything or having those perfect moments. It’s about the quiet practice of compassion toward...
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4059 Ask the Hard Questions to Get the Honest Answers
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Life’s noise and distractions are relentless. When you pause, even for a moment, you might notice that your mind is cluttered, not with what truly matters, but with trivial nagging thoughts and surface-level worries. Those persistent little things hammering at your head and heart don’t deserve the space. What you really need is to dig deeper and ask the hard questions to get the honest answers. But most people don’t want to ask the hard questions because they secretly crave an easy escape. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Think about...
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4058 The Story of Your Family
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When you reflect on your life, where does your family fit in the grand story? Is God at the center of your family's narrative by genuine choice, or is His presence more a matter of convenience? The story of your family is not a ledger of right or wrong actions, successes or mistakes. Instead, it’s about whose you are—rooted firmly in God's divine connection—and how that shapes the way you show up for each other and for the world around you. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Whose Family Are You? The Bible makes it clear that our truest...
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4057 Real is Greater Than Perfect
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Marriage is often painted as the ultimate partnership — two people becoming one, sharing everything, and fully supporting each other. The truth is, too many spouses lose sight of themselves along the way. We start doing everything our partner wants: changing how we dress, altering how we act in public, shelving our own dreams for theirs, meeting their needs while our own are quietly ignored. Somewhere between “I do” and “we,” we forget that real > perfect. Dating was different. We were curious, eager to discover everything about our partner, putting our best foot...
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4056 Ditch the Mom Guilt
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Mom guilt is a beast nobody warns you about until you’ve been swallowed whole by it. With Mother’s Day just ahead, it’s the perfect time to honor the tough, tireless job moms do raising the next generation. But let's be real and honest: more often than not, it stings more than we admit because the guilt feels like a weight on our hearts, drowning out the impact we want to have. Let it all go, and ditch the mom guilt. Because if you don't, mom guilt thrives when you take ownership of things that aren’t yours to carry. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women?...
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4055 Build A Bridge
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Life rarely flows in a straight line. Sometimes you find yourself pulled in a dozen different directions, tangled in disappointments and setbacks, or simply unsure which step to take next. When that happens, the instinct to quit can be loud and tempting. But instead of throwing in the towel, it’s time to build a bridge. What does it mean to build a bridge this way in life? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . It’s about creating a path forward that connects you from where you are right now to where you want to be next. This isn’t about...
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4054 When No One Knows
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
I don’t know what this season has been like for you, but sometimes life just feels heavy. You’re doing your best to keep going, but eventually you look up and think…"What now? What next? I can’t handle one more thing." How are you getting through the day when no one knows? The apostle Paul knew that feeling when he wrote, “We were crushed and overwhelmed beyond our ability to endure” (2 Corinthians 1:8 NLT). Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . But he also knew this: You may reach the end of your own strength, but you’ll never...
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4053 Don't Shrink Back!
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Why do we wage war inside ourselves, convincing our hearts that we are our failures, that we are not enough? STOP IT!! You are created for more. Every season of your life holds a purpose that only you can fulfill. So don’t shrink back! Life will never look the way you imagine it should. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . That’s because we craft stories in our minds — stories built from past wounds and hopes for the future. But those mental scripts don’t tell the whole truth. They distract you from the only moment that truly belongs to...
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4052 Run the Race Meant for You
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
It’s human nature to look around and see what everyone else is doing—who’s winning, who’s falling behind. Social media makes it even harder; we see highlight reels of success, hustle, and overnight wins. But your dreams and goals are not finished by someone else’s actions or accomplishments. They're only fulfilled by your moves, your focus, and your relentless commitment to run the race meant for you. Because if I were a betting girl, which I'm not, my bet would be that you already tried running someone else's race. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded...
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4051 Is God Mad At You?
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
What do you do when everything feels heavy, and you seem to be lost? Maybe for you, it's that feeling of the disappointments stacking up, the dreams that seem to slip through your fingers, the isolation pressing in like a weight you can’t shake. If you’re like me in this season, it’s easy to wonder if God has forgotten you. Or worse, is God mad at you? And then I read Zephaniah 3:17: “The Lord your God is in your midst; he is a warrior who can deliver. He takes great delight in you; he renews you by his love; he shouts for joy over you.” Desire to be supported and encouraged by other...
info_outlineWhen it comes to parent and child relationships, one question often arises: Can a child say no to a parent? It may not be encouraged depending on how you were brought up or the influencers around you. So, is NO a bad word?
Think about it. This seemingly straightforward inquiry delves deep into the realms of communication, respect, and understanding within families.
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The concept of saying no to a parent can evoke a myriad of emotions and opinions. Traditional views may assert that children should always obey their parents, a notion deeply rooted in generations of parenting practices.
However, as society evolves and the understanding of child psychology grows, the idea of children having a voice in their interactions with parents has gained traction.
Respecting a child's boundaries and allowing them to express their autonomy is essential for their emotional development. Encouraging open communication and listening to a child's concerns can foster a sense of trust and respect within the parent-child relationship.
Setting healthy boundaries teaches children that their opinions and feelings are valid, helping to build their self-esteem and confidence.
Moreover, recognizing a child's right to say no can also serve as a valuable lesson in consent and personal agency. Teaching children to assert their boundaries early in life can empower them to navigate relationships, peer pressure, and potential risks as they grow older.
However, the question of whether a child can say no to a parent is not without its complexities. Balancing a child's autonomy with parental authority requires a delicate approach. Parents must strike a balance between setting boundaries and allowing room for expression, guiding their children with empathy and understanding.
Ultimately, the ability for a child to say no to a parent is a sign of a healthy, communicative relationship. It speaks to a dynamic where both parties feel heard and respected, fostering mutual understanding and emotional growth.
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In order for a child to understand how NO can be used in a respectful manner, the parent needs to model it.
And unfortunately, that doesn't come easy, especially if you were raised that children are to be seen and not heard.
But then, how do they have a voice? How does their self-esteem grow if they are not seen and heard?
Muting children for the ease of your life does not serve them well. And as a parent, we are called to love and serve our children well, to love them unconditionally, and to raise them to be productive adults who impact the world that they touch.
1. Active Listening: Encourage the child to actively listen to the other person's perspective before expressing their own thoughts. This teaches the importance of understanding different viewpoints and promotes respectful dialogue.
2. Use "I" Statements: Encourage the child to use "I" statements when expressing their feelings or opinions. For example, "I feel frustrated when..." or "I would prefer if...". This helps the child take ownership of their emotions and communicate assertively yet respectfully.
3. Practice Empathy: Encourage the child to consider the other person's feelings and perspectives when expressing themselves. By fostering empathy, children learn to communicate with sensitivity and understanding, promoting respectful interactions with others.
As you navigate the nuances of parent-child dynamics, remember that healthy relationships are built on trust, respect, and open communication. Encouraging children to express their boundaries and opinions establishes a foundation for strong, resilient connections that can withstand the tests of time.
In the journey of parenting, embracing the concept of a child saying no to a parent can lead to deeper connections and a greater sense of harmony within the family unit. By nurturing a space for open dialogue and mutual respect, we can empower our children to navigate the world with confidence and compassion.
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