Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Nothing fuels ambition quite like setting out on a bold adventure toward your goals and dreams. Youāve got big plans, and the vision of where you want to go is crystal clear. But hereās the truth: dreaming alone wonāt get you there. To climb that peak, you need a launching pad ā and that starts when you organize your space to make room for action. Think about it. If all you ever did was sit back, waiting for success or opportunity to arrive without effort, how far would you get? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Spoiler Alert: Not...
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Just because itās a new year doesnāt mean a reset happens automatically. In reality, most of our attempts to start fresh are clouded by lingering fears about what we didnāt finish, didnāt accomplish, or simply gave up on. If you want to move ahead and actually reach your goals and dreams this year, you have to toss out the thoughts and doubts that hold you back. I donāt know about you, but over time, repeated failures do more than just sting ā they infect our mindset and sabotage our ambition. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . ...
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In one of the most powerful moments of Jesusā life, when He was tested in the wilderness (Matthew 4:1-4), He faced raw human hunger. The devil tempted Him with a straightforward challenge: āTurn these stones into bread.ā After all, Jesus is hungry after fasting for forty days and forty nights. The need was real, the desire immediate. Yet Jesus' response cuts deeper than physical need: āIt is written: āMan shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.āā That reply is not just about hunger or sustenance. Itās a declaration about the source of...
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Itās easy to get super focused on other things in life, from the home to the family to the career to even the pets. Amid all this noise, the one person you vowed to stand beside can sometimes fade into the background. But if you want a marriage that lasts, one that can withstand the relentless pressures of life, thereās a simple but powerful rule: donāt root against your spouse. The truth is, itās dadgum hard to keep your spouse front and center when every other part of your life is screaming louder. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . ...
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Too many parents today are caught chasing the mirage of ābeing friendsā with their kids ā seeking approval and camaraderie instead of stepping fully into their role as parents. Letās be blunt: parenting isnāt about winning a popularity contest. Itās about showing up as the adults who love fiercely, set firm boundaries, and deliver discipline that actually sticks. If you want your children to thrive and leave a lasting impact on the world, you must put the āparentā back in parenting. Why Parents Must Parent, Not āFriendā Friendship with your kids can seem like an easy,...
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Oftentimes, we push ourselves at breakneck speedāracing to check boxes, chasing the next big win, believing that if we just move faster, work harder, and try more, success will finally land in our lap. But as John De Paola said, āSlow down, and everything you are chasing will come around and catch you.ā In a world obsessed with hustle, this is not a call for complacency. Itās an invitation to step off the relentless carousel and rediscover the power of intentional living; live fully alive! Too many of us tie ourselves to the chains of past failures, letting every missed shot dictate...
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Every New Year, millions write down the same resolution: lose weight, get healthy, finally take control of their lives. Yet, by spring, those goals often wilt like forgotten gym memberships. Why? Because too often, weāre winning the wrong race. Bad habits are the easy path. They require no thought, no discomfort, no extra effort. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . You donāt have to wrestle with tough choices or push through resistance. You just do what youāve always done ā reach for convenience, skip the workout, indulge the craving....
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Life doesnāt hand out guarantees. No matter how much you want a smooth ride or a sure win, it simply doesnāt work that way. Success, growth, and reaching your goals come from one thing above all elseāintention. How you think, decide, and act every single day shapes whether you make it across the finish line. So quit waiting for a guarantee. When youāre chasing something brand newāwhether itās launching a business, changing careers, or mastering a skillāthereās no autopilot. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Waiting for the...
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Grief isnāt just about losing a loved one. Itās a full-body, mind-consuming response to any meaningful loss: a job, a home, a relationship, a dream gone sideways. If you donāt understand how grief rewires your mindset, it can trap you in a mental box where all you see is whatās brokenāand how far you are from climbing out of that dark hole. When you understand how grief affects your mindset, you get why you're paralyzed, stuck replaying the what, why, and how over and over, missing the possibility of whatās next. So letās get real: grief is brutal, disorienting, and...
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Walking in step with God is never a passive journey, especially when the world around you seems determined to pull you off course. Jealousy, deceit, and manipulation are real weapons some wield to fracture your spirit and cloud your vision. When hearts turn bitter and minds play cruel games, itās easy to get trapped inside a warped reality that feels impossible to escape. So how do you hold your ground in these moments? How do you fight this spiritual battle without losing your soul? Stand firm on God's Holy ground. You must begin to recognize the battlefield beyond the visible, only what...
info_outlineWhen it comes to parent and child relationships, one question often arises: Can a child say no to a parent? It may not be encouraged depending on how you were brought up or the influencers around you. So, is NO a bad word?
Think about it. This seemingly straightforward inquiry delves deep into the realms of communication, respect, and understanding within families.
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The concept of saying no to a parent can evoke a myriad of emotions and opinions. Traditional views may assert that children should always obey their parents, a notion deeply rooted in generations of parenting practices.
However, as society evolves and the understanding of child psychology grows, the idea of children having a voice in their interactions with parents has gained traction.
Respecting a child's boundaries and allowing them to express their autonomy is essential for their emotional development. Encouraging open communication and listening to a child's concerns can foster a sense of trust and respect within the parent-child relationship.
Setting healthy boundaries teaches children that their opinions and feelings are valid, helping to build their self-esteem and confidence.
Moreover, recognizing a child's right to say no can also serve as a valuable lesson in consent and personal agency. Teaching children to assert their boundaries early in life can empower them to navigate relationships, peer pressure, and potential risks as they grow older.
However, the question of whether a child can say no to a parent is not without its complexities. Balancing a child's autonomy with parental authority requires a delicate approach. Parents must strike a balance between setting boundaries and allowing room for expression, guiding their children with empathy and understanding.
Ultimately, the ability for a child to say no to a parent is a sign of a healthy, communicative relationship. It speaks to a dynamic where both parties feel heard and respected, fostering mutual understanding and emotional growth.
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In order for a child to understand how NO can be used in a respectful manner, the parent needs to model it.
And unfortunately, that doesn't come easy, especially if you were raised that children are to be seen and not heard.
But then, how do they have a voice? How does their self-esteem grow if they are not seen and heard?
Muting children for the ease of your life does not serve them well. And as a parent, we are called to love and serve our children well, to love them unconditionally, and to raise them to be productive adults who impact the world that they touch.
1. Active Listening: Encourage the child to actively listen to the other person's perspective before expressing their own thoughts. This teaches the importance of understanding different viewpoints and promotes respectful dialogue.
2. Use "I" Statements: Encourage the child to use "I" statements when expressing their feelings or opinions. For example, "I feel frustrated when..." or "I would prefer if...". This helps the child take ownership of their emotions and communicate assertively yet respectfully.
3. Practice Empathy: Encourage the child to consider the other person's feelings and perspectives when expressing themselves. By fostering empathy, children learn to communicate with sensitivity and understanding, promoting respectful interactions with others.
As you navigate the nuances of parent-child dynamics, remember that healthy relationships are built on trust, respect, and open communication. Encouraging children to express their boundaries and opinions establishes a foundation for strong, resilient connections that can withstand the tests of time.
In the journey of parenting, embracing the concept of a child saying no to a parent can lead to deeper connections and a greater sense of harmony within the family unit. By nurturing a space for open dialogue and mutual respect, we can empower our children to navigate the world with confidence and compassion.
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