Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Christmas has come and gone. The lights are turned off, the wrapping paper has been tossed, and the house finally breathes again. Christmas is over—now what? Yet, the heart of the season—the faith, the gratitude, the connection—doesn’t have to fade with the decorations. This is the perfect time to pause and reflect on the moments that really mattered. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . What surprised you about your family’s heart this Christmas? Was there a new spark of gratitude? A fresh sense of wonder? Maybe a quiet...
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Every so often, a story comes along that changes everything—then turns right around and changes your life. The birth of Jesus is one of those stories. But far from being a quaint holiday tradition or a distant fairy tale, this is the moment God interrupted history to say, “I’m with you.” For centuries, prophets declared this truth. Now, it’s no longer about pages of ancient text—it’s about the real, raw presence of God in your life today; God's presence among us. This isn’t a story you watch from the sidelines. It’s an invitation to step into the heart of a divine plan that...
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Christmas Eve. For many, it’s the crescendo of the holiday whirlwind—the last-minute preparations, wrapping, cooking, and hosting. But it doesn’t have to be that way, not when you have a sacred stillness. Amid the busyness, Christmas Eve offers a sacred invitation: to pause, to be still, to receive rest and renewal. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Psalm 46:10 reminds us, “Be still, and know that I am God.” At what point are you going to release your anxious grip on the season’s frenzy and rest in something bigger? Think about...
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Christmas Eve is nearly here, and for many of us, the holiday season carries a mixed bag of emotions. The bright lights and festive songs promise joy, but behind the scenes, life might feel messy, exhausting, and overwhelming. When weariness weighs down your mind, body, and spirit, it’s natural to default to the easiest option—often kind of numb survival that distances you from what really matters. Yet, you can still find joy when life feels messy. You get out of life what you put into it. When you choose to lean into the beauty amid the chaos, you reclaim the heart of Christmas—the...
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The holiday season should bring joy and meaning. Yet, all too often, it feels like the world is spinning faster than ever. Sometimes it's hard knowing how to see straight when the world is spinning. That's where the pressures are mounting, events piling up, and endless distractions keep pulling your attention every which way. A spinning top is a real thing, even if you don't want to admit it. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . When everything around you is out of control, how do you stay grounded in what matters? How do you still make an...
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Love is the word that’s everywhere at Christmas, wrapped in songs and shiny cards, but too often it feels like a hollow echo. What if this love isn’t just a sweet feeling or a seasonal mood? What if real love is the boldest, most demanding choice you make—one that shakes your world and changes everything? Get ready to feel that kind of love, the kind that moves, sacrifices, and breaks every boundary in its path; love—the greatest gift. John 3:16 says, "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting...
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The holidays can be a spinning mess. One moment, you’re sipping hot cocoa, planning festive fun, and feeling optimistic that everything will go smoothly. Next, you’re in the middle of a heated argument, wondering how two people who share the same space can feel so disconnected. It’s this familiar trap amidst the chaos of Christmas where it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters. For couples, remembering the real meaning of the season is more than a challenge; it’s a chance for renewal and falling in love all over again. Christmas often brings out the best and the worst in...
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With the complexities of the holidays, families are caught in the whirlwind of the kids bursting with excitement, the house in a constant uproar, and the clock that keeps ticking down. It's the Christmas countdown! So don't lose sight of the heart of the season. Now, if we do, the heart of the season will get shoved aside because you're too busy. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Christmas demands your attention; it deserves your family’s focus. And the good news? You don’t need elaborate plans or perfect Instagram- or Facebook-worthy...
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The holidays have a way of whipping us into a frenzy. Heartbeat racing, lists in hand, and Google tabs open on every store from here to the North Pole, chasing that ONE perfect gift. The one that will say, “You matter,” “I love you,” and “This year will be the best ever.” Only to find it’s backordered, out of stock, or mysteriously vanished from every website. Oh, sugar cookies—presence over presents! We scramble to fix what feels broken but miss what’s already whole. The real gift this holiday season isn’t wrapped and tied with a bow. It’s your presence. Desire to be...
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The holidays don’t just exhaust your body—they can wreck your mind if you don’t fight back. Between rushed shopping, noisy family gatherings, and relentless pressure, stress hits an all-time high. Peace isn’t something someone else can give you. You have to claim it on purpose. Time to create mental peace in the holiday chaos. Waiting for calm to “show up” or hoping a perfect season will magically fix your frazzle? That’s wishful thinking. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Protecting your mental and emotional well-being is your...
info_outlineSometimes, parents can bring about the heaviness of failure when it comes to how well it's going for parenting. But if you don't allow yourself to fail, you will never see the other side, love. Let go of blame!
As parents, we often find ourselves walking a fine line between supporting our children and losing ourselves in the process of raising them.
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The pressure to be perfect can be overwhelming, and when things don't go as planned, it's easy to fall into the trap of blame.
But what if you shifted your perspective and embraced the idea that it's okay to fail?
By letting go of blame, we open ourselves up to new possibilities and deeper connections with our children.
In the words of Kristianne Wargo, "Failure is not the end, but the beginning of love."
Embracing this mindset can help parents navigate the challenges of raising children without losing sight of themselves in the process.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Let go of blame!
Here are three things parents can do to support their child without losing themselves in the journey of parenting:
1. Practice Self-Care: It's essential for parents to prioritize their well-being and mental health. Taking time for self-care activities such as meditation, exercise, or hobbies can help parents recharge and show up as their best selves for their children. What if you gave the world, and specifically your family, the best of you instead of what's left of you?
2. Set Boundaries: Establishing clear boundaries with your children allows you to maintain a sense of self while still supporting them. Boundaries help create a healthy dynamic and teach children about respect and understanding. Psychologist Dr. Brené Brown emphasizes, "Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves even when we risk disappointing others."
3. Seek Support: Parenting is a journey best shared with others. Reach out to friends, family, or a therapist for support and guidance. Connecting with other parents can provide a sense of community and validation that you're not alone in your struggles. In the words of author Brene Brown, "Connection is why we're here; it is what gives purpose and meaning to our lives."
In conclusion, letting go of blame can be a transformative step in the journey of parenting. By embracing the ups and downs, practicing self-care, setting boundaries, and seeking support, parents can support their children while staying true to themselves.
Remember, as Kristianne Wargo says, "Failure is not the end, but the beginning of love."
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
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