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3435 Let Go Of Blame

Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo

Release Date: 06/21/2024

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Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo

Life isn’t always fair. Things don’t always go our way, and it’s easy to point fingers—blaming circumstances, other people, or just bad luck. What needs to be remembered is that no one’s coming to save you. The power is in your hands. The difference between getting stuck and moving forward is the choice you make to act. Hope is found in action. When life hands you lemons, you have two options: complain about the sour taste or start squeezing. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Hope is defined as a feeling of desire, expectation,...

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Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo

Oftentimes, life is a highway; a vast road with countless exits, destinations, and detours. Each day, you choose your direction, determining who you meet, what you do, and where you end up. When you’re cruising down your chosen path, life’s open road feeling fuels your momentum. But what happens when you realize you’re driving on the wrong side of the road? The highway you’re on isn’t aligning with the purpose you believe was laid out for you. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Many people have faced that exact crisis: recognizing...

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Why is it that we have this burning desire to chase our dreams, yet often find ourselves hovering just outside the doorway of action? You know what’s possible — the life you want, the impact you dream of making — but somehow your feet stay cemented in the comfort of where you currently stand. It's confusing and frustrating. However, you were made for more, for a purpose bigger than the habits and excuses that keep you stuck; venture into your greatness. But your actions haven’t caught up with that reality yet. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at...

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How do you see the glass when you wake up in the morning — half empty or half full? This simple image holds a powerful key to your day, your choices, and ultimately, your life. The heart of your attitude determines whether you view life as a series of obstacles or a world full of options. It’s more than just a mood; it’s the lens through which you interpret every challenge and opportunity. Research makes it clear: your morning mindset sets the tone for what follows. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . A landmark study from the University...

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Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo

Easter is the heart of the Christian faith—a powerful reminder that death does not have the final word. It is a celebration of Jesus Christ rising from the dead, a victory over sin and fear, a promise that new life is available to all who believe. Find hope in the empty tomb. The story of Easter morning is etched in the Gospels with profound awe and hope, especially in the experience of Mary Magdalene and the other Mary who came to Jesus’ tomb just as dawn was breaking. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . The Scriptures tell us in Matthew...

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Marriage can be comfortable—it can feel like a safe harbor in a chaotic world. But comfort is a double-edged sword. When we become complacent, assuming that our marriage will somehow maintain its course without active effort, we’re setting ourselves up for trouble. It’s not that love fades overnight, but it does become something we stop tending to, something we take for granted. And when we neglect love, it’s not missing suddenly—it’s slowly slipping away. So why not refresh your marriage and rediscover the love you once had? The truth is, no matter how strong or stable you believe...

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Defeat is often felt in the stillness of the storms — those quiet moments when exhaustion weighs heavy, and worries swirl about whether we’re truly meeting our children’s needs. Parenting is overwhelming. From sleepless nights to unexpected meltdowns to the endless what-comes-next questions, the journey demands more than just energy; it demands heart. Regardless of the stage our kids are in, staying on track is not optional; it’s required. When weariness and fear try to convince you to run or hide, remember this: you are doing the best you can.  Desire to be supported and...

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Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo

Who doesn’t need a little pick-me-up in the middle of the week? A moment, a breath when the weight feels lighter, and the horizon looks a little bit brighter? We all carry burdens that stretch us beyond what feels bearable. But God carries whatever we cannot carry. And in His hands, all things are made new. This week, as we continue to walk through the sacred days of Holy Week, there’s a special invitation to dig deeper—beyond routine, beyond the surface—to what God truly desires for our hearts and lives. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the...

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You’ve seen it a thousand times: Buy One Get One free. The offer pops off the shelf, your eye catches the deal, and suddenly, your cart is fuller than intended. But lots of these “deals” aren’t deals at all. They lure you with the promise of abundance, but the truth is, you might not even need what you’re buying, or worse, you might get stuck with what clutters your life or pulls you off course; it's the BOGO trap. In life, “buying into” anything like ideas, habits, and shortcuts, without pause, can lead you to a path that feels good for a moment but steals long-term value. And...

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Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo

Chaos and busyness have become the backdrop to our daily lives. The constant rush, the noise, all the things; it all piles up until it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and powerless. But just because the world around us is untamed and crazy, doesn’t mean we have to live like that inside. Choose hope when the world feels restless. You know that when you choose hope, it is an act of rebellion against the chaos. It’s deciding that worry won’t write the script of your story. It’s a deliberate pause, a deep breath, a quiet moment to remind yourself that panic is not the answer. Desire to be...

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Sometimes, parents can bring about the heaviness of failure when it comes to how well it's going for parenting. But if you don't allow yourself to fail, you will never see the other side, love. Let go of blame!

As parents, we often find ourselves walking a fine line between supporting our children and losing ourselves in the process of raising them.

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The pressure to be perfect can be overwhelming, and when things don't go as planned, it's easy to fall into the trap of blame.

But what if you shifted your perspective and embraced the idea that it's okay to fail?

By letting go of blame, we open ourselves up to new possibilities and deeper connections with our children.

In the words of Kristianne Wargo, "Failure is not the end, but the beginning of love."

Embracing this mindset can help parents navigate the challenges of raising children without losing sight of themselves in the process.

The K.I.S.S. ~ Let go of blame!

Here are three things parents can do to support their child without losing themselves in the journey of parenting:

1. Practice Self-Care: It's essential for parents to prioritize their well-being and mental health. Taking time for self-care activities such as meditation, exercise, or hobbies can help parents recharge and show up as their best selves for their children. What if you gave the world, and specifically your family, the best of you instead of what's left of you?

2. Set Boundaries: Establishing clear boundaries with your children allows you to maintain a sense of self while still supporting them. Boundaries help create a healthy dynamic and teach children about respect and understanding. Psychologist Dr. Brené Brown emphasizes, "Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves even when we risk disappointing others."

3. Seek Support: Parenting is a journey best shared with others. Reach out to friends, family, or a therapist for support and guidance. Connecting with other parents can provide a sense of community and validation that you're not alone in your struggles. In the words of author Brene Brown, "Connection is why we're here; it is what gives purpose and meaning to our lives."

In conclusion, letting go of blame can be a transformative step in the journey of parenting. By embracing the ups and downs, practicing self-care, setting boundaries, and seeking support, parents can support their children while staying true to themselves.

Remember, as Kristianne Wargo says, "Failure is not the end, but the beginning of love."

"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"

 

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Music by Mandisa - Overcomer

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Song ID: 68209
Song Title: Overcomer
Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia
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