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3733 Stop Being Mad At Yourself

Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo

Release Date: 06/19/2025

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Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo

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Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo

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Life doesn’t come with a smooth, predictable path. It’s full of twists, turns, and surprises that rarely match the plans we carefully craft in our heads. You make decisions, speak words, and take action hoping for the best. But when things don’t go your way—you know what happens. Stop being mad at yourself.

As you already know, who bears the brunt of the disappointment? Too often... yep, it’s you—the harshest critic in the room.

Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com

Why We Turn Anger Inward

It’s natural to feel frustrated when life derails your expectations. But turning that frustration into anger at yourself is a dead end.

Anger slows you down, boiling over every mistake and extending the sting of things you cannot change. Instead of propelling you forward, it chains you to regret and self-condemnation.

Life is rarely fair, and that’s just the raw truth. 

The Real Way Forward 

If you want to break free from this cycle, you need to stop being mad at yourself. This doesn’t mean ignoring your mistakes or failing to learn from them—it means refusing to let anger become your default.

Nobody is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes, and yes, you will make more. But those stumbles never equate to being "not good enough." That’s a damaging myth you must reject now.

The K.I.S.S. ~ Stop being mad at yourself!

Focus on What Matters 

Pause and ask yourself: What truly deserves your energy? When you stand before the mirror, let your presence be calm and purposeful, not harsh or unruly. Your thoughts and words to yourself shape your mindset far more than any external circumstance. Remember: you were made for more. You were created on purpose, for a purpose. 

Choose Your Energy Wisely 

Every day grants you the choice of where to invest your emotional energy. Holding onto anger toward yourself won’t build success; it only adds weight to your setbacks. Instead, channel your strength into growth, resilience, and self-compassion — who you are and who you are becoming.

Get Ready

Stop being mad at yourself. You’ll be far more effective, motivated, and yes—radiantly “prettier”—when there’s less mud on your face and in your mind.

Life’s challenges will keep coming, but your response will determine the story you tell—and the success you build. Show up for yourself today. You’ve got this. And God's got you!

"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"

 

#Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation

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Music by Mandisa - Overcomer

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Song ID: 68209
Song Title: Overcomer
Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia
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