3745 Honor Your Beauty
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
You’re hustling. You’re grinding. You’re carrying the weight of the world, your family, your community, and your dreams all at once. Some days, it feels like you’re running on empty—and honestly, the last thing on your mind is to honor your beauty. I get it. When exhaustion hits, when the endless to-dos and pressures pull at every ounce of your energy, self-care often feels like a luxury you can’t afford—not a priority, not a mindset, not even a thought. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . But let me be real with you: Your beauty...
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3744 How to Turn Doubt into Your Secret Weapon
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Doubt is the silent killer of dreams—it sneaks in, freezes your progress, and whispers that you’re not enough. Every ambitious person faces it, but most let it derail their path to success. Here’s the brutal truth: if you don’t learn how to turn doubt into your secret weapon, it will keep robbing you of your potential. Doubt creeps in—subtle, sneaky, and relentless. Every ambitious person faces it. The crushing question: “Am I really cut out for this?” It shows up when the stakes rise, when your goals feel just out of reach, or when you stare at a blank page wondering if you...
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3743 The One Who Trusts in the Lord
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“But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him. They will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit.” ~ Jeremiah 17:7-8 When life seems like it's unraveling, trusting God changes everything. Sometimes life looks like a tangled knot—so twisted and confusing you can’t tell front from back. You’re walking through a season where everything feels upside down: plans fall apart, circumstances feel...
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3742 When Love Makes You Feel Capable, Not Crazy
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Marriage is meant to be a sanctuary—a place where you feel seen, supported, and capable of facing anything life throws your way. But all too often, the daily grind, the chaos of schedules, and the relentless overwhelm shift your marriage from a source of strength to a pressure cooker of frustration. Instead of feeling like a teammate, you may start to feel misunderstood and undervalued. It doesn't have to be this way—when love makes you feel capable, not crazy. That's when the entire dynamic changes. You move from surviving the chaos to thriving together, building a solid foundation that...
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3741 No More Boredom Battles
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Mom and Dad, let’s be real—summer can feel like a never-ending battlefield. You hear it countless times: “I’m bored!”—as if boredom is some mysterious monster your kids are fighting every single day. No more boredom battles. But here’s the twist: many kids don’t truly know what boredom means these days. With screens and tech gadgets vying for their attention 24/7, boredom often becomes a code word for “I want someone else to entertain me.” Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Technology’s a double-edged sword. We all carry...
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3740 You are Worth the Fight!
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Do you want more or something different, but struggle to keep that fire flickering? Maybe it’s dim. Maybe it’s drowned out by doubt. But it’s there — that restless urge for something better, bigger, truer to who you really are. You are worth the fight! Here’s the raw truth — no one ever started a real change when everything was perfect. Life is messier than that. Focus feels impossible when the world is pulling you every which way. Your to-do list is screaming, expectations are piling, your energy tanks are empty, and your brain keeps finding every excuse to wait. You’re not...
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3739 What Needs to be a BIG Deal?
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When it comes to healthy living, it’s all too easy to get caught up in the endless list of “must-dos” and “should-haves.” Drink more water, eat kale, get 10,000 steps, meditate daily, sleep eight hours, cut out sugar, do strength training, track your macros, avoid screens before bed — the list feels relentless. And that’s exactly where many good intentions go to die: in the overwhelming noise of “all the things.” But what needs to be a BIG deal? Life isn’t about juggling everything perfectly all the time. It’s about identifying what truly needs to be a BIG...
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3738 Don't You Dare Dim Your Light
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Life will try hard to drag you into the daily swirl of other people’s agendas, distractions, and endless to-do lists that don’t even belong to you. It’s easy — dangerously easy — to lose sight of your own purpose and settle for the scraps left over after you’ve tried to manage everyone else’s priorities. Don't you dare dim your light. Why? Because you deserve better. You deserve more than the hand-me-down ambitions and borrowed dreams that drain your energy and silence your spark. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . So I’m here...
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3737 How to Quiet Your Mind
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If your brain is a noisy, cluttered mess, you won’t get far. Confusion doesn’t just cloud thinking—it demolishes action. And without action, your goals stay out of reach, buried under a pile of distracting thoughts, doubts, and what-ifs. You must learn how to quiet your mind. Let’s be real. When you don’t know exactly where you’re headed, the noise in your head hijacks your focus. Suddenly, every worry, outside opinion, or shiny distraction screams louder than your ambition. You start chasing the wrong things—or worse, you freeze. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other...
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3736 Faith Over Fear
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“The LORD is on my side; I will not fear: what can man do unto me?” — Psalm 118:6 (KJV) At first glance, this verse is bold, even audacious. It’s a statement packed with strength: when God is by your side, fear of what others think, say, or do loses its grip. Faith over fear. But what does that truly mean outside of Sunday sermons or quiet moments of prayer? What does living with “faith over fear” actually look like day-to-day? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . 1. Fear Is Real — But Faith Is Realer Fear is hardwired into...
info_outlineAs a parent, it can feel like your entire job is to keep the peace. You want smiling kids, smooth mornings, and less grumbling behind closed doors. After all, isn’t that what a happy family looks like? But here’s the brutal truth: sometimes you have to stop making everyone happy.
Because you won’t. Not your kids, not your partner, not even yourself, all the time. And that’s okay.
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Why You’re Not Meant to Please Everyone
The idea of a perfect family where everyone gets their way is a myth—a nice story we tell ourselves when the chaos settles for a moment.
But real life?
It’s messy. It’s uncomfortable sometimes. And that’s what raises kids who aren’t just surviving but thriving.
What you really want are children who adapt to change, handle conflict with resilience, and realize the world doesn’t bend to their every whim. That means sometimes — many times — someone’s going to be disappointed or upset. That’s not your failure. That’s parenting.
You were given the gift to parent; you get to decide how to parent well.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Parent well!
Parenting well comes with all sorts of challenges. You get many lows with few highs. Or do you?
The way you parent well comes from how you show up, filled up with the best intentions.
However, I must say that does not give a parent full rein to be a bully parent. This may or may not be you. But please hear me out.
You have to be able to look at all sides of the stories you're told, and know the reality of what is happening, not the one you make up in your head.
Yes, even parents tell themselves stories to make them feel like they are in the "right" in what they're doing. But if you question that, or someone who loves your children questions that, it is a good indication you should look a little closer at the situation.
The main thing here is to know your intentions as a parent and ensure they are in the best interest of the child, not for your convenience.
Three Ways to Maintain Peace Without Making Everyone Happy
How do you keep a home that feels peaceful without turning into a constant "yes" machine? Here are three practical moves:
1. Set Non-Negotiables With Compassion
Make clear what rules and values aren’t up for debate — bedtimes, kindness, respect. Stand firm, but explain why these matter. Kids feel safer when boundaries are consistent. They might grumble, but they appreciate knowing what’s rock solid beneath their feet. Further, your child can say "no." If you teach them that they cannot, you are silencing them, telling them that they are not worthy and do not matter. This is a disservice to anyone's child. A child deserves to be respected, too.
2. Validate Feelings Without Caving
When tempers flare or tears come, acknowledge the emotions. “I see you’re upset because you wanted more screen time. That’s frustrating.” Validation doesn’t mean giving in — it means you’re listening. Feeling heard diffuses tension and builds trust, even if the answer stays “no.” Keep in mind, that doesn't mean you become a bully to your child. Be firm with love. And just because your parents did it, doesn't mean you should. Think twice!
3. Model Calm, Not Perfection
No parent is a peace-keeping superhero 24/7. When you mess up or lose patience, own it out loud. Show them how to apologize and reset. Ask for forgiveness for what you did. This teaches kids resilience and emotional intelligence far better than any “perfect” family photo ever could.
Stop Chasing Universal Happiness — Aim for Harmony Instead
Parenting is the hardest job on earth, no doubt. You’ll have days you feel you’re on top of it — and days you want to throw in the towel.
Trying to make everyone happy is not sustainable.
Living for happiness is the quickest route to burnout.
But seeking harmony? Now that’s sustainable.
Harmony means balance, understanding, respect, unconditional love, and growth — even when it’s uncomfortable. You don’t need to be everyone’s hero or choreographer of perfect smiles. You need to be a parent who guides with unconditional love, strength, and clarity. That’s how you build a family grounded in peace — not perfection. Your child is not property; they are a human being created in the image of God, fearfully and wonderfully made. So, parent well!
You’ve got clarity. Now it’s time for action. Stop chasing the impossible, stop making everyone happy, and start building harmony that lasts. Your family will share more smiles.
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
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