3910 Break the 'Too Busy' Cycle in Your Marriage
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Release Date: 12/13/2025
3927 Get Back Up!
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
You're probably all too familiar with the grinding season—the one where your to-do list feels like Mount Everest, your energy dips, and then the holidays roll in like a relentless tide. It’s the time when surviving feels like a win. But what if you didn’t just survive? What if you conquered this season with your heart still beating loud and your goals clearly in view? Get back up! Here’s the truth: heart and hustle aren’t enemies of your well-being; they’re the secret weapons for a life that’s full without breaking you. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded...
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3926 How to Honor Your Past and Prepare for the Present
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Every December, most of us find ourselves trapped in the chaos—exhausted, overwhelmed, and haunted by a list of unfinished goals. This is the time for closing the chapter: how to honor your past and prepare for the present. Our minds scramble through the mess of failures and successes alike, begging for answers that never seem to come. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . But here’s the truth: fear does not have to freeze you in place. You were created to move forward, to step boldly into what’s next. The power lies in embracing the new...
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3925 Anchor Your Joy in What Lasts
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As the final Sunday of the year fades into twilight, it carries with it a weight that feels heavy for many—a mix of reflection, regret, relief, and even anticipation. Life never promised a smooth journey. Each year comes with its own share of battles, setbacks, and moments when the road feels unbearably steep. But struggles don’t have the final say on your joy or hope. Anchor your joy in what lasts. Far too often, we let our circumstances dictate how we feel—a volatile foundation for anything lasting. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . ...
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3924 Reflect, Reconnect, and Reignite Your Marriage
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The end of the year is more than just a calendar checkpoint. It’s an invitation for you to pause and take stock of your journey together; how to reflect, reconnect, and reignite your marriage. After years of shared experiences, it’s easy to let presence slip through the cracks, assuming love just happens. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . The truth is, unconditional love doesn’t appear by accident. It demands intentional reflection, connection, and the willingness to serve each other daily. Take this moment to look back—not to...
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3923 Christmas is Over—Now What?
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Christmas has come and gone. The lights are turned off, the wrapping paper has been tossed, and the house finally breathes again. Christmas is over—now what? Yet, the heart of the season—the faith, the gratitude, the connection—doesn’t have to fade with the decorations. This is the perfect time to pause and reflect on the moments that really mattered. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . What surprised you about your family’s heart this Christmas? Was there a new spark of gratitude? A fresh sense of wonder? Maybe a quiet...
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3922 God's Presence Among Us
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Every so often, a story comes along that changes everything—then turns right around and changes your life. The birth of Jesus is one of those stories. But far from being a quaint holiday tradition or a distant fairy tale, this is the moment God interrupted history to say, “I’m with you.” For centuries, prophets declared this truth. Now, it’s no longer about pages of ancient text—it’s about the real, raw presence of God in your life today; God's presence among us. This isn’t a story you watch from the sidelines. It’s an invitation to step into the heart of a divine plan that...
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3921 A Sacred Stillness
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Christmas Eve. For many, it’s the crescendo of the holiday whirlwind—the last-minute preparations, wrapping, cooking, and hosting. But it doesn’t have to be that way, not when you have a sacred stillness. Amid the busyness, Christmas Eve offers a sacred invitation: to pause, to be still, to receive rest and renewal. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Psalm 46:10 reminds us, “Be still, and know that I am God.” At what point are you going to release your anxious grip on the season’s frenzy and rest in something bigger? Think about...
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3920 Find Joy When Life Feels Messy
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Christmas Eve is nearly here, and for many of us, the holiday season carries a mixed bag of emotions. The bright lights and festive songs promise joy, but behind the scenes, life might feel messy, exhausting, and overwhelming. When weariness weighs down your mind, body, and spirit, it’s natural to default to the easiest option—often kind of numb survival that distances you from what really matters. Yet, you can still find joy when life feels messy. You get out of life what you put into it. When you choose to lean into the beauty amid the chaos, you reclaim the heart of Christmas—the...
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3919 How to See Straight When the World is Spinning
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The holiday season should bring joy and meaning. Yet, all too often, it feels like the world is spinning faster than ever. Sometimes it's hard knowing how to see straight when the world is spinning. That's where the pressures are mounting, events piling up, and endless distractions keep pulling your attention every which way. A spinning top is a real thing, even if you don't want to admit it. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . When everything around you is out of control, how do you stay grounded in what matters? How do you still make an...
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3918 Love—The Greatest Gift
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Love is the word that’s everywhere at Christmas, wrapped in songs and shiny cards, but too often it feels like a hollow echo. What if this love isn’t just a sweet feeling or a seasonal mood? What if real love is the boldest, most demanding choice you make—one that shakes your world and changes everything? Get ready to feel that kind of love, the kind that moves, sacrifices, and breaks every boundary in its path; love—the greatest gift. John 3:16 says, "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting...
info_outlineThe holidays are filled with traditions, yet the usual routines can sometimes leave your marriage feeling stale and falling flat amid the seasonal frenzy. So, if you want to spark fresh romance rather than fade into the background of the hustle and bustle, it’s time to upgrade your holidays and break the 'too busy' cycle in your marriage.
The holiday season isn’t just busy — it’s a full, constant sprint, leaving you gasping for air. It's no wonder your marriage feels blah!
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And then the overwhelm kicks in when you realize something has to be done for the two of you, like traditional routines. But they can get buried under to-do lists and phones or tablets, turning festive cheer into unattended background noise.
If you want your connection to survive during the holidays, especially and thrive, you have to stop running on autopilot.
The solution isn’t more decorations or typical “quality time.” It’s creating intentional rituals that cut through the noise and demand your focus on what really matters, each other, and turn your holiday into a true romantic retreat.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Turn your holiday into a romantic retreat!
Here are three straightforward, heartfelt rituals to break the endless “too busy” cycle this Christmas and turn your holiday into a true romantic retreat:
1. Advent Date Nights with Heartfelt Depth
Forget cookie-cutter outings. Each weekly date builds intimacy by inviting honest sharing and listening. Try these:
- Story Swap: Take turns sharing a meaningful Christmas memory from your childhood, then discuss why it stuck with you. Vulnerability here isn’t optional—it’s the point.
- Dreams & Wishes: Set aside distractions to talk about your biggest hopes for the year ahead, together. This isn’t small talk; it’s planting the seeds for real growth as a couple.
- Gratitude Reflection: Light candles, turn phones off, and each share one specific thing you noticed and appreciated about your spouse that week. No generalities—be concrete and sincere.
2. The 12 Letters of Christmas
Replace the standard gratitude jar with a daily habit that deepens connection through words. For the next 12 days of December leading up to Christmas, write your spouse a short letter—one that could be a cherished memory, a simple “thank you,” or a hope you have for your life together. These notes build an emotional archive, turning busy days into moments of presence and love.
3. Create a Purposeful Christmas “Love Playlist”
Music shapes mood and memory, but this playlist has a purpose. Ask your spouse to add one song each week that reflects how they feel or a story they want to share. Play it during dinners, coffee time, or wrapping gifts, then talk about why they chose that song. This soundtrack is your couple’s anthem—new tradition, new connection.
Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol showed us how even the coldest hearts warm through meaning and kindness.
This season, don’t just check off boxes: craft rituals that demand presence, draw you close, and remind you why your love deserves more than a passing glance.
This is how you break the “too busy” cycle. This is how you make the holidays about the two of you again.
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
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Song Title: Overcomer
Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia
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