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It's My Birthday: Real Talk about Doing the Hard Stuff First

Real Talk with Barbie

Release Date: 06/20/2025

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Real Talk with Barbie

Today we're talking about talking. The energy of GETTING IT OUT is something that I think that we've lost. Instead of picking up the phone to call iyour girlfriend, we text. So that energy and your voice doesn't move it OUT.  Talking, singing, screaming, when you're by yourself in your car, that moves that energy. And that's something I think that we need to really remember, so we're going to talk about it today.  Let's get started. I'm so glad you're here. Topics Discussed: Texting doesn't move the energy OUT. Talk to yourself in the forest. The trees are the best listeners....

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Real Talk with Barbie

Today we’re talking about high vibes. And here's the thing: you don't need to be "happy" to be in a high vibrational state. You can be aligned without being on cloud 9. I feel like we spend so much time chasing being "happy" that we lose focus of what alignment looks like. Let’s get started. I’m so glad you’re here. Topics Discussed: High vibration ≠ happiness. You can be in a high-vibe, aligned state without being happy. Chasing happiness isn’t the goal; focusing on alignment is. Your circumstances don’t control your vibration. Even if you're not in your dream job or life...

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Real Talk with Barbie

Guess what.. it was my birthday this week and I turned 45.  I’m now in Chapter 45 of this crazy life and I’m going to make it the best year yet.  I think that for the first half of our lives, we collect lessons and things along the way, and then what really matters is what we do with all that during the second part. For me, I am going to talk about it and share. Because like I will tell you about in this episode, I’m pretty sure my calling is never to be a football quarterback. But using my voice to make you feel like YOU matter too, and that your dreams are important, is...

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Let’s talk about hanging out with winners. People who make you feel BETTER when you leave them than when you walked in. Did you know that just being AROUND high performers increases your chance of performing higher?  It’s a thing. And I have noticed it in real life.  Theres NOOOOOO point in spending your days not heading in the direction you want to be going in. Time to focus on you. Let’s get started. I’m so glad you’re here Xo Topics Discussed: Hang out with people who don't just talk the talk. If you want to be a lawyer, find them on a Friday night. Get in the...

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Real Talk with Barbie

Let's talk about you. Why not you? There is no real reason it can’t happen for you too.  And no matter what excuses, negative thoughts or stops at the procrastination station you can come up with, you deserve your dreams just as much as anyone else. But here’s the thing. You have to do the real work. The messy, face your own stuff kind of work.  Because only AFTER that happens, that’s when the good stuff shows up.  Time to believe in yourself as much as I believe in you. Let’s get started. I’m so glad you’re here Xo Topics Discussed: You are just as capable,...

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Today we’re talking about how Perfect DOESN’T EXIST.  It’s literally not a thing.  So why do we spend so much time chasing after it, trying to be it, to smile and fake it?  Look around at the people you follow and admire.  Are they perfect?  No way.  They try new things, put themselves out there, and make mistakes. I GUARANTEE they don’t give off that “perfect illusion”.  Perfect isn’t a thing.  If it were, it would be boring anyway.  And I definitely don’t like hanging out with boring people, no thanks.  Let’s get...

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Today we’re talking about how to get started.  When you have a dream, a project or a task that seems just SO big you don’t even know where to begin.  When the fear, the dreaded imposter syndrome or the overwhelm sets in, the way to do it is to START BY STARTING.  Get things set up the best you can, then trust in yourself and jump in with two feet because you deserve to be happy, and you deserve to bet on yourself.   Topics Discussed: About the Real Talk with Barbie Podcast The 3 Reasons we don't get started - fear, fear and fear Our brains always try to keep us safe...

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In this podcast, we are going to talk about the real stuff that we’re all going through.  Not the bright shiny stuff we see on everyone’s feeds, but the gritty, messy, middle parts that need to be heard, to heal.  I have been through a lot in my life, particularly in the past few years and I want to talk about it.  I want to tell you about the stuff I have learned, so you feel like, hey!  She gets it!  You are not alone, and you are not the only one.  I don’t care about all the pretty, fake stuff.  I care about leveling up, and helping you do the...

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Guess what.. it was my birthday this week and I turned 45.  I’m now in Chapter 45 of this crazy life and I’m going to make it the best year yet.  I think that for the first half of our lives, we collect lessons and things along the way, and then what really matters is what we do with all that during the second part.

For me, I am going to talk about it and share. Because like I will tell you about in this episode, I’m pretty sure my calling is never to be a football quarterback. But using my voice to make you feel like YOU matter too, and that your dreams are important, is what I am meant do.

Let’s get started. I’m so glad you’re here Xo

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