Stopping The War With Our Private Parts: Finding Safety Again After Painful Sex with OhNut Founder Emily Sauer
Release Date: 10/17/2022
Horizontal Abs: A Workout You Can Do Lying Down! Really!
Alter Your Life
I had a client once who told me the reason she was drawn to Pilates was because it was a workout you can do lying down. And I’ll be honest (I always am) she’s not only person who feels that way! So in today’s MINI EPISODE I’m sharing a guided workout/movement practice that you can do lying down! Don’t be mistaken though, just because I also said “movement practice” and it’s done lying down doesn’t mean it’s easy! Give it a try and let me know how it goes! If it feels good and you’re looking for more, I have a ! If you’re picking up what I’m laying...
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In this mini episode… Addressing the physical compensations of pregnancy and what my body clearly remembers from last time Reminding my body and myself that THIS pregnancy is THIS pregnancy and NOT my previous pregnancy Acknowledging my emotional growth during stressful times Moving past patterns of dissociation from my PTSD Physical and emotional presence Have a question about altering your life, your pelvic floor, how to harness the physical & energetic powerhouse between your legs, marriage, divorce, motherhood, anything else? DM me and submit your Q for my A! If...
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Your Q My A! Giving Birth Again After A Fourth Degree Tear
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Follow, subscribe, rate, review, and SHARE this episode! If you prefer watching episodes, you can now do that on ! And don’t forget to where we talk about all the things we’re not supposed to talk about. Learn more at Follow along on IG As always I’ve got your back, I’ve got your front, and I’ve got your undercarriage. If you haven’t read Erin’s memoir , it’s not too late! Erin paints the human picture of addiction and how our assumptions and judgment of addicts are influenced by you guess it, the patriarchy, and not humanity. ...
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I created a sample for you AND a template you can customize to save yourself from stress, burnout, overwhelm, and overstimulation this holiday season and every freaking day. This menu was born out of necessity because I find the overstimulation of motherhood crushing. This mini episode is something you're going to be seeing more of. Mini episodes will air every other week between full length episodes of interviews or deep dive solo episodes with me! In our first mini episode together you’ll learn… WTF a self-care menu is Why taking a moment to create one is the...
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The Physical & Energetic Powerhouse Hidden Between Your Legs
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Kegels are the standard answer when more often than not we need to release tension, articulate muscles, and find movement. We need to find release and feel safe relaxing into our bodies. Into ourselves. We need this physically, mentally, and emotionally. I want you to use your breath in your daily life, your daily movements, and your daily practice. We’ve discussed how this works on a physical level to engage and stretch these muscles. This also provides benefits on an emotional and psychological level. This is part of the reason that meditation and yoga have so many mental health and...
info_outlineEver wonder what a penis would look like wearing a pink donut? Me too. Wonder no more because the OhNut is here! And no, it’s not just for decoration! It’s function is even hotter. The OhNut is a wearable silicone sleeve that works like a bumper to control and limit depth of penetration. It’s made up of stacking rings so you can decide what works best for you.
If you’re picking up what I’m laying down…
Follow, subscribe, rate, review, and SHARE this episode!
If you prefer watching episodes, you can now do that on YouTube!
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Learn more at www.alissaalter.com
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As always I’ve got your back, I’ve got your front, and I’ve got your undercarriage
I’ve been recommending OhNut to clients for years and everyone has been happy with the results. Because the OhNut allows you to relax, knowing that you are safe, and start to explore the possibility of pleasure between the sheets. Whether with a partner or flying solo. Emily has gracious shared a discount code ALISSA7 with us which you can use at www.ohnut.co for $7 off!
When I reached out to Emily to be on the show, I was not prepared to meet someone so cool! She’s fun, she’s light, she’s bright, and she is changing the freaking world. She is educating and empowering women to reclaim their bodies, advocate for themselves, and find pleasure. Basically…I’m obsessed with her.
Also I cry twice in this episode.
In this episode…
- Options to heal painful sex and how the OhNut works to fascilitate that
- Finding a sense of safety and control in your body again
- Getting lost in the cracks of the medical system & creating a holistic approach to care in a divided system
- Take an active role in your solution to painful sex and include your partner
Emily is a spritely entrepreneur who has always been passionate about creating catalysts that spark human connection. While developing Ohnut she co-founded the Lady Bits League, the Pain Perception Project, and Pelvic Gym to connect people and professionals from all over the pelvic health world, through education and story. Emily has redefined her life as a proud entrepreneur, maker, community leader, and patient advocate. Learn more at www.Ohnut.co and follow on IG @ohnutco