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How To Be Defiant When It Matters Most with Dr. Sunita Sah (#45)

The Non-Obvious Show

Release Date: 07/29/2025

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In this episode of The Non-Obvious Show, Dr. Sunita Shah discusses the concept of defiance, challenging the negative perceptions surrounding it. She emphasizes the importance of understanding our values and how they can empower us to act defiantly in various situations. Through personal anecdotes and research, Dr. Shah illustrates how defiance can be a positive force for change, both personally and socially. The conversation explores the dynamics of compliance, the role of values, and the potential ripple effect of individual acts of defiance in professional contexts.

 

Takeaways

Defiance can be a quiet statement of values.
Compliance often leads to negative consequences for individuals.
Understanding our values is crucial for practicing defiance.
Defiance is not inherently negative; it can drive positive change.
Tension in a situation can signal the need for defiance.
Defiance is a skill that can be developed and practiced.
The costs of compliance can outweigh the risks of defiance.
Defiance can inspire others and create movements.
Preparation is key to being able to act defiantly when needed.
Living in alignment with one's values leads to greater happiness.

 

Chapters

00:00 The Power of Defiance
08:41 Understanding Compliance and Defiance
17:48 The Role of Values in Defiance
26:48 Defiance in Professional Contexts
35:24 The Ripple Effect of Defiance