Reclaiming Power and Agency When Everyone's Depressed (with David Storey)
Release Date: 11/12/2025
The Final Five Minutes
How My View Grew
In this final curtain call of How My View Grew, I describe why I'm bringing the podcast to a close and offer ways for us to stay connected. Resources Every episode of How My View Grew on Keep up with my writing on my Listen to on the Lucy Ann Lance Show about ScreenWise Ann Arbor's initiative to make the Ann Arbor Public Schools phone-free all day. Watch a about this initiative, in which I appear. Sadly, the reporter neglected to mention that according to , phones make students less safe during school shootings. **Subscribe to the podcast** To hear the origin stories of more big ideas,...
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Reclaiming Power and Agency When Everyone's Depressed (with David Storey)
How My View Grew
Another engaging riff with David Storey, Boston College philosophy professor and Spartan Race athlete. This time I take center stage. We explore why Americans are collectively depressed, why Democrats ignore power politics, why turning off phones and turning toward each other feels great, and how all of this is related. I make a case for phone-free schools. Dave helps me see even bigger benefits. We get political. We get personal. We refuse to give advice or answer the question, "What should the average person do?" **Key takeaways** 11:00 Feeling bottled up? Recapture the oomph and lock arms...
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Six Ideas for Democrats Who Have Not Given Up
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In this five-minute episode of How My View Grew, I offer six ideas for Democrats and Never-Trumpers who haven't given up: Doing something is better than doing nothing. We're lousy at predicting the outcomes of our actions. The 2026 mid-terms are super-important. Winning in 2026 requires two distinct tasks. Dems and Never Trumpers need a new mood. Biden-to-Trump voters need permission structures, not shaming. **Subscribe to the podcast** To hear the origin stories of more big ideas, subscribe to How My View Grew on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. **Share the...
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Status Differences Matter
How My View Grew
Status differences, real and perceived, and the resentment that comes with them. Republicans use them to fire up voters and win elections. Democrats largely ignore them. To regain power and reverse the authoritarian tide, Democrats will need to take status differences seriously. My five-minute take. **Subscribe to the podcast** To hear the origin stories of more big ideas, subscribe to How My View Grew on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. **Share the love** Leave me a rating or review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts.
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Five Thoughts That Are Not Profound Or Useful
How My View Grew
In this five-minute episode, which concludes season three, I share five thoughts that I think you will enjoy even though they're neither profound nor useful. Co-ed Sleepovers Love Overestimated Pronouns Everywhere What Men Do A Bold Child **Subscribe to the podcast** To hear the origin stories of more big ideas, subscribe to How My View Grew on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. **Share the love** Leave me a rating or review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts.
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David Storey (Part 2): Alpha Energy Plus Economic Populism Plus Christianity Equals?
How My View Grew
Part two of a provocative conversation with David Storey, associate professor of philosophy at Boston College. **Key takeaways** 0:45 The right has coded expertise as feminine 2:45 How ironic: the manosphere exists in disembodied cyberspace 6:00 What Fight Club was all about 11:00 The retro-romantic part of MAGA 13:00 The war on terror was a weak halfway house between the Cold War and MAGA 17:00 The tech right as Nietzschean supermen 19:00 Funneling alpha energy into a mass movement against Big Tech 21:00 Can Democrats become more fluent in Christianity as they embrace economic populism? ...
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David Storey (Part 1): Raw Egg Nationalists and the Rise of the Manosphere
How My View Grew
Part one of a fascinating and just plain fun conversation about the manosphere with David Storey, associate professor of philosophy at Boston College. Our first experiment in doing a "high-brow brocast." Big ideas with a casual vibe. **Key takeaways** 4:00 Beards, mustaches, and the aesthetics of Trumpism 7:15 When my mask threatens your identity 12:10 Why this philosophy professor competes in Spartan races 17:00 The laptop class manipulates bits, not its 19:00 The economics behind the rise of the manosphere 24:00 The impact on young men of #metoo and the rise of girl-boss culture 26:00 When...
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No Kings Protest—Kudos and Disappointment
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This past Saturday, I attended the No Kings protest in a Midwestern college town. I walked in with a spring in my step, yet left early with a frown on my face. In this 5-minute episode of How My View Grew, I explain why. It's a good-news, bad-news tale. **Subscribe to the podcast** To hear the origin stories of more big ideas, subscribe to How My View Grew on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. **Share the love** Leave me a rating or review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts.
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Greg Thomas: Can Injustice Catalyze a Hero's Journey?
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In this episode of How My View Grew, Greg Thomas describes how jazz saved him from hating so-called "white people" and how he learned to see the Black American experience as a hero's journey that is central to American history and culture. **Key takeaways** 3:00 Early-life learning about rabid southern racists 9:00 "I gotta pick up an instrument" 13:30 The pathologizing of Black Americans by "white" liberals 16:00 The depth and wisdom of Albert Murray, Ralph Ellison, and Stanley Crouch 19:00 "This history has got my back" and the artificiality of "whiteness" 22:00 The hero's journey 23:30...
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Two Audacious Ideas for a Post-Trump America (Really)
How My View Grew
When right-wingers in the United States were in the wilderness for decades, they didn't just sit on their hands. They envisioned bold ways to change the country. When they came to power, they were ready to act. Setting aside whether you like those ideas, ask yourself this: if Republicans could do this, why can't Democrats? Are liberals and progressives incapable of imagining what they'll do when back in power? Or have they simply not yet grown this potential? Maybe it's time for all of us to not just play defense against the current mayhem but also to envision a better offense. If your party...
info_outlineAnother engaging riff with David Storey, Boston College philosophy professor and Spartan Race athlete. This time I take center stage. We explore why Americans are collectively depressed, why Democrats ignore power politics, why turning off phones and turning toward each other feels great, and how all of this is related.
I make a case for phone-free schools. Dave helps me see even bigger benefits.
We get political. We get personal. We refuse to give advice or answer the question, "What should the average person do?"
**Key takeaways**
- 11:00 Feeling bottled up? Recapture the oomph and lock arms with others
- 15:00 The Tit-for-Tat strategy from the Prisoner's Dilemma
- 21:00 Reclaiming power. "Don't step on me."
- 23:00 Two reasons Democrats get complacent about power politics
- 28:00 Want advice on what to do? Instead, ask yourself these four questions
- 32:00 Conscious phone use through PSAs and intentional points of friction
- 35:00 It's time to make public spaces public again
- 38:00 Stricter phone policies in schools free teachers to teach, not police
- 41:00 Adults exerting their agency. "Trust your moral compass."
- 45:00 Moving beyond the hyper-individualistic story of America
- 47:00 Laughter is something we create together
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