[Encore] Strides Revisited: Top 4 Mindset Myths that Hold Riders Back (Originally Ep #1051)

Have you ever caught yourself thinking “I’m just not a natural rider”… or “I’ll ruin my horse if I try that”?  If so, you’re not alone, and these thoughts might be quietly holding you back in your riding.

In this episode of the Daily Strides Podcast, we’re tackling four of the most common mindset myths that keep riders stuck in place, and how to break free from them starting today.
Whether it’s doubting your natural ability, waiting for “feel” to magically arrive, thinking you need more equipment before starting, or fearing you’ll make mistakes with your horse, these myths are all fixable.

When you start replacing them with truth and awareness, everything changes; your confidence, your communication, and your results in the saddle.

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🎧 Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:

• Why the idea of “natural talent” can keep you from reaching your potential as a rider

• How to actually develop feel in your riding (without waiting years)

• The truth about needing special tack, arenas, or ideal circumstances

• Why doing nothing often harms your horse’s progress more than making small mistakes

• Simple shifts to start rewriting your own rider story

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🧠 Episode Takeaway

The biggest myth of all is believing that you can’t change your riding because of what you don’t have, time, talent, tack, or confidence.
Progress starts the moment you decide to begin, exactly where you are, with what you’ve got.  Your horse doesn’t need perfection, just your presence and a plan!