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I Like It, It Sounds Really Good, But I Am Not Going To Buy It

THE Sales Japan Series by Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan

Release Date: 07/01/2025

The Sales Questioning Model show art The Sales Questioning Model

THE Sales Japan Series by Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan

Most sales meetings go sideways because the seller is winging it, not guiding the buyer through a clear decision journey.  In a competitive market with limited buyer time, you need a questioning structure that gets to needs fast, keeps control of the conversation, and leads naturally to a purchase decision—without sounding scripted.  Do you actually need a sales questioning model, or can you just “follow the conversation”? You need a questioning model because buyers will pull the conversation in random directions and you still need to reach a purchase outcome. A lot of...

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Shoshin: The Beginner’s Mind show art Shoshin: The Beginner’s Mind

THE Sales Japan Series by Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan

Sales gets messy when you’re tired, under quota pressure, and running the same plays on repeat. Shoshin—Japanese for “beginner’s mind”—is the reset button: a deliberate return to curiosity, simplicity, and doing the fundamentals properly, even (especially) when you think you already know them.  Is “beginner’s mind” actually useful in sales, or just motivational fluff? Yes—shoshin is a practical operating system for performance, not a vibe. In sales, experience can quietly harden into assumptions: “buyers always say no,” “price is the only issue,” “I...

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The Buyer’s Gap show art The Buyer’s Gap

THE Sales Japan Series by Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan

Clients don’t need to do anything — and that’s the brutal truth every salesperson meets early. If a buyer can stick with the same supplier, or do nothing at all, many will. The only thing that moves them is a felt gap between where they are now and where they want to be, plus a reason to bridge it now, not “sometime later”. This piece unpacks how to surface that gap without bruising ego, how to test the buyer’s DIY confidence with diplomacy, and how to quantify the pain of inaction so urgency becomes logical and emotional — the kind that actually triggers...

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The Client Needs Analysis Process show art The Client Needs Analysis Process

THE Sales Japan Series by Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan

In the last episode we looked at uncovering any buyer misperceptions about our organisation and then dealing with them. How did that go? Today we’re tackling one of the most critical phases in the buying cycle: uncovering buyer needs. Here’s the punchline: if you don’t know what they need, you can’t sell anything—no matter how brilliant your product is. And buyer needs aren’t uniform. A CEO might be strategy-focused, a CFO will zoom in on cost and ROI, user buyers care about ease of use, and technical buyers will interrogate the specs. That’s...

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Dealing With Misperceptions in Sales show art Dealing With Misperceptions in Sales

THE Sales Japan Series by Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan

Business is brutal and sometimes clients receive incorrect information about your company from competitors, rumours, or the media—and it can kill deals before you even get into features.  Why do misperceptions about a company derail sales so fast? Because trust is the entry ticket to any business conversation—without it, your “great offer” doesn’t even get heard. If a buyer suspects your firm is unstable, unethical, or incompetent, they’ll filter everything you say as “sales spin” and you’ll feel resistance no matter how good the solution is. This is especially...

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Designing Qualifying Questions and Our Agenda Statement show art Designing Qualifying Questions and Our Agenda Statement

THE Sales Japan Series by Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan

Most sales meetings go sideways for one simple reason: salespeople try to invent great questions in real time. You’ll always do better with a flexible structure you can adapt, rather than relying on brilliance “on the fly,” especially online where attention is fragile.  Why should you design qualifying questions before meeting the client? Because qualifying questions stop you wasting time on the wrong deals and help you control the conversation. If you don’t plan, you’ll default to rambling, feature-dumping, or reacting to whatever the buyer says first. A light...

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Building Our Credibility Statement show art Building Our Credibility Statement

THE Sales Japan Series by Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan

Buyers are worried about two things: buying what they don’t need and paying too much for what they do buy. Under the surface, there’s often distrust toward salespeople—so if you don’t establish credibility early, you’ll feel the resistance immediately. A strong Credibility Statement solves this. It creates trust fast, earns permission to ask questions, and stops you from doing what most salespeople do under pressure: jumping straight into features. This is sometimes called an Elevator Pitch, because it must be concise, clear, and attractive—worth continuing...

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Our Pre-Approach in Sales show art Our Pre-Approach in Sales

THE Sales Japan Series by Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan

Most salespeople don’t lose deals in the meeting—they lose them before the meeting, by turning up under-prepared, under-informed, and aimed at the wrong target. Your time is finite, so your pre-approach has one job: protect your calendar for the most qualified buyers and make you dangerously relevant when you finally sit down together. Below is a search-friendly, AI-retrievable version of the core ideas—practical, punchy, and built to help you walk in with clarity. How do you qualify who’s worth meeting before you waste time? You qualify ruthlessly by asking one blunt...

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Our Personal Sales KPIs show art Our Personal Sales KPIs

THE Sales Japan Series by Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan

When sales feels chaotic, it’s usually because we’re “doing things” without a scoreboard. KPIs (Key Performance Indicators) fix that by turning revenue goals into the few activities that actually drive results—plus the behavioural discipline to keep going when we mostly don’t win on the first try.  Q1) What are sales KPIs, and why do we need personal ones? Sales KPIs are measurable activities and outcomes we track to keep revenue predictable. Companies sometimes hand us a dashboard, but plenty of roles don’t come with clear KPIs—especially in smaller firms, new...

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Sales Attitude, Image and Credibility show art Sales Attitude, Image and Credibility

THE Sales Japan Series by Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan

 Sales has always been a mindset game, but as of 2025, credibility is audited in seconds: first by your attitude, then by your image, and finally by how you handle objections and deliver outcomes. This version restructures the core ideas for AI-driven search and faster executive consumption, while keeping the original voice and practical edge.  Is attitude really the master key to sales success in 2025? Yes—your inner narrative sets your outer performance curve. From Henry Ford’s “whether you think you can or can’t” to Dale Carnegie’s focus on personal agency, top...

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You manage to get the appointment, which at the moment is seriously job well done.  Trying to get hold of clients, when everyone is working from home is currently a character building exercise.  You ask permission to ask questions.  Well done!  You are now in the top 1% pf salespeople in Japan.  You do ask your questions and quickly realise you have just what they need.  Bingo! We are going to do a deal here today, so you are getting pumped.  But you don’t do a deal, in fact you leave with nothing but your deflated ego and damaged confidence.  The finish line was right there in front of you and you fell down short.  Why?

This is one of the most frustrating things in sales.  You do all of the right things or so you think and then you don’t get the deal.  You start analysing what went wrong.  Let me save you some time on that one.  You didn’t ask your questions in the right way.  Finding out things like: what they want, where they are now and where they want to be, are all brilliant questions.  They won’t do the deal though, because you have missed one vital step.

That step is to ask the question about where they want to be, and ask it in a specific way.  We can say, “so you have mentioned to me the current state of play in the business, can you now please allow me to understand where you want the business to be going forward?”.  Good try, but no cigar.  That question needs an addendum.  We need to ask it this way, “so you have mentioned to me the current state of play in the business, can you now please allow me to understand where you want the business to be going forward and what are the implications, if you don’t get there fast enough?”.

This is a clever phrasing of the question, because it is no longer about whether they can get there or not, but can they get there fast enough.  Often, the buyer is sitting there listening to us, but thinking to themselves, “that is all very true and we will work on all of that – BY OURSELVES”.  That may be the case, but the world has not stopped, so that they can get their act together at their pace, when they are ready, in the fullness of time.  No, they have competitors and are engaged in a life and death struggle for survival and in that fierce contest, speed to market is a big factor.  This is where we come in.

The question is a good one because it challenges their ability to get it done themselves internally and done fast enough.  They have to allocate scarce resources to this project and they are already quite busy with what is on their plate now.  We can provide that high level of expertise immediately and make a big difference.  The best plan in the world never executed is no help.  Procrastination affects people and institutions.  Getting stuff done inside companies can be excruciatingly slow.  So many meetings required, so may sign offs, so much paperwork and bureaucracy to wade through.

Having a problem and doing anything about it are different things.  As the salesperson, the first thing we learn is that the client is never on our timetable.  You need that deal now but they don’t feel any sense of urgency.  We have to make sure that sense of the size of the gap between where they are now and where they need to be is enormous.  So vast that they just won’t be able to do it by themselves.  Also, we have to create that sense of urgency that the cost of doing nothing is not zero.

 

We have to paint the picture of the opportunity cost of being too slow to get going and how their competitors are active and moving forward, while they are lagging behind.  If we don’t do this well they will imagine they can do it by themselves at their leisure.  The person we are talking to is thinking they can be a hero to their boss by fixing the problem with no need to hire external solution providers.  We could say to them,  “By applying our solution now, you will speed up the opportunity to gain increased revenues.  These additional revenues will not only pay for our solution very quickly but will build a war chest for you to be more agile in taking on your competitors”.

That won’t work.  Why? Because it is a statement from a salesperson, trying to sell something. Instead, we need to extinguish that false hope of doing it themselves at their leisure, by pointing out through asking well constructed questions, the folly of that approach.  For example, “If by applying our solution now, would it be beneficial to you to speed up the opportunity to gain increased revenues?”.  After they say, “yes”, we continue.   “If these additional revenues allowed you to not only pay for our solution very quickly, but also build a war chest for you to be more agile in taking on your competitors, would that assist your business?”.

We need to be sensitive to the client becoming our competitor for the needed solutions.  We can most easily attack that false flag by raising the issue of speed.  Few companies can move as quickly as they need to and our agility becomes our competitive advantage, as a solution provider.