From Stuck to Unstoppable: Clearing Trauma, Rewiring the Mind & Creating the Life You Deserve
Release Date: 03/19/2025
Life Check Yourself
Today’s conversation features Lionel Moses—family man, veteran of Desert Storm, coach, and author of The Marriage Seed. We dig into relationship mastery across home and work: self-awareness over blame, trust over suspicion, and communication that lands (not just “gets said”). 3 Main Takeaways Start with self. Lasting change begins by checking beliefs, tone, and patterns before judging a partner. Choose trust over suspicion. Misunderstandings shrink when curiosity and clarity lead the interaction. Weed the garden, consistently. Relationships thrive when small problems are pulled...
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Today I’m joined by April Davis, founder of LUMA Luxury Matchmaking—and yes, she’s married to a divorce attorney, which gives her a razor-sharp lens on what actually lasts. We dig into modern dating beyond the apps: values vs. chemistry, paradox of choice, readiness, standards, gender roles, and commitment—so real love stops feeling impossible and starts feeling inevitable. 3 Main Takeaways Values beat vibes. Chemistry fades; aligned values keep relationships stable long-term. Choice overload kills connection. The app era fuels paradox of choice and “dating for dismissal.”...
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Guest intro: Mayumi Pachkoski is a U.S.–based aesthetician and energy-healing practitioner who blended Eastern and Western skincare to build a thriving six-figure studio in Maryland. A former flight attendant who pivoted in her 30s, she now helps practitioners grow healing businesses rooted in purpose and service. 3 Power Takeaways Leap early; build skills on the way. Use “no-brainer” offers to get in the room and learn from pros. (20:07–22:36) Let purpose lead the model. When work sits at the intersection of talent, joy, and need (ikigai), consistency becomes easy....
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Mary Olson-Menzel is a nationally recognized expert in career and workplace success with over 30 years of leadership experience across media, tech, healthcare, and even the NFL. As the founder and CEO of MVP Executive Development, she’s coached everyone from Fortune 500 leaders to parents reentering the workforce—helping them find purpose, confidence, and a plan to do what truly lights them up. In this inspiring episode, we unpack the mindset and tools to thrive through massive change, find your “reason for being,” and design work—and a life—that truly lights you up. ...
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Today’s episode features Rachel Gitlevich, author of What in the Actual Fck: Life’s a Hot Mess—How to Find Gratitude Anyways* and founder of Ray of Consciousness. Through her writing and consulting work, Rachel fuses raw storytelling with wellness and strategy, helping people and organizations grow with authenticity. Her story is one of resilience, transformation, and radical gratitude—even in the face of unimaginable challenges. 💫 Episode Overview In this episode, Rachel shares her extraordinary journey through multiple cancer diagnoses, near-death experiences, and...
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This week’s conversation is all about rewriting outdated scripts and reclaiming intimacy with confidence, connection, and joy. Lauren Elise Rogers—certified holistic sexuality educator and embodied intimacy coach—shares her empowering approach to navigating desire, healing from harmful narratives, and reigniting long-term relationships. With warmth and clarity, Lauren unpacks how to release the scripts that no longer serve, nurture your own sense of pleasure, and bring curiosity back into love. This is a reminder that nothing is broken—you have the right and the power to create...
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Guest: Elliott Connie — psychotherapist, best-selling author, and global leader in Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT). In this episode, Elliott breaks down how asking the right questions can create powerful shifts in healing, relationships, and life direction. With over 20 years of experience, he shows why focusing on strengths and desired outcomes leads to transformation faster than traditional models of therapy. 3 Powerful Takeaways The questions you ask shape your future. Change begins by focusing on outcomes, not problems. Lasting relationships thrive on...
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In this episode of Life Check Yourself, Marni Battista interviews Steven Miyao, an executive coach and entrepreneur, about navigating midlife career changes and personal reinvention. They discuss the challenges faced by midlife professionals, the importance of aligning careers with personal values, and practical strategies for overcoming fear and taking action. Steven shares insights from his coaching practice, including the eulogy exercise to reflect on one's values and the significance of experimentation in making life changes. The conversation emphasizes the need for intentional living and...
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In this episode of Life Check Yourself, Marni Battista interviews Steven Miyao, an executive coach and entrepreneur, about navigating midlife career changes and personal reinvention. They discuss the challenges faced by midlife professionals, the importance of aligning careers with personal values, and practical strategies for overcoming fear and taking action. Steven shares insights from his coaching practice, including the eulogy exercise to reflect on one's values and the significance of experimentation in making life changes. The conversation emphasizes the need for intentional living and...
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Introduction In this episode, we explore the power of integrating body, mind, and subconscious to release long-held emotional knots and reclaim wholeness. Our guest, Esin Pinrali, is a holistic psychotherapist and relationship expert specializing in imago therapy, brain spotting, internal family systems, and somatic practices. With her experiential approach, she helps people move beyond anxiety, trauma, and codependency to become fully alive and connected. 3 Key Takeaways Labels don’t heal—untangling the root does. The body stores unresolved trauma and reveals the knots...
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In this powerful episode, we welcome Riana Malia, an advanced trauma care coach and expert in quantum biology, neuroscience, and transformational healing. She is the creator of the Clear to Create Method and Quantum Pattern Protocol, designed to help ambitious women move past trauma, break deep-rooted patterns, and step into their full potential with confidence. With over 20 years of experience, Riana has helped hundreds of women transform their lives, find love, and create personal and professional breakthroughs by tapping into the unconscious mind to uncover and heal the root causes of emotional and psychological blocks.
�� Three Game-Changing Takeaways
✅ Your Conscious Mind Sets the Goal, But Your Unconscious Mind Makes It Happen – The mind is like an iceberg: only 10% is conscious, while 90% operates beneath the surface. True transformation happens by accessing and reprogramming the unconscious mind. (03:13)
✅ You Have to Clear the Old to Make Space for the New – Patterns, trauma, and limiting beliefs are stored at a cellular level. Unless they are fully released, you’ll keep repeating the same cycles, whether in relationships, career, or self-worth. (08:05)
✅ Rewiring Your Brain Can Be Instant & Permanent – Quantum Time Release clears deeply embedded emotional charges without revisiting past trauma, allowing you to move forward without reliving old wounds. (21:44)
�� Key Topics & Insights
1️⃣Why "Willpower" Isn't Enough: The Real Key to Lasting Change (03:13)
● The conscious mind can set a goal, but it’s the unconscious mind that executes it. ● 90% of thoughts, behaviors, and patterns are stored in the unconscious mind, including unprocessed trauma, emotional patterns, and survival instincts. ● "If the conscious mind is the goal setter, the unconscious mind is the goal getter." ● The reason people feel stuck despite knowing what they want is that their
unconscious programming keeps them repeating old patterns.
�� Impact: Understanding this concept shifts the focus from trying harder to rewiring thought patterns at a deeper level.
2️⃣Breaking Free: Why Traditional "Talk Therapy" Isn't Enough (08:05)
● Most personal development focuses on awareness but stops short of rewiring the brain.
● Just “releasing” emotions without installing new neurology, new strategies, and new behavior patterns keeps you stuck.
● "People focus on releasing, releasing, releasing, but they don’t replace it with anything new. So the system collapses back on itself." (06:52)
● Quantum Pattern Protocol works at the root level, clearing stored trauma without revisiting painful memories.
�� Impact: The key to lasting change is replacing limiting beliefs with new neurological patterns, not just recognizing them.
3️⃣Quantum Time Release: How to Let Go of Emotional Baggage in Hours, Not Years (21:44)
● Every negative emotion—anger, sadness, fear, guilt, shame—is stored like a string of marbles in the unconscious mind.
● Quantum Time Release clears these at the root cause without requiring conscious memory of the event.
● "Clients will say, ‘If you asked me this three hours ago, I would have cried, but now… it’s gone.’" (22:42)
● Once the emotional charge is gone, clarity, creativity, and new opportunities appear effortlessly.
�� Impact: Healing doesn’t have to take years. With the right approach, transformation can happen in a matter of hours.
�� Final Thoughts
This episode is a deep dive into how to rewire your mind for success, break old cycles, and step into the life you truly desire. If you've ever felt like you're stuck in repetitive patterns—whether in relationships, career, or self-worth—Riana's methods could be the key to unlocking your unstoppable self.
�� Want to dive deeper? Check out Riana's free 27-minute masterclass where she walks
you through the Quantum Pattern Protocol step by step! (Link in show notes!) �� Listen Now & Step Into Your Power! ��
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