Daily 1% x 228: Be Awesome
The Davina Podcast
“BE AWESOME” A couple of years ago that 👆quote was being said everywhere Posters were being made It was a thing It was trendy to have stuff that SAID: be awesome. What does it even mean to BE AWESOME? Let’s make a list: Know who you are Show up big Do hard things Be on fire Create epic stuff Be willing to do scary ideas Not back down Stay positive Have courage Don’t listen to haters Keep going All of these are good. Inspiring. What about: 🌟Loving yourself even when you...
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Daily 1% x 227: Date Yourself
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WARRIOR WOMEN TIP: TAKE YOURSELF ON A DATE I spent the day at the: Mint Art Museum Walking around all by myself, looking at all the exhibits is my favorite… No one to rush me or wonder why I’m taking so long. My favorite is getting to witness the way a piece was created or the life long work of an artist. Both types of exhibits remind me: NOTHING HAS GONE WRONG Even if… •It seems like figuring something out is taking too long •Life feels frustratingly like a hamster wheel •My...
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Daily 1% x 226: You Don't Have To
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You don’t have to do anything the way everyone else does. I KNOW this may sound obvious It’s more HIDDEN than you might think, though. STORY TIME: 📖 Just recently, I was talking to one of my coaches about doing one hour consults. When I seemed like I didn’t really like doing them she asked… Why do you do them? I said: Because it’s the way it’s done in the industry. WHAT?!? Here I am the… ‘Break The Rules’ ‘Live Unapologetically’ ‘Be A Warrior Woman’ ‘March...
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Episode 90: The Power of Taking Selfies
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I got to be on ’s podcast talking about: The Power of Taking Selfies! If you do not know Lydia, once you listen to this podcast episode, you are going to want to follow her and be her bestie. She’s effervescent, vibrant, straight talking, real, fierce, and fearless all while being relatable and ICONIC at the same time. I highly recommend signing up for her next Pleasure Salon: Elemental Courtesan. Lydia’s words from this podcast episode conversation: Selfie Siren with Davina Fear! Y'all ready to break the internet (and your...
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Daily 1% x 225: Brainiac Maniac
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Warriors! Our brains want to cancel/ignore all of our awesomeness!! Don’t let it! This week I’ve done so much brave and bold stuff! YOU HAVE, TOO!! Last night as I was prepping for bed, my brain was like: Wow. You’ve not accomplished your goals. You didn’t get 50 new clients. (Mind you, my goal was not 50 new clients but my brain likes to be VERY dramatic.) I said to my brain: Hold it right there, Brainiac Maniac. You are wrong. W-R-O-N-G I know you like to scan for what’s...
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Daily 1% x 224: Be Your Own Magic
The Davina Podcast
What if you could… 🤔🤩 Be your own magical 💫 : •YODA who compels you to do the hard thing, take the risk, and 100% believes in you even when you doubt •KINDNESS ADVOCATE who doesn’t let you say mean things to yourself •PERSON WHO SAYS to you “I’m here for you, no matter what you’re going through, no matter what you’re feeling” •SWEET & LOYAL DOG who stays by your side and sits with you when you’re sad •MOM who rubs your back while you cry about feeling like you have no friends •BEST FRIEND who tells you all...
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Daily 1% x 223: You're All That
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You’ve done something you’re totally proud of, at some point, right? Like totally thought you rocked it? And then…. Bum bu bummmm…. Your brain comes in like a freight train T-boning a car sitting on the tracks and says: Wow. You sure messed that up. What were you thinking? Why did you say that? You took over the conversation. You are so selfish. You don’t ever think about other people. You only think about yourself. You’re too much. You’re over the...
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Daily 1% x 222: Sabotaging You
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Have you ever said, “I feel like I’m sabotaging myself?” You’re right. Kind of. It’s not your fault, though. Here’s why… Brains have two parts: Primitive Pre-frontal cortex They basically like OPPOSITE things. If you sometimes feel like you’re fighting with yourself or constantly torn between two things… Guess what? Nothing has gone wrong AND You are not a mutant. One part of our brain loves routine. It gets all giddy about doing the same thing over and over and over again. This part of your brain loves familiarity, comfort,...
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Episode 89: Warrior Women Series: Éowyn
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I love The Lord of the Rings. I've not read the book. I've watched the movies MANY times! Eowyn is one of my favorite warriors in this series. I decided to research more about her and discovered some awesomeness. No surprise. Enjoy this episode! If you'd like to bring out your Warriorness more, click . Let's chat! Previously published .
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Daily 1% x 221: If You're Disappointed
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Maybe you’re disappointed… In you. In the way you’re showing up. In who you are being. Knowing what you’ve been thinking, feeling, doing or NOT thinking, feeling, doing... It makes you want to: Be hard on yourself… Beat yourself up… Say a few mean things to yourself. You and me… We are human. Our brains do this. They think they are helping. The truth is… What really helps, is this… Notice you’ve been judging yourself. Thinking unhelpful or unkind or unloving thoughts about you or maybe about someone else. ...
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Until two weeks ago I had never worn them.
I was a little afraid of them.
Several years ago, someone I respect suggested I was wearing braids to keep people from taking me seriously…to soften my intense personality.
I don’t think she was wrong.
I stopped wearing two braids.
Not because she told me to but because I wanted to experiment…
See if there was some truth to her theory.
I started paying attention to allowing my intensity without apology.
I didn’t return to the two braids.
Mainly, because I didn’t think I needed them anymore.
Her suggestion DID help me to own who I was.
I no longer try to soften my strength, intensity, passion.
Several months ago, someone suggested I try bubble braids.
I didn’t know what they were.
I looked them up and immediately thought:
I can’t wear those. It will be me trying to hide my intensity.
So what made me decide to try them?
I decided I’ve come a long way.
Wearing bubble braids would feel different because I’m different than I was all those years ago.
Now, I feel stunning and fierce.
Now, I don’t feel like I’m sending a mixed message of “please like me even though I can be really intense and passionate.”
Now, I love me when I look in the mirror.
I see the woman I am now, and I think:
You are intense fiery awesomeness. I love you! 
Evolution is amazing.
I’m not saying we do or don’t do things according to what other people may or may not think of us.
In fact, I’m saying the opposite.
Coming to know and love yourself opens up to you all the rules you may have been believing and not realizing.
I hadn’t realized that I was trying to make my intense self more palatable for other people with my cute braids.
That awareness allowed me to begin to embrace my intensity without trying to soften it with cuteness through braids.
Now, I can fully own these bubble braids in all my fierceness without believing I need them to help people to like me.
Understanding and loving yourself on entirely new levels and in completely new ways is mind blowing too s super powerful.
Getting to show up in your life more on fire and beautiful and passionate and real than you ever have in your life is incredibly sexy.
I LOVE IT!
I wouldn’t be here without the coaching I’ve received over the years.
Nearly everywhere I go, people respond to me without being able to stop themselves.
Last night at dinner I walked into a restaurant and a woman there gasped the moment she saw me.
She said: Oh my goodness! Look at you!! I love your hair!!
She kept saying effusive things all the way to our seats.
Another woman came to our table and did the same thing.
I used to be embarrassed about standing out but…
Longed for it at the same time.
Now, I’m showing up for myself.
Not expecting anyone to adore me but me.
I’m the process, it’s changed the way I am with people and the way they are with me, in the best ways.
This can happen for you, too.
Coaching helps you to love and adore yourself…
YOUR strengths, YOUR goodness, YOUR flaws, YOUR darkness AND your light, YOUR humanness,
The parts you think are ugly and the parts you hope have beauty in them.
You see your judgements toward yourself and you understand them and then eventually…you let them go.
You see yourself differently, with more love and honor and respect and compassion than you ever have before.
All those years ago I would think: I’m good! I like myself. I’m not mean to myself. I’m a strong woman.
I wasn’t wrong.
I also didn’t realize what it could look like to take all of that belief (and all
of the underlying insecurity I was afraid people might see) and become the woman I am now.
If you’re wanting more for yourself…
You’re ready for coaching.
I know exactly how to help you.
The big surprise with figuring out how to love yourself more is…
You become even more open to increased love and less judgement toward others.
It’s a win for everyone. 
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