222 How To Help Athletes Who Freeze Under Pressure #BITESIZE
Release Date: 03/08/2024
Demystifying Mental Toughness
Penny Mallory was the first woman to drive in the world rally championships. On her way to do so she showed immense commitment to her craft and made lots of sacrifices in pursuit of success. In this bite-sized episode she goes on to share her secrets and the mentality that took her to the top of her sport. Enjoy tuning in! Key Takeaways: Ambition requires personal sacrifices. Taking risks are necessary to achieve your dreams. There is often a price to pay for committing yourself to your craft. If you set aside 10 minutes each day to work on a particular area in 5 years you...
info_outline 237 How To Distance Yourself From Your Thoughts #BITESIZEDemystifying Mental Toughness
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info_outline 236 How To Use ACT and Mindfulness When You’ve Got Lots Of Time To Think #BITESIZEDemystifying Mental Toughness
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info_outline 235 How To Use ACT To Improve Your Coaching In Sport #BITESIZEDemystifying Mental Toughness
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info_outline 234 How To Combat Overthinking In Sport #BITESIZEDemystifying Mental Toughness
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info_outline 233 How To Help A Young Footballer Overcome FearDemystifying Mental Toughness
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info_outline 232 How To Remain Composed As a Goalkeeper Under Pressure #BITESIZEDemystifying Mental Toughness
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info_outline 231 The Relationship Between Self Esteem, Fun and Football PerformanceDemystifying Mental Toughness
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info_outline 230 How To Help Perfectionists Recapture The Fun Part Of Their Sport #BITESIZEDemystifying Mental Toughness
Today, with my colleague Dr Alessia Bruno we discuss the downsides to perfectionism and how many athletes can get obsessed by their sports, training harder and harder, pushing themselves to the limit. The result can then be burnout, playing in fear or a lack of enjoyment. Enjoy tuning in! Key Learning Points Sport can be seen as a job by perfectionist athletes. When searching to get better, the perfectionist can lose the ability to perform with freedom and trust. Physically the perfectionist athlete can become tense and rigid losing control of their fine motor skills, rhythm and...
info_outline 229 How To Help a Kid Who Isn’t Enjoying Their FootballDemystifying Mental Toughness
This is the first of 3 episodes created for parents of kids who play football with their enjoyment and the possibility of quitting playing football the topic I discuss today. When thoughts of quitting are considered, it can be very challenging for some parents to navigate as they try to decide the best route to take despite different pressures associated with the decision. Therefore, I share some resources that you can use to better understand why you want your kid to play football and also why they want to play football too. Using the resources can be a helpful way of...
info_outlineHypoarousal – what is it in a performance context? It is our freeze response, when our mind and body shuts down when we are faced with significant pressure, at least in our own minds.
In today’s episode I discuss with Ruth Chiles, author of The Focal Dystonia Cure how athletes and performers who experience this freeze response can help themselves. Ruth goes on to share some practical tips that can hugely benefit many people.
Key Learnings
- Brainspotting an approach developed by a New York psychologist called David Grand helps to rewire parts of the brain so that people can respond differently in specific situations.
- In a performance context, we spend a lot of time in survival mode which can impede fluidity, enlarge muscles and inhibit your fine motor skills.
- Practicing interoceptive awareness exercises can be very helpful for self-regulation.
- Centering practices can calm our nervous system.
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Book: The Focal Dystonia Cure: Powerful and Definitive Practices to Completely Heal Yourself
Relevant Podcast Episodes
Ep014: Alessia Bruno – The Yips, Crashes, Trauma in Sport there is hope for Athletes
Ep092: Dr James Hegarty – ACT in Sport, Improving Performance through Mindfulness
Ep131 David Charlton – How to Deal with Self-Criticism using Self Compassion – FINAL PART
Ep142: Alessia Bruno - Is Striving for Perfection a Good Thing in Gymnastics?
Ep156: Ruth Chiles – There is Hope: How to Overcome Focal Dystonia
Relevant Blogs
Blog: Helping a Critical Child When You’re a Parent
Blog: How to Support an Angry Young Athlete
Using ACT and Mindfulness to Improve Your Sporting Performances