The Shame I Had to Heal Before I Could Feel Successful
Dethroning Your Inner Critic Podcast
Release Date: 08/21/2025
Dethroning Your Inner Critic Podcast
If you notice yourself tightening just as life begins to open—overthinking what should be next, bracing for the other shoe to drop, or needing certainty before you let yourself move—this episode is for you. I’m unpacking why expansion often activates the same survival-based identity that once kept you safe, and how that fear-driven system can quietly run the show even when things are objectively going well. We’ll explore how the Inner Critic disguises control as responsibility, why your nervous system reacts before your mind has time to catch up, and how old identities shape what...
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If you notice yourself tightening just as things begin to flow—overthinking the next step, scanning for what could go wrong, or needing reassurance before you let yourself move—this episode is for you. I’m unpacking why we so often try to create expansion from the same survival-based identity that once kept us safe, and how that fear-driven system can quietly limit us even when life is objectively going well. We’ll explore how the Inner Critic frames control as responsibility, why your nervous system reacts faster than your thoughts, and how old patterns shape what you label as...
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If you find yourself overthinking, planning, or tightening your grip just as life starts to open—needing certainty before you move, proof before you trust—this episode is for you. I’m unpacking why so many of us try to build a better life using the same fear-based identity that learned to stay safe by controlling outcomes, and why that system quietly keeps us stuck even when things are “going right.” We’ll explore how the Inner Critic disguises protection as logic, why your body reacts before your mind can explain what’s happening, and how old nervous-system programming...
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If you notice yourself tightening just as things begin to go well—waiting for the collapse instead of allowing yourself to receive—this episode is for you. I’m unpacking why growth often feels more destabilizing than struggle, not because you’re doing anything wrong, but because your nervous system reads unfamiliar safety as a threat and pulls you back toward the identity that once kept you safe. We’ll explore how the Inner Critic frames vigilance as wisdom, why your body prepares for loss before joy has time to settle, and how old survival patterns quietly shape what you...
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If you find yourself bracing for the fall just as life begins to open—waiting for the other shoe to drop instead of letting yourself receive—this episode is for you. I’m breaking down why expansion can feel more threatening than struggle, not because something is wrong, but because your nervous system confuses unfamiliar safety with danger and pulls you back into the identity that once kept you alive. We’ll explore how the Inner Critic disguises protection as caution, why your body rehearses loss before joy has a chance to land, and what it actually takes to separate who you are...
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If you’re always bracing for something to go wrong—especially when things are finally going right—this episode is for you. I’m unpacking why expansion can feel more dangerous than struggle, not because anything is wrong, but because your Automatic Mind mistakes unfamiliar safety for threat and pulls you back into the identity that once kept you alive. We’ll explore how your Inner Critic turns protection into limitation, why your nervous system rehearses loss before joy can land, and what it really means to separate who you are from the patterns that helped you survive. ✨ Tune...
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If you’ve stepped into the life you worked so hard to build and suddenly felt more anxious than excited, this episode is for you. I’m breaking down why expansion can feel more threatening than struggle—not because something’s wrong, but because your Automatic Mind reads growth as unsafe and tries to pull you back into the familiar. We’ll explore how your Inner Critic turns success into self-doubt, why your nervous system panics at the very future you prayed for, and what it really takes to let your Authentic Self lead. ✨ Tune in to learn how to stop mistaking fear for truth,...
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If you can see the life you’re meant for so clearly that it actually hurts not to be living it yet, this episode is for you. I’m unpacking why the moment right before expansion often feels like something is wrong—not because you’re failing, but because your Inner Critic reads your bigness as dangerous and tries to pull you back into who you used to be. We’ll explore why your depth, sensitivity, and hunger for meaning were never flaws, how your nervous system signals when you’ve outgrown an old identity, and what it really takes to let your Authentic Self lead when the familiar...
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If you’ve ever stepped into the life you’ve been working toward for years and felt yourself shrinking the moment success arrives, this episode is for you. I’m breaking down why expansion can feel more unsettling than failure—not because anything is wrong, but because your Automatic Mind interprets growth as danger and tries to pull you back into the identity that once kept you safe. We’ll explore how your Inner Critic turns your breakthroughs into stories of “not enough,” why your nervous system panics at the life you prayed for, and what it really takes to let your Authentic...
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If you’ve ever stepped into a quieter chapter of life and felt yourself shrinking the moment uncertainty shows up, this episode is for you. I’m breaking down why transitions feel so disorienting—not because you’re lost, but because your Automatic Mind mistakes change for danger and tries to pull you back into the familiar. We’ll explore how your Inner Critic turns this sacred space into a story of “too late,” why old identities cling so tightly, and what it really takes to hear the quieter wisdom of your Authentic Self beneath all the noise. ✨ Tune in and discover how to...
info_outlineIn this episode of the Dethroning Your Inner Critic podcast, I’m pulling back the curtain on a powerful realization—how hidden shame shaped my success, motherhood, money stories, and the constant pressure to be “enough.”
We’ll unpack how shame often hides beneath perfectionism, overachievement, and people-pleasing—and how your Inner Critic keeps you stuck chasing a version of success that never truly satisfies.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the right things but still feel like it’s not enough, this conversation is your wake-up call.
✨ Tune in to learn how unhooking from shame can free you to actually receive the life you’ve worked so hard to create.
Your weekly reflection questions:
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Where in your life are you still measuring your worth by how much you achieve or control?
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What subtle messages from your Inner Critic might be fueling hidden shame in your relationships, work, or parenting?
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Who would you be—and how would you live—if you no longer believed you had to prove you’re enough?
💬 Join the Conversation: Does this resonate with you? Let me know in the comments!
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