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How to Maintain a Soft Heart in a Hard-edged Society

Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. Carol

Release Date: 04/30/2024

How Saying YES to God's Intervention Can Save a Toxic Marriage show art How Saying YES to God's Intervention Can Save a Toxic Marriage

Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. Carol

"Is there anything too hard for the Lord?" The Bible asks that question, and answers it with a clear "No, nothing is impossible with God!" But does that apply to a truly destructive marriage? If your relationship is deeply troubled, you may be asking, "Is there any hope?" Shayne and Sheila Pitcock would say YES, there is hope! They join Dr. Carol on this episode to share their story. There are buzzwords here; domestic violence, abuse, separation. Healing requires both partners to allow God to do His work, but you'll hear how God can redeem anything when they do so. And now Shayne and...

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How Your Story, the Bible's Story, and God's Story Come Together show art How Your Story, the Bible's Story, and God's Story Come Together

Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. Carol

Knowing information, even information about God, is important. But so many Christians find information woefully inadequate to fully address the realities of their lives. Our souls long for something more - something of beauty, connection, even love. In this unique and beautiful conversation Dr. Carol talks with Quina Aragon, author, editor, and spoken word artist, about the love of God - not in the sense of information, but from story - our story, the Bible's story, and God's story. And you'll especially enjoy the poetic reading near the end of this episode. Connect with Quina Aragon...

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Practical Ways to Overcome Loneliness and Find the Deeper Connections Your Heart Needs show art Practical Ways to Overcome Loneliness and Find the Deeper Connections Your Heart Needs

Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. Carol

The US Surgeon General has highlighted the epidemic of loneliness in our culture, and the very negative health implications. Just being around people is helpful but inadequate to satisfy the deep longing for connection God built into every human heart. In this practical episode Dr. Carol talks with Becky Harling, speaker, podcaster, Bible teacher, and author, about the deeper connections our hearts truly need, and what you can do to proactively nurture those connections. Though it may feel challenging, every one of us can take the initiative to find your people, and you'll be healthier and...

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How to Experience God's Promise of Turning Your Pain into Sacred Scars show art How to Experience God's Promise of Turning Your Pain into Sacred Scars

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The wounds we all experience in life - internally as well as externally - can leave you with permanent scars. As a result you may feel disqualified from experiencing true goodness, from being able to fulfill what you most deeply desire, or from being as useful to God's kingdom as you wish. Dr. Michelle Bengston, speaker, author, and board-certified clinical neuropsychologist, has experienced lots of scars and helped countless others face their own scars. She talks with Dr. Carol on this episode about how our scars - physical and emotional - serve as the very preparation for what God wants to...

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Dr. Carol Answers Your Toughest Questions About Intimacy, Sex, and Relationships show art Dr. Carol Answers Your Toughest Questions About Intimacy, Sex, and Relationships

Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. Carol

Dr. Carol receives lots of questions about relationships, menopause and married sex, marital rape, struggle with pornography, and more. In today's episode she answers some listener submitted questions on a range of subjects. You won't want to miss this! Resources mentioned in this episode: -  - Article  - eBook  - Article  - Article  - Free download  - Article  - Article  - Resource Page  - Article  Check out my book and related resources:  Dr. Carol enjoys hearing from you. You can leave a confidential message .

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It's Not About the Porn, Alcohol, or Drugs: Getting Deeper Than Behavior Change show art It's Not About the Porn, Alcohol, or Drugs: Getting Deeper Than Behavior Change

Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. Carol

Many followers of Jesus might wish God would "zap" them out of their addiction to porn, alcohol, or whatever else. Are they uniquely flawed when they still struggle with their unwanted behavior patterns? Doesn't being "a new creation in Christ" mean things should be resolved? Troy and Melissa Haas are licensed counselors and lead the HopeQuest family of ministries. They join Dr. Carol on this episode to talk about their own story  of painful addiction and betrayal trauma, and about how they are now helping so many individuals and families find not just sobriety but lasting and whole...

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Why Your Internal Dashboard Is the Key to Finding Healing show art Why Your Internal Dashboard Is the Key to Finding Healing

Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. Carol

Even as followers of Jesus, stuff happens to us. And more than that, stuff happens within us as a result. Your personal dashboard may start showing yellow lights or even flashing red lights, indicating things are not well. It's time to pay attention. In this very personal and practical episode, experienced counselor, author, pastor, and professor Chuck DeGroat rejoins Dr. Carol to talk about how to address those warning lights, find healing for what's going on inside, and reconnect with oneself, others, and God.  Connect with Chuck DeGroat on , , , or . Find Chuck's...

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The divorce rate for blended families is 70%. But there's another surprising statistic; well over 99% of couples who do this one specific activity stay together - blended or not. Dr. Carol talks with Scott and Vanessa Martindale of Blended Kingdom Families in this very encouraging episode. Scott shares the one activity that guarantees an over 99% success rate for you staying together! We talk about the unique challenges blended families face, but even more about the doable ways of building oneness even when your marriage is blended. Check out the organization Scott and Vanessa Martindale...

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The Journey Out: How One Man Experienced Lasting Change show art The Journey Out: How One Man Experienced Lasting Change

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What kind of change is possible - or not possible, especially when it comes to LGBTQ issues? And how does change happen? There are no one-size-fits-all answers. But as the Changed movement is demonstrating, there are more stories of lasting change than many realize. Dr. Carol's guest on this episode is Ken Williams, co-founder of the Changed Movement. He shares his story of following Jesus away from a gay identity to  what he describes as a true masculine identity and intimacy with God – and  also being happily married to his wife. And Ken and Dr. Carol dive deep into what change...

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When Things Fall Apart: God's Creative Process for Rebuilding Your Life show art When Things Fall Apart: God's Creative Process for Rebuilding Your Life

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At some point in life, you'll likely to face a time when everything seems to be falling apart. A job loss, health or financial crisis, end of a marriage, death of a close loved one, or other catastrophe that can leave you feeling overwhelmed, confused, and unsure whether or how you can go on living.  Dr. Carol's guest on this episode, author, Bible teacher, and minister Dawn Mann Sanders brings her own personal experience and a deep exploration of God's creative process to this encouraging conversation. You'll learn how to partner with God in overcoming adversity and recreating a new...

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There are many reasons for and ways of becoming hard in our cruel world. You may think a hard heart is a good and protective thing. When harm or disappointment comes, a natural human response is to develop a tough and closed heart. But that also closes you off to the good things God intends for you and wants to work in you. Is there a way to cherish a soft heart in a tough world?

Mother, writer, and teacher Charaia Rush is Dr. Carol's guest on this encouraging episode. They talk about how shame and pain can harden our heart, what a hard heart is and isn't, and God's process for softening our heart which opens us up to all His good things.

Connect with Charaia Rush on her websiteFacebookTwitter, or Instagram
Find Charaia's book Courageously Soft: Daring to Keep a Tender Heart in a Tough World   

Check out Dr. Carol's new book Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories About God, Love, and Relationships
And look around at all the supplementary resources at YourSexpectations.com.
Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can leave a confidential message here.