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Ep 531: The Power of Saying Yes to Yourself in Menopause

Thinner Peace in Menopause

Release Date: 06/09/2026

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You know what you need to do, but something keeps stopping you from taking action.

 

In this episode, I share two client stories that reminded me how powerful it is when women finally trust their own inner knowing. One client described her experience as moving from black and white to Technicolor. Another came to coaching believing she couldn't lose weight and wasn't sure she could change her drinking habits.

 

What changed wasn't a diet plan. What changed was how they saw themselves.

 

You'll hear about self-worth, awareness, and learning to ask "What do I want?" created immediate shifts for these women and why saying yes to yourself may be the first step toward creating the results you've wanted for years. Enjoy the show!



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What You'll Learn From This Episode

  • Why knowing what you need and acting on it are two different things

  • How one client described coaching as going from "black and white to Technicolor"

  • Why self-worth often matters more than food plans and weight loss strategies

  • The hidden reason many women keep overeating or overdrinking

  • How learning to ask "What do I want?" changes everything