261: If You’re Happy All the Time… You’re Probably Faking It
Release Date: 06/18/2025
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info_outlineIf you’ve been feeling disconnected, emotionally distant, or too “above it all” lately, this episode might be the mirror you didn’t know you needed.
There’s a fine line between spiritual growth and emotional avoidance—and sometimes, in our quest to stay unbothered, we actually disconnect from real life. From love. From connection. From the messiness that makes us feel alive.
In this episode, I share:
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The sneaky way your “healed self” might be avoiding real life
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How fear of rejection masks itself as spiritual neutrality
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Why the human experience isn’t supposed to be perfect—and what to do with that
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A simple challenge to help you move from concept into embodiment
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How I started reconnecting with life by facing the exact thing I was avoiding
This one’s for the people who are craving connection but don’t know how to let it in. It’s time to stop floating above your life and actually start living it.
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208: Tools to Overcome Frustration And Tough Situations
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