Episode 2.5: Before We Go Further: A Quick Check-In + What’s Coming Next
Release Date: 06/10/2025
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info_outline🎙️ Episode 2.5: “Before We Go Further: A Quick Check-In + What’s Coming Next”
Before diving into deeper discussions on self-care and well-being, Kendra and Katie hit pause to reflect, reconnect, and set the stage for what's ahead. This short and heartfelt episode is both a life update and a behind-the-scenes peek into the podcast’s creation.
You’ll hear:
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A personal check-in with each host, including a high school graduation and a wild family camping story involving cliffside ropes and toddler acrobatics.
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The surprising truth: This is their first podcast! They're learning as they go—and inviting you along for the ride.
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Why this episode exists: Feedback from early listeners showed that a little orientation was needed before diving into the core self-care content.
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What’s coming up next: A rhythm of episodes that blend coaching insights, real-life stories, and practical strategies to help you stay grounded and whole in the physician spouse journey.
🛠️ What You’ll Take Away
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A reminder that it’s okay to do things messy and imperfectly—growth happens in the trying.
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Validation that asking for help early, not just when you’re drowning, can change everything.
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A preview of the upcoming self-care series: foundational wellness habits like hydration, nutrition, sleep, movement, and hygiene.
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Encouragement to be an active participant in your own life, even when circumstances are intense.
đź’¬ Reflection Question
What is one personal need you’ve been putting off that you want to protect this week?
Name it. Write it down. Let it matter.
📬 Have a story to share or a question for the show?
We’d love to feature your input in future episodes!
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The Fabulous App: A habit-building app mentioned in context of hydration routines. Link: https://www.thefabulous.co
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Email Contact: hello@supportingphysicianspouses.com
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