#166 We DARE You Not To Cry (It's The Sweetest Surprise!)
Big Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!
Release Date: 07/09/2025
Big Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!
Sima travels to Iran with just one goal: To figure out if the man she's only met twice is going to be her husband or not. (No pressure, right?!) The once long-distance connection quickly turns into family meetings, cultural traditions, gold coin negotiations, and a wedding timeline that moves faster than you can say "wedding dress". Listen as our girl navigates first kisses, quiet doubts, unmet expectations and what can happen when you haven't quite found your voice yet 🧡 If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Our not-so-secret goal is to...
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Part 1 of a story that will unravel into something you won’t be able to stop thinking about. In this episode, Jayna introduces a woman very close to her heart — a trusted member of her makeup team and a friend who, like so many of us, wanted love badly enough she silenced her own intuition. What begins as a romantic, hopeful meeting with a man who feels like “the one” quickly becomes the opening chapter of a much bigger, darker, and more complicated journey. This episode is the calm before the storm — the butterflies, the chemistry, the moments that feel fated… and the tiny red...
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WARNING: ADULT CONTENT! Two girls, one mic, ZERO dignity. Good luck NOT laughing at this outrageous late night confessional that will have you feeling like you just stayed up past curfew, giggling till your tummy hurts! Just wait till you hear Rikki and Jayna's most embarrassing stories. Your host and her best friend are tucked into a hotel bed in Mexico, whisper-laughing, oversharing, and reliving their most mortifying moments — including two separate “I might not make it to the bathroom” near-tragedies and the time Jayna genuinely believed she had collected every STI like they...
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Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We’re learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together! HOW TO CONNECT: Find us on INSTAGRAM! Jaynas makeup and personal IG: We’re official! Here’s our website:
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Talk about THE AUDACITY...Just wait until you hear all about Jayna’s trip to meet her long-time celebrity crush, 50 Cent. This episode is the perfect example of doing it for the story — dreaming big, leaning into curiosity, and choosing bold experiences over playing it safe. This isn’t about guarantees or expectations. It’s about giving yourself permission to be delulu, to chase something that feels exciting, and to let life surprise you. Because sometimes the best moments come from saying “why not me?” and YES to the thing that scares you. This is the build up to next week....
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Roasting the trends we should leave behind + calling dibs on the ones we're bring with us into 2026. In this episode, Jayna shares her "Best Of's" from the past 365 days: Best Purchase, Best Treat, Best Hair + Makeup Trends as well as the Years Hunkiest Man...just to name a few! Click for a laugh and a fun trip down memory lane! 🥂Cheers to an AMAZING 2026 from BLE! 🧡 📝 MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: 🎁 If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find...
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The holidays are supposed to be magical… so why do they feel like a full-time job no one applied for? In this unapologetically grinchy episode, Jayna drops her Holiday Grinch List and counts down the 10 things she HATES about Christmas This isn’t about poo poo-ing festive fun — it’s about calling out how wildly complicated we’ve made the holidays, especially for women. Expect laughs, truth bombs, relatable rants, and a reminder that the real magic isn’t in the gifts, décor, or perfectly curated moments — it’s in presence, connection, and chilling the f*ck out. If...
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Are you a sucker for taking things personally? Have you ever walked away from an interaction assuming, “Oh… they definitely hate me”. Same. In this playful, feel-good episode, Jayna talks about how wildly wrong we can be about people when we assume their tone, mood, or energy is personal. Through funny misunderstandings, awkward moments, and very relatable scenarios, she explores what’s really going on beneath the surface. This episode is a reminder (served with humor and heart) that not every weird vibe is about you, not every silence is rejection, and not every reaction...
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What was SUPPOSED to be a beautiful family vacation turned out to be a week straight out of a reality tv disaster reel. This episode is funny, unhinged, and full of all the chaos Jayna DIDN'T post on Instagram. (We're talking some serious “are you kidding me?!” moments) Our host had every reason to lose her mind, but somewhere between the stress and the unmet expectations, she learned that sometimes connection happens in the messy, unfiltered, totally imperfect moments. If you’ve ever planned the “perfect trip” only to end up crying, stressed, and bonding through absolute...
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WARNING: ADULT CONTENT This week, Jayna's breaking down the most over-hyped and misunderstood trend in the bedroom. She clarifies what squirting really is, how the female body actually works, and why the porn industry has completely distorted our understanding of it with camera tricks, bladder hacks, and pressure-filled expectations that don’t belong in real bedrooms. Most importantly, this episode is here to calm nerves, clear myths, and remind every woman that her body isn’t “broken” if she hasn’t squirted — it simply means she’s a normal human being and not a paid performer...
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Who knew a 17yr old could be this thoughtful! Last week, it was Arzos prom and Jayna was doing everything she could to surprise her teen but this week, It's graduation and Arzo's flipping the switch! Just wait till you hear how Jayna got surprised! This is the heartwarming story you've been waiting for... a nod to second chances, highschool teachers and a timely reminder that theres still so much good in the world.
Now grab that Kleenex and press play. (At least they're happy tears!)
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Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We’re learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together!
HOW TO CONNECT:
Find us on INSTAGRAM!
Jaynas makeup and personal IG:
We’re official! Here’s our website:
IN THIS EPISODE
-Life in highschool
-Parenting a Teen
-Teacher Appreciation
-Choosing Your Family
-Beautiful Adoption Story
-It takes a village to raise a child