#183 Love Is NOT Blind...and What Is "The Kiss Test"?
Big Lash Energy - Girl Talk, Elevated!
Release Date: 11/05/2025
Big Lash Energy - Girl Talk, Elevated!
Roasting the trends we should leave behind + calling dibs on the ones we're bring with us into 2026. In this episode, Jayna shares her "Best Of's" from the past 365 days: Best Purchase, Best Treat, Best Hair + Makeup Trends as well as the Years Hunkiest Man...just to name a few! Click for a laugh and a fun trip down memory lane! 🥂Cheers to an AMAZING 2026 from BLE! 🧡 📝 MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
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The holidays are supposed to be magical… so why do they feel like a full-time job no one applied for? In this unapologetically grinchy episode, Jayna drops her Holiday Grinch List and counts down the 10 things she HATES about Christmas This isn’t about poo poo-ing festive fun — it’s about calling out how wildly complicated we’ve made the holidays, especially for women. Expect laughs, truth bombs, relatable rants, and a reminder that the real magic isn’t in the gifts, décor, or perfectly curated moments — it’s in presence, connection, and chilling the f*ck out. If...
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Are you a sucker for taking things personally? Have you ever walked away from an interaction assuming, “Oh… they definitely hate me”. Same. In this playful, feel-good episode, Jayna talks about how wildly wrong we can be about people when we assume their tone, mood, or energy is personal. Through funny misunderstandings, awkward moments, and very relatable scenarios, she explores what’s really going on beneath the surface. This episode is a reminder (served with humor and heart) that not every weird vibe is about you, not every silence is rejection, and not every reaction...
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What was SUPPOSED to be a beautiful family vacation turned out to be a week straight out of a reality tv disaster reel. This episode is funny, unhinged, and full of all the chaos Jayna DIDN'T post on Instagram. (We're talking some serious “are you kidding me?!” moments) Our host had every reason to lose her mind, but somewhere between the stress and the unmet expectations, she learned that sometimes connection happens in the messy, unfiltered, totally imperfect moments. If you’ve ever planned the “perfect trip” only to end up crying, stressed, and bonding through absolute...
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WARNING: ADULT CONTENT This week, Jayna's breaking down the most over-hyped and misunderstood trend in the bedroom. She clarifies what squirting really is, how the female body actually works, and why the porn industry has completely distorted our understanding of it with camera tricks, bladder hacks, and pressure-filled expectations that don’t belong in real bedrooms. Most importantly, this episode is here to calm nerves, clear myths, and remind every woman that her body isn’t “broken” if she hasn’t squirted — it simply means she’s a normal human being and not a paid performer...
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Its officially boyfriend sweater season, so your girl Jayna is venturing out into the world of in-person dating events- all in the name of research! If you’re thinking of cuffing up before the temperature drops, but aren't sure where all the good men are hiding — this is your episode. Slip into something snuggly, and let Jayna be your boots-on-the-ground dating correspondent. You'll be coming along with her for all the unexpected twists and turns...and you dont even have to leave your house! To hear the story of when she went speed dating, check out If you enjoy this show and...
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A must-listen for anyone living with the effects of childhood trauma, heartbreak, hurt, or resentment from the past. In this inspiring and deeply personal episode, Jayna opens up about the three most traumatic experiences of her life — the hurt she's carried with her and how she finally broke free from the pain. Our host doesn’t just talk about healing… she shows you what it looks like, then walks you through the four very real steps she took (and still takes!) to stay TRULY unbothered. This episode is sure to give you a new perspective as well as inspiration to leave your sh*t in...
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Can't tell if he's REALLY into you? Want to ask "what are we?" but afraid of what he'll say next? ...EWE! In this episode, our host breaks down the mind games behind mixed signals and teaches you how to stop wasting energy on men who are just...not...it. From breadcrumbing to “busy” energy, we’re decoding it all. You’ll learn how to tell who's REALLY into you, what to do with the guys who keep circling but never go all in, as well as how to respond with calm, confident detachment. It's a must-listen for anyone with a roster OR anyone constantly stuck in situationships. Take notes!...
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Do you think looks matter? Could you fall in love with someone you weren't attracted to? (Jayna tried one time and just wait till you hear what happened!) Whether or not you watched Love is Blind, we want you to chime in! In this episode, our host breaks down her argument as to why physical attraction does matter in relationships and that making it a priority doesn't make you shallow or superficial...it makes you human! Before you go worrying that you're not tall / thin/ pretty or sexy enough to find love... press play! There's good news for all of us! (sorry...not giving any...
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👻 In this haunting episode, our host finds herself wandering through a moonlit graveyard — only to realize she recognizes the names on all the tombstones! (Spooky, right?!) Just wait till you hear what happens...it's BLE branded goosebumps....with meaning behind it! A scary reminder that sometimes, in order to really be alive, some parts of us have to die. (insert evil laugh here) If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life....
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In this episode, our host breaks down her argument as to why physical attraction does matter in relationships and that making it a priority doesn't make you shallow or superficial...it makes you human! Before you go worrying that you're not tall / thin/ pretty or sexy enough to find love... press play! There's good news for all of us! (sorry...not giving any spoilers in the show description, or what would be the fun in giving it a listen?!)
Get ready for some truth, laughter, science, sass, and a little reality-TV shade. Let’s talk beauty, biology, confidence, and why you should never apologize for wanting the full-body “ooOOoooohhh yes!!”
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Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We’re learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together!
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