[REPLAY] More Connection and Better Sex in Long-Term Relationships with Isiah McKimmie
Electric Ideas with Whitney Baker: Motherhood, Self-Connection, Joyful Living & Self-Care
Release Date: 08/28/2025
Electric Ideas with Whitney Baker: Motherhood, Self-Connection, Joyful Living & Self-Care
Have you ever felt like intimacy takes a backseat in your busy life? Between endless to-do lists, financial stress, and the mental load of daily responsibilities, it’s no surprise that desire often fades into the background. But what if mindfulness could help rekindle connection and deepen intimacy? In this episode, Whitney sits down with Dr. Lori Brotto, a leading researcher in sexual health and mindfulness and author of Better Sex Through Mindfulness. Dr. Brotto shares fascinating insights into the powerful connection between the mind and sexual well-being, shedding light on...
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Have you ever looked at your partner and thought, “How did we get here?” Somewhere between kids, schedules, groceries, and keeping the household running, many moms begin to feel more like roommates or co-managers than romantic partners. In this episode, Whitney sits down with marriage coach Michelle Purta to explore why this shift is so common in motherhood, and why it is not a sign that a marriage is broken, but a signal that mental and emotional load has quietly taken over. They talk honestly about how resentment builds when needs go unspoken, why hard conversations often...
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Many moms already wake up feeling tired, and it’s not because they’re doing too much, but because they’re carrying too much. In this episode of Electric Ideas, Whitney sits down with Leah Ruppanner, professor of sociology, to talk about the mental load of motherhood and why it’s so often invisible, brushed off, or just accepted as “part of being a mom.” They talk about the constant background thinking moms do all day long, including keeping track of schedules, anticipating needs, managing emotions, making decisions, and holding everything together in ways no one really sees....
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Have you ever looked up from your day and realized you’ve been moving on autopilot, rushing from one demand to the next without fully landing anywhere? In this mini jolt episode of Electric Ideas, Whitney offers a grounded, thoughtful conversation for mothers who want to feel more present and more connected in the middle of real life. Whitney explores why modern motherhood can feel so fragmented, from constant digital interruption to the unrelenting mental and emotional load many women carry. She reflects on how chronic overstimulation pulls us into urgency and reactivity, even...
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** - January 19th-26th** Some of the hardest moments in motherhood aren’t about our children at all. They’re about parts of us that never felt fully safe, seen, or supported, and get awakened by the intensity of caregiving. In this episode of Electric Ideas, Whitney sits down with inner child healing expert Lavinia Brown to explore why motherhood can stir up so much guilt, overwhelm, and reactivity, and why those responses often have roots far deeper than the present moment. What looks like irritation over a spilled drink or a standoff about screen time may actually reflect an old...
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- January 19th-26th Returning to work after having kids is a huge transition, one that can be much harder than one may think. In this episode, Whitney connects with Rebecca Olson, a coach for working moms, to talk about the emotional toll so many women experience when returning to work after motherhood. What once felt meaningful can suddenly feel misaligned, and that identity shift can leave even the most driven women questioning themselves. Rebecca shares her own experience navigating this season and what she’s learned from supporting countless working moms through the same...
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Are you longing to feel physically lighter while staying true to a wellness journey that's about more than just weight loss? In this episode, functional nutritionist and chronic illness coach Danielle Pashko reveals the impact of stress on women’s health and weight gain. During the conversation, Danielle explores how intense workouts and elevated stress levels can negatively affect hormonal balance and women’s ability to release weight. She emphasizes the importance of nourishing habits like a proper diet, sleep, hydration and stress management. Danielle shares how embracing...
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Feeling overwhelmed by the juggling act of keeping all the trains running as a mom? You're not alone. But guess what? There's a way to lighten that mental load. Today on the podcast, Whitney connects with Amelia Pleasant Kennedy, a certified life coach, Fair Play facilitator, professional organizer, and the brains behind A Pleasant Solution. She's all about helping busy women reclaim control over their chaotic lives. During their conversation, Whitney and Amelia discuss the mental load women often bear in managing their families and households, and the transformative power of...
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Our intuition is that inner knowing of what is true. In fact, it can almost be seen as a personal GPS that guides us and speaks our truth from the inside out. When we regularly practice connecting with and trusting this inner guidance system, it becomes much easier to make choices that support our highest good. And while our inner impulses and natural instincts are always there, there can be challenges that can obscure our intuition. During this episode, Whitney offers practical strategies to forge a deeper connection with our inner guidance system through practice and intention. She...
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Are you feeling the weight of December in your bones, like you're supposed to make everything magical while barely keeping up yourself? This time of year can feel overwhelming, and many of us slip into the belief that we have to end the year strong. But what if you shifted the narrative and chose to end the year soft instead? In this mini jolt, Whitney opens up about a pattern she’s noticed in herself: how stress tends to amplify old, self-sabotaging tendencies. She shares a practical way to interrupt those patterns and bring awareness to the moments when overwhelm starts to spiral....
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Being in a long-term relationship is a beautiful thing, but for many couples, it’s easy to get into a rut. Whether it’s emotional or sexual intimacy, it may feel like something is missing.
Today, I connect with Isiah McKimmie, a couple’s therapist, sex therapist, sexologist and coach who has helped women and couples discover deeper intimacy and desire for more than a decade. She shares deep insight on how to spark the flame again in our relationships and in the bedroom, and nurture our connection over time.
More specifically, Isiah teaches us how to amp up the feeling of connection in our relationships, a concrete method to ask your partner for what you need and the importance of a daily check-in. We also dive into ways to feel sexy and confident in the bedroom, and how to create time and space for intimacy to unfold.
Isiah and I would love to know what resonated with you most from today’s episode. Let us know by sharing it on Instagram and be sure to tag us - @isiahmckimmie.sexologist and @Whitneywoman!
Here’s what to look forward to in today’s episode:
- Advice for trying to rebuild or amp up the feeling of connection in our relationships
- The importance of communication in long-term relationships.
- How to change the way we give feedback
- A concrete method for expressing how you feel in a situation and how to ask your partner for what you need
- How to compassionately address a partner’s complaints
- Practices all couples need to support healthy long-term relationships
- The importance of a daily check-in
- How to create time for intimacy
- Advice for feeling sexy and confident in the bedroom
- A discussion about initiating intimacy
- When your nervous system is in overdrive and you may just not be in the mood - and ways to communicate to your partner about it.
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