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321: Delight Over Anger

The Elegant Warrior with Heather Hansen

Release Date: 06/16/2025

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In this powerful return to The Elegant Warrior, Heather Hansen shares why she’s reviving the podcast after a heartfelt farewell seven months ago. With honesty, emotion, and insight, she explores the deeper reasons behind her comeback—from honoring her late father to responding to a rising tide of anger in our culture. Heather invites listeners to trade frustration for delight and introduces an exciting new podcast collaboration with Judge Rosemarie Aquilina, Undeniable. Plus, she teases an upcoming episode on why AI is actually good news for women—and how your energy is your new superpower.

 

🔑 Topics Covered:

  • Why Heather ended—and then restarted—The Elegant Warrior
  • The emotional and energetic costs of misalignment
  • Why delight is more effective than anger when asking for what you want
  • The concept of resolve as a high-vibration alternative to anger
  • How artificial intelligence amplifies the value of human energy (especially women’s)
  • The upcoming launch of Heather and Judge Aquilina’s new podcast, Undeniable
  • Honoring her late father and reclaiming Thursdays for joy

 

TEW Podcast Episode 321 - Delight Over Anger - Timestamps
[00:00] - Introduction
[00:21] - Podcast Revival Announcement
[02:41] - Energy Management
[04:37] - Artificial Intelligence
[08:12] - Personal Reflection on Father's Day
[10:00] - New Show Announcement with Judge Rosemary Aquilina
[13:07] - Podcast Schedule Changes