#408 "You Can't Out-Lift Being An A**hole." | Bob Merkh
Release Date: 04/13/2026
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Bob Merkh is back to discuss one of the most unique careers in strength history—highlighted by a sanctioned 1,100 lb squat and 1,100 lb bench press. From the high-stakes platforms of the WPO to a 7th-grade social studies classroom, Merkh has evolved from a “weaponized” athlete into a mentor who understands that true strength is knowing when to walk away.
This episode explores the “Sword and the Ball” philosophy—the tension between chasing elite performance and embracing the grounded responsibilities of being a father, teacher, and leader.
Inside the Episode
- Holy Wars & The Final Meet
A look inside Bob’s last full power competition, the 10x bodyweight total, and choosing to retire on his own terms. - The 1,100 lb Bench Miracle
The true story of how a Special Olympics athlete’s belief helped push Bob to a world-record lift he wasn’t prepared for. - The WPO Return
Why Bob is stepping back onto the platform for a bench-only showdown with AJ Roberts this October. - The Practice of Excellence
Translating elite strength principles into a Stoic framework for teenagers and the next generation. - Identity After the Platform
Navigating the “quicksand” of powerlifting and redefining yourself after your best numbers are behind you.
Meet the Guest
Bob Merkh is a legendary multi-ply powerlifter, 7th-grade social studies teacher, and founder of Atlantic City Barbell.
- 45+ competitions
- Multiple world records
- The only person to squat and bench over 1,100 lbs
He is also a two-time published author and a leading voice for Special Olympics powerlifting in New Jersey.
Books:
- Moderation Is For Cowards — https://a.co/d/cttWqqe
- The Practice of Excellence — Available on Amazon
Instagram: @merkh1776
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