660. Internal Family Systems - with Dr Richard Schwartz
The Embodiment Coaching Podcast
Release Date: 12/24/2024
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751. Why the Body Matters in Coaching - With Mark Walsh & Dr Helen Machen-Pearce
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info_outlineTherapist and founder of Internal Family Systems (IFS), Dr. Richard Schwartz, joins me to explore the concept of “parts” and the transformative power of IFS. We discuss how every part has a positive intention, the connections to Voice Dialogue and Big Mind, and the role of “exiles” in both our personal lives and society. We also touch on the impact of COVID and much more. In addition, I take part in a deeply personal demonstration. A rich, insightful, and profoundly moving conversation.
We’re resharing this episode because it’s one of our best, and packed with timeless insights on embodiment that are still relevant today. If you missed it the first time, we think you’ll love it.
Learn more about Richard here: https://ifs-institute.com/about-us/richard-c-schwartz-phd
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Richard Schwartz began his career as a systemic family therapist and an academic. Grounded in systems thinking, Dr. Schwartz developed Internal Family Systems (IFS) in response to clients’ descriptions of various parts within themselves. A featured speaker for national professional organizations, Dr. Schwartz has published many books and over fifty articles about IFS.
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