735. No-Nonsense Coaching That Cuts Through Excuses - With Michael Serwa
The Embodiment Coaching Podcast
Release Date: 09/23/2025
The Embodiment Coaching Podcast
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info_outlineI sat down with Michael Serwa, probably one of Britain’s best-known no-nonsense coaches, to talk about what really makes a coach effective. Michael has built a reputation for his straight-talking style, and in this conversation he shares why honesty, directness, and cutting through excuses matter more than fancy tools or techniques.
We explore his own journey from growing up in Poland to coaching London’s high achievers, what separates great coaches from the rest, and why being liked isn’t always the point of coaching. Michael’s approach is refreshing, challenging, and full of insights for anyone who wants to up their game as a coach or just get real about personal change.
Read more about Michael's work here: https://michaelserwa.com/
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