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The Answer to Self-Sabotage in Your Business

The Experienced Entrepreneur

Release Date: 12/01/2025

MISTAKE: Stop Chasing Every Trend, It Won't Grow Your Business show art MISTAKE: Stop Chasing Every Trend, It Won't Grow Your Business

The Experienced Entrepreneur

If you've been feeling like you're treading water, maintaining the status quo, and wondering why growth still feels so hard, this episode is going to reframe everything. Marissa makes the case for why trend-chasing is the mistake that's actually keeping you from growing, and why the entrepreneurs who are growing right now aren't the ones chasing the next platform or strategy. They're the ones going inward, doubling down on what's working, and cutting the fluff. She introduces the beaker analogy for the four levers (lead acquisition, lead nurture, sales and conversions, lifestyle) and...

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You know what you sell, who buys it, and how to deliver it. But there's a gap between where your business is and how you're showing up to lead it. In this episode, Marissa introduces the petri dish analogy that changes everything: in build stage, you're inside the petri dish as one of the variables in the experiment. In growth stage, you become the scientist running the experiment. She breaks down why taking responsibility for your business doesn't mean you can't acknowledge external factors, it means you stop using them as excuses. You'll hear about the three barriers that keep entrepreneurs...

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What if the success you've been calling luck is actually a system you built without realizing it? In this episode, Marissa tackles the "fluke mindset" that keeps experienced entrepreneurs stuck in build stage thinking even when they're years into business. She breaks down why dismissing your wins as accidents keeps you from investigating the patterns that actually drive your results, and why shifting from "fluke thinking" to "framework thinking" is the first step in becoming a growth stage entrepreneur. You'll hear about the CEO shift that happens when you stop attributing success to timing...

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If you've ever said "I'm just not a numbers person" — this episode is going to gently, but firmly, challenge that. For experienced entrepreneurs, the belief that metrics are complicated, cold, or designed for someone else is one of the most costly myths in business. Not because tracking is hard, but because the story we tell ourselves about it keeps us from accessing the clearest signal our business has to offer. In this episode of The Experienced Entrepreneur, Marissa Lawton breaks down where the "I'm not a metrics person" identity actually comes from, what it's quietly costing you in...

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“Do I stay the course… or am I self-sabotaging?”

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This is not a beginner conversation.
This is a maturity conversation — one that honors both your intuition and your data.

For years, the online business world taught us that ease equals alignment, that discomfort signals misalignment, and that the moment something feels hard we should pivot. But the truth is far more nuanced for entrepreneurs who have been in business 5, 8, 10+ years.

In this episode, we explore:

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Not all fear is a sign to stop — sometimes it’s a sign you’re on the edge of something important.

The difference between “bad vibes” and genuine misalignment

Most experienced entrepreneurs are either intuition-led or data-led — but neither alone is enough in your second decade of business.

How intuition + data work together to reveal the truth

We talk through the real interplay between gut instinct, metrics, and emotional maturity… and how blending these two creates the clearest decision-making you’ve ever had.

Why self-sabotage often appears right before a breakthrough

We break down the subtle forms self-sabotage can take — from calling fear “intuition” to reinventing instead of refining.

What staying power feels like inside your body and inside your business

This is the wisdom piece no one teaches: how the work that is still yours will continue to pull you forward even when it’s challenging.

How to avoid burning down something that still belongs to you

You’ll learn the signals of a wobble vs a warning — and how to see your business clearly again.

This episode is for you if:

  • You’re an established entrepreneur craving clarity in your next chapter

  • You’ve questioned whether you’re meant to stay or pivot

  • You’ve felt discomfort and weren’t sure if it meant misalignment or growth

  • You want to make decisions from wisdom, not fear or exhaustion

  • You’re ready to rebuild a steadier, more grounded relationship with your business

And if this episode illuminated something for you — if it helped you see where you’ve been wobbling, or where you’ve been tempted to burn down something that still has staying power — I would love for you to join me for the focus group for my brand new offer The Monday Meeting.

It’s live.
It’s intimate.
It’s waitlist-only.

And it’s designed specifically for long-term entrepreneurs who lived through the unpredictability of 2025 and are craving a steadier, clearer, more grounded way to run their business in 2026.

We’ll talk honestly about what’s been missing from your business, what’s working, what’s not, and what kind of support actually feels nourishing in this season of your journey. You’ll also get a first look at how The Monday Meeting is being built for entrepreneurs who aren’t newbies anymore — the ones who are ready for less chaos and more clarity.

Get on the waitlist at marissalawton.com/waitlist.