Ep. 62 Navigating the First 30 Days After Separation – What to Expect and How to Cope
Release Date: 07/02/2025
Ep. 73 Asking the Hard Questions: Building Real Love Beyond Chemistry
Do I Really Hate Men?
In this today’s episode, Ang shares a deeply personal update about transitioning from a long phase of single motherhood to exploring new relationships and the challenges that come with vulnerability. She highlights the importance of asking the hard questions early in relationships to understand true compatibility beyond chemistry. Drawing from her own experiences and attachment style insights, Anang encourages listeners to navigate relationships with honesty, openness, and emotional intelligence. She discusses over 20 essential questions that help uncover values, deal breakers, and life...
info_outline
Ep. 72 Planning a Joyful Christmas in Co-Parenting Chaos
Do I Really Hate Men?
In this episode of Do I Really Hate Men, host Ang shares a practical and heartfelt guide on how single moms and co-parents can plan for a calm, joyful Christmas despite the challenges of separation and co-parenting. From starting conversations early, creating new traditions, managing emotional and physical energy, to protecting your peace in the final countdown, Ang offers actionable tips to help you reclaim the magic of the season on your own terms. (00:00) Introduction to the Podcast (00:42) The Challenges of Christmas for Single Moms (01:33) Planning for a Calm Christmas (03:49) Long-Term...
info_outline
EP. 71 Catch Yourself Thinking: How to Stop Negative Thoughts & Become Your Own Hero
Do I Really Hate Men?
In this solo episode of Do I Really Hate Men, Ang dives deep into the power of self-recognition and self-regulation—two tools that can transform how we think and react every day. She shares practical, heartfelt advice on breaking free from negative thought loops and becoming the true hero of your own story. With warmth, humor, and relatable insight, Ang walks listeners through her “Catch Yourself Thinking” method and the “H+E+R+O” formula for mastering emotional control. This episode is your reminder that you hold the power to change your mindset, take back your confidence, and...
info_outline
Ep. 70 From Single Mom to Single Powerhouse: Embracing the Empty Nest
Do I Really Hate Men?
In this heartfelt solo episode of "Do I Really Hate Men," Ang shares a personal reflection on transitioning from being a single mom to entering the "empty nest" phase, which she embraces as her new "single powerhouse" era. She opens up about the emotional challenges and pride she feels as her two sons move into their independent lives—one joining the RAF and the other pursuing a career at sea. Ang also addresses a social media phrase she encountered this summer, "married single mom," critiquing its meaning and the way it undermines the true challenges faced by single mothers. (00:00) ...
info_outline
Ep. 69 Playdate: The Dating App for Single Parents with Founder Nevine Coutry
Do I Really Hate Men?
In this empowering episode of "Do I Really Hate Men," host Ang sits down with Nevine Coutry, a resilient single mom who transitioned from running a marketing agency to founding Play Date—the UK’s first dating app exclusively for single parents. Nevine shares her inspiring journey through divorce, motherhood, and entrepreneurship, highlighting the unique challenges single parents face in dating, balancing work, and parenting. She explains how Play Date was born out of her own struggles to find meaningful connections that understand the complexities of single parenting, including childcare...
info_outline
Ep. 68 Planning Your Financial Future After Divorce: Tips from a Chartered Planner w/ Susan Bennett
Do I Really Hate Men?
In today's episode Ang talks with Susan Bennett, a chartered financial planner specializing in divorce financial planning. Susan shares expert insights on the importance of financial advice during and after divorce, focusing on long-term planning for income, housing, children’s expenses, and pensions. They discuss the emotional aspects of divorce finances and the benefits of having a financial neutral to help both parties reach amicable agreements. Susan also explains Advanta Wealth’s specialist divorce proposition, offering fixed-price financial planning packages to help those navigating...
info_outline
Ep. 67 Manopause 101: Helping Men Understand Menopause with Jainy Smith
Do I Really Hate Men?
This week Ang is joined by Jainy Smith, a menopause advocate and author of "Manopause 101," who is breaking the silence around menopause for both women and men. Jainy shares her personal menopause journey, including an early and challenging diagnosis, and her mission to educate men on how to support their partners through this life transition. She discusses the common symptoms of menopause, the importance of communication between partners, and the often overlooked emotional and psychological impacts of menopause on relationships. Jainy also introduces her unique approach of explaining...
info_outline
Ep. 66 Superhero Single Moms: Shailee’s Journey of Strength & Balance in India
Do I Really Hate Men?
This week Ang is joined by Shailee, an associate director at FIS Global in India, who shares her unique perspective on the challenges and resilience of single mothers in India. Shailee speaks candidly about balancing a demanding career with single parenting, tackling societal taboos, and advocating for her daughter’s independence in a culture still influenced by traditional norms. Drawing on her personal experiences and professional insights, she offers hope and motivation for single moms everywhere striving to be strong role models in any part of the world. KEY TAKEAWAYS ...
info_outline
Ep. 65 Facing the Numbers: Financial Clarity After Divorce with Peter Ryan
Do I Really Hate Men?
This episode features Peter Ryan, a finance professional with a background in helping clients navigate financial decisions post-divorce. Peter draws on his experience both professionally and personally, having grown up in a divorced family, to offer practical advice and insight into the financial realities that many people, particularly women, face during and after divorce. He explains the common emotional attachments to assets like the family home and pensions and stresses the importance of understanding the bigger financial picture to make informed decisions that support long-term security....
info_outline
Ep. 64 From Breakup to Breakthrough: Building Better Relationships After Separation w/ Dr. Shannon Hirst
Do I Really Hate Men?
In today’s episode, Ang interviews Dr. Shannon Hirst, a research psychologist and Senior Research Lead at One Plus One, a UK-based charity focused on strengthening relationships. Shannon discusses her academic and practical journey—from studying forgiveness and attachment to developing support tools for families navigating relationship breakdowns. The episode explores why strong relationships are both a cornerstone of personal well-being and a public health concern, delving into the emotional challenges of separation, co-parenting, and the importance of effective communication. Shannon...
info_outlineIn this heartfelt solo episode, Ang opens up about a deeply personal milestone—sending her youngest son off to Royal Air Force basic training—and the emotional impact of empty nest syndrome. She then turns her focus to those in the early, raw days after separation or divorce, offering compassionate guidance on what to expect and practical strategies to help you cope through one of life’s toughest transitions.
If you’re in the whirlwind of emotions, confusion, and uncertainty that comes with the first month post-separation, this episode is your companion and roadmap. Ang breaks down the emotional rollercoaster, the physical toll, and the mental challenges, while sharing powerful tools like grounding techniques, boundary-setting, and shifting your inner narrative. This episode reminds you that you are not broken or powerless—you are simply in transition, and healing is possible.
(00:00) Introduction and Personal Update
(01:14) Understanding the First 30 Days After Separation
(02:02) Emotional Rollercoaster: What to Expect
(05:21) Coping Strategies for the Early Days
(13:03) Practical Steps to Take After Separation
(16:39) Final Thoughts and Resources
KEY TAKEAWAYS
The first 30 days after separation are emotionally intense and unpredictable—expect mood swings and a mix of feelings from grief to relief.
Physical symptoms like exhaustion, anxiety, and sleep disturbances are normal responses to trauma.
Setting firm boundaries and limiting draining interactions protect your peace and energy.
Finding non-judgmental support is crucial—seek people who will hold space and cheer you on.
BEST MOMENTS
“Separation is not losing your identity; it’s reclaiming and redesigning who you are.”
“Boundaries are an act of self-respect, not rejection.”
“Crying isn’t weakness—it’s emotional detox.”
“Your mind is a muscle. Speak life into your future, not fear.”
EPISODE LINKS
Use the link below to sign up to the TalkingParents App. 30 Day FREE trial available alongside a completely FREE option too!
https://talkingparents.com/dirhm
If you enjoy this podcast here is the link to the book 'Do I Really H*te Men?'. It's packed with actionable and inspirational content to help you think, feel, heal and create your beautiful life that you deserve!
UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1068789107 USA: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1068789107
Exciting news! I now have four powerful and affordable course downloads available in my Patreon Shop—starting at just £20. Each one is designed to help you take meaningful steps forward in your healing and growth journey.
🌱 How to Start to Transform Your Life 💭 How to Squash Your Negative Beliefs 💫 How to Define Your Core Values and Life Purpose
💫The Divorce Pathways - 6 Steps to Divorce Recovery
https://patreon.com/user?u=114049946&utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink
Connect with me here...
www.linkedin.com/in/angallanburns
To receive a FREE copy of my Divorce Success or my Parenting Success Tips - please e-mail me at Ang@doireallyhatemen.com
ABOUT THE PODCAST
Do I Really Hate Men?
Interesting question and one I have asked myself many times. This is not an ‘I hate men’ podcast neither is it just an account of my divorce and the many awful events leading up to and during it. This podcast is a safe space to delve into what happens when relationships end, it provides guidance on how to carry on being a functioning adult and/or Single Mum when you feel broken inside.
This podcast provides hope sprinkled with humour, at times its emotional at times inspiring and at times sad. I have a message to share with women around the world, come join me and your global sisters for a weekly dose of Superhero Mum inspiration and stories.
My mission - to help women and mothers globally to recover from relationship pain, lead meaningful happy lives and inspire their children to succeed.
NOTE – I need you to know that I don’t hate men! It’s important that you know there are many great men out there. Many fantastic fathers and single fathers trying hard to do a great job. I know little about the struggles of single fathers; however, I presume they are numerous common issues we share with these amazing men who strive to do the right thing by their children.
ABOUT THE HOST
Ang is first and foremost a very proud Mum. She is on a mission to share her experiences of both divorce and life as a single Mum. With a 25 year career in the corporate world, she has always been passionate about empowering women and those around her. She is a fully qualified life coach of 20 years and a self confessed self development junkie.
Ang has written her first book called 'Do I Really Hate Men', due to be released later this year which NEEDS to be read by women worldwide. With a high level of emotional intelligence she works tirelessly to improve the lives of womankind through her words, both digitally and at speaking events globally.
With a six year divorce behind her, Ang represented herself in court a total of 6 times. She has been a single parent of two boys for a total of 14 years. She has lived through the struggles and come out the other side. Her words, honesty and humour captivates her audience.