Storytime: a regular client forgot who I was & why a lot of men book sex workers
Release Date: 04/02/2025
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info_outlineIn this episode of 'You're Not a Bad Person,' host Erica delves into the themes of self-acceptance, emotional maturity, and destigmatizing sex work. She shares a personal story about a former client, 'Dave.' Erica also discusses the larger implications of ghosting, emotional immaturity, and the therapeutic aspects of sex work, emphasizing the importance of men expressing their emotions. She calls for breaking down the stigma around sex work and encouraging emotional transparency.
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