How to Offer Help in English to Friends & Coworkers (Without Sounding Rude)
The Speak Confident English Podcast
Release Date: 07/16/2025
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info_outlineHave you ever wanted to help someone, but stayed quiet because you didn’t know how to say it in English? In this episode, you’ll learn exactly how to offer help in English politely, without sounding pushy or making someone uncomfortable.
I’ll walk you through a 4-step method to help you support others in a way that feels clear, kind, and culturally appropriate—whether at work, with friends, or in emotionally sensitive situations.
You’ll learn how to:
• Show empathy without overstepping
• Use specific English phrases to offer help
• Speak with confidence in professional and personal conversations
Episode Timestamps:
00:00 Thinking about offering help? Should you or shouldn't you?
02:05 Here's the right way to offer help
02:59 Step 1: Notice
05:14 Step 2: Empathy
08:45 Step 3: Express offer
11:46 Step 4: Do
15:12 Recap & Practice
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